Affair?

Do you consider a relationship with a married person (without having sex) as an affair? How far can we go? I mean where's the "point" that is "safe" for us not to betray our spouse and at the same time enjoy the friendship contently? I am confused. I need people's advise. Thank you. show more Do you consider a relationship with a married person (without having sex) as an affair?
How far can we go? I mean where's the "point" that is "safe" for us not to betray our spouse and at the same time enjoy the friendship contently?

I am confused.
I need people's advise.
Thank you.
Update: I am NOT asking for translation. Thanks.
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