• My friend molested me, were both guys?

    Yesterday night Me and a couple friends when to the bar I got pretty buzzed and my friend lives not too far from the bar so we all crashed at his place. He had marijuana so we smoked some of that too. As it was getting later in the night I was dozing off on the couch when my friend who’s house were staying came up... show more
    Yesterday night Me and a couple friends when to the bar I got pretty buzzed and my friend lives not too far from the bar so we all crashed at his place. He had marijuana so we smoked some of that too. As it was getting later in the night I was dozing off on the couch when my friend who’s house were staying came up to me and started groping my penis area I was intoxicated and high but I still knew what was going on. It turned into a argument which led into a fight and me being thrown out. I’m sober now and I feel disgusted not because of the hangover but cause of what happened and it keeps playing in my head and makes me angry I want to murdered him (I’m obviously not) but I don’t know how to get over this, any advice?
    44 answers · 3 days ago
  • Is it bad that I don’t want my friend to work with me?

    So I got a job a couple months back, and my unemployed friend keeps asking me to refer her, talk to my boss for her, etc. I just don’t want to have her working with me. It’s not that I don’t like her, it’s just that I’ve made friends at work, and people know me for me. I don’t want to have my friend take that. What... show more
    So I got a job a couple months back, and my unemployed friend keeps asking me to refer her, talk to my boss for her, etc. I just don’t want to have her working with me. It’s not that I don’t like her, it’s just that I’ve made friends at work, and people know me for me. I don’t want to have my friend take that. What should I do?
    19 answers · 2 days ago
  • How do I tell my friend i dont want to babysit anymore?

    So my best friend and I knew each other since 3rd grade got pregnant at 20 Lost contact with the baby's father. So during this the time she was pregnant I told her I would watch the baby whenever she needs me and I would be the honarary godmother Anyway, after turning 21 I think she's taking advantage of... show more
    So my best friend and I knew each other since 3rd grade got pregnant at 20 Lost contact with the baby's father. So during this the time she was pregnant I told her I would watch the baby whenever she needs me and I would be the honarary godmother Anyway, after turning 21 I think she's taking advantage of me because she's legal to drink alcohol. I watch her baby probably all weekend so she gets to party and go clubbing meanwhile I'm at the club and I watch her baby on Wednesdays because she has date nights. I've been doing this for free about a year now because she's my best friend. When I told her I think I need to be getting paid for this she just gives me $15 for watching her child all night. How can I tell her that i don't wish to watch her child anymore? I want my own life.
    15 answers · 2 days ago
  • Am I too sensitive around my friend?

    My friend says stuff all the time like "No one wants you here, shut up" "I don t respect you" Then he claims he s just joking. But it s rare he s actually nice, maybe a 9:1 rude to nice ratio. How to deal with a friend like this?
    My friend says stuff all the time like "No one wants you here, shut up" "I don t respect you" Then he claims he s just joking. But it s rare he s actually nice, maybe a 9:1 rude to nice ratio. How to deal with a friend like this?
    20 answers · 3 days ago
  • 14 Year old dating 13 Year old?

    Can a 14 Year old date a 13 Year old without it being weird?
    Can a 14 Year old date a 13 Year old without it being weird?
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • My friend is taking my lunch money.?

    Best answer: Tell him to screw off. I get it that you care but he doesn't. He should be up front with you.
    Best answer: Tell him to screw off. I get it that you care but he doesn't. He should be up front with you.
    7 answers · 1 day ago
  • I have a aunty and uncle who only invite my sister and brother to their place for lunches and exclude me. What should I do?

    Best answer: Your aunt & uncle exclude you
    your mother, brother & sister have too
    Something has gone wrong in your family, and without addressing that, you cannot mend bridges
    Best answer: Your aunt & uncle exclude you
    your mother, brother & sister have too
    Something has gone wrong in your family, and without addressing that, you cannot mend bridges
    8 answers · 21 hours ago
  • Is it possible to make friends here in Y!A?

    Best answer: Yeaa, just talk to people and answer their questions. That's how I made friends here. (:
    Best answer: Yeaa, just talk to people and answer their questions. That's how I made friends here. (:
    13 answers · 3 days ago
  • Is it morally right to hack someone's social media account for your own personal reasons?

    Best answer: If you were them how would you feel if it was done to you. The same amount you ruin their lives should be done to yours except way way worse.
    Best answer: If you were them how would you feel if it was done to you. The same amount you ruin their lives should be done to yours except way way worse.
    11 answers · 2 days ago
  • I told to my friend that i like a guy and she told me in a rude way that my face is too ugly for him...why did she say me that?

    Well she tries always too hard to convince me that i am ugly She feels bad if i feel good with my self and she tries to deatroy my self esteem One day shw told me that a girl called me ugly only to make me feel really bad I am pretty sure she enjoyed it!
    Well she tries always too hard to convince me that i am ugly She feels bad if i feel good with my self and she tries to deatroy my self esteem One day shw told me that a girl called me ugly only to make me feel really bad I am pretty sure she enjoyed it!
    9 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is this a good comeback to someone calling me gay?

    Best answer: Gay? Please, I’m straighter than the pole your mom dances on!!
    Best answer: Gay? Please, I’m straighter than the pole your mom dances on!!
    9 answers · 2 days ago
  • Im almost convinced the idea of a God is bs?

    Here I am, 19 years old. In college, I hate it. Parents divorced about 10 years ago and still fight all the time. Never had many friends growing up, basically none in high school. Barely talk to my mom. Had self esteem and anxiety/depression problems for years and this winter has definitely been my worst being home... show more
    Here I am, 19 years old. In college, I hate it. Parents divorced about 10 years ago and still fight all the time. Never had many friends growing up, basically none in high school. Barely talk to my mom. Had self esteem and anxiety/depression problems for years and this winter has definitely been my worst being home and constantly pissing off my family from being grouchy. I feel like people in my fraternity think I’m weird. Never had a girlfriend and still no really close friends. Awkward and shy at parties still and tend to lock up. Tried medications and they don’t work. What the f*ck gives? I know I’m not that bad of a person. I don’t want to be miserable forever.
    8 answers · 1 day ago
  • Should I cut off my best friend of 7 years?

    My friend is getting married within a few months. Our friendship has slowly changed drastically during this time. We regularly saw each other 4-5 times (sometimes more) a week. But normally that would be coordinating a workout that we would have done either way with or without each other. But that has turned from 5... show more
    My friend is getting married within a few months. Our friendship has slowly changed drastically during this time. We regularly saw each other 4-5 times (sometimes more) a week. But normally that would be coordinating a workout that we would have done either way with or without each other. But that has turned from 5 (or more) days to 1 day, to once in a blue moon, to most recently, he said, and I quote "we can have a texting friendship". I feel REALLY offended and abandoned by this and insulted that I feel like I would be a fool to carry on a friendship with someone who clearly doesn't value our friendship or the time and effort I have put in this friendship throughout the years. Should I allow a "texting friendship" or move on? Here is the only catch. I am a female and he is a male. We have been best friends for over 7 years. Within that time ZERO lines have been crossed, nothing sexual, no flirting. #1 there is a huge age gap between us. #2 conflicting religions that would never work out and #3 I have ZERO attraction to him! I'm of zero threat to his fiance. In the past when I was engaged I made our friendship known from day 1 to my boyfriend. I made sure and made every effort to conserve our friendship. My pride is refusing to even allow him to speak to me. I just feel like I have in one way or another been used, that I was this stand-in person for him until he met a woman he wanted to marry and now he can throw me and our friendship away. Am I over reacting?
    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • Im a guy, and I broke out some new boots today and a few girls noticed and told me “nice boots man”?

    Best answer: style means a lot to women..just know you chose some nice boots :)
    Best answer: style means a lot to women..just know you chose some nice boots :)
    5 answers · 8 hours ago
  • My best friend s mom hates me and doesn t want us to text!!!!?

    I became friends with this girl this year, and we ve been good friends for almost 6 months. Their mom barely even knows me since I ve never been to their house. I met their mom once, after we d been friends for a few days, and she seemed very grouchy and irritated to have to talk to me, but nothing else happened... show more
    I became friends with this girl this year, and we ve been good friends for almost 6 months. Their mom barely even knows me since I ve never been to their house. I met their mom once, after we d been friends for a few days, and she seemed very grouchy and irritated to have to talk to me, but nothing else happened with her mom for a long time...until last week. My friend unfollowed me for no reason on social media and later, at school, told me she texted me. I said it won t send if they aren t following me because of my account settings. But then they just deleted the text and wouldn t follow me. I later found out that actually the texts will send and I misunderstood, so I texted them and asked why they don t want to follow me. They said "Idk sorry 😂." I asked them if their mom said they can t, and apparently their mom demanded that she unfollow me right away. A few days later, her mom is still furious at me and even though my friend denies it, I know her mom hates me and is really angry. I have no idea what I did and I hate her mom back, but no one knows. I don t think she wants us to be friends, and I don t want to lose my best friend because of her mom. Her mom even put a time limit on her phone to keep her from contacting me. I have no idea what i did and for some random reason she hates me. My friend has refused over and over to ask her mom why, and refuses to have a serious conversation about it. We always end up fighting when I talk about it. What should I do???
    6 answers · 10 hours ago
  • Would you say my sister is anti-social?

    My sister has about 10 friends in total. Out of those 10 friends one is her boyfriend. Anyway my sister is never really feels open to meeting new people. She always want to stick with the same people and does not feel intrested in getting to know more people.
    My sister has about 10 friends in total. Out of those 10 friends one is her boyfriend. Anyway my sister is never really feels open to meeting new people. She always want to stick with the same people and does not feel intrested in getting to know more people.
    7 answers · 1 day ago
  • My old friend Tara won’t talk to me.?

    Best answer: I'm sorry but there is nothing you can do. Let her go and move on.
    Best answer: I'm sorry but there is nothing you can do. Let her go and move on.
    13 answers · 6 days ago