• Why have I started thinking about this girl I could have married 15 years ago, but I chose a different path, married someone else?

    I have a family, anyway... would I be a prick if I just looked her up?
    I have a family, anyway... would I be a prick if I just looked her up?
    30 answers · 1 day ago
  • Bored in the bedroom.?

    Hello everyone, My wife who I love so much just had a baby 8 months ago her body change and no energy thru out the day. I don t care about the way her body looks I still love her and still see her attractive since the day I meet her. lately the bedroom fire had died out. No excitement no fun nothing. We just... show more
    Hello everyone, My wife who I love so much just had a baby 8 months ago her body change and no energy thru out the day. I don t care about the way her body looks I still love her and still see her attractive since the day I meet her. lately the bedroom fire had died out. No excitement no fun nothing. We just stick to the same moves. I m on top,she s on top,I m behind. And that s it. I am a bit freaky and try to tell her lets do this let s do that and it always get shut down. I tell her let s go to the naughty store and she said u go u buy it. It s a partnership and I want her to be the level I am. Like I said I love my wife from the bottom of my heart and it will never change. Just wish the bedroom can be exciting like I want it to be. Am I wrong? Need answer or tips. Any body have ideas. What should we do what should be brought into the bed room toys books machines don t care just need answers.
    22 answers · 1 day ago
  • Do husbands deserve a right to have sex with their wives whenever they please?

    This is now a trending topic in my country after a minister said that a 'denying a husband sex is abuse'. Obviously that's nonsense and infringes on the right of the wife to personal freedom and choice. But it got me thinking, how would it be possible for both the parties to reach a mutual agreement... show more
    This is now a trending topic in my country after a minister said that a 'denying a husband sex is abuse'. Obviously that's nonsense and infringes on the right of the wife to personal freedom and choice. But it got me thinking, how would it be possible for both the parties to reach a mutual agreement in a situation like this? If you're in an Asian society, then divorce won't be the answer simply because losing a lot of things because of sex doesn't seem like a good bargain. I think that the wife should allow the husband to have a healthy sex life with a third party. She's obviously no longer interested in sex, but why deprive him of sex? Perhaps she could make some rules, like "The woman must be a total stranger" or "This must be kept a secret", but ultimately allow him some freedom.
    24 answers · 1 day ago
  • Made neighbor pregnant by accident...?

    Best answer: Of course it's not your fault. Your wife is the one responsible and the neighbor was her accomplice. If you have any compassion, you may want to give her (both) a second chance. Are you man enough to do that?
    Best answer: Of course it's not your fault. Your wife is the one responsible and the neighbor was her accomplice. If you have any compassion, you may want to give her (both) a second chance. Are you man enough to do that?
    22 answers · 1 day ago
  • Should I put my foot down on my wife wanting to name our firstborn after her deceased husband? I don't want her to get mad but I don't like?

    Best answer: She got balls for even suggesting that! that is a 100% no. put both feet down!
    Best answer: She got balls for even suggesting that! that is a 100% no. put both feet down!
    29 answers · 1 day ago
  • How much money should I take from husband?

    I am 7 months pregnant and have a toddler with my husband, I won t get to much into why I want a divorce but it has been a number of things he has done to cause the marriage breakdown including physical violence. I can t be bothered with a divorce battle because of my children so want to make a agreement with him.... show more
    I am 7 months pregnant and have a toddler with my husband, I won t get to much into why I want a divorce but it has been a number of things he has done to cause the marriage breakdown including physical violence. I can t be bothered with a divorce battle because of my children so want to make a agreement with him. He will be paying child maintenance but I also have asked for a lump sum of his money (it s inherited from his dad) he has £80000 and will also have a lot more inheritance coming in the future (will be after we are divorced). I want to ask for £30000 but don t know if it s fair, I will have to pay rent etc on a property and won t be able to work until my child yet to be born is 2. Any views on what amount I should get?
    28 answers · 2 days ago
  • Men always pretend they protect women so why is the spouse the most dangerous man to a woman?

    not to mention that marriages end 7 times more when the wife gets cancer than when the husband does. Doesn't this put a hole in the theory men protect women?
    not to mention that marriages end 7 times more when the wife gets cancer than when the husband does. Doesn't this put a hole in the theory men protect women?
    16 answers · 1 day ago
  • Does a christian woman have the right to slap her husband?

    Best answer: She has the right of self-defense...... but to just slap in anger... that is not permitted for either wife or husband.....
    Best answer: She has the right of self-defense...... but to just slap in anger... that is not permitted for either wife or husband.....
    26 answers · 1 day ago
  • Girlfriend wants marriage and I want a prenup? Why is that considered an issue?

    I'm sure there are others in my position and no I am not planning for divorce. I am 30 and she is 34. I don't like the concept of marriage because it creates problems where there aren't, but I'm willing to go for it. I broke up with previous girlfriends for the same thing, but I'm willing to do... show more
    I'm sure there are others in my position and no I am not planning for divorce. I am 30 and she is 34. I don't like the concept of marriage because it creates problems where there aren't, but I'm willing to go for it. I broke up with previous girlfriends for the same thing, but I'm willing to do it for her. The problem I see is the following - She earns 40k and I earn 150k. I have properties from the parents in the US and Europe. I first met her 7 years ago and we dated on and off for a while, and it's not a trust thing. It's just that one cannot predict the future and no one can predict how an angry or bitter woman can act. She has gone nuts when I asked her for the prenup and her friends and family think it's not right what I want.
    24 answers · 1 day ago
  • Are married people allowed to have friends of the opposite sex?

    Since I worked for a boss that sexually harassed me a few mos ago, my husband has rapidly gone nuts. I have always preferred male friends to female friends and have always talked to people. Recently, he hacked my Facebook and went through messages from mos ago where an old friend started talking dirty to me... show more
    Since I worked for a boss that sexually harassed me a few mos ago, my husband has rapidly gone nuts. I have always preferred male friends to female friends and have always talked to people. Recently, he hacked my Facebook and went through messages from mos ago where an old friend started talking dirty to me (unsolicited). He sent screen shots to my mom so she could "know what a piece of **** her daughter is" and also wrote the man and threatened his life and cursed him for speaking to me. He did this 4 years ago to an ex boyfriend who hung out with me out of town. He goes through my phone and demands he sees all texts from males and females and is convinced my mom is fixing me up with guys (my mom does purposely stir the pot by lying to him about me talking to guys). Is this normal?
    20 answers · 20 hours ago
  • My wife will not initiate sex.?

    We've been married for five years now we have two small children. I'm 30 and my wife is 39. I'm in the military and my wife stays at home with our children. In the beginning it was ok but now it's just getting annoying. I feel like I'm begging her most of the time and she makes me feel like a... show more
    We've been married for five years now we have two small children. I'm 30 and my wife is 39. I'm in the military and my wife stays at home with our children. In the beginning it was ok but now it's just getting annoying. I feel like I'm begging her most of the time and she makes me feel like a pervert for even trying sometimes. I've brought this up the past few years and even recently about a month ago. She will "attempt" to initiate sex but that only last for about a day. This is starting to make me feel like I'm undesired and unwanted especially since my children get most of her attention. Does anyone here have any suggestions.
    14 answers · 8 hours ago
  • I'm a horrible wife please help me?

    Last year my husband and I married of 2 years went through a miscarriage (blighted ovum) baby just stopped growing and as a given we were both highly devistated. We continued trying to have another one but with us in no protection what so ever it just wasn't happening. I ended up having an affair.. a one time... show more
    Last year my husband and I married of 2 years went through a miscarriage (blighted ovum) baby just stopped growing and as a given we were both highly devistated. We continued trying to have another one but with us in no protection what so ever it just wasn't happening. I ended up having an affair.. a one time thing with a man who I am now pregnant by. My husband and some family knows of the pregnancy by has no clue that the baby could be any one else's. I'm considering going in and getting the abortion pill and playing it off as a miscarriage.. but I know his heart will be completely broken . I'm hurting so bad and it's horrible to think of my own feelings but I already have a child with the other man so there is no playing it off if the baby comes out looking like my first son. I'm so torn and in great need of advice..
    7 answers · 1 day ago
  • Thinking of getting a divorce?

    I want out of my marriage. My husband and I have been together for 3 years and married 2 i don't think this is something I should continue When we got together we set goals and made plans and things are not going as planned. I know for sure if I wasn't with him I would be further in life than I am I believe... show more
    I want out of my marriage. My husband and I have been together for 3 years and married 2 i don't think this is something I should continue When we got together we set goals and made plans and things are not going as planned. I know for sure if I wasn't with him I would be further in life than I am I believe he's holding me back from my full potential and doesn't want the same things I want in life. I want to end it but I don't want to hurt him.... please give feedback
    11 answers · 2 days ago
  • Would you prefer marrying someone of same race?

    I'm mulatto. I was not racist before but after falling for an openly racist Indian guy I realize that I'm better off sticking to my own race(s). Such as black or mulatto. I used to want an Indian guy but I realize just how racist their culture is and a lot of other races aside from black are racist and look... show more
    I'm mulatto. I was not racist before but after falling for an openly racist Indian guy I realize that I'm better off sticking to my own race(s). Such as black or mulatto. I used to want an Indian guy but I realize just how racist their culture is and a lot of other races aside from black are racist and look down on black people. I never believed most people were actually racist in thwir personal lives but now its clear as day. I don't want to fall for another race guy again and have to find out he looks down on me for being black or wishes I was a higher up race like white or Hispanic anything but black.
    13 answers · 14 hours ago
  • My husbands brother just passed away. He was a widower and has a 4 year old son. My brother in law was the only family my husband had and?

    Vice Versace. My husband wants to adopt his nephew, but I don't want that responsibility now. My job is going great, I have a great social life and a kid would be a big damper on my life. How do I convince my husband to send his nephew to a foster family
    Vice Versace. My husband wants to adopt his nephew, but I don't want that responsibility now. My job is going great, I have a great social life and a kid would be a big damper on my life. How do I convince my husband to send his nephew to a foster family
    15 answers · 1 day ago
  • My wife wants to be in touch with the guy in her office she had feelings.?

    My wife wants to be in touch with the guy in her office she had feelings. Even the guy had same for her She still has a attraction towards him She is happy when he is around Even she cooks food for him too... And listen to his words than mine.... I am aware of the fact before my marriage and was ok with the... show more
    My wife wants to be in touch with the guy in her office she had feelings. Even the guy had same for her She still has a attraction towards him She is happy when he is around Even she cooks food for him too... And listen to his words than mine.... I am aware of the fact before my marriage and was ok with the fact Problem is the guy sometimes get fever or would not eat for days if there is any worry by him for my wife and my wife dosent want to hurt him and takes care of him. I truly trust her and love her to my core She wants him also to be part of our life and stay connected We had fights but the end was she wanted to still be in touch with him and continue to do things for him. My question is should I worry? If I force her to quit her job it will hurt her that I doubt her what I should do? I am of the opinion a wife is to be trusted and loved not doubted but will I loose her if i don't raise my eyebrows? M married for 25 days today And don't want to loose the gal I love ❤ but also don't want to force a relationship on her...
    22 answers · 3 days ago
  • My wife is angry after I hung up to take a work-related phone call.?

    I work as a teacher in China, while my wife and kids are in Manila. We use video chat and messaging all day long when I m not working. The other night I got a message from my school s recruiter. She asked if I could speak to another English teacher that was thinking about working where I do. She wanted my... show more
    I work as a teacher in China, while my wife and kids are in Manila. We use video chat and messaging all day long when I m not working. The other night I got a message from my school s recruiter. She asked if I could speak to another English teacher that was thinking about working where I do. She wanted my opinion about the place, the staff, etc. I said no problem. While waiting for that, my wife opened a video call with me. While watching/taking with my wife, I got a pop up message, "That teacher is ready to ask you questions now." I politely asked my wife "Honey, can I call you back in a few minutes, I need to answer some questions about my school for another teacher?" She asked me "Who is asking you?" I told her the recruiter s name and "the one that hired me." "Ok". So I ended the video call and spent 15 minutes answering questions for the new teacher. When it was done, I had a lot of questions from my wife. "Who was that again? Is she more important than me?" I told her exactly what I ve said here, over and over again..."It was a different teacher, asking my opinions. I asked you, before I hung up, if it was ok, and if I call you back" (I repeated this over and over again). My wife said that she feels neglected, that I cared more about that other woman than her (I have all the screen shots from the conversation so anyone can see it s all completely professional). Is my wife over-reacting or am an idiot that can t see what I ve done wrong?
    11 answers · 9 hours ago
  • Im worried about his bachelor party...?

    Best answer: Voice of experience here at 40 years old. This is a red flag situation. Do not marry this man. This is not true love. This is not respect. He's showing you who he is. You need to open your eyes and forget about needing the big fancy wedding to impress friends you won't even know ten years from now. If you... show more
    Best answer: Voice of experience here at 40 years old. This is a red flag situation. Do not marry this man. This is not true love. This is not respect. He's showing you who he is. You need to open your eyes and forget about needing the big fancy wedding to impress friends you won't even know ten years from now. If you trust him you're a fool. If you go ahead anyway, do not cry and play victim when he's flirting online or cheating on you after you've had two kids, your *** expands and he's bored, feeling trapped. You are responsible for your choices. You're 29 for God's sake. You've got time to date and meet others that want what you do. He's not ready. He's not in love with you. Read that last sentence over and over and over again until it sinks in. Now, is that what you feel you deserve? Make the right choice. Respect yourself and own it. Oh, and if you insist on going down this path doomed for misery, don't be so selfish as to bring children into it. Please. There's enough broken homes already.
    49 answers · 5 days ago
  • My husband cheated.....why do men cheat on their wifes when things are good?

    my husband cheated and didn't have a reason to why he cheated except that he has a addiction to porno & he use to be a player before he met me. Now he is begging for me not to leave. I just don't understand him: we have been married for 2 1/2 years & we have great communication & find lots of... show more
    my husband cheated and didn't have a reason to why he cheated except that he has a addiction to porno & he use to be a player before he met me. Now he is begging for me not to leave. I just don't understand him: we have been married for 2 1/2 years & we have great communication & find lots of quality time together. I am the one who asks to make love every night and many times get turned down. I'm 8 years younger than him. He always tells asks me how I chose him when I could have gone with way better looks. And I tell him it is not all about the looks but the heart
    23 answers · 2 days ago