sex before marriage is it wrong because i want to wait but what if find someone i love?

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  • 'Barn
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
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    Wait until marriage. If you find someone you love, and he loves you, he will respect you and wait. If he pushes you against your will that is not love.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    First of all before you rush into anything you should think about whether or not what you're doing is something that you're going to regret in the future. Sex is a sacred thing, and it is something that can not be reversed. Once it happens there is no turning back. If you find someone who you love, I think you should sit down and make a list of then pro's and con's of having sex with this person. You should also talk to him about it before you do anything that you or him aren't ready for. Take it slow and don't rush into anything. There will be plenty of time for that when you are married. Follow your heart but also follow your head.

  • 1 decade ago

    Absolutely not!!!! Good for you! I think it would be wrong to have sex when you're not in love and are just doing it because you're friends are or because you want to hang on to a guy. I think it's more meaningful with someone you love. If you find someone you love, then you should be able to trust them and wait it out until you're married. Like that saying....true love waits.

  • 1 decade ago

    if u do, then u can wait and so can he! It's that simple. Not till ur MARRIED, not engaged. Lots of people get engaged. Things happen. U might fall in love a lot, it does happen. U can't wait till u fall in love, nothing lasts forever hardly. It could and more likely will end and u will still have many partners. Waiting is a good thing! Very good. Stick to ur belief's, if he doesn't, then he doesn't respect u let alone love so dump him.

    I disagree, Who could? What happens if you never get married? I won't get married. Sex is NOT required. I won't have sex then. And even I do get married, I'm not.

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  • moma
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    There really is no right or wrong, it is all based on how you feel. If you want to wait then wait. If you find someone you love and want to have sex with them then, then go ahead. It all depends on how you feel and when you feel is the right time for you.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Love can not be defined by sex . be cause you love your mom ,your grandparents or any one Else does not mean your going to have sex with them .i wont say it's wrong but' if you do it now what will you do on your honeymoon? and to best answer your question you should go back and read your rule book of life (your bible) think about this if you have to ask if some thing is wrong then that usually says BACK OFF , DON'T DO IT ! if the other person can't respect that then you shouldn't want to give your self to them any way (that means GIRLS AND BOYS ALIKE.!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    So if it says that you have to have sex after marriage, didnt god create sex?

    If you truly love that person and think you guys are ready, then I think its okay. I dont see why anyone should wait. Who could? What happens if you never get married?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I come from a very traditional family that believes this....but let's face it...we are in the 21st century and really compatibility in this area also has some bearing in relationships....I suggest definitely hold out 'til you're sure of yourself that it is something you'd want to share with this special person. Whatever you decide make sure its something that you can live with...if not then its not worth giving up something you believe in just yet.But definitely if you have to do it...LOVE should be there and not just LUST.And be sure to be responsible about it....

  • 1 decade ago

    If your a teenager and still in school, It's definitely a no-no!

    But if your older and have a job to support yourself, it's another issue. Maybe you can just ask yourself if your ready for it

    -- and being ready means being responsible enough to face the consequences of giving it up.

    Remember: If you tried it once, i am 100% sure that your will do it over and over again -- but what if you find out that you're not meant for each other? what if you get pregnant? and worse, what if you thought you're ready but actually you're not.

    think twice...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    if u find some 1 u luv it doesnt matter because the 1 u find might love u but he might not be the type who wants to get married its like a to big of step for them dont hold off cause he might never be ready to get married

    good luk x

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