• Should I leave my wife?

    Best answer: That’s sad I’m very sorry
    Best answer: That’s sad I’m very sorry
    47 answers · 2 days ago
  • Husband won't let me take one day off from work?

    I never ever take off from work. That's the problem. I am exhausted and I just need a break. No matter how much I cry and plead, my husband shows no mercy. He keeps saying we'll go to bed early and we need every dime to pay bills. We both have good jobs. I make 12 an hour and he's an Electrician and... show more
    I never ever take off from work. That's the problem. I am exhausted and I just need a break. No matter how much I cry and plead, my husband shows no mercy. He keeps saying we'll go to bed early and we need every dime to pay bills. We both have good jobs. I make 12 an hour and he's an Electrician and makes good money. I only have ever taken off for doctors appointments only. I'm only asking for one day. Is he being mean and selfish or am I being selfish? I feel like sometimes with this his cares more about the money than my health. I feel like he's become obsessed with us working. What to do?
    16 answers · 9 hours ago
  • Was I wrong to bring up to my husband that I know he masturbated this morning?

    My husband and I are in our late 40s and have been married about 8 years, together about 15 years. Sex life is ok but there are times when weeks go by and we don't do anything. I leave for work before him in the mornings and he usually leaves about an hour later. He works 10 hour days so it's late when... show more
    My husband and I are in our late 40s and have been married about 8 years, together about 15 years. Sex life is ok but there are times when weeks go by and we don't do anything. I leave for work before him in the mornings and he usually leaves about an hour later. He works 10 hour days so it's late when he gets home. J just got home from work and noticed a crusty towel on our bedroom floor. Apparently he masturbated after I left and forgot to pick up his towel. When I discovered it I sent him this text, "Really?? You jacked off to WHOM or WHAT once I left out of here and before you went to work??" We got into a bit of an argument because he said I didn't need to approach him like that. Actually, he said I shouldn't have said anything. I personally don't masturbate because I have a husband for that but I'm more angry that he chose to do that instead of trying to get some from me ar night. And no, I'm not a morning sex person. Now I feel he's not going to want to talk to me when he gets home. Was I wrong?
    17 answers · 1 day ago
  • Me and my husband are always buying expensive presents for our family when it comes to our birthdays we get trash am I over reacting?

    Some people in the family who don't deserve it get expensive things we splash out when it comes to us we get stuff from poundshops why can this be and what should I do
    Some people in the family who don't deserve it get expensive things we splash out when it comes to us we get stuff from poundshops why can this be and what should I do
    11 answers · 5 hours ago
  • Unconditional love, does it exist?

    My husband and I seem to differ on a number of things. One main issue is that I believe in unconditional love where as he thinks that’s only reserved for a parent/child or brother/sister relationship. He feels that if unconditional love existed in relationships then there would be no divorce at all. Couples... show more
    My husband and I seem to differ on a number of things. One main issue is that I believe in unconditional love where as he thinks that’s only reserved for a parent/child or brother/sister relationship. He feels that if unconditional love existed in relationships then there would be no divorce at all. Couples would always overlook everything for the sake of keeping the marriage or relationship together. I’m not sure I can continue on with this relationship any longer with his views. Should unconditional love be a staple in a relationship?
    17 answers · 1 day ago
  • Pregnant by my soon to be ex husband what do I do?

    My husband and are seperated and I am just waiting for a divorce. I don't love him and I want to move on with my life so I have been counting down the days. A couple of months ago something happened when he came to drop off our daughter, I had a bit much to drink and now I'm pregnant. He thinks maybe we... show more
    My husband and are seperated and I am just waiting for a divorce. I don't love him and I want to move on with my life so I have been counting down the days. A couple of months ago something happened when he came to drop off our daughter, I had a bit much to drink and now I'm pregnant. He thinks maybe we should work it out, he didn't want a divorce but I honestly believe I can get a much better man than him! We already have a 3 year old and now another one is on the way. What do I do?
    19 answers · 2 days ago
  • My husband crushes on our single mom neighbor next door?

    once I caught him masturbating to her sun bathing , he was in our bedroom peering down at her in her yard. Last night the single mom neighbor died . I still haven't found out how, but for some reason I don't feel sad about it. I kind of feel relieved that my husband can now concentrate on me. Should I let... show more
    once I caught him masturbating to her sun bathing , he was in our bedroom peering down at her in her yard. Last night the single mom neighbor died . I still haven't found out how, but for some reason I don't feel sad about it. I kind of feel relieved that my husband can now concentrate on me. Should I let my husband go to the viewing thurdays night? Im not going, so I don't think he should either.
    10 answers · 6 hours ago
  • My wife had a second miscarriage and I think she’s depressed?

    How can I help? I tried booking her an appointment with a therapist, but she didn’t go. She doesn’t want sex because she’s afraid of another miscarriage. The doctors told her that there’s nothing wrong with her. So she’ll have a normal pregnancy in time.
    How can I help? I tried booking her an appointment with a therapist, but she didn’t go. She doesn’t want sex because she’s afraid of another miscarriage. The doctors told her that there’s nothing wrong with her. So she’ll have a normal pregnancy in time.
    9 answers · 11 hours ago
  • Relationship crisis?

    Best answer: This happened three years ago. If his friends and family still do not know you are back together that is a major red flag. Instead of him throwing the ultimatum of I’m leaving you if you say something, you should really be questioning if you should be leaving him. A secret relationship lasting YEARS is not normal... show more
    Best answer: This happened three years ago. If his friends and family still do not know you are back together that is a major red flag. Instead of him throwing the ultimatum of I’m leaving you if you say something, you should really be questioning if you should be leaving him. A secret relationship lasting YEARS is not normal and definitely not healthy. You should be supporting each other, but instead he is hiding you.
    13 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is self pleasuring bad in a marriage?

    My wife was out of town for the week. One night while she was gone I got ***** so I took care of the situation. I forgot to put away what I had used to complete my mission. When she got home she found what I had left out. At first she laughed about it but as the night went on I could tell it was bothering her. Her... show more
    My wife was out of town for the week. One night while she was gone I got ***** so I took care of the situation. I forgot to put away what I had used to complete my mission. When she got home she found what I had left out. At first she laughed about it but as the night went on I could tell it was bothering her. Her feelings are hurt and I feel bad. She's wondering who I was thinking of while I was doing what I did. Am I wrong for what I did?
    28 answers · 5 days ago
  • Marry couples please give advice, do you and your spouse share expenses or just let the husband pay for everything?

    The latter is still used today but I don’t think how things were operated in the 60s and prior (husband pays for everything) is suitable for today Econ
    The latter is still used today but I don’t think how things were operated in the 60s and prior (husband pays for everything) is suitable for today Econ
    21 answers · 4 days ago
  • My Boyfriend has a wife, that he doesn't want to married to, and she despises him, and he to be with me what should I do?

    My Boyfriend hates her so much. she would cheat on him day and night. And she would deny she cheated on him and one night he opened her phone and she was talking to so many guys (he showed me some pictures of the texts) sending nudes. She got him in trouble with the police and he got charges for stupid things. So... show more
    My Boyfriend hates her so much. she would cheat on him day and night. And she would deny she cheated on him and one night he opened her phone and she was talking to so many guys (he showed me some pictures of the texts) sending nudes. She got him in trouble with the police and he got charges for stupid things. So she start to control him. One time I had to go to the store (my boyfriend was there to) and she was there and was trying to manipulate him and me because she wanted him to by her something so she started to scream "help, Help my husband is being mean and cheated on me (which didn't work on me) I told her to grow up and she had her chance with him. (he married her because in the beginning she was okay as he put it) I love him so much I treat him very good never cheated on him he is sweet and kind. My boyfriend tells me he wish he could of married me instead. We had money saved up for the divorce, and an expenses came up we lost it.
    41 answers · 5 days ago
  • How to show my wife how much I love her?

    10 answers · 21 hours ago
  • First year of marriage and I need advice please!?

    I’m 34, my husband is 39. We were married in March of this year (2018). I’ve noticed that we are having more trouble than we used to with many things. For one, we recently moved to a beautiful home, which I am so grateful for. However, I am stressed out every day with the cleaning and maintenance, or if our bills... show more
    I’m 34, my husband is 39. We were married in March of this year (2018). I’ve noticed that we are having more trouble than we used to with many things. For one, we recently moved to a beautiful home, which I am so grateful for. However, I am stressed out every day with the cleaning and maintenance, or if our bills will be too high, etc. I find myself feeling depressed, and full of anxiety over our budget, our new business, pretty much anything is causing me to panic lately. I used to workout a lot, now I don’t have the motivation. I used to be fun loving and worry free. Now I find I have to force myself to “check” my attitude because I’m negative a lot. What happened to me? Why did things go to crap? My husband is supportive and wonderful, I just don’t feel “happy” like I used to with our life. I often think that if we just moved to a smaller place again, and the money stress wasn’t as big, then I could be happy again. Is this normal? Is this what “growing up” is? Or do I just need to tough it out?
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • What do I do about my wife's parents that keep critizing my career?

    My wife's parents are always giving me **** for the job that I currently have. I am a retail manager meanwhile my wife owns a couple of businesses state-wide all while doing real estate on the side. I normally work a 7-4 kind of job while she's always working. I'm okay with that but her parents... show more
    My wife's parents are always giving me **** for the job that I currently have. I am a retail manager meanwhile my wife owns a couple of businesses state-wide all while doing real estate on the side. I normally work a 7-4 kind of job while she's always working. I'm okay with that but her parents aren't. They keep giving me **** because she makes probably 10 times as much as me. In the beginning they did this but my wife always assured me that my career didn't bother her. But now I feel like it is. Because when we argue she complains that I don't work as much as she does or even contribute a dime to the household like she does and even sometimes says that "My parents are right that I'm lazy" and blah blah blah. But she usually apologizes But I think she's starting to resent me and her parents are getting to her. What do I do?
    9 answers · 1 day ago