• How to deal with nagging mom?

    My mom has recently moved in with me and constantly nags me about the way I do things in my house. Examples: 1. Complains that I am not washing dishes the correct way or using a dish washer correctly. 2. Complains that I eat too much and about what I cook for dinner. She keeps a log of everything I eat and tries... show more
    My mom has recently moved in with me and constantly nags me about the way I do things in my house. Examples: 1. Complains that I am not washing dishes the correct way or using a dish washer correctly. 2. Complains that I eat too much and about what I cook for dinner. She keeps a log of everything I eat and tries to shame me. I am not overweight. 3. Complains that I don’t clean the floors multiple times a week. 4. Insists that I will break household applicances because I am using them wrong. 5. Constantly says that I’m being distrespectul when I am talking to her 6. Tells me snike remarks like: “some people shouldn’t own a house” or “the Lord gives it and he takes it away.” 7. Reads my mail and financial statements, counsels me about spending, and tells my business to family members to “show how irresponsible I am.”
    4 answers · Family · 2 days ago
  • Is it wrong to charge friend?

    My friend is staying with me for a month. He’s not here often but has his things in my home gym, uses my washer and dryer, sleeps on my couch and uses my WiFi. Now so far, as I said, he’s been in and out. Also, I’m not in the best financial situation right now. I’d like to charge him at least $100 for the month... show more
    My friend is staying with me for a month. He’s not here often but has his things in my home gym, uses my washer and dryer, sleeps on my couch and uses my WiFi. Now so far, as I said, he’s been in and out. Also, I’m not in the best financial situation right now. I’d like to charge him at least $100 for the month but I also feel like I’m punishing him for my financial situation. Is it wrong to charge him since it’s only a month and he’s not here a huge amount? ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.0.03
    4 answers · Friends · 3 days ago
  • Are these North Korean men with Amerikan Women. This North Korean guy in my class said so?

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    5 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • (Girls) What do you find unattractive in a guy?

    If he's a Trump supporter
    If he's a Trump supporter
    94 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • What's more attractive, brunette or blonde?

    Best answer: ALL hair colors are beautiful! I feel that people always look most attractive when they have their natural hair color and not dyed so it depends.
    Best answer: ALL hair colors are beautiful! I feel that people always look most attractive when they have their natural hair color and not dyed so it depends.
    46 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • I caught my husband having an affair! He admitted it was for 5 YEARS! Was he using her for sex all that time? Or did he care about her?

    Best answer: "Was he using her for sex all that time? Or did he care about her?" - You'll need to ask him that. We can't read his mind. Clearly he throught well enough of her to associate with her for 5 yrs, so it wasn't ONLY sex (but then you know that, if your post is true).
    Best answer: "Was he using her for sex all that time? Or did he care about her?" - You'll need to ask him that. We can't read his mind. Clearly he throught well enough of her to associate with her for 5 yrs, so it wasn't ONLY sex (but then you know that, if your post is true).
    32 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 23 hours ago
  • Do you have sisters?

    180 answers · Family · 4 days ago
  • What should I do about the ex?

    Best answer: Weather you like it or not he has a passed with this woman and they evidently share kids/grandkids they will always be an attachment unfortunately, you say they were unhappily married? So if that’s the case they’re unlikely to be bothered about each other now the connection is through children and no more, the fact... show more
    Best answer: Weather you like it or not he has a passed with this woman and they evidently share kids/grandkids they will always be an attachment unfortunately, you say they were unhappily married? So if that’s the case they’re unlikely to be bothered about each other now the connection is through children and no more, the fact that you know about her asking him proves he’s not hiding anything from you which lets face it if there was any intent behind it would you know about it? You say you wouldn’t do this with an ex but do you have kids/grandkids with anyone? I have a child to previous partner and in all honesty I can’t stand her, but I have to be civil and deal with the thing for my sons sake and it causes me problems with my partner sometimes but the thing is he has a past he can’t change same as me no matter what it’s always there unfortunately,but your his now and his future I wouldn’t worry about it he married YOU!!
    26 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 24 hours ago
  • How do I make my mom forgive me?

    Best answer: I think its a stage all kids go through to some extent probably because at that stage they do not know the importance of such an action. If you don't reach them, they will never know. be very honest with your Mom and say you didn't really think about . She will understand, I promise you. Pay her back, this... show more
    Best answer: I think its a stage all kids go through to some extent probably because at that stage they do not know the importance of such an action. If you don't reach them, they will never know. be very honest with your Mom and say you didn't really think about . She will understand, I promise you. Pay her back, this is important.
    Money is a very personal thing because you have to work your **** off for it. NEVER do such a bloody stupid thing ever again. With money, if it's not yours, ALWAYS leave it alone.
    24 answers · Family · 2 days ago
  • Married men please help?

    We are newlyweds and I knew what I was getting myself into before marriage and waited 6 long years to have sex with her. I would think that she would have the same desires as I but she does not. I m a guy and have needs. I m tired of pleasuring myself every time I get rejected by her (as she lays on the couch and... show more
    We are newlyweds and I knew what I was getting myself into before marriage and waited 6 long years to have sex with her. I would think that she would have the same desires as I but she does not. I m a guy and have needs. I m tired of pleasuring myself every time I get rejected by her (as she lays on the couch and just watches her Korean drama shows on her phone) I will admit that she does have a big workload and lately she s been stressed out. I know it may be wrong of me to ask her for sex during this busy week but I really love her and want to make love with her. Please keep in mind that it s not that all I care about is sex, but I do care that she also has a desire for me. And since day 1 I ve always had to ask her for sex and not vice verse. I would like to feel desired too you know. I show her emotional support, let her vent when she has a bad day at work, I took her out as a surprise for dinner , and the list goes on. I really hate how she says she has all this work to do when she lays on the couch and watches her phone. she delays on purpose... Like what happened the other night. She was complaining about something that happened at work on the way home in the car , and then at home, and then in the bedroom, while knowing that I wanted to have sex that night, to which she had already agreed . I think she hates my sex. I guess I suck then. So if I was a stud or something would she be different? I just want her to want sex more, and not treat a beautiful thing like crap
    33 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 3 days ago
  • Should i kill myself because no guy wants to be with me?

    Best answer: Now that cannot be true, I have seen you and that would be impossible, besides that is never the answer, trust me, you have so much to live for, talk to me, you know where to reach me
    Best answer: Now that cannot be true, I have seen you and that would be impossible, besides that is never the answer, trust me, you have so much to live for, talk to me, you know where to reach me
    9 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • What if you had discovered that your fiance had sent gift(s) to his ex-girlfriend. How would react?

    Best answer: There's no reason why he should be sending gifts to an ex-girlfriend. It's also very telling that you are insisting on a long engagement. Why aren't you ready to marry him now? Why did you even get engaged if you're not yet ready to get married? If you truly love and trust him enough to get... show more
    Best answer: There's no reason why he should be sending gifts to an ex-girlfriend.

    It's also very telling that you are insisting on a long engagement. Why aren't you ready to marry him now? Why did you even get engaged if you're not yet ready to get married? If you truly love and trust him enough to get married, then hypothetically you should be willing to run to the courthouse or Vegas this week and do it. What's making you hesitate? Is it because he's a liar? If so, why on earth haven't you broken the engagement?

    "I know he had once sent her a birthday card a year earlier before we were engaged and when I questioned it, he made up all sorts of stories before he finally came clean."

    Consider the fact that he didn't tell you about this - you found out on your own. And then he lied to you repeatedly once you found out. And then he "came clean" only because you kept questioning him (and I will bet you a million dollars that he's STILL not telling you the whole story).

    "It''s not that I am jealous, it's not low self-esteem."

    No, it's that you have a shady-aasss fiance who keeps lying to you. And, yeah, it's probably some low self-esteem too, if you believe that the best you can do in life is a liar who's probably cheating/going to cheat on you. He's not the only man on earth, dear, and I truly doubt that he's got a magic dddiiiiick that makes his lying and cheating worthwhile once you jump into the sack with him. You can do better, I promise you.

    Face facts. He's not over her, he's probably going to cheat on you with her or someone else (assuming he hasn't done so already),and he's never going to be honest with you. If you're stupid enough to marry this loser, then you're going to spend your entire marriage wondering what he's up to, constantly checking up on him, dealing with his CONSTANT lies to you, and you're probably going to uncover an affair very early into the marriage (if not with this chick, then with someone else ... because it's not about this girl, it's about your dirtbag fiance not being able to be loyal).

    And if you're REALLY stupid and allow him to get you pregnant and have his baby, then you are stick with him FOREVER. So if you insist on marrying him, then at least be smart enough not to breed with him.

    If you're smart, you'll give back the ring and end this farce of an engagement, and take some time for yourself (maybe in therapy) before you find another man. Someone who can be honest and loyal. They're out there - you don't need to settle for a lying cheater.

    Marriage will not change him. A baby or two will not change him. Your love and patience will not change him. He is showing you, loud and clear, that he is a liar and probably a cheater. Why don't you believe him???

    But if you want to stay with this guy, go right ahead, but don't complain when he keeps lying to you and when you find out he keeps sticking his diiiiiccck in other women. Don't say you weren't warned. If you ignore all these signs and marry him anyway then it's your own damn fault if you wind up unhappy.

    The signs are all there. You KNOW he's no good. DUMP HIM.

    ETA: "Yes, it's complicated because of my emotions involved with this person."

    Look, nobody's telling you that you need to magically stop loving him. But you also need to realize that love alone is not going to fix huge problems like this. Marriage is about trust, communication, and respect ... none of which he is giving you. You can love him all you want, and he might very well love you back, but he sure as hell doesn't respect you if he's messing around behind your back like this, and lying to you all the time.

    You can break up with someone even when you still love them.

    The point of marriage is to spend your life with someone who is compatible with you, AND whom you love and want to be with. An incompatible marriage won't work, even if you both love each other. Even if both of you are honest and never put a foot wrong. If you're not compatible then things aren't going to work out ... add lying and dishonesty and possible cheating to that mix, and it's ABSOLUTELY not going to work out.

    It's none of your business why your friends/neighbors have stayed in bad relationships. Adults have their own choices in life, and these are the choices they've made. Stop comparing yourself to other people.

    If you want a happy life, then you need to break the engagement, end it once and for all with this guy, and get into therapy to fix your own emotional issues.

    If you want to marry him, go ahead, but you are not going to be happy. You're not even down the aisle yet and you're ALREADY unhappy ... it's only going to get worse from here. A wedding ring won't magically change him, and neither will a baby, remember that. (And with a baby, you're basically trapped. Even if you leave him, you're still tied to him FOREVER.)
    13 answers · Weddings · 22 hours ago