I met this guy he is really sweet today he told me that he does not think he is ready for a relationship?

because he wants to get is career on tract, and that he also has work and all, but he suggested that we still go for it and see where it goes. I dont know what to say am still thinking about it.

24 Answers

  • 1 decade ago
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    he just wants you for sex

  • 1 decade ago

    You just met him today?? Of course he's going to say he doesn't want a relationship... he doesn't even know you! Give it some time, a few dates and then see if he is still saying the same thing. If he believed this 100% he wouldn't have suggested still "going for it".

  • DeeDee
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    That's a tough one!!! if he wants to get his career on tract sounds to me like he will not have much time for you...

    if ya'll try to be more than friends and it doesn't work then you not only lost a boyfriend but you have also lost a potential good friend.. you have a lot to think about and ya'll both have some talking to do... Good Luck!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Well Its Good That He Came Honest And Its Good That He Still Wanted To Pursue It If You Ok With Waiting For Him Or Being 2nd To Work Go For It. But I Gotta Give Him Props For Comin Honest With You

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  • 1 decade ago

    Well maybe it is just that he is not looking for a relationship.

    You cant make someone be in a relationship if they dont want to.

    Well if he likes you then , he should go out with you .sometimes guys say they dont want a relationship if they dont like a girl and it can seem as the nice way to put it. im not looking for a relationship = maybe your not for me

  • 1 decade ago

    Just tell him that maybe you guys should wait, so he could fall into his "routine" and his career and what-not. If you guys like each other that much, you two will be willing to wait. Because with him so unstable with his career, it will be even more difficult with a relationship to maintain, don't you think? So just wait a while. You have time.

  • 1 decade ago

    U just met this guy think about that. Where did u meet him? Is he hiding something? It sounds like he wants u as something on the side. Does he have a wife and kids at home?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Wait you barely met him today?

    Find someone else,

    If hes not ready for a relationship

    then he's not ready for a relationship.

  • 1 decade ago

    ha...i know those...well here what to do: go with the flow but leave ur guard up.Don't get too attached then if he changes his mind about seeing you, it will be ok.have fun i am sure ur not in a rush for the whole serious,serious relationship which leads to marriage.Just have fun and enjoy each other...providing he treats you well(don't take ****)Rem...don't get attached..cause it's possible you will get heart broken

    good luck hon

  • 1 decade ago

    At least he's being honest.

    It is up to you whether you want to risk getting hurt later on if you fall in love and he decides it's not for him.

    You could go on seeing him as he suggested, just be aware that it might not go anywhere.

    Good Luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    one thing that women REALLY need to remember is that a woman is only a part of a mans "pie", one slice out of the whole. i believe that women are still being taught that their man should be a large part of a womans life. if he says he aint ready, hes telling his truth and dont think of him than anymore than a hangout buddy.

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