• Should I give in?

    My wife stated last night that she wanted an open marriage. Its not the first time she brought it up. It goes against my beliefs and values...she states its not about sex, but isnt that what an open marriage is about? Should I give in to her? Do open marriages work? Is it just an excuse for her to screw other men... show more
    My wife stated last night that she wanted an open marriage. Its not the first time she brought it up. It goes against my beliefs and values...she states its not about sex, but isnt that what an open marriage is about? Should I give in to her? Do open marriages work? Is it just an excuse for her to screw other men and women?
    63 answers · 3 days ago
  • I'm so annoyed right now. My wife's sister wants to come live with us, but I really hate her. What do I do?

    Long story short, I'm 27 and have been married to my wife(24) for the past year. Her sister is very narcissistic, insulting and rude. She hates me because I'm Spanish. Makes fun of my job, insults my friends and their life choices and overall just goes out of her way to make me uncomfortable. I've never... show more
    Long story short, I'm 27 and have been married to my wife(24) for the past year. Her sister is very narcissistic, insulting and rude. She hates me because I'm Spanish. Makes fun of my job, insults my friends and their life choices and overall just goes out of her way to make me uncomfortable. I've never done anything to hurt my wife, but her sister is always accusing me of cheating and treats me like a prisoner. Also, one time she stayed over and overheard my wife and I having sex, she barged in and said "stop violating my sister" and now whenever she sees me she somehow brings up that I looked bad in bed. So, her boyfriend left her, and now she says she's lonely, so she asked my wife if she could come live with us for the rest of the year while she "grieves the death of her relationship". My wife says she understand I don't like the sister, but she's afraid that the sister will be lonley and sad. BTW, the sister is 29.
    30 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is flirting with others cheating?

    Is it bad enough to end a marriage if your spouse is overly friendly and flattering to other men and touches them, smiles at them etc?
    Is it bad enough to end a marriage if your spouse is overly friendly and flattering to other men and touches them, smiles at them etc?
    43 answers · 3 days ago
  • Do you think it is selfish to remain childless on purpose, even if you are married, well-off and in perfect health?

    Best answer: No.

    Becoming a parent is a choice, not a requirement.
    Best answer: No.

    Becoming a parent is a choice, not a requirement.
    37 answers · 3 days ago
  • I have gained weight and my husband and as a result my husband hasn't been interested in sex for the last year.?

    Hi. So as the title says it,I have gained weight during the last few years and as a result my husband hasn't been interested in sex for the last year and this makes me so sad because I am not the typical wife who considers sex a favor that she is doing to her husband....I am different,I really love having sex... show more
    Hi. So as the title says it,I have gained weight during the last few years and as a result my husband hasn't been interested in sex for the last year and this makes me so sad because I am not the typical wife who considers sex a favor that she is doing to her husband....I am different,I really love having sex with my husband. He is a very hardworker, honest and fit man. I know he is not cheating on me, he is a very moral man, for starters he was a virgin until marriage and additionally hates porn...He is always at home right after work... and when he is at home he never touches his phone or laptop ...so I know he is not cheating... Unfortunately I have a weakness for food and that's why I have gained weight... I really miss having sex with my husband . What should I do? Please give me helpful advice...please don't insult my husband... I have noticed that when a woman asks a question about her husband on Yahoo answers she is likely to receive answers where strangers throw insults at her husband. Thank you for your time.
    46 answers · 4 days ago
  • Can someone please help me prove that my husband is cheating?

    Me and my husband are in constant fights, he argues about everything . he is always checking his phone,wouldnt let me have it which he normally doesnt ! i know that he is cheating on me because he has done it before and i "forgave" him! it was all the same symptoms !. he keeps deleting the messages so i... show more
    Me and my husband are in constant fights, he argues about everything . he is always checking his phone,wouldnt let me have it which he normally doesnt ! i know that he is cheating on me because he has done it before and i "forgave" him! it was all the same symptoms !. he keeps deleting the messages so i wont see them again. i need something to prove so he wont call me paranoid! i just need an app or someway to find out . please help me ...
    14 answers · 1 day ago
  • How to deal with an affair.....?

    I have a very open relationship with my husband. I have been having an "affair" with another man for the past 6 months. My husband is fine with this, after all I always come home to him. The man I have been having an affair with has a partner, and she is unaware of her partner's other relationship.... show more
    I have a very open relationship with my husband. I have been having an "affair" with another man for the past 6 months. My husband is fine with this, after all I always come home to him. The man I have been having an affair with has a partner, and she is unaware of her partner's other relationship. After a recent fall out, my affair has decided that he wants to take out a court injunction on me to stop me contacting him. I have not been harassing him, only having a domestic argument. In fact I was the one who asked him to stop sending me messages or "adult" pictures. I told him to stop, otherwise I would tell his partner about what he was sending me, He now claims that I am blackmailing him. Is this blackmail? Surely his partner finding out about his activity is nothing that can be judged? I just want to break up with him, but now the situation is getting out of hand. Can I please mention that not all relationships can be judged by convention, and me and my husband are very happy in the way we conduct our relationship. Any constructive advice would be gratefully received.
    9 answers · 1 hour ago
  • Is it wrong that I stick up for my ex?

    My ex husband isn't the best father to our son that we have together. My ex husband also has some legal and psychological issues that prevent him from being the best dad. I feel sorry for my ex husband and care about him. My husband doesnt like to her this and thinks theres no excuse for him to be a crappy... show more
    My ex husband isn't the best father to our son that we have together. My ex husband also has some legal and psychological issues that prevent him from being the best dad. I feel sorry for my ex husband and care about him. My husband doesnt like to her this and thinks theres no excuse for him to be a crappy parent. He also thinks its pathetic that he choose tp have a child he cant properly father. I dont like to hear this and I will stick up for my ex. Is this wrong of me?
    9 answers · 4 hours ago
  • I'm married to a man, but thinking it was a bad idea..?

    I got married a year ago, a little after I turned 19. We had been together for a while, and I don't think I was exactly ready to get married, but I couldn't make myself tell him no. I do care for him a great deal, but I'm just not sure I want to spend my life with him now, after being married to him. He... show more
    I got married a year ago, a little after I turned 19. We had been together for a while, and I don't think I was exactly ready to get married, but I couldn't make myself tell him no. I do care for him a great deal, but I'm just not sure I want to spend my life with him now, after being married to him. He kind of changed his whole demeanor after we signed the marriage certificate and I just feel like I'm missing out on what could be potentially great experiences, because he can be very controlling at times.. Thoughts?
    10 answers · 17 hours ago
  • Having problems in my marriage, did we get married to Young . Advice please?

    We been together since October 2015 . We got married 6 months ago and moved out of our parents places ( both of us came from abusive homes)  when we got the place we knew it wasn't gonna be easy  but we thought if we worked as a team we'd be ok.  It's been hard  trying to get these bills paid and work... show more
    We been together since October 2015 . We got married 6 months ago and moved out of our parents places ( both of us came from abusive homes)  when we got the place we knew it wasn't gonna be easy  but we thought if we worked as a team we'd be ok.  It's been hard  trying to get these bills paid and work and make time for each other or even sit down and talk. When we do we fight over stupid stuff.  Things have been overwhelming these past 3 months  and it's been emotionally draining for both of us. We fight , have sex, and we end up fighting again. Yesterday we were screaming at each other because we couldn't find the stupid remote and both blaming each other for losing it. During the fight I scremed I want a divorce. We need help I don't want​ a divorce but maybe we got married to Young.I'm 19 he's  20
    10 answers · 22 hours ago
  • Why do so many people have a problem with pre-nups?

    I have a mortgage which i've worked hard for and saved for over many, many years. If i were to get with someone who did not own a mortgage and had no life savings, i feel compelled to protect myself. Im not a charity. Why is this such an issue for people to understand?
    I have a mortgage which i've worked hard for and saved for over many, many years. If i were to get with someone who did not own a mortgage and had no life savings, i feel compelled to protect myself. Im not a charity. Why is this such an issue for people to understand?
    20 answers · 3 days ago
  • Young female Married with no life? Some advice please?

    I got married this month last year, for one whole year I have had no job no friends and no family, I can't go outside anymore because I have gotten extreme anxiety, my husband work from 8 to 5-6 and comes home angry always, sometimes he beats me. I don't know what to do, I am only 20 years old, and I'm... show more
    I got married this month last year, for one whole year I have had no job no friends and no family, I can't go outside anymore because I have gotten extreme anxiety, my husband work from 8 to 5-6 and comes home angry always, sometimes he beats me. I don't know what to do, I am only 20 years old, and I'm forced to wear clothes I hate, all of my money I get from welfare, my husband uses, I have one dress to wear outside when my husband takes me outside..I'm not happy, I'm suicidal, I'm lonely, I have put on so much weight, I don't know what to do to be happy, I feel like I have no ambitions in life, a few months ago I caught my husband on Facebook talking to other women and I wanted to kill myself. Before I met him, I use to go out with my friends, wear makeup and dress nice, but I have no friends anymore and no life. Can someone just give me a little advice
    8 answers · 11 hours ago
  • Husband was a doctor for 2 years and had a nervous breakdown saying he doesn't want to be a doctor and?

    That he made a mistake, that his whole life is one big lie, that he never loved me (we were together 14 years and he was very much in love), that he shouldn't have gotten married, that he is not meant to be with anyone, that he feels nothing at all, etc This came out of nowhere. Yes he has been stressed at... show more
    That he made a mistake, that his whole life is one big lie, that he never loved me (we were together 14 years and he was very much in love), that he shouldn't have gotten married, that he is not meant to be with anyone, that he feels nothing at all, etc This came out of nowhere. Yes he has been stressed at work for a full year but he never mentioned how he didn't like being a doctor and we were very close, we are best friends but out of nowhere this happened.... And now he left and is living in a hotel for 2 weeks now... I texted him and told him he would be alright soon and to see a therapist and he texted back "sorry for leaving you but i am a mess of a man and I don't feel a thing. I don't plan to ever come back. I don't want to live in this country and i don't know why im doing this but i know i need to be alone forever. Goodbye." I have no words. We were happy for our entire marriage up until a few months ago he was getting really defensive over tiny things. I know this is a nervous break down but what do I do? I'm obviously upset that he left but im also concerned for him.
    8 answers · 12 hours ago
  • My wife wants a divorce because I took her out to a steak house instead of Taco Bell for our anniversary?

    Best answer: She has good grounds for a divorce.
    Best answer: She has good grounds for a divorce.
    18 answers · 3 days ago
  • How do I deal with my in laws which are still in love with my partner s ex wife?

    My mother in law has pictures of them together, also writes nice comments to her pictures on Facebook ( and has not add me as friend since I asked 6 months ago) Also they accommodated her for 4 days last month in their house... And I receive a lot of rudeness from them constantly. How can I deal with this sh*t?
    My mother in law has pictures of them together, also writes nice comments to her pictures on Facebook ( and has not add me as friend since I asked 6 months ago) Also they accommodated her for 4 days last month in their house... And I receive a lot of rudeness from them constantly. How can I deal with this sh*t?
    7 answers · 1 hour ago
  • Wife tells me I'm the worst person she has ever had sex with, what should I do?

    Best answer: Why not ask her what it is that you do that she doesn't like, or what are you not doing that she would like you to do, and go from there? You can't improve your skills to suit her, unless you know why she doesn't find you satisfactory. If she's not willing to show you what she wants, then consider... show more
    Best answer: Why not ask her what it is that you do that she doesn't like, or what are you not doing that she would like you to do, and go from there? You can't improve your skills to suit her, unless you know why she doesn't find you satisfactory. If she's not willing to show you what she wants, then consider her words meaningless and just used as an excuse to stop having sex with you (instead of simply telling you she no longer desires sex).
    18 answers · 3 days ago
  • If someone snoops in their partners phone and finds stuff who is wrong?

    They find texts bad mouthing and trash talking their partner to their friend and complaining to their friend about their partner. They also find their partner being overly friendly (bordering on flirtatious) with their ex. Is the one who shopped still the guilty partner and the person who is in the wrong if they... show more
    They find texts bad mouthing and trash talking their partner to their friend and complaining to their friend about their partner. They also find their partner being overly friendly (bordering on flirtatious) with their ex. Is the one who shopped still the guilty partner and the person who is in the wrong if they ended up finding bad stuff?
    25 answers · 4 days ago