Well...I'm a Virgo female, and I've never met a Scorpio male I haven't liked. Because of their placement in the wheel (separated by Libra at a 30 degree angle), Scorpio and Virgo have a lot to give each other. What one sign lacks, the other has to give. Their differences are complementary and their similarities are easily noticed. Both signs crave long-term relationships, emotional and financial security, and are strong people. Because of this mutual understanding, the two of them come to respect each other. Scorpio is attracted to Virgo's willingness to serve those they care about, their intellect, their purity of character and heart, their attention to detail, their clarity and level-headed ways. Virgo falls head over heels for Scorpio's strong inner strength, perseverance, will, passion, intensity, and confidence. Scorpio is ruled by their emotions and will become moody, jealous, irrational, and possessive. While in moderation, Virgo appreciates these bouts of jealousy because it makes them feel safe and secure, this up and down constant stream of emotion could unsettle the Virgo, who is ruled by and makes decisions based on logic, clear thinking, and rationalizing. Fortunately though, the Virgo is patient and though they do not naturally understand the Scorpios ways, they are patient enough to get to understand it, and devoted enough to withstand it. Scorpio recognizes this and is in turn patient with the Virgo who is slow to unwind and open up. Both of these signs have walls put up: Scorpio hides behind walls because they are vulnerable on the inside, Virgo hides behind walls because emotions are scary and unpredictable. However, because these two are so easily able to build trust in one another, they are the few signs that can bring down these walls in each other. Scorpio and Virgo get along on a deep connection - they understand each other without speaking, they complement each other, and they grow together.
I wrote all of this based on my own experience with Scorpios, much of it heavily based on my two year relationship with a Scorpio male. I ended it because he was much too selfish for me and immature. He's 19 and I'm 18. If I had met him when he was 35, I might have married him.