What do guys think?

1. When a girl tells them that they are not a virgin?

2. When a girl tells them that they are a virgin?

3. What's a bigger turn on?

Update:

Great responses, but I'm not talking about a girl that you just want to f8ck and get rid of, I'm talking about someone you really want to be with, that you really like?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Question is the N . . . for Newton and your last name in Johns. Sorry old joke and probably went over your head.

    Okay, back to your question . . .

    What do guys think?

    1. When a girl tells them that they are not a virgin?

    (great)

    2. When a girl tells them that they are a virgin?

    (oh oh)

    3. What's a bigger turn on?

    (That they are not a virgin)

    I know you are scratching you head at #2. Do you want to know why I said that? Because if a girl loses her virginity to a guy 7/9 times, the girl becomes emotionally bonded with the guy she loses her virginity to. If the guy just want to hit it and quit it . . . she won't let go, and in most cases become psycho and demand a relationship. It's biology . . . .

    If the guy truly loves the girl, and think she is the one . . . go ahead, take her virginity . . . but if you two get involved too young, you both will change, and the break-up will be more devestating for the female (usually).

  • 1 decade ago

    The biggest turn on is when a girl doesn't tell me. If it matters, the guy will ask... and if it matters, the guy probably wants a virgin.

    Saying you're "not a virgin" is bad marketing. Instead, you're a "Girl with experience." or "really kinky." or you don't say, and use some of that feminine mystique.

    Of course, a girl without experience continues to call herself a virgin, because some guys like that... And if they say "Fresh meat." just nod and smile.

    Me, I'm not a virgin, and it would be real sleezy of me to expect my woman to have saved herself when I couldn't. While I'm not so sure I want to know about her previous experience, I would be reall turned on by a girl that knew a few good moves.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    A bigger turn on? Neither, either way the guy is getting sex and is thusly happy. From a problematic stand point, virgins tend to fall in love and cling to their first time person, which can make it complicated for a guy who is just looking for some sex. Not being a virgin means that a woman has experience, and that is a double edged sword also. De-flowering a virgin can be a painful, and confusing process, and should be done with some one you are willing to stay with for some time.

  • 1 decade ago

    I know when my girlfriend told me that she wasn't a virgin, it was weird. Take into account that many people consider me closed minded, but it was just weird to think that she was in love with someone else that she had sex with them. I would have liked it better if she had told me that she was a virgin, the same as me. So in response I guess being told that she's a virgin would be a bigger turn on.

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  • 1 decade ago

    I think guys would find it a turn on if she is a virgin because its a taboo in a sense. If a guy is told the girl is not a virgin, guys dont think anything of it. The virgin sticks out in a guys mind. Its not a matter of a turn on. With virgins, u need to teach them stuff. With non-virgins, they usually know what they are doing. they both have there ups and downs.

  • 1 decade ago

    . Depends on the guy and the values.

    . I'm guessing that a girl that is a virgin would like to stay that way. If so, they would not really need to tell the person that until they got to know each other really well

    . If she is not, she may be afraid of what the guy will think. That depends on the guy and what she wants.

  • 1 decade ago

    truthfully, if a guy really wants to be with you, then neither of these really count. If you're lookin for just any guy, than being the virgin that every guy wants to break in is great. Though it does scare some guys, cuz they dont wanna be the first, cuz thats teh one you'll always remember, and its a LOT of responsibility in that aspect. Like i said though, a guy should be into you for you, not whether you've had sex or not. Just be honest. cuz saying you have when you havent will become apparent really quick, and saying you havent when you really have... well that can be detected (in most cases) rather easily.

  • Simple
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    1. Call me traditional and conservative, but I feel that virginity is the one of the greatest gift that the girl can give to a guy at marriage.

    2. I'm turned on. It shows that they are serious about relationships, provided there are no other exceptional circumstances, like being raped.

  • 1 decade ago

    1. of course not. it begs the question "how many times and how tight is it"?

    2. good-no damage goods.

    3. being a virgin because then I can't be told that I was the worse.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    1. good, now you can have sex with me

    2. what the **** is wrong with you? Can a woman not have some pleasure in her life? the answer is yes, therefore she should have sex with me.

    3. Being a virgin, now i can be the first to f u c k you.

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