Is it wrong to jack-off if you have a girlfriend?

My girlfriend get mad if I jack-off, even if she is unwilling to "take care" of the problem herself.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I'd rather have my BF jack off than to have him take care of the problem w/ some herpes carrying, slutty little hoochie. Jack away, my friend, jack away!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    There's nothing wrong with masturbating every day. Counselors consider a person is masturbating "too much" if their masturbation habits interfere with the daily activities of their lives — getting to school, to work, meeting friends, etc. Not many people have that problem. Some people masturbate every day (sometimes more than once) while others do it twice a month. Some people don't masturbate at all. Every person is different.In fact, masturbation has no harmful physical or emotional effects — none. Most people masturbate because it feels good. Many people feel guilty about it, however, because some people, and some religions, still consider masturbation a taboo — something forbidden. But, from a medical standpoint, it's a perfectly normal and healthy thing to do.

  • 1 decade ago

    NO!!! Masturbation is a very healthy thing as long as it doesn't interfere or become a crutch of some kind. Her attitude is either one of ignorance, immaturity or both. This is something you guys really need to talk about and set expectations, clearly defined ones.

    She might be mad that you're getting off and she's not. Who knows? But generally it's NOT wrong to take care of yourself. If she's uncomfortable with it then do it elsewhere. Personally, if I dated a woman who didn't like it, she would be GONE!. I only date women that are comfortable with their sexuality and their mans. Besides, I make sure SHE gets off before I do and she's far more inclined to take care of me when I want.

    Rod Cortez

  • 1 decade ago

    I don't think its wrong for a guy to jack off if a guy has a girlfriend. I have a boyfriend and this morning he called me before work so I could talk dirty to him while he jacks off. I didn't get mad one because its human nature and two because he included me in on it.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Some girls and women just don't understand our "hobby" huh? I've been having this problem all of my life. Like Woody Allen said to Diane Keaton in "Annie Hall", "Don't knock masturbation! It's sex with someone I love!" Truer words were never spoken. I just finally figured out if they didn't like it, I would do it in private and not even talk about it. I mean if they are great girlfriends or wives otherwise, why tick them off if you don't have to. No way I'm going to stop jacking off though...it's just too much fun!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    i dont think there is anything wrong when guys jack off when they have a girlfriend. I think it's sexy when my boyfriend jacks off then when he is about to *** i just suck him off the rest way, it turns me on. but some girls are different from other girls. like some girls dont like for there guys to watch porn but me i dont see any harm cause they cant have anything to do with them but watch and jack off but no it's not wrong but then again it bothers some girls dont know why. But hey I say if she isnt putting out like she should be since she's your girlfriend then go for it jack off all you want.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    No its okay i guess-i think you are saving her the trouble of having sex 4 times a day by jacking off

  • 1 decade ago

    NO I jack off in the morning sometimes (weekdays) because I wake up horny and she is getting ready for work. So I take care of it right then, then hit the shower, she likes to watch. Gets her ready for the night session...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    No way. I'd rather the guy jack off than for me to deal with it.

  • 1 decade ago

    No thats not wrong i mean if she isnt going to take care of the "problem" then i think you should at least be able to.

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