how to seduce ur partner???

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  • 1 decade ago
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    If your partner is female:

    Mix in lingerie. Your woman will feel extra sexy if you hand her some new lingerie and remind her how pretty she looks in her slinky outfit.

    Use some things from the kitchen. Remember the movie 9 1/2 weeks? It's amazing what a couple of strawberries and ice cubes can do to get her riled up.

    Look in the mirror together. You don't have to tape the adventure, but looking at each other in the mirror can duplicate the feeling of watching a sexy movie together. Admire your beautiful bodies in the reflection.

    It can be tempting to go right for her pleasure spots, but slow it down. There's plenty of sexuality that can be found in her neck, the small of her back, her calves, even a foot rub.

    Resist the temptation to go right for her pants. The more you touch her in other places, the more she'll be begging for you to work your way there. By the time you finally get to her erotic zones, she'll be begging for you to do it. The phrase "ladies first" applies in the bedroom too. Put all of your energy into pleasing her first.

    Believe me, if you treat her just right and let her have ultimate pleasure first, she'll be more than happy to oblige you next.

    For seducing man:

    Get your confidence up. This can mean doing things such as getting a new haircut, new clothes, losing weight, or just reminding yourself of your great qualities. You need to believe the man will like you before you can make a move. This also means having the self-assurance to be yourself, to not mold yourself to what you think he wants in a woman, as you'll most likely come off as trying too hard and being insecure.

    Be flirty with your target. Nothing too suggestive; just let him know that you're interested, possibly by glancing or winking at him.

    Invite him to a private place when the time seems right. Go somewhere you can be alone and talk.

    Make eye contact with your target. The eyes are said to be windows to the soul, and you want to make sure he knows you're trying to get inside his soul.

    Mirror his body language to show you like him.

    Touch him, perhaps on the hand or wrist. This will subtly demonstrate that you are interested.

    Talk to him,and let him know you like him. Guys like to hear that they are wanted just as much as girls do. Also, just listen to him.

    Offer him a massage to help build physical contact.

    Kiss him when you feel it is appropriate, and take it from there.

    Wear clothing which makes you feel and look sexy. Enhance great cleavage with a well-fitting bra and make the most of those curves with a corset. Note: many men will be completely turned off if a woman tries too hard to look sexy.

    Wear a light attractive scent. This means layering scents. Bathe in scented bath oils first. Then apply a light powder in the same scent. Finally spray the same scented perfume in front of you and walk into the mist. Do this about 45 minutes before you see him. If you overpower him with your scent, instead of wanting to edge a bit closer he will be running for the nearest exit.

    Cook him a meal. After all, the way to a man's heart is his stomach. However, if he never returns the favor, you may not want to even bother seducing this man.

    Avoid hairstyles which involve lots of hair products, as getting his fingers stuck in your hair rather kills the moment.

    Candlelight and music set the scene for seduction. Soft lighting minimizes lines and wrinkles and gives your skin a bit of a glow. Keep candles handy or lamps that have adjustable lighting. In soft lighting you can be his dream woman and you can feel a thousand times better about undressing in front of him.

    Don't agree with everything he says. Have a mind of your own and comment back. Look from a different point of view when you converse.

    Try different perfumes to find out what he likes. For some reason, CK Eternity does something special to a man.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well, start with blindfolding ur partner. With the blindfold on, ur partner wont know what to expect so each feeling u produce will be magnified. Then undress him/her and take a feather and run it down partners body. Soft kisses and massages are also good.

  • 1 decade ago

    I start By Lightly Kissing His neck face and Ears Whatever he is doing he will stop and do the Same till we are Both in the Mood then we Pick a Place in the House and Make love!!!

    I know I know U didnt want to hear all of that but its the Truth

  • you could start by setting the mood of your place with lots of candles, good romantic music plus good aromatic smell. offer your partner a good massage and your every wish will be granted,

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  • 1 decade ago

    If already a partner---then start from there! Get close and kiss..

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Flaunt your wallet.

  • 1 decade ago

    let me suduce ures

  • 1 decade ago

    make the follow your lead but if they don't follow what your doing, don't do it

  • 1 decade ago

    by removing his clothes

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    what else do you need? heatherlynnm... has told you everything!

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