do you think that its kind of early for a 12 year old girl going on 13 that wears thongs??? i mean whats so bad about them??
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I don't see what's the big deal about young girls wearing thongs. It's just an underwear. People need to get over it and accept that thongs are here to stay. People say that they are too sexy for young girls, well, for a lot of guys (including me), panty line are very sexy too. Especially when they are going up the butt. I know it may sound sick, but I’m being honest about what we guys like. So what are you going to do? Tell young girls to not wear panties so that they won’t show any panty lines? Well, knowing that a girl is going commando is sexy too! Everything and anything can be sexy if you want to see it that way. I’m sure that to a child molester, the last thing he cares about is what type of panties a little girl is wearing.
Anthony Robbins wrote in his book “Unlimited Power”, that “Nothing has any mean except the mean we give it. My point is that thongs are just underwear, just a piece of cloth. If anybody wants to see them as sexy, sluty, sexual, or any other way they chose to see it, then they have the problem, not you. Who is really the sick person? You for wearing them while you are “too young”, or them for having a very narrow and sexual mind?
They say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Well, visual sexual stimuli is also in the eye of the beholder. The same is true to visual sexual stimuli. For example, some people are sexually excited by looking at a sexy pair of legs, but other people are not. Some get turned on by looking at women with big breasts, some other people don’t find them so exciting.
Don’t forget that if you live in the US, you live in one of the more puritan countries in the world. The French (among many others) have the ability to look at a naked body and appreciate it’s beauty. But in the US, most people connect nudity with sexuality and they can‘t separate the two.
You also have to understand that when people are ignorant about any specific subject, they often make up whatever they can to support their beliefs. For example, people keep talking about child molesters and rapist. A while back during college, I wrote a research paper related to criminal behavior (of robbery, rape, and child molestation). Something that most people don’t understand, is that these type of criminal (just like most other criminals) are opportunist. The robber doesn’t look for the biggest and strongest person to rob. A rapist doesn’t necessarily look for he sexiest girl walking down the street. The child molester doesn’t look for the young girl that is wearing thongs. Something that all these criminals have in common is the fact that they look for the weakest and easiest prey they can find. All these criminals look for victims that present them with easy and weak (less likely to fight back) targets, and the less chances of getting caught.
Let’s say that you are 11 and you are at the park. And lets say that a child molester sees you and your thong sticking out over you pants while you were sitting, but you are in the presence of several other people. Even if they are not with you. On the same park, he/she sees a young girl your age not showing a thong but sitting by herself in a somewhat secluded area. Who do you think that he/she is going to approach? The answer and the reason why is very obvious.
Research have shown that these criminals care very little about what the victim is wearing, they care more about you giving them a chance of hurting you by being alone in lonely places. By you letting strangers and even people you know, take you to some secluded place and/or by letting them get closer to you than they should.
So hey, if you like them and find them comfortable, then go ahead and wear them. Some people find them comfortable and some don’t. It’s dumb for anybody to tell you not to wear them cause they are uncomfortable. The reason being that only you can determine if they comfortable to you or not. Once you have picked the right size and material and you’ve worn them for a little while, they feel so comfortable that you don’t even feel them. Just make sure that you buy the right size and it’s best to start off with thongs made of microfiber. Which is a very soft and stretchable material. It moves with you instead of against you. Don’t buy anything too thin either. Anything that resembles the thin material on a g-string. At least not at first. Good luck!
- 6 years ago
I don't think so. My wife and I both wear thongs. Our 12-year daughter has chores and one of them is laundry. She's been washing our underwear for a couple of years. My wife just bought her some ordinary cotton thongs from fruit of the loom or something. She likes the comfort since there is no bunching. They aren't a sexual thing to her because she grew up seeing them as functional. Older generations were introduced to thongs making them sexual. To her, they are just underwear.
- Anonymous5 years ago
I don't see any problems with girls wanting to wear thongs as early as 9 or 10 it's just underwear
- Anonymous5 years ago
Why don't you buy your 12 year old son a thong instead. I'm sick of hearing women saying thongs were meant for them.
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- 5 years ago
Thongs are underwear they are fine pluse I don't think a 13 year would count a thong as sexual
- 5 years ago
It's completley fine, Ive been wearing thongs since I was 9.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Sometimes thongs cause hemorrhoids but I don't think it too early to thongs. It pretty much depends on what you wear them with.
- Britney RLv 61 decade ago
i think it is fine for them to wear thong underwear. Some girls find them more comfy. i dont however think they should be able to wear thong bikinis.
- 1 decade ago
there is nothing bad about a thong...12 i think is a little young...no one is going to see it at 12 (i hope) i would shoot for 14.....you just don't want to have a bad rep. ya know?...12 years old wearing a thong...sounds trashy to me...but i guess its up to you.
- ~*Sweet Pea*~Lv 51 decade ago
I don't really like wearing thongs, i use to wear them all the time though! But then i discovered those girl boy short underwear they are way the heck more comfortable, then having butt floss on!