• I screwed my life up and now I don't know what to do?

    Best answer: Sorry for your loss. It is sad to lose people. Is this the first time that you lost a loved one? There are ups and downs on the wheel of life and you are down now. You are going through a rough time now but there will be better ones. It doesn't seem like your life is screwed up. You will be graduating... show more
    Best answer: Sorry for your loss. It is sad to lose people. Is this the first time that you lost a loved one? There are ups and downs on the wheel of life and you are down now. You are going through a rough time now but there will be better ones.

    It doesn't seem like your life is screwed up. You will be graduating from school soon which is a good thing. That should improve your chances of getting a job.

    The only bad thing is the debt. If you get a job you can start making payments. Just pay cash until you get your debt paid off. You will need to live on a very strict budget and make large payments on the credit cards until they're paid off. Call the credit card companies; you might be able to make a deal with them to close your accounts. If you close your accounts, I'm not sure if the interest freezes. You have to ask them. You may be able to find a loan with a lower interest rate to pay off some or all of your credit cards.

    If your debt is so large that you don't think you will ever be able to pay it, then you might want to consider bankruptcy. You can get rid of your debt that way but you will have bad credit for many years. Also, you will still have your student loan debt. You will have to pay cash to buy a car. Before declaring bankruptcy, find out how long your credit will be ruined and how long it will ruin your chances to buy a home in the future.
    36 answers · Family · 1 day ago
  • My boyfriend is constantly texting other girl – how to stop being jealous?

    We have been happily together for 2,5 years but about 2 months ago my boyfriend met a girl at one event. They started texting a lot, which made me jealous, but he said that he just likes to talk to her because they have mutual hobbies. She is also in relationship so I just accepted it until few weeks ago we went... show more
    We have been happily together for 2,5 years but about 2 months ago my boyfriend met a girl at one event. They started texting a lot, which made me jealous, but he said that he just likes to talk to her because they have mutual hobbies. She is also in relationship so I just accepted it until few weeks ago we went on holidays with my bf and it started annoying me again, because he was texting her all the time: at beach, while eating out, in bed before sleeping etc. We had fight about it but we talked it through and everything was fine, until couple of days later he told me out of the blue, that they have some kind of feelings for each other. If I asked what kind of feelings, he said that he doesn’t know if he likes her as a woman or if it’s just good vibes between friends, because he has met her in real life just once. It really hurted my feelings, because he told I have nothing to worry about and I believed him. I was really upset and said that I don’t want to see them texting anymore, but 2 days later he was already constantly chatting with her again, fully knowing that it bothers me. If I say something about it, he gets irritated. He says that he loves me and wants to be together, but I get so angry and jealous every time I see them talking. I don’t even know any more if I’m pissed because they are talking or about the fact that he doesn’t seem to care how I feel about this and hasn’t started texting her less.. I feel that this is disrespectful towards me.
    107 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • Why have I started thinking about this girl I could have married 15 years ago, but I chose a different path, married someone else?

    I have a family, anyway... would I be a prick if I just looked her up?
    I have a family, anyway... would I be a prick if I just looked her up?
    24 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 14 hours ago
  • Do you like cottage cheese?

    Best answer: Yes. With cut up tomatoes. Or with stewed prunes.
    Best answer: Yes. With cut up tomatoes. Or with stewed prunes.
    46 answers · Friends · 18 hours ago
  • Would you cry if a family member died?

    159 answers · Family · 4 days ago
  • Made neighbor pregnant by accident...?

    Best answer: Of course it's not your fault. Your wife is the one responsible and the neighbor was her accomplice. If you have any compassion, you may want to give her (both) a second chance. Are you man enough to do that?
    Best answer: Of course it's not your fault. Your wife is the one responsible and the neighbor was her accomplice. If you have any compassion, you may want to give her (both) a second chance. Are you man enough to do that?
    18 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 17 hours ago
  • How much money should I take from husband?

    I am 7 months pregnant and have a toddler with my husband, I won t get to much into why I want a divorce but it has been a number of things he has done to cause the marriage breakdown including physical violence. I can t be bothered with a divorce battle because of my children so want to make a agreement with him.... show more
    I am 7 months pregnant and have a toddler with my husband, I won t get to much into why I want a divorce but it has been a number of things he has done to cause the marriage breakdown including physical violence. I can t be bothered with a divorce battle because of my children so want to make a agreement with him. He will be paying child maintenance but I also have asked for a lump sum of his money (it s inherited from his dad) he has £80000 and will also have a lot more inheritance coming in the future (will be after we are divorced). I want to ask for £30000 but don t know if it s fair, I will have to pay rent etc on a property and won t be able to work until my child yet to be born is 2. Any views on what amount I should get?
    24 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 2 days ago
  • Should I take my friends virginity?

    We have know each other for years and hang out every so often. Im 24 and he's 22. He asked me if I would be his first basically saying he thinks its time and that he wanted to do it with someone he was comfortable with etc.. Do you think should go through with it? I just wonder if we can keep the friendship... show more
    We have know each other for years and hang out every so often. Im 24 and he's 22. He asked me if I would be his first basically saying he thinks its time and that he wanted to do it with someone he was comfortable with etc.. Do you think should go through with it? I just wonder if we can keep the friendship fine if we do.
    22 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • Bored in the bedroom.?

    Hello everyone, My wife who I love so much just had a baby 8 months ago her body change and no energy thru out the day. I don t care about the way her body looks I still love her and still see her attractive since the day I meet her. lately the bedroom fire had died out. No excitement no fun nothing. We just... show more
    Hello everyone, My wife who I love so much just had a baby 8 months ago her body change and no energy thru out the day. I don t care about the way her body looks I still love her and still see her attractive since the day I meet her. lately the bedroom fire had died out. No excitement no fun nothing. We just stick to the same moves. I m on top,she s on top,I m behind. And that s it. I am a bit freaky and try to tell her lets do this let s do that and it always get shut down. I tell her let s go to the naughty store and she said u go u buy it. It s a partnership and I want her to be the level I am. Like I said I love my wife from the bottom of my heart and it will never change. Just wish the bedroom can be exciting like I want it to be. Am I wrong? Need answer or tips. Any body have ideas. What should we do what should be brought into the bed room toys books machines don t care just need answers.
    15 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 13 hours ago
  • Should I put my foot down on my wife wanting to name our firstborn after her deceased husband? I don't want her to get mad but I don't like?

    My wife was previously married to her high school sweetheart for 2 years before he passed away. Now we are bout to have our first child and she wants to name our son after him. Not just the first name but his last name for our babies middle name. I'm totally offended that she wants to do this
    My wife was previously married to her high school sweetheart for 2 years before he passed away. Now we are bout to have our first child and she wants to name our son after him. Not just the first name but his last name for our babies middle name. I'm totally offended that she wants to do this
    22 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 13 hours ago