• I love my husband but the sex isn’t good?

    It just doesn’t feel good. I’m not talking about the size. His size is average, he could make me feel good but he’s very lazy and isn’t open about different positions. I want it hard and fast but he can’t keep up. He run out of energy to fast. I want to cheat but I’m holding myself back because I don’t want to hurt... show more
    It just doesn’t feel good. I’m not talking about the size. His size is average, he could make me feel good but he’s very lazy and isn’t open about different positions. I want it hard and fast but he can’t keep up. He run out of energy to fast. I want to cheat but I’m holding myself back because I don’t want to hurt him. What do I do? I’m frustrated, moody and angry. How do I release this tension?
    40 answers · 2 days ago
  • Why won’t my boyfriend propose to me ?

    We have been together for 4 years, lived together for 3 years. Purchase a home together and raised a puppy together. Our relationship is great - balanced, fair, fun, loyal, spontaneous, loving, caring, supportive.. everything I’ve ever wanted. We are each other’s best friend. We just went on a trip of a lifetime... show more
    We have been together for 4 years, lived together for 3 years. Purchase a home together and raised a puppy together. Our relationship is great - balanced, fair, fun, loyal, spontaneous, loving, caring, supportive.. everything I’ve ever wanted. We are each other’s best friend. We just went on a trip of a lifetime and I thought he’d propose as it was beautiful there and a ton of photo opportunities. And we live in a very cold state which is terrible this time of year and not romantic or photogenic. He wants to be married and have kids one day.. I’m sick of waiting. I’m sick of being asked by everyone around me if he’s proposed yet. I’m sick of the constant reminder that we are the last of our friends to get married even though we’ve been together the longest. Money isn’t the issue, we both make great money. We’ve talked about engagement so many times and I’m in tears currently because we are now home from our trip and I’m still not engaged. We are 25 almost 26 and I have a maternal clock and want to enjoy every step of the way but also have kids before I’m 30. I love him but am angry and sad at this point and want a proper commitment. Why won’t he propose? Am I doing anything wrong? At what point do I give up or give an ultimatum?
    40 answers · 2 days ago
  • My son tells me he doesn't want to get married and live "Normal life". Please help!?

    So my son is 25 and graduated with a finance degree. I asked what his plans are and he says his work plans and then he talks about how he wants to donate sperm and never get married because of the laws. Should i be worried?
    So my son is 25 and graduated with a finance degree. I asked what his plans are and he says his work plans and then he talks about how he wants to donate sperm and never get married because of the laws. Should i be worried?
    31 answers · 2 days ago
  • My new girlfriend told me she loses respect for men when they treat her too good and don't beat her when she deserves it, what should I do?

    Best answer: She definitely has issues...
    Best answer: She definitely has issues...
    18 answers · 13 hours ago
  • !!Situation with my Mother and Husband!!?

    !!Situation with my Mother and Husband!!?

    Best answer: u cant allow mom to stop u two from going on vacation,tell her to stay at some other relative till u get back,this is selfish of her and unfair to u and hubby,boundaries,Keep in mind that it hurts her when things don't go her way but she will always forgive you. you want to find your own path and make your own... show more
    Best answer: u cant allow mom to stop u two from going on vacation,tell her to stay at some other relative till u get back,this is selfish of her and unfair to u and hubby,boundaries,Keep in mind that it hurts her when things don't go her way but she will always forgive you. you want to find your own path and make your own choices.as a couple mom has to realize u 2 have a life...Sometimes you just have to be polite and direct.
    22 answers · 2 days ago
  • My husband checks out women in front of me?

    When my husband and I are out and about I literally catch him taking his eyes up and down on other women. He does it right in front of me. I also caught him in August up through the night leaving our bed to watch porn on his cell phone! I don't get it, we're sexually active together 3+ times a week and... show more
    When my husband and I are out and about I literally catch him taking his eyes up and down on other women. He does it right in front of me. I also caught him in August up through the night leaving our bed to watch porn on his cell phone! I don't get it, we're sexually active together 3+ times a week and I'm pregnant with his second child. Has anyone else ever dealt with this?
    15 answers · 12 hours ago
  • What's the first thing you would do if you caught your partner in bed with someone else?

    Best answer: Kick him out.
    Best answer: Kick him out.
    41 answers · 4 days ago
  • Dating: Should religion be addressed?

    Best answer: Since neither of you go to church and neither of you maintain a strong religious presence in your lives and neither of you care that the other person has a different "preference" that doesn't manifest in your lives.... there are likely spiritual and social and moral vales that you do share and that... show more
    Best answer: Since neither of you go to church and neither of you maintain a strong religious presence in your lives and neither of you care that the other person has a different "preference" that doesn't manifest in your lives.... there are likely spiritual and social and moral vales that you do share and that are important to you both. It is essential that you have this conversation with your bf since you have discussed marriage. Pre-deciding in a religion to raise the children in when neither of you actively participate in any religion WITHOUT a mutually agreed upon procedure and space in your lives for this is not the sort of thinking that works in a marriage.

    I suggest you give this dating one more year before you talk about getting married to each other. You aren't thinking like half of a partnership yet at all. Give this another year.
    14 answers · 18 hours ago
  • Bedrooms for kids?

    My husband and I are looking into buying a new home since the birth of our 4th child. We are a blended family of six. He has a boy 7 and girl 10. I have a boy 6. He has split custody and I have mine practically full time. He wants to buy a four bedroom where the two oldest get their own room then the two youngest... show more
    My husband and I are looking into buying a new home since the birth of our 4th child. We are a blended family of six. He has a boy 7 and girl 10. I have a boy 6. He has split custody and I have mine practically full time. He wants to buy a four bedroom where the two oldest get their own room then the two youngest have to share a room. I told him it is not fair when they are only with us every 2 or 3 days. Maybe we should look a five bedroom since we can not come up with an agreement. Any suggests to help with our disagreement?
    13 answers · 15 hours ago
  • Married women: Is it okay to have an very attractive guy friend over? read more?

    So my husband is away working out of the country and he has met my coworker. Let's call him Bill. Bill wants to hangout at my place tomorrow and he will order a pizza. Now...I'm very attracted to Bill. I get warm butterfly feelings around Bill. I never told my husband this. He doesn't need to know. I... show more
    So my husband is away working out of the country and he has met my coworker. Let's call him Bill. Bill wants to hangout at my place tomorrow and he will order a pizza. Now...I'm very attracted to Bill. I get warm butterfly feelings around Bill. I never told my husband this. He doesn't need to know. I asked my husband if it was okay if Bill comes over for lunch and he said it was I do feel temptation around Bill and have thoughts of making out and maybe...more with Bill. anyway should I still let him come over knowing that? Would it be rude declining his invitation? Have you ladies been through this?
    15 answers · 23 hours ago
  • Should I trust this guy I’m talking to ?

    Best answer: I don't know. I'd say that it's very possible you'll be another single mother after a few years, and he'll be onto the next one. There's guys out there with nobody. At all. Like half of them.
    Best answer: I don't know. I'd say that it's very possible you'll be another single mother after a few years, and he'll be onto the next one. There's guys out there with nobody. At all. Like half of them.
    14 answers · 1 day ago
  • I’m married to an Arab man, and I’m a white woman. We’re trying to get pregnant.?

    I’m a white woman and my husband is Arab and he’s not too dark but not too light either and we were just wondering what our kid would look like. We he look more like me or like my husband as far as color pigment? Thanks just very curious.
    I’m a white woman and my husband is Arab and he’s not too dark but not too light either and we were just wondering what our kid would look like. We he look more like me or like my husband as far as color pigment? Thanks just very curious.
    10 answers · 8 hours ago
  • My husband wants me to be more social?

    I could stay in the house for a year without speaking to anyone and would be okay with it. I enjoy my husband being around but if he wants to take off I am fine with him doing it without me since I don't care for the company of others. He, on the other hand is much more social. If we get invited to party I... show more
    I could stay in the house for a year without speaking to anyone and would be okay with it. I enjoy my husband being around but if he wants to take off I am fine with him doing it without me since I don't care for the company of others. He, on the other hand is much more social. If we get invited to party I prefer to stay home. I go to church but only to the service but he wants to hand out with people there. We have similar interests like the gym and outdoors but when it comes to people, I tend to not have interest in mingling, while he does. Insight please.
    15 answers · 2 days ago
  • Do I not have the right to know who text him?

    Some 4 or 5 years ago I found out that my husband had cheated on me with a girl he met online. He said it was one time and we went to several counselors to get past it. Even though I was able to handle it I'm not fully over it. Today he comes home from work and while in the kitchen fixing dinner he gets a... show more
    Some 4 or 5 years ago I found out that my husband had cheated on me with a girl he met online. He said it was one time and we went to several counselors to get past it. Even though I was able to handle it I'm not fully over it. Today he comes home from work and while in the kitchen fixing dinner he gets a text message on his phone. It wasn't from one of his friends because he has an app on his phone that announces who is texting. This text message just spoke the number. I was standing there and heard it so I looked at him. He had his back turned to me and then he walked and grabbed his phone. Checked the message and put the phone down. My next question to him was, "oh, so we're going to start this again?" He looks at me and gets angry because he said I was bringing up 5 year old drama for no reason. We argue for about 20 minutes because he wouldn't tell me who it was who text him. He then said something that really angered me. For a few weeks now we've been planning to go on another cruise and he was going to pay the deposit in a few weeks to lock in our price. He told me that we I forget the cruise because he wasn't about to pay anything when I still felt like he was up to no good. I've been looking forward to going on this vacation but I can't seem to get past knowing who it was that text him. He said that after several counselors and 5 years of nothing I should be to the point to where he could get a text from a non contact and I not worry about it.
    12 answers · 1 day ago