how can i bring the spark back into my relationship?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    set up a date - go out (maybe even go to a motel afterward)

    if that is too severe for you then try little things first -

    like offering to make coffee, go for a walk together - like a walk by the ocean or maybe star gazing etc...

    Go away just the 2 of you somewhere - Do not have high expectations at first - but small ones - !The fire took time to dwindle - the spark needs oxygen to feed off of to become a flame again!

    Maybe - just maybe let the other person know that you still love them and want to spend time with them - Honesty is usually good! An old fire looses its spark over time but can always be rekindled with just a little extra work (but on both sides).

  • 1 decade ago

    Showing affection, being emotionally ready, go on a date together, do something romantic .. what kind of spark are you looking for?

    Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel

  • 1 decade ago

    the spark meaning there was spark when you first started dating? can you remember it? OK then, try to get that back. what you did where did it.

  • 1 decade ago

    Good communication is the first step towards good relationship.Crave out time for physical closeness,its important to maintain close body,mind and soul contact and if u c urself heading towards a sexual,physical or emotionaall burn-out, take sum time off with ur partner........unwind,chill-out and rediscover your potential in a new, stress-free environment.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Send a beautiful gift to her. Costlier the gift bigger is the spark.

  • 1 decade ago

    Cook yo man his favorite dinner, answer the door when he gets home with nothin on but some f*ck me pumps on and a smile and serve him his favorite meal and give him you for desert.

    Source(s): iI do alot of things like that for my husband which is probley one of the reasons we've been married for over 12 amazing years. Have Fun
  • 1 decade ago

    Spice it up! A 3 some 4 some or an all out orgy! The family that plays together stays together.

  • 1 decade ago

    First you did not describe the problem.

    But a relasonship takes two people talk . if the other person will not listen.And agree to agree is it a match

  • 1 decade ago

    when did it go off?? why??? how'd id happen?? what made it go off??? a bits of info here and ther should suffice so that you may have many to understand and give suggsetion to your sparkless relationship...thank you...

  • 1 decade ago

    Two little words:

    Jumper Cables.

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