• Should I deny him orgasms?

    My bf and I have been together 3.5yrs and we re both each others firsts. there are too many times where we ve had a quickie, hes had his fun and then just turned on the tv. ive told him over and over i feel like a vessel/used and hes like ill give you a few orgasms tomorrow. But thing is he s bad at oral he only... show more
    My bf and I have been together 3.5yrs and we re both each others firsts. there are too many times where we ve had a quickie, hes had his fun and then just turned on the tv. ive told him over and over i feel like a vessel/used and hes like ill give you a few orgasms tomorrow. But thing is he s bad at oral he only spends like 10 mins then gives up and i do most of the work myself. dont say leave him because i wont a r ship isnt all about sex but what can i do. ive tried discussing it but it doesnt make a difference. im tempted to have my orgasm and then leave him high and dry at times. see how he likes it. Any advice?
    16 answers · 1 day ago
  • Is it true that men are generally not attracted to women who are 30+?

    I survived a very abusive childhood and the trauma caused me to have some signs of premature aging. My hair slowly started to turn stark white at the age of 23 and now at 32 it's completely white/dry/course. I dye it regularly (every 3 weeks) just the roots to match the darker brunette color I dyed the rest. It... show more
    I survived a very abusive childhood and the trauma caused me to have some signs of premature aging. My hair slowly started to turn stark white at the age of 23 and now at 32 it's completely white/dry/course. I dye it regularly (every 3 weeks) just the roots to match the darker brunette color I dyed the rest. It looks really dry and damaged despite me eating healthy, taking vitamins, never blow drying/using heat, using deep hair conditioning masks. Nothing helps its dry and frizzy regardless. I have been hearing a lot more lately that men believe that women hit a wall at 30. We lose the roundness/plumpness in our faces, start to show wrinkles around the eyes, some grey/white hair, sun damage all of that. I thought to myself it cant be true that most guys think that but I'm starting to think a good majority of them do. I have yet to meet a guy my age that isn't dating a girl in her early 20s. I also work with 3 men in their 40s who are dating 22, 25 and 28 year olds. People have joked with me and said "Didn't you know you were supposed to date a guy in his 30s and hope he'd marry you when you were in your early 20s youre screwed, now you've hit the age wall. There's even videos on youtube describing "the wall" phenomenon with men saying women lose all value with age while a man's value increases. Over 80k men like it! I feel sick to my stomach
    78 answers · 5 days ago
  • Is my girlfriend crazy for wanting to have access to all my accounts?

    Girlfriend and I live together, have a house. Share bills and have a pretty good life together. She has been demanding my passwords to bank accounts, IG, & Facebook. I told her she may look at my accounts all shed like but she can NOT have full on access because they are MY accounts. She said well if you... show more
    Girlfriend and I live together, have a house. Share bills and have a pretty good life together. She has been demanding my passwords to bank accounts, IG, & Facebook. I told her she may look at my accounts all shed like but she can NOT have full on access because they are MY accounts. She said well if you want to be with me I have to have all of the passwords, I stopped her right there and told her you will NOT own my accounts because they are mine. I suggested she respected my personal space as I respect hers. She still doesn't understand so I told her I may not be the man shes looking for because I'm not going to let her own all of my accounts and have total control over MY accounts. She's upset and now wants to break up because of it. She is INSANE. Right?..... Someone please tell their opinion lol
    11 answers · 11 hours ago
  • I just got out of an abusive relationship. Please give me advice on how to get over him?

    My boyfriend and I started dating 10 months ago. The first few months were amazing. No arguments. Later on, for some reason, it started to bother him that i had dated people before him. He began to call me a slut, whore, hoe, etc. We would stay up all night arguing on the phone. I’d cry and cry and cry until he... show more
    My boyfriend and I started dating 10 months ago. The first few months were amazing. No arguments. Later on, for some reason, it started to bother him that i had dated people before him. He began to call me a slut, whore, hoe, etc. We would stay up all night arguing on the phone. I’d cry and cry and cry until he apologized to me and said he “loved me”. I know, i should have broken up with him right then and there, however it’s hard to get out of relationships like these. At times, he made me feel so loved, i felt comforted by him. That’s why i chose to ignore the name calling. Eventually we had arguments 2-4 times a week. I know, very unhealthy. We ending up breaking up the first time. My anger took over me and i ended up punching myself in the face. I had a black eye. He knew this and called me stupid for doing it. He was only afraid that people would think he did it to me. He didn’t want to be seen with me either even though he continued to tell me he loved me (this was while we were broken up btw). I felt like he was just trying to use me. Finally one day he said he wanted to get back together and i stupidly took him back. Things got progressively worse. Today he ended up blocking me everywhere. No explanation. I mean i guess it’s good that i’m out of that relationship but i just need ways to cope as it was very out of the blue.
    33 answers · 4 days ago
  • Why do men brag to you about all the women he's had sex with?

    You barely even know the guy and he's telling you about all the girls he's had sex with why would anyone do this?? Is it supposed to be a turn on because it's not
    You barely even know the guy and he's telling you about all the girls he's had sex with why would anyone do this?? Is it supposed to be a turn on because it's not
    11 answers · 8 hours ago
  • Seems like white women will date any race, but all other races of women stick with their own. Why?

    Best answer: Because white women are destroyed by Jew self-hating propaganda. If you ask any white woman, she will feel personally responsible for the genocides and starvation Going on in Africa. She will feel personally responsible for every homeless black guy or poor illegal immigrants. She will never blame the real people... show more
    Best answer: Because white women are destroyed by Jew self-hating propaganda.

    If you ask any white woman, she will feel personally responsible for the genocides and starvation Going on in Africa. She will feel personally responsible for every homeless black guy or poor illegal immigrants. She will never blame the real people responsible, like the child-soldier-using warlords in Africa, or the communist socialist South American dictators, or the lack of good family values and education here in America, or black culture in America which has many fatal problems.

    And so, white women are brainwashed and manipulated into feeling personally responsible for every injustice or every problem in the world, even if it’s nobody’s fault or someone else’s fault or just plain bad luck. And then these white women decide that because they don’t want to blame themselves, they must blame white men, and they feel that breeding with other races of men somehow alleviates their guilt.

    It’s propaganda at its finest
    10 answers · 17 hours ago
  • Q: Would you be mad if I dated your mom?

    74 answers · 6 days ago
  • I'm 16 should I stop talking to this 25 year old?

    He's the only one who actually cares about me. I'm always alone but he's there for me. I'm so lonely and I feel so sad. He's always flirting and wants our relationship to become sexual. I'm kind of scared, but I don't want him to leave me like everyone else did. I feel like have no one... show more
    He's the only one who actually cares about me. I'm always alone but he's there for me. I'm so lonely and I feel so sad. He's always flirting and wants our relationship to become sexual. I'm kind of scared, but I don't want him to leave me like everyone else did. I feel like have no one else but him.
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • Men: Would date/marry a woman who had darker skin than you?

    This doesn't necessarily mean Black. Just darker skin than you.
    This doesn't necessarily mean Black. Just darker skin than you.
    11 answers · 1 day ago
  • Am i an abusive girlfriend?

    Best answer: He’s not wrong for defending himself, and your size does not make you a victim. I know this is a hard lesson, but you need to realize that just because you’re a woman- even a pregnant one- doesn’t give you the right to physically assault someone. Lose the victim complex, and learn to settle your arguments with... show more
    Best answer: He’s not wrong for defending himself, and your size does not make you a victim. I know this is a hard lesson, but you need to realize that just because you’re a woman- even a pregnant one- doesn’t give you the right to physically assault someone.

    Lose the victim complex, and learn to settle your arguments with words, not fists. Learn to be an adult and accept responsibility for your actions.

    What you should do is call him back, show him that you have learned this lesson, explain that you were completely wrong because he was doing self-defense, and tell him that you have learned/realized that you are not a victim just because of your gender, and that nobody- regardless of gender- should EVER punch anyone for ANY reason except direct self defense from actual violence. And tell him that you’ll actively work to change and try your best to NEVER do that again.

    Once you tell him the above, he will most likely take you back but you need to mean it, because if you mess up again... bye
    10 answers · 20 hours ago
  • Im 17 Year old girl who is still a virgin, is that normal?

    Best answer: Your friends have no business telling you what to do and whether to have sex or not. And i wonder why everyone's sex life has to be broadcast all over the place as if it's some great news? People have sex.... or they don't. So what? It's personal, and not sure why it has to be discussed with... show more
    Best answer: Your friends have no business telling you what to do and whether to have sex or not. And i wonder why everyone's sex life has to be broadcast all over the place as if it's some great news? People have sex.... or they don't. So what? It's personal, and not sure why it has to be discussed with everyone else.

    You're not abnormal. And here is the truth -- most men are shitty in bed... it's all about THEM as the rule. You're not missing much.

    I'm not a young person, and believe me, i'm not a virgin. There are only two men i have known in my entire life who were even half worth having sex with, and it was great. The rest? Selfish pigs
    43 answers · 5 days ago
  • What would you do if strangers online tell you to send nudes?

    Best answer: Block
    Best answer: Block
    9 answers · 12 hours ago
  • My boyfriend went and joined the marines, without telling me, so what major life decision can i make that isnt army and etc.?

    i want him to feel what i felt. what can i actually do that will make him feel as left out as me? im talking MAJOR LIFE DECISIONS PEOPLE
    i want him to feel what i felt. what can i actually do that will make him feel as left out as me? im talking MAJOR LIFE DECISIONS PEOPLE
    27 answers · 4 days ago
  • Why do SOME women show off so much on Instagram?

    I’m talking tagging designer clothes, name dropping expensive cars , tagging hotels etc....are they insecure about something or do they just love showing off? Am I right in thinking the proper rich don’t do this?
    I’m talking tagging designer clothes, name dropping expensive cars , tagging hotels etc....are they insecure about something or do they just love showing off? Am I right in thinking the proper rich don’t do this?
    9 answers · 14 hours ago
  • Why do men rape women and girls?

    21 answers · 4 days ago
  • Ever Dated Same Gender?

    Best answer: Of course. I didn't find my gorgeous husband by sitting at home knitting socks.
    Best answer: Of course. I didn't find my gorgeous husband by sitting at home knitting socks.
    11 answers · 2 days ago