Being and having been a disruptive neighbor, I feel confident in telling you that there is no sure fire way to "deal" with this situation of yours that would improve your neighbors behavior. Out of my numerous stories and experiences, let me share with you a few things my neighbors have learned:
- Because so many cops have been over at my house, I know them all. Calling them doesn't work and only adds fuel to the conflagration.
- If you choose send anonymous letters (hatemail), you'll most likely just piss your neighbor off and wind up having to "deal" with loud music and people at 3 AM on Tuesday night.
- If you ***** about fire works being lit off at 12 AM on the fourth of July, don't think they'll cease being lit.
- If you decide to shoot your neighbor a shady look through your kitchen window while they're hanging out with their friends on the back porch, expect a shady look and a few choice words back.
Anyhow, I could go on and on, but I think you get the point. For about 2 years now, my neighbors and I have hated each other. In fact, it would be safe to say that anyone that resides in a 1 block radius of my house can't stand me & my roommates. I've learned to deal with this fact though, and nothing they say or do can change the way I like to live. Holler.