If your ex cheated on you but you still like each other, Should you go for it?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    NO. CHEATERS SHOULD DIE!

  • loser
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    It may work out for a while but the only thing is you will get hurt again when the cheater cheats. Do not waste your time, move on to someone who will love you and treat you right.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Depends an how many times he/ she did it normally if you did it once you can or most probely do it again and the reason why an ex is called an ex is because its over and done with move on you deserve so much more..

  • 1 decade ago

    it depends on the situation i believe you should take time to see if you both really do like each other see how everything goes. i believe once a cheater always a cheater, but i also believe in giving second chances

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  • MOVING
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Been there, Did it, Done it. Once the trust is gone so is the relationship. If you think you can go on trusting them then all the power to you, chances are though you're wasting your time and should cut your losses and move on.

  • Emery
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    I'd like to say you shouldn't, but I think it depends on whether you can forgive and forget or not. If you think it'll always bug you, and you don't trust him, and every time you'll fight you'll bring it up, then forget it, it's never going to work. But if you think you can get past it, and you still love him, go for it, what have you got to lose?

  • If you can honestly forgive them and can recommit to loving them till death parts you. Yes.

    Has she/he repented? That makes a huge difference, but your heart also makes a huge difference.

    God is actually the one who gets our attention. We choose to receive or not to receive His guidance. God is never forcefull. He is that gentle voice calling us to lead a life pleasing to Him. He gives us provision to please Him and we then choose to use His provision wisely or unwisely. It's always our choice.

    People are dissappointing. Period. If we are unable to forgive people, we will live very lonely lives because all people are imperfect and will dissappoint us at times. You will dissappoint them too and yourself at times. Forgive yourself when this happens, otherwise, you can't even live with yourself.

    It pays to forgive 7 x 70 times, and keep in mind that bitterness kills people.

    Love this person before and after they repent, and love God who also loves you. He will help you forgive them.

    Source(s): The Bible
  • 1 decade ago

    Sounds risky,but your call to make!!!

    maybe if you didn't know one another

    very long and it was early on in the dating,

    perhaps it might be ok to start over again?

    But,if it happened later on in the relationship,

    you might get burned again,so you have to

    decide this one girl!

    Source(s): me
  • 1 decade ago

    The saying is if you love someone enough let it go and if they come back it was meant to be. but in some cases it's best to live and learn...

  • 1 decade ago

    The way i see it, once a cheater always a cheater

  • 1 decade ago

    Well if there a hot root why not, then just dump them when something better comes along.

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