• My fiance has hit me about 10 times, but he has grabbed me up, pushed me, shoved me, thrown my across the room a lot. He has wrapped his hands around my neck choking me out. He has jumped on top of me covering my mouth and nose and i couldnt breathe until i almost passed out. Everytime he would say how i made him... show more
    My fiance has hit me about 10 times, but he has grabbed me up, pushed me, shoved me, thrown my across the room a lot. He has wrapped his hands around my neck choking me out. He has jumped on top of me covering my mouth and nose and i couldnt breathe until i almost passed out. Everytime he would say how i made him do it because I yelled at him or slapped him. Yes i have slapped him but did i deserve for him to punch me in the head and leave knots?? I dont even touch him anymore just yell and he hits me now. Please help is this ok or should I leave? the entire time he has been violent i have been pregnant. He was never violent before. Should I leave? is it my fault? is he wrong or is he right? please help me.....
    20 answers · 12 hours ago
  • Hey all, difficult time in my life. I'm nearly 21, and was a catholic up until a few years ago. I just kind of realized an afterlife was hard to believe in, and now i've lost purpose in life. Anyway, I think i'm terrified of death. I can't stop thinking about it. What it will feel like, what... show more
    Hey all, difficult time in my life. I'm nearly 21, and was a catholic up until a few years ago. I just kind of realized an afterlife was hard to believe in, and now i've lost purpose in life. Anyway, I think i'm terrified of death. I can't stop thinking about it. What it will feel like, what non-existence would be like. I can't sleep at night, or more than 4 hours. I feel less motivated. I think it came with realizing my mortality. Obviously I knew I was going to die, but I guess I never realized what that would entail. Does anyone have any advice?
    27 answers · 1 day ago
  • I'm a 16 year old female, and have been losing weight recently. I'm under a lot of stress with school and have an awful relationship with my father for the way he acts and treats me. He's always been a drunk, but as I've gotten older I've grown to absolutely resent him for things that have... show more
    I'm a 16 year old female, and have been losing weight recently. I'm under a lot of stress with school and have an awful relationship with my father for the way he acts and treats me. He's always been a drunk, but as I've gotten older I've grown to absolutely resent him for things that have happened in the past (physical and emotional abuse). I always have headaches and am irritable or tired during the day, and sometimes I shake. I worry about absolutely everything and I don't think it's normal, but I can't help it and it's frustrating. I'm just wondering if you know what might be going on with me?
    6 answers · 5 hours ago
  • Best answer: I don't think that your looks have changed much at all, just a little bit. You may have filled out a little bit, which is either not a big deal (you are close to 'too skinny' in some pics), or not even an issue, just the way the lighting 'adds ten pounds' or 'removes ten pounds'. Your... show more
    Best answer: I don't think that your looks have changed much at all, just a little bit. You may have filled out a little bit, which is either not a big deal (you are close to 'too skinny' in some pics), or not even an issue, just the way the lighting 'adds ten pounds' or 'removes ten pounds'. Your face has changed a little, but I can't describe why...you don't seem to have any wrinkles or anything that says "old".

    And I wouldn't describe the change as "Faded" in any way. You still look good!
    7 answers · 15 hours ago
  • I am a 18 year old male, live alone, literally have no friends and spend all my days and weeks alone in my flat depressed and wanting to die. But also wanting to live too. But i dont deserve to live, I have kissed and held hands with a 13 year old girl and talked to her. And the whole asking out my cousins... show more
    I am a 18 year old male, live alone, literally have no friends and spend all my days and weeks alone in my flat depressed and wanting to die. But also wanting to live too. But i dont deserve to live, I have kissed and held hands with a 13 year old girl and talked to her. And the whole asking out my cousins thing- there is a separate question for that so i won't go into detail. Now at 18 i have just lost all hope and happyiness. I know you will say get a job, then you will make friends. Not as simple, i want a job, and i could get one, but i feel even if i do, i wont make any friends, because of my low self esteem, my **** personality and im dumber than joey essex...seriously. I worry about that to. My IQ is below standards and under the retard level more than likely. Im suprised i can tie my shoe lace im that thick I don't drive because i am on low budget with bills and that, I try to be a bettter person but my past just brings me down, i can't let go off it, and i feel like i dont deserve a life or friends after the mistakes, and that i even will be judged after death. I need help. and this is not a attention seeking question, i wish it was but its not. I really do want to die. I have been diagnosed with depression and Anxiety, but just cant live anymore. Should i end it? And please respectful comments, i know what i did was disgusting but...saying that i do want honest answers too. Thank you so much for raking the time to read my plea for help.
    5 answers · 15 hours ago
  • i want to kill myself and i dont care how or how painful it might be, i just want my suffering to end. i dont want to be here anymore.
    i want to kill myself and i dont care how or how painful it might be, i just want my suffering to end. i dont want to be here anymore.
    20 answers · 2 days ago
  • I feel like giving up on life. I hate my life so much. Nothing ever seems to go right. I've always felt this way but today it got a lot worse. My mom and my sister left the house to get food and I felt like killing myself. I went to the kitchen and felt like doing it so badly but stopped myself. I ran to my... show more
    I feel like giving up on life. I hate my life so much. Nothing ever seems to go right. I've always felt this way but today it got a lot worse. My mom and my sister left the house to get food and I felt like killing myself. I went to the kitchen and felt like doing it so badly but stopped myself. I ran to my room and cried. I told my mom later how I have been feeling and she pretended to care. I can't take life anymore I just need help. I feel like I'll never be loved by anyone. Or I'll never accomplish my dreams there's no way that will happen. I've always wanted to me a singer since I was smaller but no one took me seriously. My sister hogs up everything she has to have ever last bit of attention. I can never really talk to mom too because of her. I need help she always says she feels suiciadal and deep down I feel it too. I just need help.
    11 answers · 5 hours ago
  • I'm still healing from the wounds that affected me in my past, it was a very bad past experience. How do i learn to let go and be happier?
    I'm still healing from the wounds that affected me in my past, it was a very bad past experience. How do i learn to let go and be happier?
    10 answers · 2 days ago
  • Best answer: Scientific studies have shown that the psychological paradigm you are describing is the exact kind of "seemingly logical" conclusion that a "clinically depressed" person comes up with. What this means is, you're clinically depressed. A normal brain has a built-in self-preservation instinct,... show more
    Best answer: Scientific studies have shown that the psychological paradigm you are describing is the exact kind of "seemingly logical" conclusion that a "clinically depressed" person comes up with.

    What this means is, you're clinically depressed. A normal brain has a built-in self-preservation instinct, and included in with this instinct is an ability to "be relatively happy" even when things aren't going so well.

    A normal, chemically balanced brain (one that is not depressed) would be "unhappy" about your life situation, but would use that unhappiness to "light a fire under your as (s) to at least try to correct some of the described problems, rather than slide into a suicidal moray, believing its the end of the world.

    Your brain is not functioning correctly, but the good news is…it's fixable. With an injection of human love, a little talk therapy for a short while, and some meds that keep you balanced, this depressive funk you're in can be changed for the better.

    Think about it. You want to be remembered as somebody who fought hard to be good, or somebody who just caved in and gave up in sinful despair?
    9 answers · 3 days ago
  • Best answer: Jeez, it's not the end of the world, dude! Besides, it's in the past, just let it go, and move on, with your life! We all make mistakes, that's what living is for. Making mistakes, and learning from them, to become better people! None of us are perfect, on this Earth. So stop beating yourself up, and be... show more
    Best answer: Jeez, it's not the end of the world, dude! Besides, it's in the past, just let it go, and move on, with your life! We all make mistakes, that's what living is for. Making mistakes, and learning from them, to become better people! None of us are perfect, on this Earth. So stop beating yourself up, and be happy! :)
    40 answers · 4 days ago
  • I honestly have no life and I feel awful physically, wouldn't being dead be easier?
    I honestly have no life and I feel awful physically, wouldn't being dead be easier?
    9 answers · 3 hours ago
  • Unfortanutly I'm not dead and I'm not asking these questions to seek attention or anything I just want an answer and I'm only alive to see if things get better (they didn't though)I don't know what to do anymore it feels like I'm going to the end of my rope. Every Sunday night I feel... show more
    Unfortanutly I'm not dead and I'm not asking these questions to seek attention or anything I just want an answer and I'm only alive to see if things get better (they didn't though)I don't know what to do anymore it feels like I'm going to the end of my rope. Every Sunday night I feel depressed because I know their is just going to be another week of failure in front of me i just feel like an early death doesnt seem so bad I don't even know what to say and it's not like any of you want to read this but I need help and advice I just don't know what to do now
    33 answers · 5 days ago
  • Best answer: Washington DC.
    Best answer: Washington DC.
    12 answers · 1 day ago
  • I have lots of people I want to kill and I feel like I actually might. I want to kill myself. I want to destroy the world and make everyone else's life a misery and make them suffer!!
    I have lots of people I want to kill and I feel like I actually might. I want to kill myself. I want to destroy the world and make everyone else's life a misery and make them suffer!!
    16 answers · 2 days ago