OK, you've got it all wrong. The idea is to be yourself plus a little magic, not to make believe you are someone else to "make" him like you. If you do that, you won't learn what you actually like, and you'll trick him into thinking you are something that you are not. That is not fair. Sort of like a man saying "I love you," to get sex, but not meaning it.
I like people who can talk, or maybe are still to shy to. What do you like?