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Anonymous asked in Pregnancy & ParentingAdolescent · 1 decade ago

what do you think about sex at 13?

my cusins boyfrien told her to have sex and now shes afraid that hes goinng to brake up with her!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    sex at 13 is GOOD!

    so u know and u hav expericne!.............. dont use condoms!.......... they will suck!

    after all u kids wont spit out............. just have fun and go!

    make a habbit!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If the relationship at age 13 is based on sex, then the girl needs to find another more trustworthy boyfriend. She should initiate the breakup and tell him that he is just not good enough for her. This gives her the edge when she is ready for another try at love.

    If she gives in at age 13, she won't have any thing left to give new when she is old enough to wed.

  • 1 decade ago

    There are alot of emotion that go with sex. I was 16 the first time I had sex & wish to god I had waited. If this boy cares about her at all he won't try to pressure her and he shouldn't even have asked her to belittle herself like that! Boys only want to hit and move on to the next victim. wait till you get married. if you cant wait that long at least wait till 18. I'm a mother and in a relationship and am still emotionally disconected because of the trauma of my first sexual experience.

    Source(s): Personal Experience
  • 1 decade ago

    It's not worth it at that age - tell your cousin that it truly is best to wait to have sex. And that if she actually decides to go through with this (I hope she doesn't) then to get on birth control so that she doesn't end up pg.

    Also - any guy that breaks up with a girl for not having sex with them is completely dumb. There are other fish in the sea per say ...

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  • 1 decade ago

    just let him go away (If she hasent kicked him out the door yet!) probably the better for her, 13 is WAY to early and besides WHEN the time is right sex should not be had because of peer pressure should be a mutual decision and one done with respect to each other

  • 1 decade ago

    Unless she is ready to have a baby, she needs leave that loser. Look at all the other stupid 13 year olds on this board who are afraid they are pregnant now. That should be a clue.

  • 1 decade ago

    NOOO!! dont ever be pressured in to sex. if a guy really loves you he''l understand that 13 is not the right age!! wait a few more years!!

  • 1 decade ago

    I lost mine at 12 it is was a HUGE mistake. Tell her that if he wants to have sex now than hes discusting. She deserves better. If she does it this young her 1st time wont be as special as it would if she waits

  • 1 decade ago

    Well your cousin boyfriend is either a jerk or just immature cause 13 is WAY to young to be having sex

  • 1 decade ago

    She should definately wait. There are many diseases that could possibly come along with having sex. She is not old enough to deal with those type of problems.

  • 1 decade ago

    That is ignorant. 13 is too early. What kind of boyfriend is he by saying that. The boyfriend should just do what I did at that age, "shake hands with Ben Franklin".

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