how do you ask a guy out without totally embarrassing yourself?

10 Answers

  • 1 decade ago
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    guys deal with this problem everytime they ask a girl out. Now you see what we have to go through. Sometimes you are going to embarrass yourself, but when you get a yes it is that much sweeter. It's about taking risks and how bad you want something. is is worth the risk?

  • 1 decade ago

    Ask him out sort of casually, not ask to go on a specific date Just say hey I'm doing this on the weekend if you wanted to come along? Or say did you wana go have a drink sometime? Just as if you would ask a friend. Then when he says yes you can go along from there, & start flirting etc if you ask out casually you have less chance of getting embarrassed

  • 1 decade ago

    You could write a note, or ask him for his screenname or something, but the most personal and i think, the best way is to ask him face-to-face. Juat confront him and say "hey, do you wanna go hang out sometime?" and then go somewhere that you could bond while having fun, like a bowling alley, or skating rink. I particularly like skating rinks because then you could lean on each for support so you don't fall. Hope I helped!

  • 1 decade ago

    I think it depends what kind of person you are. I dont get embarrased easily well hardly. Maybe you should pull him aside and ask him while you guys are alone. Thats only if you know or feel that he feels the same way about you. Its good to be outgoing sometimes. Go ahead hun. Good Luck

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  • 1 decade ago

    I found myself in a very similar situation VERY recently. First and foremost make sure he DOES NOT have a girlfriend. Second......................well, I had it all planned out in my mind what I was going to say, and when the time came the only thing I could say was.............will you go out with me????

    Good luck!!! Life is about taking chances. Make your move girl before someone else does.

  • 1 decade ago

    Cait, why are you chasing boys? They are supposed to chase you. Make yourself available to be asked out by this guy, flirt with him like mad and wait and see. If he doesn't ask you, he's not interested.

  • just say i think this it strange but its not like its a rule for girls not to ask guys out so i wandering if u could out 4 dinner with me.

  • 1 decade ago

    just take him to a quiet place, ask him out for coffee or seomthing and talk, then if u hit it off right, ask him out

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    get him away from his friends and just ask him straight and no giggleing

  • 1 decade ago

    "hey, what are you doing on friday night?" ...."would you like to go out?"

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