• I just found out my friend is poor. How do I politely tell her I don’t want to be friends anymore?

    She made it all up just to hangout with me. But eventually I ended up seeing her wear a shirt she wore a week ago which made no sense because rich people don’t wear the same clothes ever again since they have money to buy all the clothes they want. Also she didn’t want me to go over to her house so I know she isn’t... show more
    She made it all up just to hangout with me. But eventually I ended up seeing her wear a shirt she wore a week ago which made no sense because rich people don’t wear the same clothes ever again since they have money to buy all the clothes they want. Also she didn’t want me to go over to her house so I know she isn’t rich for sure. How can I tell her I want to cut it off? I don’t want a bad reputation if I’m friends.
    48 answers · 3 days ago
  • Friends...?

    Why does it seem like I can’t keep friends for a long time? Has anyone ever gone through this? Did you eventually find a good friend? I’m okay with being alone but then I wouldn’t mind having a friend to hang out with and to do things with.
    Why does it seem like I can’t keep friends for a long time? Has anyone ever gone through this? Did you eventually find a good friend? I’m okay with being alone but then I wouldn’t mind having a friend to hang out with and to do things with.
    13 answers · 2 days ago
  • Should I kill myself?

    I'm 17 and I've never had a real friend. I always have people to talk with and hang out with but they come and go so easily. I'm also gay and hate my body, and my parents attack me for both of those things. They will never accept me and I've been sexually abused so many times that I never wanna be... show more
    I'm 17 and I've never had a real friend. I always have people to talk with and hang out with but they come and go so easily. I'm also gay and hate my body, and my parents attack me for both of those things. They will never accept me and I've been sexually abused so many times that I never wanna be intimate with anyone ever again and I feel like I'm useless. I'm lonely and useless, should I kill myself?
    9 answers · 11 hours ago
  • He complains all the time?

    Best answer: You are not overacting. If the relationship was important to him, he'd find a workaround to the parking situation. As it is, he seems to be a controller. He whines about this or that to get people to his side just to make him happy. You will spend your life trying to make this guy happy, when from the... show more
    Best answer: You are not overacting. If the relationship was important to him, he'd find a workaround to the parking situation. As it is, he seems to be a controller. He whines about this or that to get people to his side just to make him happy. You will spend your life trying to make this guy happy, when from the outside, you can see, you never will.

    Don't spend all your time making someone else happy who doesn't want it. Find someone else.
    12 answers · 2 days ago
  • Was this offensive?

    I told my friend I'm 24 and I never had a boyfriend or been kissed. I told him I don't plan on ever getting married, having sex, or having kids. He said, "Well then, have you ever considered becoming a nun? Nuns don't get married, have sex, have boyfriends, or have kids."
    I told my friend I'm 24 and I never had a boyfriend or been kissed. I told him I don't plan on ever getting married, having sex, or having kids. He said, "Well then, have you ever considered becoming a nun? Nuns don't get married, have sex, have boyfriends, or have kids."
    17 answers · 4 days ago
  • Atheists and Christians is this guy good or bad should I beware of this person?

    Best answer: Whenever someone claims to be something they are not in order to gain your trust, they are unworthy of it.
    Best answer: Whenever someone claims to be something they are not in order to gain your trust, they are unworthy of it.
    6 answers · 14 hours ago
  • Are you a loner? Do you keep to youeself? I like staying to myself.?

    I'm in my late 30's and haven't been close to anyone in 3 years. When I was younger I had friends. I still like to go out and do things. I go to the gym a few times a week. I will even go out to bars and meet people. I like to see a game on tv or a band. I like to go out and talk with women. I find it... show more
    I'm in my late 30's and haven't been close to anyone in 3 years. When I was younger I had friends. I still like to go out and do things. I go to the gym a few times a week. I will even go out to bars and meet people. I like to see a game on tv or a band. I like to go out and talk with women. I find it easier when I'm alone. Then with a group of friends. I just like to date and I will be friends with her friends. My past friends all we did was got drunk. I got tired of it. Some I had to cut ties with. I find it better being a loner sometimes.
    20 answers · 6 days ago
  • I was fingering my prostate and took a video on my phone, my best freind went through my phone it and now thinks I’m gay What do I do?

    Best answer: All men and I mean ALL MEN are turned on by having their prostate stimulated. Being gay has absolutely nothing to do with it.
    Best answer: All men and I mean ALL MEN are turned on by having their prostate stimulated. Being gay has absolutely nothing to do with it.
    6 answers · 19 hours ago
  • Do you have a friend who you don't like but keep any way?

    There was girl who was really pushy and kind of bossy. I never liked her. We grew up together and she was always bossing me around or had some of opinion she had to share with me. My mom loved her and so did the other girls. My mom said she was a strong and independent women and that I should aim to be just like... show more
    There was girl who was really pushy and kind of bossy. I never liked her. We grew up together and she was always bossing me around or had some of opinion she had to share with me. My mom loved her and so did the other girls. My mom said she was a strong and independent women and that I should aim to be just like her. I was a quiet girl. We were in pre-K to 12th grade together. I tried to separate from her but we were both honors students so we were always in the same class. I couldn't tell her I didn't like her because she would tell the other girls and I could lose all my other friends. I put up with her and now we are finally going to college and I realized all my friends were actually her friends and they never liked me. They never hung out with me or talk to me when I was not with me pushy friend. They were just putting up with me because they saw me as the pushy girl's best friend. They loved her but hated me. So in the the end the only "friend" I had who actually liked me was the pushy girl I did not like. I owe her my happy childhood memories even through they were based on lies. I'm curious if other people keep friends they don't like and if they ever tell them.
    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • Would you be wary of someone who has no friends?

    Why/Why not?
    Why/Why not?
    20 answers · 5 days ago
  • How to tell a roommate to leave you alone without causing a fight?

    Best answer: Yeah, that's a difficult one. If it continues you might have to emphasize more forcefully how you feel.
    Best answer: Yeah, that's a difficult one. If it continues you might have to emphasize more forcefully how you feel.
    6 answers · 22 hours ago
  • How can I make friends with my music teacher?

    This term, I got a new instrument teacher as my usual one is taking maternity leave and she's so nice. I know this question is weird but I think she's so nice and I would like to become friends with her outside lessons, sorta like the person you and your family sees once in a while, at dinner etc. (Btw... show more
    This term, I got a new instrument teacher as my usual one is taking maternity leave and she's so nice. I know this question is weird but I think she's so nice and I would like to become friends with her outside lessons, sorta like the person you and your family sees once in a while, at dinner etc. (Btw she's really young, early 20's) I'm a year 8 student.
    5 answers · 7 hours ago
  • Best friend is going away for 2 months. How should I say goodbye?

    My best friend for the last 8 years of my life is going away in 12 hours for military basic training. I am so proud and supportive of him but at the same time I have this overwhelming sadness knowing that we will have absolutely no communication for over 2 months and unsure of when we will meet in person again. We... show more
    My best friend for the last 8 years of my life is going away in 12 hours for military basic training. I am so proud and supportive of him but at the same time I have this overwhelming sadness knowing that we will have absolutely no communication for over 2 months and unsure of when we will meet in person again. We have spent the last 5 years of both of our free time talking and playing video games together almost everyday. I'm taking some summer classes for college and have a part time job but it's not enough to fill that void of something we both enjoyed doing for the last 5 years. How do you say goodbye in this situation? Thanks.
    5 answers · 16 hours ago
  • Should I try to reconnect with the childhood friend who rejected me many years ago?

    This person was my best friend in the entire world, we met when we were both in diapers and we were very close for many years, we both had that "childhood crush" feeling with eachother when we were in kindergarten, and as the years went on I felt like my feelings for him were getting stronger but we... show more
    This person was my best friend in the entire world, we met when we were both in diapers and we were very close for many years, we both had that "childhood crush" feeling with eachother when we were in kindergarten, and as the years went on I felt like my feelings for him were getting stronger but we still played and talked like best friends. Then suddenly around 4-5th grade he became less excited about me coming over to his house, he played with other friends who were boys like him (I m a girl) and one of them would tease me to no end because I was easily upset when teased, idk. I guess he started to like me less as a friend from there. Around the end of 5th grade, he got his first cellphone and his mom gave me his number, but he never called me nor answered my calls. When I was around 11, his mom came over to my house without him because he didn t want to visit me. I was such a blockhead looking back, because in my mind i still believed we were best friends, even then. Well a couple of years went by without me seeing him because his parents lost contact with mine, but he transferred to my middle school around 7th grade, and when I saw him I ran out to greet him because it was so long, and that s when he paused before flatout telling me "hi...and bye" and walking away, without another word. I was heartbroken and miserable for a long time after that, especially since while he had so many friends he made at school, I had no friends. He was basically my only friend.
    6 answers · 2 days ago
  • Have you lost contact with some old friends as you got older?

    Best answer: I'm also 20, met my best friend in middle school, went to different high schools. We remained close friends. He leaves for military basic tomorrow. That's why I'm looking through here. I'm afraid once he is in the military our friendship will quickly dissolve. Guess it all depends on the person and... show more
    Best answer: I'm also 20, met my best friend in middle school, went to different high schools. We remained close friends. He leaves for military basic tomorrow. That's why I'm looking through here. I'm afraid once he is in the military our friendship will quickly dissolve. Guess it all depends on the person and their wants. Good luck.
    6 answers · 2 days ago
  • A student who has anorexia told me they have a hard time studying due to over exercise and hunger in the evenings? Could this be true?

    Could someone who has early stages of anorexia have a hard time studying? Should I tell higher ups in the university or keep the details she told me between us?
    Could someone who has early stages of anorexia have a hard time studying? Should I tell higher ups in the university or keep the details she told me between us?
    5 answers · 22 hours ago