• How can I become more mature in my marriage?

    I will admit that I act very immature, my husband is immature as well. Maybe because we are young and married. I am 20 and he is 24. I am trying so hard to work on my marriage even though there are so many issues, these issues seem to be my fault though. I pick fights with my husband over the stupidest things,... show more
    I will admit that I act very immature, my husband is immature as well. Maybe because we are young and married. I am 20 and he is 24. I am trying so hard to work on my marriage even though there are so many issues, these issues seem to be my fault though. I pick fights with my husband over the stupidest things, I am very over-reactive and explosive in arguments and then I cry a lot and blame him. I ignore him for days if he does something to annoy me, and I disappear with my friends when we go out and I do not tell him/ or invite him out. I am reflecting on my behavior and trying to change my ways but it's very hard. Any tips?
    6 answers · 2 hours ago
  • 💀Poll: Would you marry me?

    23 answers · 2 days ago
  • My wife wants me to choose, her or my mother, who do I pick?

    I can always get another wife but we have two kids together. My mother and she had a fight last summer and won't speak. Christmas was hell because of it and I kept telling my wife to be the bigger person. This made her more mad. Christmas Day was a big fight in front of the kids and my mother wasn't even... show more
    I can always get another wife but we have two kids together. My mother and she had a fight last summer and won't speak. Christmas was hell because of it and I kept telling my wife to be the bigger person. This made her more mad. Christmas Day was a big fight in front of the kids and my mother wasn't even around. My mother had called my wife a b.tch last summer and my wife was mad originally cause my mother kept rolling her eyes if we did something with my wife's family who my mother dislikes. I already lost my father for my mother as I cut him out of my life for her and now I fear I might lose my wife for her. At the same time I can get a new wife, I don't know if I can live without my mother. Who should I pick? My wife and I had a fight this weekend when she found out I check on my mother on the way home from work each day and the wife gave me the ultimatum. I know when I tell my mother this afternoon she will be glad and want me to choose her as I'd move in with her if I get divorced. I asked the kids what they think but my 9 year old son got really upset that we might divorce. My daughter was mad about something else and didn't care. So who do I pick?
    17 answers · 8 hours ago
  • Is it weird for me to ask my wife to drive on family road trips?

    Best answer: I do most of the road trip driving, I don't mind. I like to be in control in that aspect, I get to decide when and where we stop. I have introduced my vegetarian husband to... truck stop food. I call it "driving Dr daisy". He does at least offer to share in the driving, but I always decline. My... show more
    Best answer: I do most of the road trip driving, I don't mind. I like to be in control in that aspect, I get to decide when and where we stop. I have introduced my vegetarian husband to... truck stop food.

    I call it "driving Dr daisy". He does at least offer to share in the driving, but I always decline.

    My dad was a trucker so that must be where I get it from, maybe I missed my calling in professions.
    13 answers · 1 day ago
  • I'm a recently divorced middle aged woman. I feel like I should wait for marriage for sex, but I really want it now. What should I do?

    I was in a sexless marriage for several years before my divorce. It's been six months since my divorce and my craving for sex is driving me crazy. I feel like i should wait for a relationship to have sex, but if i'm being honest right now I don't want a relationship. I just want sex. However, I feel... show more
    I was in a sexless marriage for several years before my divorce. It's been six months since my divorce and my craving for sex is driving me crazy. I feel like i should wait for a relationship to have sex, but if i'm being honest right now I don't want a relationship. I just want sex. However, I feel like I need to be a good example for my kids and wait for sex until I find the right man. On the other hand part of me feels like there's nothing wrong with exploring my sexuality and acting on my desires. What should I do? Should I wait for a relationship to have sex or is it OK for me to go ahead and have some fun now? My kids are an eleven and thirteen year old girls if that makes a difference.
    45 answers · 4 days ago
  • Should I forgive my cheating Husband?

    So, I have been married since November, 20th 2017 to my husband. On Thanksgiving night, he decided to leave and go hang out with another woman and I was heartbroken he swears they didn t have sex, but I m not sure. My husband than lie s to me telling me he is going to hang out with one of his guy friends and it... show more
    So, I have been married since November, 20th 2017 to my husband. On Thanksgiving night, he decided to leave and go hang out with another woman and I was heartbroken he swears they didn t have sex, but I m not sure. My husband than lie s to me telling me he is going to hang out with one of his guy friends and it wasn t it was her now I m really heartbroken and want a divorce. What does this woman have that I don t? Also, he video chats other women and they are sometimes naked. Like what kind of man is this? I don t wear my ring and I told his mother that he broke his vows and she was very disappointed.
    38 answers · 4 days ago
  • I don’t think if I’m married for the right reason and have absolutely no idea what to do!?

    I’m 21 and got married when I was 18, I also became a father 6 months before then with the same women I was marrying. I’m sure you guessed it but it sorta felt like I was marrying because she had my daughter, we dated once before when I was 14 so in middle school but after we broke up didn’t talk to each other for... show more
    I’m 21 and got married when I was 18, I also became a father 6 months before then with the same women I was marrying. I’m sure you guessed it but it sorta felt like I was marrying because she had my daughter, we dated once before when I was 14 so in middle school but after we broke up didn’t talk to each other for years. I was 17 and we both were very into photography so we were suppose to go out and take pictures...that was how my daughter came to this word lol. So after that awkward situation we didn’t talk and I feel awful for it seeming I used her, which I didn’t. A few months back I was dating a girl that was actually that first girl I expressed myself with and it feel to ****, felt like it was going somewhere but felt like a kick in the balls. After that I didn’t want anything to do with a relationship so when she told me she was pregnant I really freaked we talked it over and just went on but trying to prepare for this to happen. She actually became preeclamptic so my daughter was born 2 months early and my wife was dating someone at the time and the thought of someone “fathering” my child made me mad. Even more when I heard him say “I am ready to a step father”. So after a day or so of her being born I basically tried to get her and did and we went from preparing for a child together to dating and then married. So it wasn’t very long to adjust to that. This May would make it three years being married, I don’t know if I’m married for the RIGHT reason.
    11 answers · 3 days ago
  • Why is my husband still with me?

    I cheated on my husband he found out was upset but got over it. He is still with me. Why didn’t he divorce me? Dose he not care I cheated on him?
    I cheated on my husband he found out was upset but got over it. He is still with me. Why didn’t he divorce me? Dose he not care I cheated on him?
    10 answers · 20 hours ago
  • Is it normal to want to involve other people in your sex life?

    I've been thinking a lot lately about asking my wife for a threesome, we've talked about it in the past, but never acted on it. I really want to see her with another man. Opinions?
    I've been thinking a lot lately about asking my wife for a threesome, we've talked about it in the past, but never acted on it. I really want to see her with another man. Opinions?
    24 answers · 4 days ago
  • Why is it wrong for a husband to demand a paternity test from his wife?

    Why not see it as a way for a man to make sure he's investing into something that's his blood! Today's women are promiscuous (not a bad thing), and before settling down most women do mange around 10-25 sex partners. What if after marriage, just out of excitement, sleep with another man? That's a... show more
    Why not see it as a way for a man to make sure he's investing into something that's his blood! Today's women are promiscuous (not a bad thing), and before settling down most women do mange around 10-25 sex partners. What if after marriage, just out of excitement, sleep with another man? That's a strong possibility. Why fool a man into investing his resources on a child that isn't his blood?
    13 answers · 2 days ago
  • Why a spouse blame their partner for cheating and not the person who throw themselve at them?

    Best answer: Because a person's actions are 100% their choice and their responsibility. It doesn't matter if a married person has others stripping naked and throwing themselves at the married person, that doesn't excuse cheating. If you (any person) cheat, it's YOU to blame for making that choice. Not your... show more
    Best answer: Because a person's actions are 100% their choice and their responsibility. It doesn't matter if a married person has others stripping naked and throwing themselves at the married person, that doesn't excuse cheating. If you (any person) cheat, it's YOU to blame for making that choice. Not your spouse, no matter even if they are a horrid person. Not the person you cheat with, even if they work hard to seduce you and throw themselves at you. Ultimately YOU are the one who makes the choice to cheat or not to cheat, when the opportunity arises. YOU are the only one to blame for that choice. It doesn't matter what outside factors influenced your choice...it was still YOUR choice.

    Personal responsibility...something far too many people try to ignore.
    30 answers · 4 days ago
  • Is it wrong for my husband to accuse my boss and male colleagues of sexual misconduct when they are being professional yet friendly?

    My husband is a paranoid, jealous guy and hates the idea of me working with other males that he accuses them of trying to come in between our marriage. Is it wrong for him to accuse these guys of things like this?
    My husband is a paranoid, jealous guy and hates the idea of me working with other males that he accuses them of trying to come in between our marriage. Is it wrong for him to accuse these guys of things like this?
    7 answers · 3 hours ago
  • Husband spent money we saved on something stupid and wont admit he is WRONG?

    My husband is a middle-aged man but acts like a child (it has become worse lately). We have kids, and a house. My family paid cash for the house and he agreed to pay a mortgage + taxes. He has not paid in a year. I have to make a payment plan for them because he spent the money we had on music equipment (is in a... show more
    My husband is a middle-aged man but acts like a child (it has become worse lately). We have kids, and a house. My family paid cash for the house and he agreed to pay a mortgage + taxes. He has not paid in a year. I have to make a payment plan for them because he spent the money we had on music equipment (is in a band) and cigarettes (he refuses to admit how many packs he smokes a week). He made $100 playing a gig yesterday and said he was depositing it for our taxes (which are due asap). Instead, he lied and kept the cash in his wallet and spent it on a vapor cigarette which he claimed he "needed and has has 0 risks". I had to apply for food stamps to feed my kids which is against my morals. He said "he has no regrets about that and that NO WOMAN will tell him how to spend HIS money and I am TRYING TO CONTROL HIM AND HIS MONEY AND UNTIL I CAN ADMIT I am controlling and overbearing, he has nothing to say to me and that there was nothing wrong with this overpriced/unnecessary purchase", What is right here? I am disabled and trying to support my kids and pay bills, and he is stealing acting like a child.
    8 answers · 15 hours ago
  • I’m newly married and can’t cook well as before I used to be.why could this be?

    I’ve been married for about a month. Before marriage I used to cook for my family nearly 8 years. But now I cannot make a simple omelette . I don’t know what happened to me. my husband scolds as I couldn’t prepare a simple breakfast. For extra info, I’m a working woman when I’m busy my other family members share... show more
    I’ve been married for about a month. Before marriage I used to cook for my family nearly 8 years. But now I cannot make a simple omelette . I don’t know what happened to me. my husband scolds as I couldn’t prepare a simple breakfast. For extra info, I’m a working woman when I’m busy my other family members share the work including cooking. Before marriage I used to live in a different country with my parents and siblings. Now I’ve moved to a different country with my husband.
    8 answers · 17 hours ago
  • Why does my husband treat me like I'm his mom?

    Best answer: Sigh.......being the mother is a common role new wives take on, which is totally and completely wrong. If you don't want to be in that role, DON"T PLAY THAT ROLE!!!! Men don't like being nagged. Treat him like an equal, just as you want to be treated as an equal, dear. If you sit down and maturely... show more
    Best answer: Sigh.......being the mother is a common role new wives take on, which is totally and completely wrong.
    If you don't want to be in that role, DON"T PLAY THAT ROLE!!!! Men don't like being nagged. Treat him like an equal, just as you want to be treated as an equal, dear.
    If you sit down and maturely talk about dividing the chores, then divide the chores and let him be. Passive-aggressive behavior in relationships is common.
    8 answers · 19 hours ago
  • Was it wrong to do this?

    My husband and I are going through the beginning stages of a divorce. I went out and had sex with a friend. Now I feel like complete ****. I feel like I cheated on my husband. I hate myself now.
    My husband and I are going through the beginning stages of a divorce. I went out and had sex with a friend. Now I feel like complete ****. I feel like I cheated on my husband. I hate myself now.
    10 answers · 2 days ago
  • I enjoy Sex but don't love her?

    I enjoy having sex with my wife but I dont lover her anymore, I don't enjoy going out together or spending time together... I feel like I want to start a new journey with a new woman? what do you think I am going through? Is it normal? what should I do?
    I enjoy having sex with my wife but I dont lover her anymore, I don't enjoy going out together or spending time together... I feel like I want to start a new journey with a new woman? what do you think I am going through? Is it normal? what should I do?
    8 answers · 23 hours ago
  • How can i live with being constantly accused of cheating?

    I cant take it anymore. My husband is taking pics of the miles in the car checking for tire marks its insane. O did i mention im 39 weeks pregnant and not working (neither is he) so we literally sit around together all day. I never leave without him unless im going to my grandparents which is 8 mins away. Being so... show more
    I cant take it anymore. My husband is taking pics of the miles in the car checking for tire marks its insane. O did i mention im 39 weeks pregnant and not working (neither is he) so we literally sit around together all day. I never leave without him unless im going to my grandparents which is 8 mins away. Being so far along in the pregnancy i cant sleep which is normal but if i tell him the next morning ive been up cheating according to him. Everytime we have to put gas in the car ive been out driving around cheating. I cant take it i dont know how to fix it. Im not even excited for the birth of our first child because we r so miserable. I love him so much and i would never ever betray our marriage. I dont know what to do anymore
    8 answers · 24 hours ago