• If your wife turned down sex because the family cat was laying on her and she didn't want to make them leave what would you do?

    This happened to me last night and I just went to bed with the light on so that b would have to move the cat to turn the light off anyways
    This happened to me last night and I just went to bed with the light on so that b would have to move the cat to turn the light off anyways
    21 answers · 17 hours ago
  • My newlywed husband of 10 months touched another female at an adult club. How do I move forward?

    My husband and I went on a date night this past weekend. I personally have never been to an adult club. We were enjoying our sex life as newlyweds and are trying new things such as nudist places, adult clubs, role playing in the bedroom ,love shops etc.We have never ever discussed swinging and we didn’t have any... show more
    My husband and I went on a date night this past weekend. I personally have never been to an adult club. We were enjoying our sex life as newlyweds and are trying new things such as nudist places, adult clubs, role playing in the bedroom ,love shops etc.We have never ever discussed swinging and we didn’t have any conversation prior to entering the adult club about dos and donts. Me personally I’m all for role play and looking at others however touching is always off limits That’s crossing the line.Yes we were drinking. Anyway in this adult club it’s total sexual freedom . Peoples are making out and having sex everywhere. As the night progressed we were making out next to another couple. My husband asked the guy did he want to switch partners. I pinched my husband and said no and he switched anyway. I watched him as he put his hands in between this females legs and he gasped with excitement and she moaned with pleasure. I got up and left pissed. We went home and fought to the point where my daughter woke up 3am concerned about what was going on. I’m repulsed by him now and have lost all respect for him. I don’t know how to move forward with my marriage I feel disrespected on so many levels. He has 3 kids and I have a daughter. We all live together. I love him but I don’t know how to forgive him or even if I should. I can’t stand to look at him . I’m horney but I would rather die horney then sleep with himWhat should I do?please help me with honest advice thank you in advance 😔
    20 answers · 1 day ago
  • What would you do, if your wife (or hubby )cheats on your back?

    Best answer: Cheating is a moral crime, but unfortunately no law upholds this in the "free" countries. My ex cheated on me for years, and when I finally caught on he has many, many affairs under his belt. He was also emotionally and psychologically abusive. You bet I wish cheating was technically a crime!! I wanted... show more
    Best answer: Cheating is a moral crime, but unfortunately no law upholds this in the "free" countries. My ex cheated on me for years, and when I finally caught on he has many, many affairs under his belt. He was also emotionally and psychologically abusive. You bet I wish cheating was technically a crime!! I wanted him to pay. Instead, I have divorced him and have let him live with his non-winning cheating self and know that his day will come. I do believe God is watching. My life is a million times better without my ex, now. It's much healthier to focus on yourself and your healing. What good is a criminal charge against your ex when you are still lonely, hurt and miserable?
    22 answers · 2 days ago
  • I caught my neighbor s husband cheating: Should I tell her?

    I was sitting on my porch and saw my neighbor go off to work. We waved goodbye. I saw another woman show up two hours later at my neighbor s house. He was all dressed up and I followed them to a resteraunt and they kissed Should I tell my neighbor about this? I took a whole video of the whole thing. I couldn t... show more
    I was sitting on my porch and saw my neighbor go off to work. We waved goodbye. I saw another woman show up two hours later at my neighbor s house. He was all dressed up and I followed them to a resteraunt and they kissed Should I tell my neighbor about this? I took a whole video of the whole thing. I couldn t imagine going through this but i would want to know especially since she talks highly of her husband
    18 answers · 2 days ago
  • My husband wants a divorce, but says he still needs me to help him with his school work. Says he just wants to be my friend. What do I do?

    My husband and I have been together for a total of 17 years (married for 3). A few months ago he told me that he didn't love me anymore and wanted a separation and eventual divorce. He tells me that he may have feelings for someone else who is also married with a child but says they are just best friends and I... show more
    My husband and I have been together for a total of 17 years (married for 3). A few months ago he told me that he didn't love me anymore and wanted a separation and eventual divorce. He tells me that he may have feelings for someone else who is also married with a child but says they are just best friends and I shouldn't care. He has recently gone back to school and started a new position at work. He still asks me to help him and like an idiot I still do. I have done almost every single one of his assignments for school (about a year and a half worth of work)and much of the paperwork that is required from his new position at work. He says that he needs me to help him get back on his feet and when he's ready, we'll finalize the divorce. I still do many of the same things I did as his wife (laundry, cook, iron his clothes and do the dry cleaning). He says he doesn't want me, to stay out of his business especially his relationship with this other woman. Still, sometimes, he'll give me hope that we can work it out and I fall into that whole routine again. Then, he'll tell me that there is no hope for us, he doesn't love me and doesn't want me, but still needs my help and just wants to be friends. I want to help him so that he doesn't fail, because I care about him, but I also no longer want to do these things anymore because it's mentally not healthy for me. How can I get past this? I'm unsure of what to do, I feel conflicted.
    21 answers · 2 days ago
  • Why Won’t He Marry Me?

    Best answer: He knows that he does not have to marry you. He knows that he can get the best from you without marriage. So -- he just does not want to get marriage. Surprise him -- STOP everything with him .. no explanation .. nothing … just stop it all .. and don't let him push your buttons to get you to come around. Never... show more
    Best answer: He knows that he does not have to marry you.
    He knows that he can get the best from you without marriage.
    So -- he just does not want to get marriage.
    Surprise him -- STOP everything with him .. no explanation .. nothing … just stop it all .. and don't let him push your buttons to get you to come around.
    Never give up on wanting what is right .. however, you don't want to make a person marry you … if he isn't marrying you - it's because he doesn't want to marry you - and he can get you to do all things for him.
    Surprise him big time … he will respect you more for it.
    35 answers · 4 days ago
  • Should I live in a sexless marriage?

    I am 31, husband is 33. We have been married 2 years now. Before we met I was single but had sex about 5 days out of the week. Before that I was in a relationship for 4 years and had sex multiple times a day. Then I met my husband and I was actually the one to take his V-card. We had sex about 3-4 times a week and... show more
    I am 31, husband is 33. We have been married 2 years now. Before we met I was single but had sex about 5 days out of the week. Before that I was in a relationship for 4 years and had sex multiple times a day. Then I met my husband and I was actually the one to take his V-card. We had sex about 3-4 times a week and I thought that was really bad at the time but understood we had different work schedules and didn't live together. Then we got married and now I have sex maybe once per 3 months. I think we might have had sex last year like 9 times or so. Also, when we have sex, he cums really fast and he doesn't ever help me out in anyway. He used to be way better at this, longer lasting, happy to make me happy. But now he just doesn't want to have sex. I have done everything I have read about doing. I have talked to him numerous times, I have gotten mad, I have pretended like he is amazing and the best thing ever (if it was a confidence issue), we have been to counseling (he just begs me to stay with him, he loves me, he will try harder), wearing lingerie to bed, etc. I now just no longer press the issue, I thought well maybe if I don't beg him for sex, he will want it more, nope, he plays xbox all night long with his friends, and when I ask him to just watch a movie with me, he gets mad and says this is the only time he gets to spend with his friends. Sadly it is also the only time he has to spend with me and he doesn't. I am just sexually frustrated and don't know what to do.
    12 answers · 1 day ago
  • Do you believe in marriage? My boyfriend thinks its stupid and doesn't believe in it.?

    I love my boyfriend and we've been together for almost 5 years. Since then my desire to get married is stronger than it was when I was 'young.' At this point he wants us to start saving together and 'building' a life. I agree with him we are at the point in life where this is the next step but I... show more
    I love my boyfriend and we've been together for almost 5 years. Since then my desire to get married is stronger than it was when I was 'young.' At this point he wants us to start saving together and 'building' a life. I agree with him we are at the point in life where this is the next step but I told I want to be married or that to be in process if we are going to have a bank account together. He laughs and says 'isn't me saying I want to spend the rest of life with you enough?' I respect that and it's like I want a big wedding or even a ring. He says marriage is a government agenda and I get so upset. Basically I am not sure what to do. Is this too much to ask? What are your thoughts. He is 40 years old by the way.
    29 answers · 4 days ago
  • I fell in love with a woman but now I realise she is not a nice person?

    I've known her for a year but been intimate for 3 months. How can I get out of this situation? I think about her when I wake up & before I sleep, we're in our early 40s
    I've known her for a year but been intimate for 3 months. How can I get out of this situation? I think about her when I wake up & before I sleep, we're in our early 40s
    9 answers · 15 hours ago
  • How should I deal with my husband?

    Best answer: When you are mad at someone, you don't want to accept any nice things they do for you. Of course, it would be a sign of good maturity if he did wear your ironed clothes and eat the breakfast you prepared even if he was upset - but let's face it - finding a "mature man" is like finding a needle in... show more
    Best answer: When you are mad at someone, you don't want to accept any nice things they do for you. Of course, it would be a sign of good maturity if he did wear your ironed clothes and eat the breakfast you prepared even if he was upset - but let's face it - finding a "mature man" is like finding a needle in a haystack.

    Too little detail to know exactly how this interaction took place and who is mostly at fault, but obviously your husband should not be upset about your not going to the salon. And he probably wasn't. He was probably upset about something else, and that was the thing that set him off. Again - maturity issues.

    To answer your question - I would just say "I am sorry we had a disagreement" (you are not assigning any blame or taking responsibility), and say "I am happy to iron your clothes and prepare your food, but I am not going to do it for nothing and be ignored, so you let me know when you are ready to resolve this and get back to normal."
    13 answers · 2 days ago
  • How can having a baby with my fiance affect my divorce with my ex when weve been separated well over a year?

    I separated with my ex husband over a year ago and have since met my fiance and am now 7 months pregnant. We are in the final stages of divorce and it could be finalized before the birth of the baby, but my ex is lazy and simply not responding and signing forms. Weve agreed to all terms of the divorce, it s just a... show more
    I separated with my ex husband over a year ago and have since met my fiance and am now 7 months pregnant. We are in the final stages of divorce and it could be finalized before the birth of the baby, but my ex is lazy and simply not responding and signing forms. Weve agreed to all terms of the divorce, it s just a matter of getting him to sign the final papers. It takes 4-6 weeks to finalize once he does, so I only have about 2 weeks for him to do this. This hasn t been brought up in our documents because there is no possiblity of the child being his and none of us thought in our wildest dreams this would still be going on because we own nothing and have no children together and the divorce should have been simple. Will this become a paternity issue if the baby is born before we are divorced? Should we address the issue? Should I continue to hope he signs within 2 weeks? Does it do me harm or good to address this with him? I have no clue what to do. I would like to motivate him to sign right now by addressing the situation but I m afraid it would backfire and create a paternity issue where it s not necessary. I m sure he knows through mutual friends, but he and I have not spoken in over a year.
    9 answers · 19 hours ago
  • How would you deal with your husband ignoring you when he’s upset?

    He ignores you for a week sometimes 2 how would you feel?
    He ignores you for a week sometimes 2 how would you feel?
    12 answers · 2 days ago
  • How would you feel if your friend used to date and had sex with your wife for free?

    Best answer: I would feel really weird and strange … (would not like it one bit).
    Best answer: I would feel really weird and strange … (would not like it one bit).
    12 answers · 2 days ago
  • My new husband really wants me to dress as a French Maid for Halloween. He loves the look of the outfits and swears they are comfortable?

    and fun. Has anyone worn one of these, they seem really revealing and short and I am not as excited about the ruflle butt undies as he is. He wants us to go shopping for the costumes this weekend. What would you say or do ?
    and fun. Has anyone worn one of these, they seem really revealing and short and I am not as excited about the ruflle butt undies as he is. He wants us to go shopping for the costumes this weekend. What would you say or do ?
    24 answers · 5 days ago
  • When a man calls a woman "love" what does that mean?

    Best answer: Just one of many 'pet' names.
    Best answer: Just one of many 'pet' names.
    15 answers · 3 days ago
  • I would like to ask this question in the Marriage category. I'll write it below as its too long to fit in this part.?

    Scenario- You & your partner have been soulmates for over twenty years of your life. The bond you share is deep rooted. You have offspring who are now young men. They're well-adjusted and have a strong foundation in place for the journey ahead of them. All of a sudden, from you both enjoying a good... show more
    Scenario- You & your partner have been soulmates for over twenty years of your life. The bond you share is deep rooted. You have offspring who are now young men. They're well-adjusted and have a strong foundation in place for the journey ahead of them. All of a sudden, from you both enjoying a good healthy sex life, the Menopause hits your wife hard. She is rendered dead from the waist down whilst her head may as well be certified insane ( lol ). Her sex drive has gone whilst his remains very much intact. From research conducted, this could last for years. The question- How many men would remain faithful ?
    9 answers · 20 hours ago
  • When would be the best time to surprise a wife?

    Best answer: Wedding anniversary
    Best answer: Wedding anniversary
    9 answers · 20 hours ago