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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

My boyfriend still receiving messages & financial support from his ex-gf?

His ex-girlfriend although in another country always updates him of her work status every now & then & sending him financial support, although he is open to me & told me they're separated. What do you think of this situation & what should I do?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Some times couples break up for reasons other than "hate each other" stuff like, maybe she moved away and he could not go with her. Which may mean they still care for one another. That's "all good" as long as she's in another country. I would not feel very secure if she moved back.

  • 1 decade ago

    What kind of guy gets financial support from an ex? Better her money than yours I say. If shes dumb enuf to pay him let her.

    At least hes honest about it... Id be more worried if hed tried to keep it a secret. It is possible for them to be just friends... but make sure its JUST financial support.

    Then again I just had a thought - he could be trying to make you jealous so YOULL give him money to make his ex 'go away'. Whatever you do, DO NOT be tempted to lend him any money.

    Better to try and help him help himself, by finding a job or whatever.

    Once hes back on his feet therell be no need for the ex to give him any more money. Then youll know whats really going on either way.

  • 4 years ago

    what style of guy is your b/f? evaluate the info under: a million. he's getting economic help from an ex. Why does he pick economic help? isn't he working? 2. He nonetheless contacts her frequently. Have they actually broken up? Is he over her? 3. She communicates with him and sends him funds. is this through a broken (single) relationship? 4. She maintains to be in yet another u . s .. does not this make it uncomplicated for him to cover the actuality that he has yet another woman? Is he truthful with you besides? depart him. go directly to the subsequent financial ruin on your existence. in case you nonetheless pick evidence that he isn't mendacity to you, then get him to chat to his ex on your presence. additionally enable him introduce you to his ex. If he's telling the certainty, this could not be a situation for him, genuine?

  • 1 decade ago

    She is not really an "ex" anything. She exists in his his life now. She may be in another country, but the feelings are still there. He may deny it, but receiviving monies and messages is not leaving anything in the past.

    There may come a time when she may no longer be in another country, but there. She might just want to collect on her "investment" one day.

    Source(s): hindsight 20-20
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  • 1 decade ago

    It think the situation is bigger than that. You both need to have a sit down, and talk this whole thing out, bit, by bit. What is the real situation here? Find the answer to that question.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    wow how funny! im in da same situation. just don't trip. He's with you isnt he? and if hes open dont worry about it. If he was hiding something you would have felt it...and if you have...HONESTY is the best policy...straight up ask is it really over?

  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    threesome yo! nah gotta admit, its the perfect situation

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Are you helping spend the money... then you little devil, your no better!

  • Neutro
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    he uses money from a woman..he's dissappointing

  • 1 decade ago

    don't worry .. he's just using her

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