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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

why does she wanna hurt me???

i dated a girl who lives down the road and on the way back and forth from work i see her time to time driving with who im guessing is her boyfreind. everytime i pass by she looks dead at me as if she wants me to see her with him. why would she wanna do that? serious answer only please.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Dang, she must be a control freak. She still wants to try and control you even though you don't and never did "belong" to her.

    I am so sorry man, I wouldn't do anyhting like that to anyone.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Here is a serious reply. This is her idea of fun. Don't play with her and it will cease to be fun. Wave in a friendly way and go find a better girl further down the road who isn't a game-playing head case.

  • 1 decade ago

    Thats typical woman behavior. We do that subconsciously to say "Hey look at me!" She just wants you to still think about her, because she is still thinking of you. She is like "look what I got." Don't pay no attention to her. She is trying to mind control you and it seems to be working. Next time you go by, find yourself a lady friend, not necessarily one that you are involved with, maybe you have a girl friend that will help you out, and drive by her so that she sees you. It will burn her up inside because now she knows you are playing the same game.

  • 1 decade ago

    Could be for any number of reasons. Some girls are just coniving and want to hurt those who have hurt them or they feel have hurt them. I hate to say that since I'm a girl, but it's true. It could also be that she is wanting to make you jealous and get you back. Or maybe she doesn't mean anything at all about it. She just looks at you. Maybe you're reading more into it than is there. I'd just ignore her and not worry about it.

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  • 1 decade ago

    well, did you break up with her? or vise versa? because if you we the breaker then she is going to want to make a point that she is over you and doesnt care that you hurt her... if it was the other way around maybe she is just trying to make sure you realize what you lost.. and she still cares for you.. you should just stop by one day when you know that her new bf is NOT there and just say you wanted to say hi real quick and see how she was.. that way you can feel her out, she might give somes hints as to what she is trying to acomplish by doing this to you...

    hope this helps!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Why not hurt you? Especially since your wearing your hurt on your sleeve's and your front pocket and tattooed on your for head. She is getting kicks out of dragging your heart down the road every time she passes you.

    So what are you going to do?

    Source(s): big mama
  • Wishee
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    1 decade ago

    It's easy to see.She is trying to RUB IT IN YOUR FACE! She is the kind that thinks her "po po" don't stink. Now the other side of the coin could be...she relay liked you A LOT,and you didn't pick the right VIBES up when you were dating her.You could do something,that would end this mental debate...ask her..That might put an end to all your mental...Wat's up with this look....it's up to you.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Maybe she just wants to make you jealous because of a past relationship that ya'll might of had but if ya'll havent had a past relationship she might have a crush on you and think that you like her too. Do you like her?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    because she's spiteful. i've dated a girl like that before. just ignore her, and then go get yourself another girl. a hotter one. and do the same thing back to her. an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth i always say

  • 1 decade ago

    some people have very small minds and very small lives and they can only feel better about theirself by TRYING to make others feel bad. Next time.... wave and smile great big! Let her know she doesnt affect you.

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