• What is my mom's problem. she called me a sneaky witch because I cooked breakfast for my dad and my brothers?

    Best answer: She's upset because your doing something that she should or wants to do, even if doesn't look that way. My mom acts that way, sometimes she says thank you, other times she yells because its something she figures isn't important or she could do better. Its because its her life and her house. My mom makes... show more
    Best answer: She's upset because your doing something that she should or wants to do, even if doesn't look that way. My mom acts that way, sometimes she says thank you, other times she yells because its something she figures isn't important or she could do better. Its because its her life and her house. My mom makes me insecure all the time. I'm a little younger 23 but I went through a seriously weird year of college pressure and family pressure, this kinda opened my eyes how to deal with my moms temperament, because everybody was the same way around me for two years. When I was younger she use to yell, even if I did something better than her like cleaning, other times shed yell for the one time I forgot the dishes. I use to think be nice hold it in, be kind or try to do what I want even if it makes her angry if I could get it past her. Its not about right or wrong save yourself the emotional pressure and don't do things you know will get her mad. Mostly because its how to protect yourself.
    13 answers · Family · 2 days ago
  • Should I leave my boyfriend because months ago he undressed me when I was asleep and sick?

    Months ago I posted a question in which I described the whole situation and most of the answers justified his behaviour claiming that he did the right thing. I had high fever (39°), and he was sleeping at my house for the first time because my parents were abroad. I was alone at home and had fever. The first day... show more
    Months ago I posted a question in which I described the whole situation and most of the answers justified his behaviour claiming that he did the right thing. I had high fever (39°), and he was sleeping at my house for the first time because my parents were abroad. I was alone at home and had fever. The first day that I was sick he stood by me, gave me medicines and cooked for me. The second day the temperature raised and I really really sick, and I woke up in the middle of the night shivering, naked (without the upper part of the pj, the undershirt and bra) and when I asked him why, almost crying, he said: because you were sick and your clothes were wet and I had to. He gave me dry clothes and something to lower the temperature. He turned off the light and I felt so ashamed and angry at him and at myself because he had seen me naked. He had never seen me naked before, it was humiliating. I'm also hurting because I think that I'm mean for thinking bad about him, because he did it for good, but I don't know, it's like he isn't the perfect guy I had always thought of, I was really in love with him, but I dare you to find yourself suddenly naked and not to be angry or resent him. I always thought he was perfect but after all these months I still have nightmares about that night.
    24 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • My parents don t want to cope with me anymore?

    I m 19 years old, and for as long as I can remember, I ve had all sorts of anxieties and depression from a young age. Long story short, the other week, after my mum got married to her new husband, she had a go at me for crying when I dropped my phone on my toe. I thought crying when you ve hurt yourself is a... show more
    I m 19 years old, and for as long as I can remember, I ve had all sorts of anxieties and depression from a young age. Long story short, the other week, after my mum got married to her new husband, she had a go at me for crying when I dropped my phone on my toe. I thought crying when you ve hurt yourself is a completely normal reaction, but then it continued with her telling me I need to get help and that she s fed up with it. I really don t get how it s gone from hurting my toe, to I need therapy... Whenever I try to talk to her about my personal problems, it always ends up in shouting and arguing. She will now cut me off straight away when I try to open up. She s the only person who has been with me my whole life, and now she doesn t want anything to do with me. This has really affected me badly. And even though I feel I m better, these situations drag me back down again. I don t know what to do anymore. I can t move out, I ve got no one to stay with, I can t even talk to my own parent anymore... I couldn t get any advice online so I ve come here. I m sorry if none of this makes sense, and that it s really long, I m just all over the place about this and need someone to give me advice or their opinions.
    11 answers · Family · 13 hours ago
  • I'm 33 and a man and have still never had sex and I feel like I've totally missed out and am quickly losing my chance?

    Even though I've never had it I'm sure it is lifes greatest pleasure than one can experience. I'm not a virgin because I'm ugly either. In fact I'm somewhat the opposite. I've just lived as such a recluse for so long due to debilitating social anxiety. I also have little confidence. I... show more
    Even though I've never had it I'm sure it is lifes greatest pleasure than one can experience. I'm not a virgin because I'm ugly either. In fact I'm somewhat the opposite. I've just lived as such a recluse for so long due to debilitating social anxiety. I also have little confidence. I was also waiting for marriage for several years which I now know many regret. Plus I was religious for a long time and I'm not now. I can NEVER get my younger years back now and I feel I've missed out completely on the ultimate pleasure.
    32 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • Be honest, have you ever bullied someone?

    102 answers · Friends · 4 days ago
  • Husband won't let me take one day off from work?

    I never ever take off from work. That's the problem. I am exhausted and I just need a break. No matter how much I cry and plead, my husband shows no mercy. He keeps saying we'll go to bed early and we need every dime to pay bills. We both have good jobs. I make 12 an hour and he's an Electrician and... show more
    I never ever take off from work. That's the problem. I am exhausted and I just need a break. No matter how much I cry and plead, my husband shows no mercy. He keeps saying we'll go to bed early and we need every dime to pay bills. We both have good jobs. I make 12 an hour and he's an Electrician and makes good money. I only have ever taken off for doctors appointments only. I'm only asking for one day. Is he being mean and selfish or am I being selfish? I feel like sometimes with this his cares more about the money than my health. I feel like he's become obsessed with us working. What to do?
    35 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 2 days ago
  • Are you a cop? Do you like your job? How does it make you feel knowing that most people hate you and they think you're a racist criminal?

    Go ahead. Tell me you're one of the "good" cops! You're one of the teeny tiny 10 percent of police who are NOT racist, corrupt bullies! Sure, oh, sure!
    Go ahead. Tell me you're one of the "good" cops! You're one of the teeny tiny 10 percent of police who are NOT racist, corrupt bullies! Sure, oh, sure!
    11 answers · Other - Family & Relationships · 1 day ago
  • Me and my husband are always buying expensive presents for our family when it comes to our birthdays we get trash am I over reacting?

    Some people in the family who don't deserve it get expensive things we splash out when it comes to us we get stuff from poundshops why can this be and what should I do
    Some people in the family who don't deserve it get expensive things we splash out when it comes to us we get stuff from poundshops why can this be and what should I do
    25 answers · Family · 2 days ago
  • Running Back To Baby Momma, "Again?

    What would you do if your husband keeps running back to his babymomma everytime something goes wrong in his marriage?
    What would you do if your husband keeps running back to his babymomma everytime something goes wrong in his marriage?
    23 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 2 days ago
  • Should I be angry at her??

    Hey guys, so my girlfriend and I of almost 2 years, are expecting a baby, and while this is normally a happy moment in our lives, it really isn't. For starters, she has a 3-year-old son from a previous relationship she was in, and when she found out she was pregnant she really told me that she doesn't want... show more
    Hey guys, so my girlfriend and I of almost 2 years, are expecting a baby, and while this is normally a happy moment in our lives, it really isn't. For starters, she has a 3-year-old son from a previous relationship she was in, and when she found out she was pregnant she really told me that she doesn't want the baby. Even asking me about abortion, adoption, and other things. My initial reaction is immediate anger. Not only do I take care of her kid that isn't mine, but when I get a chance to finally have a child of my own, she doesn't want it? She says she's just trying to be honest instead of faking like she's happy about this pregnancy. Which I understand and appreciate her honesty, but I just can't get over the fact that she doesn't want my child. It makes me so angry because for almost 2 years I've been taking care of hers and being a good stepdad. I'm not saying she owes me anything but she knows that I'll be a good dad to the kids. She knows that, but she said she feels like she can't do what she wanted to do in life with 2 kids and I told her that I'd sacrifice time so that she can follow her dreams. But that still isn't enough. She just doesn't want a second baby and It makes me so mad. Why am I so angry at her??? Please help.
    18 answers · Family · 1 day ago