• Should I tell my brother that I had sex with his new wife, back before they met?

    I had a "lesbian friends with benefits" with a good friend from high school, for years. Eventually I got into a new relationship then got married. We always stayed close friends and she was in my wedding. She started dating my brother shortly after my wedding. She made me swear not to tell him about our... show more
    I had a "lesbian friends with benefits" with a good friend from high school, for years. Eventually I got into a new relationship then got married. We always stayed close friends and she was in my wedding. She started dating my brother shortly after my wedding. She made me swear not to tell him about our history or how she was bisexual, since my brother is VERY homophobic (he refused to let her go to a gay friends wedding and he doesn t even know I m bisexual). I didn t approve of any of this, but I didn t say anything because I assumed they would never work out. They were ALWAYS fighting and on the verge of breaking up. I thought it would eventually end on its own. Out of nowhere they have eloped, to everyone s surprise, and I feel guilty for having to lie to my brother and keep this huge secret from him. My friend is still refusing to tell him the truth, and I know this would end their marriage for good if he found out. Should I tell my brother? I m torn right now.
    14 answers · 2 days ago
  • What is the point of loving your enemies?

    Best answer: There is none
    Best answer: There is none
    23 answers · 4 days ago
  • My boyfriend doesn't care about my nudes?

    Best answer: That is tragical
    I suggest you have him do cunnilingus on you one last time and then dump him
    Best answer: That is tragical
    I suggest you have him do cunnilingus on you one last time and then dump him
    9 answers · 16 hours ago
  • HOW TO CONVINCE MY PARENTS TO LET ME GET A TATTOO?

    I really want one!!! if you not going to help don’t even bother.
    I really want one!!! if you not going to help don’t even bother.
    14 answers · 2 days ago
  • Mom comes over too much?

    What do you do when your mom (new grandma ) comes over too much ? I cannot tell her bc it would hurt her feelings and this week she has stopped by about 4 days in a row . I love my mom and glad she loves my baby but idk I guess I need some space ? She also watched her the other day for two hours then came over the... show more
    What do you do when your mom (new grandma ) comes over too much ? I cannot tell her bc it would hurt her feelings and this week she has stopped by about 4 days in a row . I love my mom and glad she loves my baby but idk I guess I need some space ? She also watched her the other day for two hours then came over the next day on her lunch hour and she asks me for a baby photo every day . Then my babies other grandma doesn’t see her enough , idk what I should do ??????
    10 answers · 2 days ago
  • Do people who wear glasses "do it" whist wearing them or not?

    Best answer: my men take their glasses off
    especially when they are doing cunnilingus
    Best answer: my men take their glasses off
    especially when they are doing cunnilingus
    27 answers · 5 days ago
  • Do fathers still use a belt to spank?

    Best answer: If they do, its abuse.
    Best answer: If they do, its abuse.
    7 answers · 2 days ago
  • Would you date someone who never wanted to meet your family?

    Best answer: Nope, he obviously has some very serious issues stemming from his past that he has not gotten over. It's time to move on, since it doesn't get better from here.
    Best answer: Nope, he obviously has some very serious issues stemming from his past that he has not gotten over. It's time to move on, since it doesn't get better from here.
    7 answers · 2 days ago
  • I miss my step dad so much?

    i cant deal with it anymore, i know my mum wont get back together with him cuz he cheated on her but i miss him so much i feel like my life is completely ruined :((( how can i convince her to get back together with him. i know u probably think im stupid but no one understands i had such a great bond with him, i... show more
    i cant deal with it anymore, i know my mum wont get back together with him cuz he cheated on her but i miss him so much i feel like my life is completely ruined :((( how can i convince her to get back together with him. i know u probably think im stupid but no one understands i had such a great bond with him, i feel like im grieving now for someone that has died :( i cant get over it
    5 answers · 16 hours ago
  • Why do today's therapists turn patients against their own families?

    I have a daughter (in her 40's) and grand daughter (I her 20's) who have both visited a therapist. After a time, the therapist seems to have brain washed them into turning against their own family members for no reason at all. My family has been turned upside down by this and in constant turmoil over... show more
    I have a daughter (in her 40's) and grand daughter (I her 20's) who have both visited a therapist. After a time, the therapist seems to have brain washed them into turning against their own family members for no reason at all. My family has been turned upside down by this and in constant turmoil over B.S., lies and made up excuses towards family members. When will this all end?
    21 answers · 1 week ago
  • How do I say this to my daughter grandmother without being rude ?

    My daughter grandmother (her dads mother) always take my 4 year old daughter hair styles out that I put in for her every time my daughter Leaves to stay over her house every other weekend. I use to think that her GM was doing me a favor by doing my daughter hair for me until I noticed that even when it’s freshly... show more
    My daughter grandmother (her dads mother) always take my 4 year old daughter hair styles out that I put in for her every time my daughter Leaves to stay over her house every other weekend. I use to think that her GM was doing me a favor by doing my daughter hair for me until I noticed that even when it’s freshly done she would still take it out and style my daughter hair the way ‘she wanted’ my daughter hair to look which really offends me now. She keeps putting it in a style that I said once before I never liked bc it tangles my daughter hair. My daughter leaves today to stay with her GM for a weekend and I want to tell her not to change the style of my daughter hair. I want her to know that she can REDO her hair in the SAME STYLE of my daughter hair starts to look messy but I don’t want her to take it out of that style that I put it in bc I like my daughter hair the way that I style it
    6 answers · 2 days ago
  • How to react to my boyfriends 6 month old child issues?

    Me and boyfriend have been together over a year and have lived together at least 9 months. He recently had to take a paternity test for a child that is 6 months old and it came up that he is the father. He was only with this woman a few times and had really hoped upon getting the papers that it wasn’t his because... show more
    Me and boyfriend have been together over a year and have lived together at least 9 months. He recently had to take a paternity test for a child that is 6 months old and it came up that he is the father. He was only with this woman a few times and had really hoped upon getting the papers that it wasn’t his because he really hated how he had seen her treat her four year old. He has decided he wants to take part in this child’s life. I am trying to be supportive but I kind of just saw our future that we had planned (getting married, having our own kids, moving daw away for better jobs once I finish school, etc) die. I do realize he still loves me and all of these things can still happen but I just feel this sadness creeping up on me that everything will be different because I will always have another woman dictating how my life goes. I also do feel excited to be a stepmom (but I think this may be me feeling more like a mom than I really am, and research says that’s not okay.) My boyfriend thinks that due to his relationship with the mother, when he tries contacting her and if she agrees to let him meet the child, one of his sisters should go with him instead. This hurt my feelings because I feel that I am taking on the second largest role in the child’s life on his side. Does anyone think this would be the right thing or should I be introduced right off the bat as someone of importance? This is an emotional roller coaster for me and any advice would be awesome.
    6 answers · 2 days ago
  • Very religious mom?

    I’m twenty years old, still live at home, and am going to a local college. My mom is extremely religious. She is always lecturing me about how I don’t go to church with her, choose not to fast, have a boyfriend who’s not Christian. I feel like she doesn’t even see the hard working, kind, person I always strive to... show more
    I’m twenty years old, still live at home, and am going to a local college. My mom is extremely religious. She is always lecturing me about how I don’t go to church with her, choose not to fast, have a boyfriend who’s not Christian. I feel like she doesn’t even see the hard working, kind, person I always strive to be. I help around the house, abide by her 10:30pm curfew, and make sure all my chores are done around the house, but her always being focused on saving me is getting to the point where I’m thinking of moving out. Thoughts?
    6 answers · 2 days ago
  • Been seeing this guy for about a month and my hormones are raging ...?

    Best answer: What's stopping you? If you're both ready, go for it!
    Best answer: What's stopping you? If you're both ready, go for it!
    6 answers · 2 days ago