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i have a friend who doesn't have sex with her husband at all since 7 months upon her request..she is possessive and jealous . she follows him always and i tried to understand her problem

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Since she isn,t taking care of his needs, she watching out so someone else doesn,t. Sounds like she needs counseling about the sex issue.

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe he cheated on her and she doesn't want to give up the goods to a man she doesn't trust. That would explain her possiveness and jealousy too. Or maybe they are having other marital problems. Perhaps she has her own personal baggage. Sleeping around a lot before marriage can and often does cause these sorts of problems. So can a rape or a molestation.

  • 1 decade ago

    Hi,

    your friend need to see a doctor first. Her husband has a girlfriend somewhere. There relationship is over and she need to

    try to do something for herself, so she can move on with her life because he has moved on. You know when a man don't want you anymore he will find away to be with someone else. She need to COPE WITH THAT FACT!

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe he cheated on her and she doesn't trust him. So she is jealous and possessive but doesn't want sex because she is also punishing him for what he did. Maybe she is afraid if he is cheating that she might get an std.

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  • 1 decade ago

    In my opinion, if these are good friends and you care about their future and the husband has approached you for help, or the wife has,.. then it is alright to listen to them but don't get cornered into giving ur opinion. and see them separately... and as a good friend i would find a local marriage/couples counseling office that your friends may consider...

    BUT PLEASE ONLY DO THIS AND NO MORE AND ONLY IF ASKED BY EITHER OR BOTH PARTIES...

    IMHO...:)

    Source(s): Psychology Major at University... Police Officer... Counsiling Volunteer for several years. Crisis Management Training.
  • Jeff B
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    She must have strong reasons to be so afraid and cautious. Maybe its just taking after the example set by her parents' relationship. Maybe she learned somehow that she needs to control it so that it wont hurt her.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Don't meddle in your friends Love life, I think they can handle it, just worry about your problems not hers. Life is to short to worry about that.

  • 1 decade ago

    Don't try to figure this out. If she is your friend, just ASK! If you are her friend then you should have some sort of insight.

  • 1 decade ago

    there is nothing to understand and I wouldn't be surprise if the husband is cheating

  • 1 decade ago

    either ur friend has some psycho bullshit in her mind,or else her husband is really cheating her.

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