- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
1. Be realistic about each other.
Don't try to turn ur partner into something he or she is not. Let's face it,
guys-there's only 1 Pamela Anderson in the world, and even she
has had her implants removed! Give ur gal a break and understand that her
physical appearance is NOT going to change overnite with the help of a few
facials or treatments. And ladies, Brad Pitt has already been taken, so u're
gonna have to do with what ur guy is like! Chill out, love each other for
what u are. There is more to ur partner than what meets the eye.
2. Always talk things out.
Now guys, I know this is not ur fave pastime or mode of resolving issues,
but u know what? This works with the gals. Don't make assumptions about each
other's feelings. Learn to xpress urself better so that ur partner
undrstands what u're angry about, or hurt about, or even happy
about! When u stop talking to each other from the heart, it's the beginning of
3. Do stuff together.
Make an effort to do things together. Do some sports or involve urselves in
some shared activities; something both of u enjoy or are interested in. It could
be as simple as watching movies together, or jus strolling hand-in-hand down
Orchard Road. Watch soccor with him once in a while though the green patch
on TV puts u to sleep in 3 seconds. And guys, do give in if ur gal asks for another
day at window-shopping, rather than suggest that she go out with her
girlfriends for "that sort of activities" instead. If u're spending more time with
ur friends rather than with ur partner,
it's a warning sign that u're drifting apart!!!
4. Meet each other halfway.
If he agrees to throw out that rotten T-shirt with the "The_Rock" print, u
shouldn't kick up much of a fuss if he asks u to keep ur room tidy. There's
gotta be a little giving and taking in a relationship, so learn to meet each
5.Show ur love
Buy her flowers or candy or perfume everynow and then, even if u
have been together for 5years. It's wonderful to continue showing someone that u care
for him or her. Cook him a special meal, paint him a Valentine's Day card.
Knit him mini-socks he can't wear ( like for decoration purposes
=> ), buy him a packet of milk for breakfast, or pack his wardrobe for
him...so he knows u can still be romantic and loving despite having been together for quite a while.
6. Respect each other.
Stop making jokes about her hair or skin, or whatever it is u love to laugh
at. Ask urself if she thinks if its funny. And if he has an inferiority
complex about his height, stop ogling at tall guys and make him feel worse!
Love is about respecting each other's feelings and being sensitive to each
other at all times.
7. BURY THE PAST.
Stop bringing up the past. Gals..don't bring up the happy things about u and
ur ex to ur guy, it would jus make him jealous or unhappy. And guys, don't
talk about the happy times that u had with ur ex or mention about her in ur
every other sentence as it would make ur gal feel un-happy and she might
think that u saying all this b'cos u are gonna get back with ur ex or not
interested in her anymore.
8. Sit on ur jealousy.
All of us go thru' spells of insecurity at the beginning of the relationship, but don't translate that insecurity into jealousy. If u're
gonna go through ur partner's mail and cupboard, and eavesdropping on
conversations, u know something is wrong - with u!!! Jealousy is like a
poison that slowly spreads thru' the relationship before finally killing it.
Trust ur partner; love has to have trust in it.
9. Keep ur commitments to each other.
If ur partner is standing u up all the time and cancelling dates and
breaking promises, u need to talk! If u're in a relationship, make ur
partner ur priority and don't disappoint them if u can help it. It's really
terrible when someone promises to take u to dinner, and then calls to cancel
it. Don't make promises u can't keep. If ur partner starts to feel that
he/she is not important enough to u, u may jus lose him/her.
10. Be honest.
Honesty is not scowling at how awful she looks first thing in the morning, or telling him that he has the biceps of a fly~! When we say "be honest", we mean expressing ur feelings clearly, not being bitingly cruel. When u're
hurt, say so, and when u're angry, tell him/her, w/o getting hysterical. If
u can't be honest with ur partner, who can u be honest with? ?Love is also about honesty, and a relationship where no honesty exists probably isn't worth it!Source(s): someone sent me this mail..
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