Serious ? for the guys.... In a serious relationship re: porn?

ok... so this is a common type of ? but really--I still wonder and feel badly... got a great guy, we have great sex, make our own home movies, do it all, mulitorgasmic.... and on a body scale...ok , I'm not a 25 yo SI swimsuit model--but in shape, look like a woman who has a had a few kids ( the abs are not... show more ok... so this is a common type of ? but really--I still wonder and feel badly... got a great guy, we have great sex, make our own home movies, do it all, mulitorgasmic.... and on a body scale...ok , I'm not a 25 yo SI swimsuit model--but in shape, look like a woman who has a had a few kids ( the abs are not pancake flat but not bulging either)--but have a womanly body.... no fat, boobs, larger pu**y lips, good skin and am told I look younger by 10 years all the time.
Still, my BF-- gets into porn--some of the fake stupid kind but also some of the real HARD core stuff. ( he does watch our stuff too)

My question is to the guys... do you compare, do you see your woman's imperfections and wish she looked like them; if you have a great sex life and a good woman, then what's the need for the porn??? Do you wish her boobs, her vagina, her butt looked like theirs.....????I will watch our stuff but feel so uncomfortable with the other stuff- makes me feel inadequate and unattractive
thanks
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