• Should you pay off your girlfriends debt?

    You’ve been together for over a year and plan on marrying eventually. You do not live together yet. She has accumulated a lot of credit card debt and she’s been hinting for you to help her pay it off. Should you?
    You’ve been together for over a year and plan on marrying eventually. You do not live together yet. She has accumulated a lot of credit card debt and she’s been hinting for you to help her pay it off. Should you?
    13 answers · Singles & Dating · 11 hours ago
  • Should I sleep with this girl although she is larger than what I go for?

    This girl in question is my flatmate, we are constantly flirting and generally I really like her, as a friend. I would never want to be in a relationship with her but there's a lot of sexual tension. However, I don't, ever, go for larger girls. I am simply just not attracted to them. She isn't chubby,... show more
    This girl in question is my flatmate, we are constantly flirting and generally I really like her, as a friend. I would never want to be in a relationship with her but there's a lot of sexual tension. However, I don't, ever, go for larger girls. I am simply just not attracted to them. She isn't chubby, but more on the larger end of the spectrum but not massive (but not far off). What should I do? I probably wont do it, but I am always flirting with her and don't want to lead her on, even though I kind of am. We have spoken, and I said we cant because we are flatmates. So I did lie to her because I didn't want to say the true reason why.
    10 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • Can my parents take things from me that I bought with money I earned from MY job?

    For example: laptop. I bought it with money I earned from MY job.
    For example: laptop. I bought it with money I earned from MY job.
    113 answers · Family · 3 days ago
  • Does it hurt when you first have SeX? I am a female?

    Best answer: I had friends who say it hurt but my first time was easy. The guy I was dating was older and more experienced, he took time. He made sure I was sufficiently wet before he started into me.. he just took it slow, put it a little further in each time. A couple times I got a little pain but it was nothing. The only... show more
    Best answer: I had friends who say it hurt but my first time was easy. The guy I was dating was older and more experienced, he took time. He made sure I was sufficiently wet before he started into me.. he just took it slow, put it a little further in each time. A couple times I got a little pain but it was nothing. The only time it really kinda hurt was when he pushed all the way in to cu*.. that hurt a little but it was fine after that.
    40 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • I think my friend is freaking lesbian, should I stay friends with her?

    To be honest, homosexual people kind of freak me out. I seem to feel comfortable having a friendship with lesbians, sadly. I can’t, I was just raised like this. we’re both just 15. I don’t want her to act weird with me, but she’s my friend, what should do I?
    To be honest, homosexual people kind of freak me out. I seem to feel comfortable having a friendship with lesbians, sadly. I can’t, I was just raised like this. we’re both just 15. I don’t want her to act weird with me, but she’s my friend, what should do I?
    47 answers · Friends · 3 days ago
  • Why do girls think it's attractive to say they are a virgin?

    First off for experienced guys including myself, we are turned off when we hear the word virgin. Because that means we have to go thought that awkward phase of trying to deflower her and sometimes it would take 1-3 hours before they're ready to go, On top of that she is still super nervous, he sour patch... show more
    First off for experienced guys including myself, we are turned off when we hear the word virgin. Because that means we have to go thought that awkward phase of trying to deflower her and sometimes it would take 1-3 hours before they're ready to go, On top of that she is still super nervous, he sour patch hasn't been penetrated yet so she still has to go through the part where it hurts her when you first put it in, and will it sucks . but when there is a experienced girl she already good to go. on top of that she may know many different ways in making a guy feel good. so knowing that why do girls think it's attractive to say they are a virgin, there has a few time when I get her to my bedroom and she says "it's my first time" I say "great' but in my mind i'm like aww **** I find out later that it wasn't their first time and they just say that to be cute. so yea why do they say that. why do they think it is attractive to say they are a virgin
    124 answers · Singles & Dating · 5 days ago
  • My wife had a fling but came home bruised on her breasts and private parts How on earth do I handle this?

    She came home last Thursday very late and so upset. She broke down weeping and said she had not been to her sisters but had seen a guy from her work. I am devestated because when I became angry she said she was badly bruised all over and he had hurt her. Then fury took over but with such mis placed blame? What do... show more
    She came home last Thursday very late and so upset. She broke down weeping and said she had not been to her sisters but had seen a guy from her work. I am devestated because when I became angry she said she was badly bruised all over and he had hurt her. Then fury took over but with such mis placed blame? What do I do she let him have her but he went wild, I won’t describe what he did it is too raw. I am so mixed up, sad and mad at my wife furious and dangerously revengeful against him. What do I do and how come this sht comes my way
    14 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 1 day ago
  • I'm shocked to discover that two friends of mine are racist 😭. How do I teach them indirectly that racism is bad?

    They don't like hindus, muslims etc. They easily influenced, what strategies can I take to teach them that race and religion don't matter, only the personality of the person?
    They don't like hindus, muslims etc. They easily influenced, what strategies can I take to teach them that race and religion don't matter, only the personality of the person?
    41 answers · Friends · 2 days ago
  • Why do guys like to finish inside of a girl?

    Best answer: They must find you to be really attractive and want to be intimate with you. Are you offended that they want to ejaculate inside of you? Some of them might secretly hope they were in a relationship with you where they could be this intimate. Intriguing question.
    Best answer: They must find you to be really attractive and want to be intimate with you. Are you offended that they want to ejaculate inside of you? Some of them might secretly hope they were in a relationship with you where they could be this intimate. Intriguing question.
    61 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 days ago
  • Why are people so upset that Gabby Douglas said women who dress will attract the wrong attention?

    Best answer: Because a lot of people don't want to take responsibility for themselves any more.
    I agree with Gabby. If you dress like a slut, you'll get treated like a slut.
    Best answer: Because a lot of people don't want to take responsibility for themselves any more.
    I agree with Gabby. If you dress like a slut, you'll get treated like a slut.
    16 answers · Family · 2 days ago
  • Why do I always feel people hate me?

    I'm a 26 year old male, I feel like everyone hates me. Every time I try and talk to someone they will find any excuse to get away from me. I've always been a shy person but I'm not as shy as I used to be - in fact I am a lot better in social situations than say 4 or 5 years ago but it seems this... show more
    I'm a 26 year old male, I feel like everyone hates me. Every time I try and talk to someone they will find any excuse to get away from me. I've always been a shy person but I'm not as shy as I used to be - in fact I am a lot better in social situations than say 4 or 5 years ago but it seems this doesn't really change anything. I feel like people are always very cynical as if no one ever believes that I'm genuinely interested and that I'm only out to get them or something. It hurts when people act like you're in the way, or they think you're trying to make them uncomfortable. It makes me really angry inside when people act like they are some kind of victim for all the wrong reasons. I really hate it when people say "you just have to get out there and talk to more people" yet every time I try this, I make little to no progress. They will do everything to make you think you are bothering them. It always seems the best thing to do is to avoid people and leave them alone but at the same time, it's not healthy to do that either. I have tried being a confident person, sometimes it feels good to be confident - then other times it feels so wrong. Like, I sometimes feel as if people know I'm trying too hard and that hurts. And every time I feel hurt by something or someone, I step back.
    19 answers · Friends · 2 days ago
  • Why do my friends make me feel awful?

    Best answer: You sound like me while I was in High School. My friends would tell me "you're not stressed, or, you're not depressed". LoL its funny looking back, you know why? Because they were kids, we all were. They didn't know jack sh** and they'll tell you that today. That's why kids... show more
    Best answer: You sound like me while I was in High School. My friends would tell me "you're not stressed, or, you're not depressed". LoL its funny looking back, you know why? Because they were kids, we all were. They didn't know jack sh** and they'll tell you that today. That's why kids shouldn't rely on advice on other kids. Well really really crucial advice that is. Being depress is crucial because it leads to other things. You need support, and it appears you friends aren't giving it too you.

    So either you find the support else where (hobby, family, news friends). Or find a way to to find support out of your friends. Don't do nothing drastic (like hurt yourself), that means you could talk to a couselor and she/he will *wink wink, node node* to your friends to do better. Stress doesn't get eliminated over a day. Unfortunately. It can go away over time. In that time you need support. So find it my friend. Also, I don't know how old you are, but that first statement was just used to show you.... despite the relationship you have with someone(s) they might not always be able to help or have the best intention right then.
    6 answers · Friends · 7 hours ago
  • Should I spend Christmas with my family?

    They invited me. I don’t know why. I haven’t seen them since summer 2008. It’s awkward. I don’t want to go.
    They invited me. I don’t know why. I haven’t seen them since summer 2008. It’s awkward. I don’t want to go.
    38 answers · Family · 2 days ago
  • Guys, what would you do if this happened to you?

    Your friend is sleeping over your house like he casually does, you guys spend the night chilling out and drinking, playing video games. You get in your boxers and climb into bed as your friend hangs out on the couch. You pass out in your bed eventually. You wake up and realize that your friend feeling your... show more
    Your friend is sleeping over your house like he casually does, you guys spend the night chilling out and drinking, playing video games. You get in your boxers and climb into bed as your friend hangs out on the couch. You pass out in your bed eventually. You wake up and realize that your friend feeling your private area, what do you do in that moment? Allow him to continue, knowing that you guys are friends and could talk anything out? Pretend to be asleep and let it happen and never mention it. Or would you be weirded out and disbanded the friendship?
    8 answers · Other - Family & Relationships · 16 hours ago
  • Is this weird since I’m a girl?

    I️ love boobs and I️ love it when girls take their tops off and flash in public. I️ have so many tit pics and videos of this and I️ masturbate to them. But I’m not gay because I’d never eat a girl out I’d just suck and touch her ****. Is this unusual?
    I️ love boobs and I️ love it when girls take their tops off and flash in public. I️ have so many tit pics and videos of this and I️ masturbate to them. But I’m not gay because I’d never eat a girl out I’d just suck and touch her ****. Is this unusual?
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 hours ago