Your 15 and in 10th grade, and you want a baby. But you dont know why.
Well, i am 15 also, in 10th grade. And im 7 1/2 months pregnant.
You don't need to try to have a baby, believe me.
Pregnancy isn't easy, its hard, painful, and demanding.
You can't eat whatever you want, because if the baby gets too big the baby can't go down your birthing canal.
You can't do sports, or go tubing, or ride the rides at an amusement park or fair.
People stare, and call you a slut. Even if your still dating the guy you lost your virginity to, and he's the dad and you've been together for a year and a half.
They don't know that, all they see is a pregnant KID. To them, that's all you are. Is a little whore who probably opened her legs to every guy who walked by. They don't care that you may be ahead academically to everyone your age, or that you have a strong head on your shoulders.
You get judged, you lose friends, your relationships with family, friends, and everyone changes.
Your back hurts, your feet swell. You can't wear your old clothes.
You get ugly stretch marks all over your thighs, and stomach and *** and even your boobs.
Fortunately for me though, i don't have them on my stomach. (Thanks to cocoa butter lotion.)
You walk through the halls at school, and everyone stops just to stare at you.
I was on birth control, and he used condoms every time. But because i was sick and on antibiotics, they countered my birth control and i wasn't aware of it. And that's how i got pregnant.
But you, you want to purposely get pregnant. That's not very smart. You are already going through a hard situation, being pregnant will just make it worse. And not very many teenage pregnancies have the father still involved. I'm one of the lucky few, for now. He could still walk out.
I'm not saying that i don't want my daughter. Because ever since the first time i heard her heartbeat, and felt her kick. I knew i loved her. I would never be able to give her up now..
But it's not a lifestyle you should choose.
From the sound of it though, your not going to go out and have sex, because you sound smart..
You know that a baby won't help, and that you shouldn't do it.
The want may be there, but try your best to ignore it.
Try some depression classes, or maybe join a club with your school or something..
if you surround yourself with people you care about that can help..
It sound like you jus wanna belong..
Good luck, and don't do anything you might regret later.
No one should judge you for your question, because you clearly state you know that a baby won't help, and that you don't believe in sex before marriage.
So i hope all works out for you.
· 9 years ago