You need to realize- you are the prize, not him. You're the diamond, not him. If he does not want to put in the work and the effort it takes to earn your happiness, and your trust, then he is not the one.
Every man wants a diamond, but not every man deserves one. This man does not respect you as a woman, and...
Best answer: You need to realize- you are the prize, not him. You're the diamond, not him. If he does not want to put in the work and the effort it takes to earn your happiness, and your trust, then he is not the one.
Every man wants a diamond, but not every man deserves one. This man does not respect you as a woman, and does not appreciate having you like he should. He has already demonstrated his lack of respect by throwing a fit that you did not want to have sex, for that is your right since it is your body, don't force him to have to demonstrate it with further violence, perhaps verbal or even physical violence in the future.
You need to remember what you are worth. You're a beautiful and an amazing person, and you are wanted and loved, and you deserve better than to be someone's long term fling. Some day, you will find a man who will love you from head to toe for just being yourself, even on the days where your hair is a mess and you're on the floor dying of laughter over something that happened years ago.
This man is not the one however, and he does not love you. He is controlling and manipulative, and does not appreciate such a diamond as yourself when he has one. I advise breaking up with him over texting, and calling the police if he attempts to come to your house. I would block him on everything once you send the break up text, do not reply to his attempts to win you back or to argue with you over it.
You must understand, this is not just a problem on him being manipulative, but an issue on trust too. He is not protecting you now, he is the source of the pain. How can you trust a man who is already hurting you, to protect you and love you? He's hurting you. Even if you forgive him, you'll never see him the same way again, and by forgiving him, you're giving him permission to hurt you again. "She forgave me last time, she'll forgive me again."
I apologize that you are going through this, I understand how you feel, I've been through it before too. Everything will be okay, the pain will soon recede and you will no longer feel anything for him. There is another man out there who you will some day find and love more than anyone you have before, but this one ain't it. It's time to break up with him.
Best of wishes.
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