How do I let a guy know I like him without coming out and saying it?

I don't want to seem juvenile, but I AM a juvenile, and this guy is a good friend. I really, really like him, but I don't know what to do next. Could you please help me?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    some of us call it flirting...but in the case of liking a good friend it gets a little more complicated...as a guy, I would catch on if a girl is flirting with me, but i wouldn't act on it and make a move unless they told me how they felt because i wouldn't want to put the friendship at risk...if you want to get involved with him you'll have to speak up and tell him...hope everything works out

  • 1 decade ago

    Well, you could just "be in his sight", you know what I mean? Just be where ever he is so he sees you around all the time.

    Find out what his interests are so you can take part in them if that's OK. For instance, does he like some sport? Go and be a part of it by watching or cheering him on!

    Does he like swimming? Root for him or join a team too so you can be right there in his face, kind of.

    Basketball?,baseball? Chess tournaments? Are you getting the picture??

    Can you have a party and invite him to it?

    What about you needing help in some school work that you are having trouble with or you could pretend to? Have him come over the house and make it enjoyable by having some special snacks that he likes!

    These are just a few things that you might try. Maybe something I said might help you out. Good luck!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    The only way you're going to get your message across is to go up to him and tell him you like him. No guy (especially a young guy) is going to get a clear message of how you like him by just flirting and giving him glances across the room. He's not a mind reader, either. Just tell him how you feel. If he's a true friend, he will respect your feelings either way. Good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    Flirt

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  • 4 years ago

    each in certain situations think ofyou've got to make the first flow. like the advice above said, taking his hand and observe what takes position. each in certain situations the guy lets what could've been the great element ruin out and in no way receives a 2d danger. really of taking a danger and risking it, he purely lets sit there and tells himself that the friendship is fantastic the position it really is. in case you extremely like him, enable him understand. would not favor to be outright, you could deliver sparkling yet really subtle messages and that can provide him the braveness to act.

  • 1 decade ago

    eye contact, smile at him, and be a really good friend. flirt a little bit with him cuz he after all your friend. he may too shy. just give him little signs. friends is the best way to start. more than likley u guys will end up more than just friends. don't worry just value his friendship.

  • Stuart
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Sounds pretty juvenile to me. My advice is to forget it until you grow up and learn to say, "Hey. I like you."

    Kid games aren't much fun for guys. We don't get your hints. Just tell us what's up.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well if he doesnt come out and ask you out maybe you should do homework or something together and then when your done ask if he wants to go some where over the weekend

  • 1 decade ago

    okay tomorrow when you see him make eye contact walk up to him with a smile and touch his arm when you say hi.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Write him a note. Seriously the best way is to just tell him. :)

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