• Does the idea of causal sex with a virgin freak guys out?

    I'm 26 years old, still a virgin, and have been really wanting to lose my virginity for over 5 years now. I don't really care about wether I'm in a relationship or not. I would be happy to just have someone to have casual sex with. However, guys frequently reject me and try to discourage me from wanting... show more
    I'm 26 years old, still a virgin, and have been really wanting to lose my virginity for over 5 years now. I don't really care about wether I'm in a relationship or not. I would be happy to just have someone to have casual sex with. However, guys frequently reject me and try to discourage me from wanting sex by telling me that I'll become addicted to sex after I lose my virginity or that I'll get pregnant, yet, they hit on other women that have had sex before. I've even dated two different guys that have discouraged me from wanting to to have sex with them by suggesting we have sex in public. There have also been guys that have told me that they dislike condoms or are allergic to latex. One time, I answered an ad a guy posted on Craigslist for casual sex. I let him know in my response that I was a lonely 26-year-old virgin and that I was feeling undesirable and excluded. He asked me for my number, I gave it to him, and we started texting each other. Then, all of a sudden, possibly in an attempt to scare me, he sent me a picture of his penis so that I could see that he was pretty well-endowed followed by a text saying that I wouldn't be able take it. I told him I could take it, buy he stopped texting me. Is it that guys are freaked out by the idea of having causal sex with a virgin? Or is the male population somehow being convinced to withhold sex from me just so that I'll have to suffer from with prolonged sexual frustration and resent women that are actually getting laid?
    33 answers · 2 days ago
  • I’m starting to get depressed about being single?

    So I’m a 20 year old male and never even come close to dating anyone. I never dated anyone in high school because I thought all the relationships were fake, stupid and just puppy love. But now that I’m getting older being alone is just really starting to get to me I don’t know why. It’s like I want to not care but... show more
    So I’m a 20 year old male and never even come close to dating anyone. I never dated anyone in high school because I thought all the relationships were fake, stupid and just puppy love. But now that I’m getting older being alone is just really starting to get to me I don’t know why. It’s like I want to not care but I just can’t seem to help it. The thing is I have a extremely strong attraction to women as (as in I have a very high sex drive) which I know is normal at this point of my life. But I just get terrified to approach any woman that’s even somewhat good looking because it seems like for women they always have at least dozens of guys on their waiting list as for men like me we have to just get what we get haha. I’m not a bad looking guy for any stretch(at least I don’t think so) I exercise frequently and stay in shape. The point is I just want to experience this whole dating thing just once in my life and maybe I will stop caring about it so much because that’s all I’ve seen to think about lately.
    51 answers · 3 days ago
  • How to prepare for your first time?(losing your virginity)~girls~?

    How can I prepare? Other than having condoms, being ready, etc... Like what should I do to prepare the week of, the day of, the night of, etc...
    How can I prepare? Other than having condoms, being ready, etc... Like what should I do to prepare the week of, the day of, the night of, etc...
    23 answers · 2 days ago
  • I'm in a bad relationship. What do i do?

    6 answers · 9 hours ago
  • Is this normal?

    I've always been attracted to much older men. When I was 16, I was crazy about a geography teacher in his late 30s. Now I'm 25, I like guys in their 40s. Sometimes I'm confused about whether I want a boyfriend or a new dad (ok that sounds weird but I feel as though I want someone to protect and take... show more
    I've always been attracted to much older men. When I was 16, I was crazy about a geography teacher in his late 30s. Now I'm 25, I like guys in their 40s. Sometimes I'm confused about whether I want a boyfriend or a new dad (ok that sounds weird but I feel as though I want someone to protect and take care of me - not financially though). Men my age don't do it for me.  Is this normal?
    19 answers · 2 days ago
  • Can I hang out with you?

    5 answers · 9 hours ago
  • Am I shallow if I refuse to date someone who's not successful?

    I have a college degree and a decent paying job so I want someone who is the same. I once turned down a guy after finding out that he works as a security guard for a living. Am I shallow or just being reasonable?
    I have a college degree and a decent paying job so I want someone who is the same. I once turned down a guy after finding out that he works as a security guard for a living. Am I shallow or just being reasonable?
    20 answers · 2 days ago
  • My boyfriend is not circumcised AT ALL?

    HELP!
    HELP!
    14 answers · 14 hours ago
  • Boring sex with boyfriend?

    So me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 years now. Sex was okay at first, never really mind blowingly good but it was good still and we couldnt get enough of each other for the first year or so. just for a long while I've been feeling bored, we hardly ever try anything new, it's always oral... show more
    So me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 years now. Sex was okay at first, never really mind blowingly good but it was good still and we couldnt get enough of each other for the first year or so. just for a long while I've been feeling bored, we hardly ever try anything new, it's always oral followed by missionary or doggy. I did say something to him and we bought some sex toys and blindfold and handcuffs but they only get used rarely. Even when we do use them he always asks if he can handcuff me and worried they're too tight so he spends ages fiddling with them which is a bit of a mood killer. I know he's never going to be the kind of guy that just throws me on the bed and takes charge, but I just wish he was a bit more confident and dominant in the bedroom. it's got to the point where I just really don't want to have sex anymore because It's just so much effort to try and get aroused when I'm not into it...I worry so much that it stops me from getting wet and then I feel bad because I don't want him to feel like he's doing a bad job or anything and then I feel bad and worry about that some more which just makes it impossible to relax and try and enjoy myself. I do enjoy sex and masturbation btw I'm not asexual or anything which would be causing me to have this problem. I just don't know what to do. I love him so much but this is just becoming a real problem for me and I don't know what to do about it... anyone have any advice please?
    27 answers · 4 days ago
  • Is it childish and delusional to want to find the kind of love that you see in movies or hear about in the most beautiful of love songs?

    Because I'm constantly getting told that it is and I'm getting absolutely slated for wanting to find that and for hoping that one day, I will find it. I also get told, on a regular basis, that I'm "setting myself up for a lot of bitter disappointment" by wanting that.
    Because I'm constantly getting told that it is and I'm getting absolutely slated for wanting to find that and for hoping that one day, I will find it. I also get told, on a regular basis, that I'm "setting myself up for a lot of bitter disappointment" by wanting that.
    32 answers · 4 days ago
  • Is this classed as cheating????? Help me out please?

    So i've been talking to this guy I really liked, and we weren't in a relationship but we were treating it like we were dating. Anyway, on Saturday night we were at a party and he disappeared then I found him kissing another girl. I went up to him and yelled at him and called him a c*nt and then left. He... show more
    So i've been talking to this guy I really liked, and we weren't in a relationship but we were treating it like we were dating. Anyway, on Saturday night we were at a party and he disappeared then I found him kissing another girl. I went up to him and yelled at him and called him a c*nt and then left. He started blowing up my phone saying he's so sorry and how it was a mistake and kept trying to call me. I eventually met up with him to talk about it because he kept begging. He broke down crying and said he doesnt know why he did it and he loves me and stuff, but im so confused like wtf? Is this cheating or not? we weren't OFFICIALLY together but we both told each other we werent talking to other people and acted like a couple.
    12 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why does everyone disapprove of my plan to go on a journey to find a loving beautiful virgin wife ?

    Have you ever wanted something so bad that you would go out of your way to do whatever it takes to attain and achieve your goal ? Im approaching my late 20s i must get married settledown and have children. I am a virgin saving myself for marriage I must find and marry a virgin woman. I must be the first and... show more
    Have you ever wanted something so bad that you would go out of your way to do whatever it takes to attain and achieve your goal ? Im approaching my late 20s i must get married settledown and have children. I am a virgin saving myself for marriage I must find and marry a virgin woman. I must be the first and foremost one and only. I cannot settle for last place or even second. I have as much right to seek and search for a virgin wife much like how some women seek taller good looking high earning men etc The women in my country do not have or offer what I want and seek There are very very few virgins in my country Canada The only way I can think of to accomplish and achieve my goal is to journey to a country in South East Asia in the rural areas of like Japan or Vietnam and live there for a while a year or so to find date and marry the virgin wife I want and target aim for young women age 17-18 high school seniors. Logically that would maximize and give me the highest odds chance of achieving my goal . For this I required a large sum of money to sustain myself while I live in another country so I sold the house my father gave me and I’ve saved up over the years from my pay checks. If your country did not have or had a shortage of jobs food or water would you not leave and go to another country to look for these things ? Likewise this country has a shortage of virgin women age 20+ It only makes sense to search elsewhere where there is an ample plentiful supppy
    15 answers · 2 days ago
  • What are you doing when alone at home?

    What are you doing when you are alone at home? Do you like doing things secretly?
    What are you doing when you are alone at home? Do you like doing things secretly?
    10 answers · 19 hours ago
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    46 answers · 1 week ago
  • Is it wrong for my boyfriend to tell me what to wear?

    Ok, so maybe I’m overreacting... This summer I’ve been really trying to stay healthy and in decent shape by changing my diet and exercise plan. I’m actually pretty proud of how I look considering where I started at. Well I posted a picture of myself in shorts and a sports bra and soon enough I got a pretty upset... show more
    Ok, so maybe I’m overreacting... This summer I’ve been really trying to stay healthy and in decent shape by changing my diet and exercise plan. I’m actually pretty proud of how I look considering where I started at. Well I posted a picture of myself in shorts and a sports bra and soon enough I got a pretty upset message from my boyfriend to say to take it down. He fears that f*ckboys will see it and message me. I tried defending myself saying that I was still covered and I wanted to show off my stomach. Well, we almost broke up because of how it went. The thing is, my boyfriend is following an Instagram page of practically naked girls! He’s liking their pictures and even comments on a couple of them. It’s actually kind of hurting my self esteem. Besides they’re wearing WAY more provocative things than what I wore! Am I overreacting? Is he right perhaps?
    7 answers · 7 hours ago
  • Can you change a bad boy?

    I am just going to be straight out- Basically, I am a 2nd Year Business Student studying Marketing and Law at University. I'm 20 and inexperienced in relationships aside from teen flings over the past few years. This guy is 23 & he basically is a complete bad boy (total opposite of me)- my neighbour.... show more
    I am just going to be straight out- Basically, I am a 2nd Year Business Student studying Marketing and Law at University. I'm 20 and inexperienced in relationships aside from teen flings over the past few years. This guy is 23 & he basically is a complete bad boy (total opposite of me)- my neighbour. {Stole, vandalised, drugs, prison at 17, expelled from school, beats up guys, gets into fights and hangs with the completely wrong gang of people. He was stabbed by people he pissed off last year and almost died! He also encourages his best friend to cheat on his girl and is disrespectful to her when at their house (won't leave when asked to)} He comes from a highly respectable family whose parents are friends with mine. He has ADHD. Why am I attracted?- I feel like he could protect me and keep me safe, everyone is afraid of him. I am very sexually attracted to him. He is the first guy I had sex with which was incredible, he loves me and wants me to have his children. I am his first girlfriend. He has worked before and been 'normal' and I believe he has the potential to do it again. Opinions? Could this work?
    7 answers · 10 hours ago
  • Should I end my life?

    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • Did God take care of the guy I'm dating?

    Best answer: Seems like things took care of themselves. Your guy is pretty fortunate.
    Best answer: Seems like things took care of themselves. Your guy is pretty fortunate.
    7 answers · 13 hours ago