how do i get over my ex?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Stop and think. Why are you letting yourself suffer? He has moved on, hasn't he! That tells you that there is just as much hope for you to move on too! What is he? Superior? No he isnt.

    He is Human, and if He can move on, so can You. Please - The faster you realise that - the better!

    Take a Mirror & Look at yourself. Look what he made you do to yourself! Don't you feel put down? At all? You are letting him put you into misery! He is 5 inches deep inside your head! Swirling round like a Hurricane, Laughing at you suffering. He is drilling your heart like a Massive Chainsaw, Now the worst part is that -

    You let him do it. You LOVE him so much that you allow him to be Inside you. Guess what? And you don't want to forget him. I

    know you don't. You HAVE to get over him BUT I know you don't want to, nobody wants to FORGET their Lover, they want to be with Him. But What happens when that becomes Impossible? Forget him.

    Doesn't it make Women look pathetic when they become so OBSESSED with their Ex Boyfriends? It's like they are stalkers!

    Followers! Over-Obsessive Maniacs! If you continue to be

    Obsessive about a Boy - IT PUTS YOU IN A LOWER POSITION! A Guy who KNEW You were Obsessed with him would say to his Friends "Haha, Look at her, She's so Crazy about me, Its Pathetic and Kinda Scary!" Or an even worse type that a Player would say " Look what I did with her, One night of

    Good Sex and She Loved it - Now shes become crazy about me because she can't have me"

    The ULTIMATE way of Forgetting is putting the guy in a Lower Position than You, That would make you think " Oh god, What a Loser - I DO Deserve better" E.g Tell your friends to tell you all the nasty things they never liked about him. Also, Write 20 of your good qualities and 21 of his BAD qualities. Keep reading them over and over, comparing them with your good qualities.

    Try to avoid going to places where you and your ex used to go.

    Avoid the songs that remind you of him. [HARD] But try.

    While walking down a crowded street look at all the Guys walking by & remember the Ugly things your ex has which always

    TURNED YOU OFF. Compare his Ugly areas with the Sexy

    Areas of the Boys passing buy. You will feel like you dated a total loser.

    ** G o o d x L u c k ** * REMEMBER : Everyone has been through this & Everyone GOT through it. So will YOU.

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  • 1 decade ago

    I don't think you have to forget him in order to live a normal life after him. you can remember him as a good friend but accept the fact that he was unfortunate to let you go.

    If you really love him give him the choice to live the way he wants and be happy for him.

    If you find a substitute for him in a hurried way nothing will be resolved because you keep comparing him with the new one.

    So look at it this way :

    You are a good person so God loves you and he wants the best for you. Your ex wasn't good enough for you and you will definitely find someone better.

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  • 1 decade ago

    dont try it too hard...cuz the more you try the more you'll think of them which would make forgetting them even tougher...just relax & take it easy...try to distract yourself from it...keep yourself busy with some hobby or some job...pamper yourself & treat yourself well...do things that make you feel happy...meet up with old friends & chat but not about your past...as far as possible try & keep away from things that remind you of them...stop blaming yourself or them for what happened...just think that sometimes things just have to end for whatever reasons & its time to move on...forgive each other for everything if its possible..believe in yourself & try to learn from the entire experience...& most of all time is the greatest healer...with time everything is gonna be okay...goodluck!!

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  • 1 decade ago

    2 get ovr ur ex.... try 2 get ovr all those things.. which remind u bout him... thn try 2 indulge in some time consumin activities like TENNIS , swimmin, cross country.. so tht u stop thinkin bout tht person... thn pick up new hobbies..!! not easy though but ..it works

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  • 1 decade ago

    you move on, go get a new hair style, get ur nails done, go shopping and by new clothes... something thats a totally different style then what you would wear while with him... go dancing or something

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  • 1 decade ago

    Sometimes

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  • 1 decade ago

    get a new one

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  • 1 decade ago

    actually you can't. but it depends on how good your memory is.

    we can only replace the memory of 'that important person' with 'another important person'.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Your EX what???

    Go find and sow your oats...

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  • 1 decade ago

    go out on other dates,

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