confused about Islam?

In Malaysia,if the christian man married muslim girls,he must become Islam.Why!?Where's the freedom of religion!?And when the others muslim man/girl wanna be christian,Islam x allowed it!?why!?I have heard thatMuslim girls can't married christian man but muslim man can married christian girls.What kind of law is that!?

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  • Zabela
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
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    Freedom of religion is a big hoax.

    Sorry.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes there is a double standard that shouldn't exist. The Islamic religion is not to fault though, a religion gives short and small guidelines to the process of marriage were the culture really determines the official process. Even in Christianity, the Bible never gives a step by step directions on what to do for marriage and weddings but our culture has created it. The Bible hints that if you were to marry that you should marry someone of your religion so it would be able to work out. Just think how the Anglican Church started, King Henry VIII wanted to devorce his wife, and yes this religion is Christian. The law should be changed so a double standard doesnt stay

  • 1 decade ago

    First answer: The man doesn't have to. If the girl would not have him without him converting to be a Muslim, he cannot do anything. Ultimately it's her choice.

    Second answer: My view is that because the Muslim administrator forgets that in Koran states" The're is no compulsion in Religion". Just take it that.

    Third Question: Nope. He/She may marry anyone. It's their choice. But you do have to remember in Islam a girl has got to get her father's blessing before she can get marry.

    Oh man...actually, there's no short answer to all this.

  • 1 decade ago

    It is not any different then some of the christian sects. Non-catholics (M&F) must convert if they are to marry a catholic in the catholic church, etc.

    It saddens me to see soo many people bashing Muslim when Christianity is guilty of the same offenses.

    Both have thier doublestandards, the thing to remember is that religion is merely the means people used to control other people. You know politics...

    It is not that freedom of religion is a hoax, but because so many religions say the same thing..then turn around and say "I am right, you are wrong" how can you freely choose w/o fear of persecution?

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  • renoz
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    cause the children will grows up on their father's religion.and there are many private things the Muslim man has to do.and why do u angry be away from Muslim they are fine with their lows.the Christiane man has to be Muslim before he marry the Muslim woman by his own desire,not after marriage.

  • 1 decade ago

    Nothing is forced in Islam. If you do not want to do than do not do. But if you want to be a real believer do what Allah says us to do and search for what it is asked us to do...

    It is not allowed for a muslim girl to a non-muslim boy. It is not desired for a muslim boy to get married a non-muslim girl who believes in God. He should do that only when the conditions force him to do...

  • cobra
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    One of the basic ideas in Islam is that everyone should be Muslim and anyone who isn't is just basically scum and doesn't deserve to live. That is an ugly and crude answer, but another day dawns that again shows me Islam as the ultimate enemy of civilisation.

  • 1 decade ago

    U hav hered thing which is my duty to correct ...

    Muslims are allowed to marry Ahl-e-Kitaab ( christian, jews)...

    Yes it is more correct that they should accept ISlam.,....

    And the person who change his religion he also cahanges its descendants religion ....So he will also go to hell and let others to go to hell also....

    his whole future generation will also be a non-muslim.....

    U can ask your asnwer from scholars

    zakir@irf.net

    And from me 2

    atif_sheikh72@yahoo.com

    atif_sheikh420@yahoo.com

    Source(s): www.irf.net
  • 1 decade ago

    Never trust the word of mouth.. you want the right answers you go to the source..

    As far as i know, a muslim cannot convert. Period. But, if you want to denouce your religion, it is your decision to make isnt it?

  • Mesum
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    You have asked the exact same questions few days back and it was answered by many, what's the point of asking it again?

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