• Is my mom being too strict?

    Every week I have to do my laundry, clean my toilet, clean my bathtub, dust the staircase, and clean and vacuum my room. Every day I have to make my bed and wash/put away the dishes. This earns me an allowance of exactly $0.00. She takes away my phone every day when I get back from school until I finish my homework... show more
    Every week I have to do my laundry, clean my toilet, clean my bathtub, dust the staircase, and clean and vacuum my room. Every day I have to make my bed and wash/put away the dishes. This earns me an allowance of exactly $0.00. She takes away my phone every day when I get back from school until I finish my homework and then again at 9:00 at night. She never lets me stay home alone for more than 30 minutes. I'm 13. Please no hate I just want answers.
    10 answers · 5 hours ago
  • Have your parents ever gotten violent towards you?

    I’m a girl and my dad was trying to hit me just now! He was twisting my arms and I could’ve been seriously injured. He has gotten violent towards everyone at home before and broken things. He has seriously injured me before. I want to press charges but I think no one will believe me. Because he lies and gaslights me.
    I’m a girl and my dad was trying to hit me just now! He was twisting my arms and I could’ve been seriously injured. He has gotten violent towards everyone at home before and broken things. He has seriously injured me before. I want to press charges but I think no one will believe me. Because he lies and gaslights me.
    6 answers · 3 hours ago
  • Should I tell my brother that I had sex with his new wife, back before they met?

    I had a "lesbian friends with benefits" with a good friend from high school, for years. Eventually I got into a new relationship then got married. We always stayed close friends and she was in my wedding. She started dating my brother shortly after my wedding. She made me swear not to tell him about our... show more
    I had a "lesbian friends with benefits" with a good friend from high school, for years. Eventually I got into a new relationship then got married. We always stayed close friends and she was in my wedding. She started dating my brother shortly after my wedding. She made me swear not to tell him about our history or how she was bisexual, since my brother is VERY homophobic (he refused to let her go to a gay friends wedding and he doesn t even know I m bisexual). I didn t approve of any of this, but I didn t say anything because I assumed they would never work out. They were ALWAYS fighting and on the verge of breaking up. I thought it would eventually end on its own. Out of nowhere they have eloped, to everyone s surprise, and I feel guilty for having to lie to my brother and keep this huge secret from him. My friend is still refusing to tell him the truth, and I know this would end their marriage for good if he found out. Should I tell my brother? I m torn right now.
    19 answers · 3 days ago
  • HOW TO CONVINCE MY PARENTS TO LET ME GET A TATTOO?

    I really want one!!! if you not going to help don’t even bother.
    I really want one!!! if you not going to help don’t even bother.
    17 answers · 3 days ago
  • What is the point of loving your enemies?

    Best answer: There is none
    Best answer: There is none
    24 answers · 4 days ago
  • I ruined my boyfriend’s birthday!! I don’t know if I should try to make it work or just let him go. He really hurt my feelings!!?

    Best answer: His Mom probably thought the two of you would aid her in getting ready for the party. No crime committed on her part. Nor yours. You don't live together. Your bf threw a tantrum.. that's not actually YOU ruining his bd or anything else. You showed up, you stepped out for previous commitments, and he had a... show more
    Best answer: His Mom probably thought the two of you would aid her in getting ready for the party. No crime committed on her part. Nor yours.
    You don't live together. Your bf threw a tantrum.. that's not actually YOU ruining his bd or anything else. You showed up, you stepped out for previous commitments, and he had a tantrum because he didn't come first on your list of priories. His reaction was rude and demeaning and insulting and he's all about him so he doesn't care. You didn't ruin his birthday, his own attitude did that. Spoiled boy, huh?

    The fact is that he will not come first on your list of priorities for probably 10+ years. You have a daughter who will come first! For years and years yet... she will come first. If your bf is unable to handle that then there is zero point at all in referring to him as "my man" because he's just wandering through causing havoc. Leave him alone.
    7 answers · 8 hours ago
  • Mom comes over too much?

    What do you do when your mom (new grandma ) comes over too much ? I cannot tell her bc it would hurt her feelings and this week she has stopped by about 4 days in a row . I love my mom and glad she loves my baby but idk I guess I need some space ? She also watched her the other day for two hours then came over the... show more
    What do you do when your mom (new grandma ) comes over too much ? I cannot tell her bc it would hurt her feelings and this week she has stopped by about 4 days in a row . I love my mom and glad she loves my baby but idk I guess I need some space ? She also watched her the other day for two hours then came over the next day on her lunch hour and she asks me for a baby photo every day . Then my babies other grandma doesn’t see her enough , idk what I should do ??????
    10 answers · 2 days ago
  • Do people who wear glasses "do it" whist wearing them or not?

    Best answer: my men take their glasses off
    especially when they are doing cunnilingus
    Best answer: my men take their glasses off
    especially when they are doing cunnilingus
    27 answers · 6 days ago
  • I miss my step dad so much?

    Best answer: Let your mother know how you feel.
    Best answer: Let your mother know how you feel.
    6 answers · 1 day ago
  • Should I be mad at my roommate for getting me sick?

    Shes had a bad cold for the past few days. Shes been laying on the couch everyone else uses. And shes just been all over the play spreading germs, anyway, I start my new job, on monday, and it's in a crab processing plant, were I absolutely cant vome in sick. Anyway, i just came down with a sore throat, and a... show more
    Shes had a bad cold for the past few days. Shes been laying on the couch everyone else uses. And shes just been all over the play spreading germs, anyway, I start my new job, on monday, and it's in a crab processing plant, were I absolutely cant vome in sick. Anyway, i just came down with a sore throat, and a stuffy nose. I gonna have to call in sick on my first day. I know she didnt intentionally get me sick, but I feel like she could have been more cautious, like rest in her own bed, and try as little as possible to touch things everyone else touches.
    6 answers · 19 hours ago
  • Do fathers still use a belt to spank?

    Best answer: If they do, its abuse.
    Best answer: If they do, its abuse.
    7 answers · 2 days ago
  • Would you date someone who never wanted to meet your family?

    Best answer: Nope, he obviously has some very serious issues stemming from his past that he has not gotten over. It's time to move on, since it doesn't get better from here.
    Best answer: Nope, he obviously has some very serious issues stemming from his past that he has not gotten over. It's time to move on, since it doesn't get better from here.
    7 answers · 3 days ago
  • Been seeing this guy for about a month and my hormones are raging ...?

    Best answer: What's stopping you? If you're both ready, go for it!
    Best answer: What's stopping you? If you're both ready, go for it!
    7 answers · 3 days ago
  • It's going everything wrong because of her past assault, she can't let it go. How can I help her, she has suicidal thoughts?

    Best answer: She's 20. Working on developing her adult brain. I suggest it is time your gf went into therapy. The Woman's Crisis Center in your town likely could recommend someone to her if SHE called them. You are not a licensed therapist or an expert rape/trauma counselor. You can listen.... but she needs the aid and... show more
    Best answer: She's 20. Working on developing her adult brain. I suggest it is time your gf went into therapy. The Woman's Crisis Center in your town likely could recommend someone to her if SHE called them. You are not a licensed therapist or an expert rape/trauma counselor. You can listen.... but she needs the aid and assistance of experts.

    She's not ready for a sexual relationship with you. Best you put that away. We all need love .. starts with loving ourselves and she's not there yet. Everything in our lives can change enormously when we learn to really love ourselves. Please encourage her to go into therapy for the huge trauma she's experienced and held on to.
    4 answers · 1 day ago