• Going on Vacation with friends over staying home with family.?

    My 2 best friends were talking one night about going to Las Vegas as nice get-a-way before the school year starts, they are both teachers. We got to talking and they said I should come along with them. I agreed and told them to get me dates and pricing. I was thinking a little weekend away from my kids and husband... show more
    My 2 best friends were talking one night about going to Las Vegas as nice get-a-way before the school year starts, they are both teachers. We got to talking and they said I should come along with them. I agreed and told them to get me dates and pricing. I was thinking a little weekend away from my kids and husband to spend a little girl time. We they looked around at booking sites and found that we could save almost $400 a person by leaving on Thursday morning to Monday night instead of Friday night to Monday morning. I have 2 kids, 3 and 1, along with a husband who works 3rd shift. My husband doesn't want me gone that long because while he is at work someone will need to watch our kids as well as taking 3 possibly 4 vacation days off work do it this way. He thinks if they want to go that long that I shouldn't go because we have responsibilities while they are 2 childless people. I really want to go but my husband and mother both think I'm being selfish and think I should save the money to go on a couple's vacation with my husband if I really want to get away. I have been 2 Vegas twice and the last time I went with these 2 friends and it led to a massive fight and a few punches thrown. Not sure what I should do. Am I really being selfish?
    8 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 12 hours ago
  • Why she deleted all my comments and blocked me on social media?

    I know this girl for so many years and been talking to her for so long. She always inspired me and promised to do whatever I need. Everytime I go to see her she hugs me & let her kiss on the cheek, get funny. I have lately gave her a big red rose she loved it, wants to hang out with me me , she said that... show more
    I know this girl for so many years and been talking to her for so long. She always inspired me and promised to do whatever I need. Everytime I go to see her she hugs me & let her kiss on the cheek, get funny. I have lately gave her a big red rose she loved it, wants to hang out with me me , she said that infront of others too. Last time I send her some flowers and a chocolate, Now She messaged me that she has a partner ( she does not) and blocked me from all hersocial media, Facebook, instagram, and everywhere. I checked froma mate's page that she deleted all my comments on her photos and I am now only a history. While I said that I always lover her the same way and did nothing wrong.
    5 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • Can my parents forbid me from having sex?

    Best answer: No your parents can not stop you , you are at the age we’re you can make up your own mind .
    Best answer: No your parents can not stop you , you are at the age we’re you can make up your own mind .
    55 answers · Family · 3 days ago
  • How to get a guy to love you?

    Best answer: Turn that frown upside down, like your question here, cause the right guy will be like a puppy at your feet. He will will smile and be pleasing! Happiness will enter your life. Be praying for him now and have faith because God has a good plan for your life!
    Best answer: Turn that frown upside down, like your question here, cause the right guy will be like a puppy at your feet. He will will smile and be pleasing! Happiness will enter your life. Be praying for him now and have faith because God has a good plan for your life!
    35 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • Did you have a religious marriage?

    My fiance and I are planning our wedding and her parents are refusing to come unless it is in a Catholic Church. She is technically Catholic, but not a practicing one. I absolutely abhor the Catholic Church, I honestly believe it is one of the worst institutions mankind has ever created. The wedding should always... show more
    My fiance and I are planning our wedding and her parents are refusing to come unless it is in a Catholic Church. She is technically Catholic, but not a practicing one. I absolutely abhor the Catholic Church, I honestly believe it is one of the worst institutions mankind has ever created. The wedding should always be about the bride but I don't feel comfortable lying about commitments to God that I do not intend to keep. All my commitments are to her. Should I put my foot down and say no to a wedding in a Catholic Church or just play along?
    34 answers · Weddings · 1 day ago
  • Found someone better, should I dump girlfriend?

    Best answer: I think your current girlfriend is upset that you're seeing this other girl without her knowing much about what's going on. I mean you're technically not cheating, but please let both your current girlfriend and this new girl know of your intentions before it becomes a problem. Just be honest when... show more
    Best answer: I think your current girlfriend is upset that you're seeing this other girl without her knowing much about what's going on. I mean you're technically not cheating, but please let both your current girlfriend and this new girl know of your intentions before it becomes a problem. Just be honest when talking to the both of them, but also be genuine about it and don't leave it on a bad note.

    I think if you're only going to be in a temporary relationship with this new girl just because your current girlfriend is stressing over her life/career tho, then I suggest you stay with your current girlfriend but you guys can just take a break if that's what both of you want. It should be fine if you hang out with this other girl as long as your current girlfriend knows that you two are just friends and nothing more.

    Just don't take it too far cause then you'll just be cheating on your current girlfriend. There is a certain degree of risk with whatever you're trying to do so just break up with your current girlfriend if you have to and rethink your decision.

    These are a few things you can consider as to whether you should dump your girlfriend or not. Whatever you do, however, don't start cheating on your girlfriend or lie about your true intentions because it won't end on good terms if either of them find out.
    35 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • What are you living for?

    19 answers · Family · 1 day ago
  • Would you tell your husband/partner about private talks you have a with a friend (of the same sex)?

    Would you tell your husband or partner about those private conversations and what your friend tells you in confidence? In my situation it’s about her not feeling good enough and struggling with confidence/self esteem very private stuff. She has only ever really opened up to me but wants it kept between only us. we... show more
    Would you tell your husband or partner about those private conversations and what your friend tells you in confidence? In my situation it’s about her not feeling good enough and struggling with confidence/self esteem very private stuff. She has only ever really opened up to me but wants it kept between only us. we are both girls. Should I tell my family
    23 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 17 hours ago
  • Am I a bad friend?

    My friend has a boyfriend who I really don’t like and she knows this. She turned 18 in February and now feels that shes “legal” she can do whatever she wants. Lately she’s been skipping school to spend time with her boyfriend and she’s falling behind on everything. Would I be a bad friend if I tell her parents?
    My friend has a boyfriend who I really don’t like and she knows this. She turned 18 in February and now feels that shes “legal” she can do whatever she wants. Lately she’s been skipping school to spend time with her boyfriend and she’s falling behind on everything. Would I be a bad friend if I tell her parents?
    10 answers · Friends · 14 hours ago
  • After having sex for the first time with the guy I am talking to...who should text first, the guy or me ?

    I’m interested and seeing how this guys day is going but I feel as though I should wait till he reaches out...thoughts ?
    I’m interested and seeing how this guys day is going but I feel as though I should wait till he reaches out...thoughts ?
    7 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 hours ago
  • Me and my friend pretended to be satanists into a bus and when the bus stopped everyone turned and look at us....why?

    We are both females We were talking about how we worship satan and that should be accept by society and many other things and everyone were hearing us and when the bus stoped and we arrived to our destination everyone turned and looked at us in a very strange way.... Why?
    We are both females We were talking about how we worship satan and that should be accept by society and many other things and everyone were hearing us and when the bus stoped and we arrived to our destination everyone turned and looked at us in a very strange way.... Why?
    22 answers · Friends · 20 hours ago
  • Is it really wrong to have sex with your brothers friend?

    Best answer: No, it's not wrong. Your friend has her values, and you have yours. Don't let opinions steer your life.
    Best answer: No, it's not wrong. Your friend has her values, and you have yours. Don't let opinions steer your life.
    20 answers · Friends · 15 hours ago
  • Cant meet new people!!?

    Hey Im a 17 year old guy looking to start a relationship. Im struggling to meet new people (girls) near me. I choose not to have any social media because I prefer having someone to talk to in person and not online. And if someone wants to see my face I say lets get lunch and talk, not Ill snapchat you a pic with a... show more
    Hey Im a 17 year old guy looking to start a relationship. Im struggling to meet new people (girls) near me. I choose not to have any social media because I prefer having someone to talk to in person and not online. And if someone wants to see my face I say lets get lunch and talk, not Ill snapchat you a pic with a pointless 2 line sentence. Im told constantly that I have an old soul and am too nice, which I guess just refers to how I always try to act like a true gentlemen around women. But in todays age doesn’t get girls. Does anyone have any suggestions on where I can meet some down to earth people who arent sucked into their devices 24/7???
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • Shouldn t spouses have each other s back especially on something that relates to both of them?

    Best answer: Give him a gentle reminder that when it happens again, you'd appreciate him factoring in the time you'd need to get ready. There could be a number of reasons he didn't consider this but it's better to gently ask him and hope for a better outcome for the next time.
    Best answer: Give him a gentle reminder that when it happens again, you'd appreciate him factoring in the time you'd need to get ready. There could be a number of reasons he didn't consider this but it's better to gently ask him and hope for a better outcome for the next time.
    18 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 2 days ago
  • Is it ever okay to cheat when your being neglected?

    So I know the obvious answer is no but I don't know how to handle this situation. My husbands and my relationship somewhere down the line became a business arrangement. Divorcing would be complicated at best and without us having children, I'd be taking a chance of losing my home. He's threatened to... show more
    So I know the obvious answer is no but I don't know how to handle this situation. My husbands and my relationship somewhere down the line became a business arrangement. Divorcing would be complicated at best and without us having children, I'd be taking a chance of losing my home. He's threatened to basically stalk me if I ever try to leave, he'd never leave me alone and I believe he loves me but I'm miserable. I'm completely sexually unsatisfied due to his lack of effort and his attitude keeps me anxious all the time just waiting for the next time he flips for no reason. My best guy friend and I use to have sex all the time and of course haven't since I've been with my husband but the opportunity did present itself again recently. I've asked for an open marriage but he refused. Question is, if you thought you might could be happier with your husband if you were getting what he wouldn't give you from somewhere else and no one would ever know, for sure. Would it ever be acceptable? I will add that my husband cheated on me 2 years ago and our sex life hasn't been good in about 4 years. I'm not the person who would usually ask such a stupid question but I don't really have a way out of my marriage right now and I really need some intimacy, I've begged my husband and even begged to go to counseling but he refuses. He isn't going to work on it but I can't leave him right now no matter what I want. I know my secrets safe with my bff and no one would have to get hurt...
    5 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 53 mins ago
  • I hate people who have sex. I just think it's absolutely disgusting. Is this normal? Does anyone else feel the same way?

    Best answer: It's not usual, I'm not going to say it's not normal, there are people who feel this way! You seem to feel sex is unclean, and focusing on the wreckless abandon of sex also you're focusing on the bad sides of it not the good. I think that maybe there is a issue there you're not dealing with. ... show more
    Best answer: It's not usual, I'm not going to say it's not normal, there are people who feel this way!

    You seem to feel sex is unclean, and focusing on the wreckless abandon of sex also you're focusing on the bad sides of it not the good. I think that maybe there is a issue there you're not dealing with. I went through the same thing at 14 and didn't come out of it until 18/19 by which point I still was in that mindset you're in until around 21. Mine was caused though, I wasn't always like that.

    Maybe you're Asexual.... Don't worry about it but the aversion to it isn't exactly common, if you're happy though and you don't thinnk there is any reason to this... then don't worry.
    87 answers · Singles & Dating · 5 days ago