is it WRONG for a GIRL to ask a GUY out ?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    No way.....I personally think it'd be awesome for a girl to ask me out....nothing WRONG with that at all......i

  • 1 decade ago

    No its not wrong for a girl to ask a guy out.

  • 1 decade ago

    There is no problem with that. If the guy think that there is something wrong with a girl asking a guy out then i would tell you to find another guy to ask out.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well these days it O.K. for G to ask B out. But you must ask your self the question; Is what I'm about to do going to move me closer to OR farther from my major objective? So then the question becomes "What do I really want?". I am going to venture a guess that you want a guy that is interested in you, respects you, listens to you, protects you and provides leadership when you need it and takes it lovingly when he needs it. Someone who loves you warts and all.

    If you ask the guy out direct you may hurt his fragile male ego, and yes it is fragile. But a big part of him that you will grow to love in a lasting relationship is his ego (provided he does not take it too far like some guys). The male ego is a very important part of what lots of women like about guys.

    So not to run-on too far, If you want to make the first move tell him you're interested in him and would consider going out. But tell him he will have to ask you out and give him you phone number and leave it at that. If he responds then it was meant to be, if not then it wasn't. Better to have tried and lost than to not have tried at all - right!!!

    Source(s): My wife taught me all this - and I am VERY thankful to her.
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  • 1 decade ago

    It's not necessarily Wrong, but our society is gradually going on a twisted roll and the tables are turning. Guys do need a little help now and then, but the "chasing game" is NOT what you want. If you have to chase someone (as in always having to "gain" their "love") you'll always be chasing them. Better result MAY occur if the GUY initiates the relationship.

  • 1 decade ago

    No it is not wrong for a girl to ask a guy out, believe it or not guys like to see a woman who is attracted to him enough to ask him out, it is good for his ego.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    No sometimes Guy Like women to ask us out

  • 1 decade ago

    Girl it is 2006 not 1906. These days women ask men to marry them. It is flattering to a guy when a girl asks him out.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    no there is nothing wrong with that if a girl feels that she wants to ask a guy out go ahead its not a law that only guys can ask girs out

  • 1 decade ago

    I think that all the time. Its not weird, i think guys actually get kinda turned on when a girl asks them out. I, personally dont have to strenth.

  • 1 decade ago

    No its not wrong for a girl to ask a guy out.I've asked guy's out before. thats how i got my fiance that i'm with now.i asked him out.

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