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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · 1 decade ago

We were devorsed for 12 years?

We R great friends now. She asked me to go to Six flags through my girl. Our kids R 13 & 11.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Sounds like she might be having second thoughts. I personally would not want to spend a day anywhere with my ex. Not even an hour.

  • Carmen
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Thats a long time 12 yrs. divorced.

    Just to go to Six Flags was the idea from your daughter isn't nothing to do with ( remarrying or 2nd chances ) just go out because your girl wants you to talk over the

    good times say ''thank you'' maybe you have some one else by now then I would explain it.

    That you are now great friends with each other it would never be what it should have been. It would start over. Close what's you left behind you don't cheat yourself isn't worth it....move-on......

  • 1 decade ago

    It seems you both have not been able to find another for you for quite a long time. So you two have have decided to be together out of need and not love.What were the reason that you got separated ? have the reasons been resolved ? You have made your children uncomfortable once are you sure the situation will not arise again ? Will they accept the father or the mother after 12 years ?

    Think seriously about all this and go ahead,

  • Mit
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Your x is asking through your children. It is a very small start and might not mean anything except that she wants you to be with your children. It might be your children telling Mom they want to ask Dad to come. Which I think is great that a divorced mother and farther do stuff together with their children.

    I hope you stay great friends with you x-wife and if you are interested being more involved with her start making plains for you and the kids and invite her along. But! This time you ask her to come along. Doing this will be showing her you have some interest. May be she will ask you next time. If that's what you are really interested in.

  • 1 decade ago

    If you two can be great friends then that makes it much easier for your kids. But don't mistake being a great friends means maybe you should get back together. You need to remind yourself why you got divorced in the first place and what would happen to your great friendship and to your kids if it went bad again.

  • 1 decade ago

    Devorsed?, She must of went out and got her one of them educated guys.

  • j t
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    maybe you and her are still in love with one another. Was your divorce a mistake? Whatever it is, if you think she still has a special feeling for you and you her.... it will be great to be in love again. Express your love if you still want a relationship wtih her but this time round, remember the past mistakes both made and work on them.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you were devorsed that long huh? you should get yourself fixed so you cant have any more kids, dont leave your trailer park so often and work a lil on your spelling

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    if you didn't find another wife in 12 years well she is available, no need to pay for girls now , get the wife back and she'll do it for free , and as it looks she is wealthy so you might get money for you even .

    Go for it .

  • 1 decade ago

    what's your question?

    you say you guys are great friends now, maybe you shouldn't read into it too much and just take it for face value. she wants to know if you want to go. end of story unless she says something more.

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