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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsOther - Family & Relationships · 1 decade ago

do you think a woman who use to be a prostitute,can change and become a good house wife?

I met my x-girlfriend on the streets prostituting.She told me that she wanted to change her life,so i believed her.I even moved her out of the state where we met.I did the best i could with her,but it seemed like the streets was always pulling her away.Finally i guess she had enough of settling down and she left.She still calls me and say that she wants to come home and she misses me.I've asked this question before,but what are the chances of her coming back a change person?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I'm a guy and I lived a street life and now I'm married settled down. I struggle the same way your x-gf does. I work on changing my ways everyday, I want to change and I think that is key to this situation. If she wants to change, then its up to you to guide and teach her ( if she is teachable) and you will be her leader, in love and relationships (if she is teachable). You have to be a good lover (not in bed, but mentally & emotionally). This could be a very good thing for you, because you can train her how you would like a women to be, and to fit your personality, thats always a plus!! My wife is training me how to love her and I've learned so much from her, thats why I could give advise because I get to see a womens perspective and meet her "love" needs. The struggles I have are HABITS or LIFESTYLE. I lived a certain lifestyle and now its hard to break into this new lifestyle or habit. Just because you move doesn't mean a thing its the mentality, the mind set, what I like to call the "ghetto mentality" is what your up against. She will not automatically change on her own, w/out counseling or a good teacher, the chances are she will not come back changed unless she got some counseling. I'm sure she loves you, your probably the only real, true, sincere, love she's had. If you take her back spend the extra money to seek counseling, for her sake and yours, and for the sake of your happiness. If you can't deal with that, then dump her like a bad batch of bananas at a grocery store, lol, simple as that.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Some people became prostituites because of surviving but some people prostituting for their "wants". Prostituites are also human being and if they are given a chance they want to live life a decent way. But, some are just hard core and felt that they can make a good living out of that trade as it's more lucrative and easy job. Perhaps you don't earn enough to support her "wants" in live so that's why she kept turning into the street for easier income to support her "wants". If you still love her and wants her back or want to give her another chance then you got to "nab" her fault so that she won't be attracted back into the street again.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I believe people can change if they put there heart into it but... i have seen documentaries on prostitution and these women say it is very hard to leave that lifestyle after a while, they get hooked on the money and whatever else they are involved in. I guess if you really love her.. why not give her another chance? If you think it's really going to be a waste of time for you.. then just be friends and leave it at that.

  • Susan
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    4 years ago

    I don't think women plan on being housewives, it's something that happens because their husband makes good income or it's cheaper for her to stay at home and watch the children. Not to mention many men become househusbands to take care of the kids, too. Education is very important, whether someone works or not. Why would you ever want to be with anyone who isn't as smart as you? That would make for some terrible conversation and your children wouldn't be very intelligent either.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    All women are whores to some degree. Even house wife's, they have sex with you because you give them a house, cars, feed and clothes them and give them money, the same thing that whores asked for. Most women starts out as sl*ts at about the age of 13 (some a little older, some a little younger) then they become whores as they learn what they can get for the pu55y. Women are just no dam good and never will be. They will never change no matter what you do. Just remember that women are nothing but toys for us men.

  • 1 decade ago

    U may want to forget this one, sometimes a person from the streets will always go back, because thats all they know. I mean she could ONLY AND AONLY if she REALLY REALLY wants to change her life.

    I think u should not take her calls until she has REALLY gotten herself together, because who knows whats going on with her, if u take her in she could bring trouble that u may never get rid of

    She's a hooker and thats bad news , so tel her u hope and pray she gets her life together but u can't help her

    U can take the whore off the street but u can't take the street out of the whore, so u may have trouble on ur hand if u get involved with a person like this

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Buddy believe me change is possible. With God all things are possible to them that believe. I've lived the gay life for 14 years and now I longer desire men. I now desire to bond with them in healthy non sexual ways that God intended. God however never promised victories without fighting but if we'd put our trust in Him, help will always come in time. If you love her my friend, be there for her, encourage her and most important point her to the one who can set her free!

  • 1 decade ago

    there is always a good chance a person can change. But she has to want to change. If you love her . You need to help her,

  • 1 decade ago

    Anyone can change, but do they really want to??!! Find a women who would love to settle down with you.

  • 1 decade ago

    It is possible for her to to change but you already gave her a chance. It took a big leap of faith to trust her the first time. she blew it. Only a sucker would be fooled twice.

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