• My husband is having an affair?

    My husband is having an affair with a married woman. I found out. He said he never stop loving me, he doesn't love that woman, just because she's so good in bed that makes him cannot leave her . He said that woman pleases him anyway he wants in bed while I'm just like a pillow. I checked his phone. he... show more
    My husband is having an affair with a married woman. I found out. He said he never stop loving me, he doesn't love that woman, just because she's so good in bed that makes him cannot leave her . He said that woman pleases him anyway he wants in bed while I'm just like a pillow. I checked his phone. he texts her everyday to chat and begs her to make love with him but she refuses, she said she just want to be friend with him, she wants to stop the affair. Did I do something wrong, what should I do now. Thanks for help.
    30 answers · 2 days ago
  • My ex-wife has refused to let me see my daughter for over a year now and says she only will if I pay the child support she waived.?

    My ex-wife has been refusing to let me see my little girl. When the divorce went through she told the judge she did not want me to pay child support. Now that her husband is cheating on her and wants a divorce she is taking it out on me by claiming she can take me back for child support, which is difficult as I am... show more
    My ex-wife has been refusing to let me see my little girl. When the divorce went through she told the judge she did not want me to pay child support. Now that her husband is cheating on her and wants a divorce she is taking it out on me by claiming she can take me back for child support, which is difficult as I am caring for my grandmother, as well as not letting me see my daughter.
    30 answers · 2 days ago
  • How to get over the guilt of cheating on my wife? Someone one night showed a lot of interest and I miss that. And then it happened.?

    Best answer: What she doesn’t know won’t hurt her. So keep your lips zipped.
    Best answer: What she doesn’t know won’t hurt her. So keep your lips zipped.
    22 answers · 2 days ago
  • Should I tell my wife that I changed my mind about attending her family reunion?

    My wife's family on her mother's side is having its annual 4th of July family reunion in a couple of weeks. The party is a six hour drive from where we live and lasts 3-4 days. My wife does not go every year. This year my wife wants to go because her mother is not in good health. I am very uncomfortable... show more
    My wife's family on her mother's side is having its annual 4th of July family reunion in a couple of weeks. The party is a six hour drive from where we live and lasts 3-4 days. My wife does not go every year. This year my wife wants to go because her mother is not in good health. I am very uncomfortable around my wife's family-which is much larger than mine- and, I am afraid, I left that discomfort show more than once. It caused some stress in her family and made my wife angry at me. I am not proud of that. I am also uncomfortable because I feel that my life has because I have no control over my life during those visits and I don't like it. I am reconsidering my decision about not attending. My wife said I could stay home if I wanted to, although I might be dealing with that fallout later. When I asked her if her going without me would be hard on her with our four year old twins, she said " well I know that you don't want to be there and that would cause me more stress." She will have some family to help her if needed. I still really don't want to go,and she might not want me to go, but I now feel guilty about not going because I could help her and I want our family time. Plans may have been completed assuming I am not going. I am considering saying nothing and keeping my word that I am not going or telling her that I'd like to go and help her and have our family time and play baby sitter and driver while she goes. What should I do? Thank you for reading!
    10 answers · 16 hours ago
  • He won't set a date?

    I am engaged to get married. I've been engaged since January 2015. We are both divorced and have been together over 6 years with children from previous marriages. We are 46 and 49. We purposely waited to get married until my oldest son graduated college so he could still get his financial aid loans. He... show more
    I am engaged to get married. I've been engaged since January 2015. We are both divorced and have been together over 6 years with children from previous marriages. We are 46 and 49. We purposely waited to get married until my oldest son graduated college so he could still get his financial aid loans. He graduated in the beginning of May. Since then, I've asked my fiancé about three times when he would like to get married. His response is agitation, annoyance and "why don't you just pick the date, I don't care". I get angry and tell him its a joint decision, that we should discuss it together. No big wedding, just the two of us going away somewhere together. I suggested Vegas and then go to Hawaii for the rest of the week for a honeymoon -- says its too expensive. I suggested going to Florida for the weekend and getting married on the beach -- showed a little interest but never brought it up. I suggested July, he said its too hot. But won't make any suggestions or talk to me like an adult about figuring this out. The other day he got agitated and started screeching at me "why are you dumping this on me?" That really hurt my feelings and I am starting to think that he really doesn't want to. I feel like I should just cut my losses and give him the ring back. I don't think it will every happen. Not with both of us making a decision together as a couple anyway.
    23 answers · 3 days ago
  • If you find out your wife is related to you, can you divorce?

    Best answer: You can divorce your wife if you must, but not because of this drop in the bucket of shared heredity.
    Best answer: You can divorce your wife if you must, but not because of this drop in the bucket of shared heredity.
    30 answers · 4 days ago
  • Can this marriage be annulled?

    If you married a woman on the ground that she’s a virgin and on the wedding night, you found out that she’s not, can you get the marriage annulled? This might seem like no big deal to you, but where I come from, it’s absolutely necessary that you marry a virgin. Otherwise, you’re the idiot who married a whore.
    If you married a woman on the ground that she’s a virgin and on the wedding night, you found out that she’s not, can you get the marriage annulled? This might seem like no big deal to you, but where I come from, it’s absolutely necessary that you marry a virgin. Otherwise, you’re the idiot who married a whore.
    8 answers · 10 hours ago
  • Should I tell my wife that I’m secretly gay?

    We’ve been married for 10 years but I’ve always been attracted to men, I’m not sure if I should tell her or not at this point or if it’s now pointless
    We’ve been married for 10 years but I’ve always been attracted to men, I’m not sure if I should tell her or not at this point or if it’s now pointless
    15 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is This Normal From A Husband?

    9 answers · 1 day ago
  • Should inlaws have to announce week long visits?

    My father in law decided to schedule an 8 day long visit without even telling me or my husband. Usually he just shows up at the door unexpected (and stays for 1 week). We've told im before that we would to know so we can coordinate his visit with our busy schedule. The only way we knew he was coming this time... show more
    My father in law decided to schedule an 8 day long visit without even telling me or my husband. Usually he just shows up at the door unexpected (and stays for 1 week). We've told im before that we would to know so we can coordinate his visit with our busy schedule. The only way we knew he was coming this time is because his daughter told us that he and bought airplane tickets to visit in a week. I'm and getting to sick and tired of him doing this. I want to be able to enjoy the time when he is here visiting and not be irritated by him being so inconsiderate. how would you feel? Who continues to do this?
    15 answers · 3 days ago
  • Should you always be available to your spouse?

    My wife has this idea that when she wants to do something I should drop any and everything I'm doing and do what she wants. She also feels that we NEVER do anything. Money is tight with us now and some weeks we barely make it by with paying bills and just trying to keep gas in our old cars. Yesterday at work... show more
    My wife has this idea that when she wants to do something I should drop any and everything I'm doing and do what she wants. She also feels that we NEVER do anything. Money is tight with us now and some weeks we barely make it by with paying bills and just trying to keep gas in our old cars. Yesterday at work she sends me a text to say she wanted to go to the movies. She wanted to see the new Incredibles 2 movie. I'm almost 49 and she's 48. We don't have young kids anymore but she said that when our kids were younger and we bought the first Incredibles movie on DVD that she assumed I wanted to see the sequel. Honestly, I don't. I guess I've aged out of cartoon movies. But now she's upset that I seem to not want to do anything with her today. Oh, and as far as the movie goes, she had planned a night of dinner and a movie but she told me she wasn't going to pay for everything so I needed to kick in on one or the other. Thanks for spending my money without asking. She feels she doesn't have to ask me what I have planned on Sat because as her wife I should always be available for her. I actually have plans myself. My sister wants me to come to her house and put up a couple of ceiling fans. My daughter wants me to change the oil and spark plugs on her car. But the most important thing I'm working on is a woodworking project making a piggy bank for one of our granddaughters. I've been working on it a couple of weeks and had plans to do other things to it this
    25 answers · 5 days ago
  • Is there a man married to twins?

    Best answer: Here's an Australian guy trying to skirt polygamy laws - https://www.maxim.com/news/worlds-most-i...
    Best answer: Here's an Australian guy trying to skirt polygamy laws - https://www.maxim.com/news/worlds-most-i...
    5 answers · 4 days ago
  • Why don't most people marry and have kids young anymore?

    Back in the olden days, many people got married in high school or right after. Almost everyone was married with a couple kids and a house by their late 20s. Nowadays many people don't marry or have kids until their 30s or 40s
    Back in the olden days, many people got married in high school or right after. Almost everyone was married with a couple kids and a house by their late 20s. Nowadays many people don't marry or have kids until their 30s or 40s
    10 answers · 2 days ago
  • Should I confront him or not?

    I have a friend who might have said something in appropriate to my girlfriend while he was drunk. It happened on Sunday at a friends birthday party. I was with my friends drinking at their house and just sort of everywhere. My girlfriend doesn’t drink or smoke so she was just hanging outside for most of the night.... show more
    I have a friend who might have said something in appropriate to my girlfriend while he was drunk. It happened on Sunday at a friends birthday party. I was with my friends drinking at their house and just sort of everywhere. My girlfriend doesn’t drink or smoke so she was just hanging outside for most of the night. Sometime throughout the night this happened were one of my supposed friends was talking to her and said something he shouldn’t have. I won’t go into it but it was something beyond the line of just flirting. My girlfriend didn’t tell me what had happened until the next day because she was worried I would’ve beat the hell out of him then and there (which I would’ve) so now I’m mad about that and her not telling me then and there. I might run into him tomorrow night, but I’m not sure how to handle it. I feel like there’s no moral ground to what he did, but could he not have really been all there? What can I ask him to find out?
    7 answers · 13 hours ago
  • Am I wrong for wanting to keep celebrating me and my husbands dating anniversary?

    My husband and I have officially been in love for 7 years on June 16th! Well his cousin also married yesterday and he preferred to go with them instead of spend time with me and celebrate another successful year of us together. Like we have been celebrating our dating anniversary for all of the years together and... show more
    My husband and I have officially been in love for 7 years on June 16th! Well his cousin also married yesterday and he preferred to go with them instead of spend time with me and celebrate another successful year of us together. Like we have been celebrating our dating anniversary for all of the years together and all of a sudden he tells me it’s not that important! Am I wrong for being angry?! Not to mention he works 6 days a week unscheduled hrs so we hardly have time because we also have children! I feel bad for being angry but I’m not because he goes out more than I feel a married man should when I’m the one stuck in the house with kids!
    15 answers · 4 days ago
  • Is this cheating?

    My husband has gone alone to strip clubs on many occasions and got private lap dances! I just found out. I feel hurt and not good enough! I feel like this is acceptable cheating in a mans world! Is this cheating?
    My husband has gone alone to strip clubs on many occasions and got private lap dances! I just found out. I feel hurt and not good enough! I feel like this is acceptable cheating in a mans world! Is this cheating?
    6 answers · 14 hours ago