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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

Can a guy have a crush on two girls at the same time?

Ok let's say this guy flirts with you and acts really shy sometimes around you. But then ignores you to sometimes. But he knows #1 girl sweet friendly. But # 2 girl doesn't know at all. But she's gorgeous. Always looking for # 2 girl from a far. #1 girl sort of knows but can be distant toward her at times. Could he have a crush one both. Or does he just like the gorgeous girl.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    There's really no limit to how many women he can have a crush on at the same time, crushes are attraction, not love. Sounds to me like maybe he has a crush on #2 but knows he doesn't have a real chance with her. I'd guess, and I'm going way out on a limb here, that he'd be willing to give it a shot with #1 and before long might forget completely about #2 once he settles in with a real woman (no offense #2!)

    Never undersestimate the power of asking a guy out, the #1 thing that attracts people is knowing there is already a strong attraction from the other person. Have you ever found yurself suddenly more attracted to a guy when you learn that he's really interested in you? Just joking ask him when he's going to finally take you out for the night, but then give him a look so he'll know that an answer is still expected! That always works well, because it takes the pressure of initiating things off him, plus lets him know he is not risking rejection, but you still don;t have to be the one to do the asking!

  • 1 decade ago

    I am a guy, and for 1 I can say yes to this answer. There are more reasons than just appearance for having a crush on a girl. One girl you may just adore her voice and personality to death. Yet another girl comes along and takes your breath away , she is so beautiful you stumble over your words and just loose all motor functions and get all clumsy. So my vote to this question would be, YES. Thank you. :D

    Source(s): My own self admittence of personal lust.
  • 1 decade ago

    Yes

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Impossible. No!

    Guys have new crushes every 15 minutes. That's 96 crushes a day. We're pigs and we like bacon. Simple creatures, really.

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  • 1 decade ago

    He is shy but desires girl #1. He is very desirous of girl #2.

    men can desire two women at the same time.

    he doesn't love either one -- this is not the way a guy in love comports himself.

  • Rob D
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Probably has a "crush" on both of them... but could be wrong.. but is probably just interested in the first one... Then again, he could just be shy for #2 is out of his league... Go figure...

  • 1 decade ago

    No. I mean yea, he might like two girls, but he's only going to love one. Or like one more than the other. It may be lust u know? Thats all.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yes, I have, but when they find the girl they love they tend to stick to just liking her.

    Source(s): my life
  • 1 decade ago

    most men and boys will play the field, and maybe the one he knows he can conquer first is the one he will play til the next comes along, as numbers mean a great deal to most...... look out for yourself, and use your thought process....

  • 1 decade ago

    yes

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