How do I start dating again?

How do I start dating again? I was married for 33 years. My husband died 11 months ago. I am afraid to try. I want to date a christian man, one who is liberal in politics, loves history, hates country music,loves cooking. Likes books, is open minded, honest. I do not want to date on line. Most of the people... show more How do I start dating again? I was married for 33 years.
My husband died 11 months ago. I am afraid to try.
I want to date a christian man, one who is liberal in
politics, loves history, hates country music,loves cooking.
Likes books, is open minded, honest.

I do not want to date on line. Most of the people are not
truthful. Also, I feel like you are paying for services.
I feel like it is cheap. It makes a woman look cheap.
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