• Do men in their early 60's cheat?

    Concerned wife who believes my husband is always staring at another woman he's known and have to be around for 4 yrs. She's in her 40's. Maybe it nothing but just curious.
    Concerned wife who believes my husband is always staring at another woman he's known and have to be around for 4 yrs. She's in her 40's. Maybe it nothing but just curious.
    20 answers · 1 day ago
  • Am I a racist if I refuse to marry a white person. I'm not anti marriage just not to a white person?

    Best answer: No. If you dislike anyone solely based on their skin color, that would be racist. Having a physical appearance preference or cultural preference with regard to whom you date our marry, is just a preference. You didn't say that you don't like white people in general, just that you don't want to marry one. show more
    Best answer: No. If you dislike anyone solely based on their skin color, that would be racist. Having a physical appearance preference or cultural preference with regard to whom you date our marry, is just a preference.

    You didn't say that you don't like white people in general, just that you don't want to marry one.
    19 answers · 1 day ago
  • Girls, why are you allowed to travel solo but your boyfriend or husband can't?

    I have a friend who I used to travel with so much, but he got married last year and he tells me he can't travel anymore because his wife won't let him. Then I have another friend who's wife jumped on a cruise without checking with him, and she said "I'm going, I don't need to ask... show more
    I have a friend who I used to travel with so much, but he got married last year and he tells me he can't travel anymore because his wife won't let him. Then I have another friend who's wife jumped on a cruise without checking with him, and she said "I'm going, I don't need to ask you" I personally love to travel, and I cannot imagine that getting a wife means I can no longer travel just because she said so
    19 answers · 1 day ago
  • Just needing some outside advise...?

    I'm 22, married and have a 2 year old... My dream my whole life was to travel a few places I've always wanted to see and go to college and be an artist or join law enforcement, enjoy life a bit while I was at it. But then I met my husband and everything happened so quickly... We got pregnant, he doesn't... show more
    I'm 22, married and have a 2 year old... My dream my whole life was to travel a few places I've always wanted to see and go to college and be an artist or join law enforcement, enjoy life a bit while I was at it. But then I met my husband and everything happened so quickly... We got pregnant, he doesn't want me to work (because he doesn't want me to deal with that kind of stress per his words) every time I applied or even mention applying for college he told me to wait, he doesn't want me to do law enforcement because he doesn't believe I could handle it due to my personality ( I believe there is good in people if you give them the chance, he believes EVERYONE is...well...on drugs or stupid) but I just feel like I want to do more with my life than be a stay at home mom and do the same thing every day till I die... Is that selfish? Is it too late? And yes I know that having a child and getting married young was my decision and you reap what you sow... (Also things happened in that order) I just want to know others thoughts on what I'm feeling, and just to clarify I will never consider leaving my child and husband on their own just to make myself happy.
    15 answers · 15 hours ago
  • My husband is having an affair?

    My husband is having an affair with a married woman. I found out. He said he never stop loving me, he doesn't love that woman, just because she's so good in bed that makes him cannot leave her . He said that woman pleases him anyway he wants in bed while I'm just like a pillow. I checked his phone. he... show more
    My husband is having an affair with a married woman. I found out. He said he never stop loving me, he doesn't love that woman, just because she's so good in bed that makes him cannot leave her . He said that woman pleases him anyway he wants in bed while I'm just like a pillow. I checked his phone. he texts her everyday to chat and begs her to make love with him but she refuses, she said she just want to be friend with him, she wants to stop the affair. Did I do something wrong, what should I do now. Thanks for help.
    34 answers · 3 days ago
  • My husband is useless and can never do anything right, what do I do?

    I'm 29 and my husband is 32. We have young kids and I'm a SAHM. I'm biracial and he's an annoying typical white man. He works long hours and when he comes home he messes up the house leaving doors open and he wants attention. I'm tired all day taking care of the house and kids while he works.... show more
    I'm 29 and my husband is 32. We have young kids and I'm a SAHM. I'm biracial and he's an annoying typical white man. He works long hours and when he comes home he messes up the house leaving doors open and he wants attention. I'm tired all day taking care of the house and kids while he works. I am so bored these days. Just being at home not meeting people except my husband is a shame. Am tired all the time as well. I have really been thinking about a divorce because he annoys me so much but we have young kids and I'm pregnant and due in a couple of weeks. He'll be having leave after tomorrow and he's going to have a barbaque with his friends. He will expect me to cook and I doubt he will even clean up after himself. I will be more annoyed with him home all the time. He always wants to talk about his job and I pretend to listen even if I think who cares. I mean he can never do anything right and always annoys me. What do I do?
    14 answers · 20 hours ago
  • Is this cheating?

    My husband has gone alone to strip clubs on many occasions and got private lap dances! I just found out. I feel hurt and not good enough! I feel like this is acceptable cheating in a mans world! Is this cheating?
    My husband has gone alone to strip clubs on many occasions and got private lap dances! I just found out. I feel hurt and not good enough! I feel like this is acceptable cheating in a mans world! Is this cheating?
    17 answers · 2 days ago
  • What should I do if I have a husband who is a mamaboy and won't leave his mom?

    I have been married for 10 years and my husband has not grown up and goes to his mom for everything. He even leaves our home to go and sleep over at his mother's. I have had enough and want to go my separate ways. I've talked with him, argued with him about this issue and he still does not get it.
    I have been married for 10 years and my husband has not grown up and goes to his mom for everything. He even leaves our home to go and sleep over at his mother's. I have had enough and want to go my separate ways. I've talked with him, argued with him about this issue and he still does not get it.
    11 answers · 19 hours ago
  • My wife wants to quit her job and take a year vacation without me?

    My wife has decided she has enough working and has been secretly saving hundreds of thousands of dollars to take a year vacation starting in July. I've always wondered why her income was coming up shorter than usual and she has saved up lots of money to take a year vacation. She said she needs this for her... show more
    My wife has decided she has enough working and has been secretly saving hundreds of thousands of dollars to take a year vacation starting in July. I've always wondered why her income was coming up shorter than usual and she has saved up lots of money to take a year vacation. She said she needs this for her and has been saving this type of money for years and this upsets me. I didn't look into this because I trust and love my wife She said she needs to do this alone and when she gets back it would be a "new her" What should I do about this?
    11 answers · 12 hours ago
  • My ex-wife has refused to let me see my daughter for over a year now and says she only will if I pay the child support she waived.?

    My ex-wife has been refusing to let me see my little girl. When the divorce went through she told the judge she did not want me to pay child support. Now that her husband is cheating on her and wants a divorce she is taking it out on me by claiming she can take me back for child support, which is difficult as I am... show more
    My ex-wife has been refusing to let me see my little girl. When the divorce went through she told the judge she did not want me to pay child support. Now that her husband is cheating on her and wants a divorce she is taking it out on me by claiming she can take me back for child support, which is difficult as I am caring for my grandmother, as well as not letting me see my daughter.
    32 answers · 4 days ago
  • Should i just get a divorce?

    My husband refuses to go to a marriage counselor with me. We have a lot of issues 1. He is very selfish and but his needs and his friends before me 2. Doesnt help out much with our newborn 3. Doesnt want to take me out on dates. If we go on a date i have to plan it and a lot of times pay. (He makes enough to take... show more
    My husband refuses to go to a marriage counselor with me. We have a lot of issues 1. He is very selfish and but his needs and his friends before me 2. Doesnt help out much with our newborn 3. Doesnt want to take me out on dates. If we go on a date i have to plan it and a lot of times pay. (He makes enough to take me on dates ..he used to take me before we got married but rather use his money on $200 shoes, his school, clothes etc) 4. I recently discovered he has a dating profile and refuses to delete in. He says its hard for him to stop going on those sites 5. I dont feel appreciated. I cook, clean, pay majority of bills, take care of the baby and he never says thank u or lends a hand. 6. Never buys gifts for holidays or birthdays but is always expecting a gift on those days 7. When i mention problems he says he will change. Ill ask him what he will do to change and he just says " i dont know" 8. Many times when i bring up issues we are having he says he doesnt want to talk, tries to ignore the problem or is silent for days. It is very hard talking to him and he acts like he cant express himself 9. He never texts me during the day. He used to do that before we got married but if i text him asking hows his day going i may or may not get a reply.
    12 answers · 1 day ago
  • Is it true that married women with kids want their husbands attention, but want them to initiate it?

    My wife is a mother of our 2 little kids. She is always in Mom mode. She’s a great Mom! Our life is all about the kids and we are doing the same thing everyday. We don’t give each other attention or anything. So when I get attention from other women I love it and it shows me how much I miss it. I feel like she... show more
    My wife is a mother of our 2 little kids. She is always in Mom mode. She’s a great Mom! Our life is all about the kids and we are doing the same thing everyday. We don’t give each other attention or anything. So when I get attention from other women I love it and it shows me how much I miss it. I feel like she wants is always in Mom mode and I guess it is up to me to get her out of it whenever I can. I am getting tired of doing the same thing everyday. I don’t want to be that couple that eats dinner and doesn’t talk. I also don’t want to stray away. How can I approach this and is there any success stories?
    11 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why are wealthy handsome men so unfaithful to their wives???

    Best answer: Because they think or know that money gives them power and they abuse that power by taking what they want, when they want. They assume money will keep a woman with them no matter much he abuses the marriage and other women. Trump is a prime example of a wealthy, abusive adulterer and he looks like a warthog.
    Best answer: Because they think or know that money gives them power and they abuse that power by taking what they want, when they want. They assume money will keep a woman with them no matter much he abuses the marriage and other women. Trump is a prime example of a wealthy, abusive adulterer and he looks like a warthog.
    12 answers · 2 days ago
  • Should I tell my wife that I changed my mind about attending her family reunion?

    My wife's family on her mother's side is having its annual 4th of July family reunion in a couple of weeks. The party is a six hour drive from where we live and lasts 3-4 days. My wife does not go every year. This year my wife wants to go because her mother is not in good health. I am very uncomfortable... show more
    My wife's family on her mother's side is having its annual 4th of July family reunion in a couple of weeks. The party is a six hour drive from where we live and lasts 3-4 days. My wife does not go every year. This year my wife wants to go because her mother is not in good health. I am very uncomfortable around my wife's family-which is much larger than mine- and, I am afraid, I left that discomfort show more than once. It caused some stress in her family and made my wife angry at me. I am not proud of that. I am also uncomfortable because I feel that my life has because I have no control over my life during those visits and I don't like it. I am reconsidering my decision about not attending. My wife said I could stay home if I wanted to, although I might be dealing with that fallout later. When I asked her if her going without me would be hard on her with our four year old twins, she said " well I know that you don't want to be there and that would cause me more stress." She will have some family to help her if needed. I still really don't want to go,and she might not want me to go, but I now feel guilty about not going because I could help her and I want our family time. Plans may have been completed assuming I am not going. I am considering saying nothing and keeping my word that I am not going or telling her that I'd like to go and help her and have our family time and play baby sitter and driver while she goes. What should I do? Thank you for reading!
    15 answers · 2 days ago
  • How to get over the guilt of cheating on my wife? Someone one night showed a lot of interest and I miss that. And then it happened.?

    Best answer: What she doesn’t know won’t hurt her. So keep your lips zipped.
    Best answer: What she doesn’t know won’t hurt her. So keep your lips zipped.
    22 answers · 3 days ago
  • How to cope with run away wife?

    So, my wife deserted me, and the whole world is crumbling infront of my eyes. Some say i didnt have much of a marriage anyway and that she did me a favor by leaving. Her parents ignore my calls and she randomly answers her phone. She says that she we're still married and she needs time etc Yet she acts like... show more
    So, my wife deserted me, and the whole world is crumbling infront of my eyes. Some say i didnt have much of a marriage anyway and that she did me a favor by leaving. Her parents ignore my calls and she randomly answers her phone. She says that she we're still married and she needs time etc Yet she acts like a spoiled brat on the phone and accusses me of all sorts of things. It seems she is enjoying herself with her cousins and sisters at her parents home; she refuses to see me in person. Her brothers say that they'll talk to her but then just ignore me and never call back. The legal path is painful and miserable; plus i'll have to do everything on my own and its time consuming. She is basicaly acting crazy and in a very immature manner in respect to my feelings and as a person. What should i do ? Is there a way to talk some sense into her ? The only reaction i got from her was when i told her i will walk away and make the divorce procedure extremly time consuming. At that point she shut her phone off and havent heard of her.
    11 answers · 12 hours ago
  • Do you think it's wrong for a widow or widower to start dating again and get remarried after the death of their spouse?

    Best answer: No, absolutely not wrong.

    Its a little weird if they move too quickly, I mean if your spouse passes away and you're going on a date a week later that would be kinda freaky, but its their life and they don't have to stay single forever.
    Best answer: No, absolutely not wrong.

    Its a little weird if they move too quickly, I mean if your spouse passes away and you're going on a date a week later that would be kinda freaky, but its their life and they don't have to stay single forever.
    11 answers · 2 days ago
  • He won't set a date?

    I am engaged to get married. I've been engaged since January 2015. We are both divorced and have been together over 6 years with children from previous marriages. We are 46 and 49. We purposely waited to get married until my oldest son graduated college so he could still get his financial aid loans. He... show more
    I am engaged to get married. I've been engaged since January 2015. We are both divorced and have been together over 6 years with children from previous marriages. We are 46 and 49. We purposely waited to get married until my oldest son graduated college so he could still get his financial aid loans. He graduated in the beginning of May. Since then, I've asked my fiancé about three times when he would like to get married. His response is agitation, annoyance and "why don't you just pick the date, I don't care". I get angry and tell him its a joint decision, that we should discuss it together. No big wedding, just the two of us going away somewhere together. I suggested Vegas and then go to Hawaii for the rest of the week for a honeymoon -- says its too expensive. I suggested going to Florida for the weekend and getting married on the beach -- showed a little interest but never brought it up. I suggested July, he said its too hot. But won't make any suggestions or talk to me like an adult about figuring this out. The other day he got agitated and started screeching at me "why are you dumping this on me?" That really hurt my feelings and I am starting to think that he really doesn't want to. I feel like I should just cut my losses and give him the ring back. I don't think it will every happen. Not with both of us making a decision together as a couple anyway.
    23 answers · 4 days ago