Is it normal NOT to date guys your interested in?

I am a single mother who has 2 small kids and was married for 5 years. I work and go to school full time. My time is extremely limited. I do not want to date guys who I have a romantic interest in because I don't want to get thrown off track with my priorites. I date guys I have no interest in to make up for companionship. I figure once the kids are older and I'm finished with school, I'll have time for men. Am I using good judgement or am I afraid to commit?

3 Answers

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Honestly I don't know what to tell you i just want to say that life is way to short to worry about what comes next....just sit back and take a load off don't work your life thing you know your kids will be grown and you will not have the chance to date anymore...just have a good time and date guys you like and if they are into you as much a the "perfect guy" would be they will wait for you and help you with the kids and all...

    Good luck....

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    1 decade ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    I think that you are afraid to commit because you are afraid of getting hurt again. Why waist your time on guys you have no interest in? you need to decide if you are ready for a relationship right now or not. If you feel that you are ready then date guys that you are interested in, its the only way to find the guy that you really want to be with. If you are not ready then take time for yourself and focus on school and your kids, do what feels right for you.

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