MY BOYFRIEND SAYS THAT ....

Question

MY BOYFRIEND SAYS THAT IF I AM TOO NICE TO PEOPLE ...and they will like me.

so i sometimes confused ...cuz i think its nice to say HI to people ..and being friendly ...

what should i do ...?

dont be too nice ma ? OR ......

U_U

Update:

i betrayed him once before ...so thats why hes kinda insecure about me ...so it has reasons that he dosent want me be too close to guys ...sigh...well i dont want to tell details over here...

thanks everyone who answered my Q ...I appreciated@@

Update 2:

too close ..i mean like talk to people in a way like kinda flirting ...thats what my bf said about me talking guys ...and that will make guys think that i like them ..and they might want to do something with me .....can I ask you all...guys ...would you ???

Answer 1

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It really depends on how you judge "too nice" in regards to greeting people and being friendly to them. If you think that your boyfriend has a different set of judgement on what "too nice" means, then you should discuss with him about it. After all, it's not a bad thing to be nice to people as long as you know the limits :)

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Well if you betrayed him before, I think it's obvious that he doesn't want you close with other guys... and if like what you said, you talk to guys in a flirtatious way, then... I think you should really consider if your current bf and yourself are in a suitable relationship for both sides.

Answer 2

Tell your bf to get off your back...geez...this world needs more nice people...

Answer 3

友善的與人相處跟到處亂放電

是兩回事

只要跟你男友說清楚就行

不理別人只裡你男友的話 小心將來你們結婚沒人包紅包........

Source(s): 別打我

Answer 4

他可能是覺得你跟大家都很好，大家都喜歡你，他會害怕失去你，因此才會這樣說，你男朋友可能比較沒自信吧，不必想太多，做你自已就行了，如果他無法接受開朗活潑、和大家都很友好的你，我想這個男生可能也不是很愛你！愛一個人就要接受他優缺點不是嗎？