No matter WHAT some of the other commenters here might say... you are a smart man!
Look, women who have one-night stands are NOT relationship material... period. That kind of reckless sexual behavior is indicative of someone who is overly free, careless, and frivolous with sex. A woman that engages in that type of...
Best answer: No matter WHAT some of the other commenters here might say... you are a smart man!
Look, women who have one-night stands are NOT relationship material... period. That kind of reckless sexual behavior is indicative of someone who is overly free, careless, and frivolous with sex. A woman that engages in that type of behavior has little regard for sex, as she will have it... with strangers. This is not normal female nature, no matter how commonplace it is today. Also, understand that just because a lot of people do something... doesn't mean that it is normal. In the United States, over 40 thousand people die every year from heroin overdose, but that doesn't mean this is normal human behavior. Normality in humans, speaks to behavior that is consistent with our nature. No matter what feminists try to say, men and women have different natures. This fact has been massively helpful for us as a species, and has led to our combined global success. When I talk about "normality" in this sense, I am talking about evolutionary psychology, and it is different for men and women, as we evolved to serve different roles, and are therefore different from one another today in both mind and body.
To be clear, neither man nor woman is superior or inferior to each other, we are just different. We evolved together to collaborate, and we have different strengths, weaknesses, attributes, tendencies, and characteristics. Since humans have walked the earth males and females have had different tasks, because we are better suited for different things. Over time, this has shaped our psyche in different ways. This has far reaching effects, but in terms of sexual promiscuity... it means by nature, men tend to be promiscuous, because we don't get pregnant, and we don't nurse (breastfeed) children/babies... the BEST way to pass on out genes, is to put them in as many women as possible. That doesn't mean that behavior is ethical or moral, but it is part of normal male instinctual behavior. Female behavior is different. Female sexual behavior favors monogamy. The reason is because a promiscuous woman is unfaithful by nature, and no man wants to provide for a woman that has sex with other men, or raise and provide for children that may not be his. An unfaithful/promiscuous woman is worthless to a man, in fact... they are worse than worthless; because a woman like that... can actually make a man devote all of his time, energy, blood, sweat, tears, and resources to another man's children (while his own don't even exist) and to a woman that has sex with other males. This is why throughout the whole of human history men have shamed wh*re's/sluts, and is the reason for the "double standard." Its because as our roles have been different, as a result... our natures have been shaped differently.
The woman you described is a victim of the modern "hook-up culture," which has its roots in feminism. This culture swing began surfacing in the 1960's, and has gotten progressively stronger since then. This culture tells women that it is perfectly acceptable to be as promiscuous as men, and... this has killed the institution of marriage, and ruined human male/female relationships everywhere. There are two separate, but related reasons for this. The first is simple, the reason being that men will not and cannot be devoted to promiscuous women, because we know that they are intrinsically unfaithful. The second reason, is... once culture/society tells women it is okay to be promiscuous, they become unfaithful to their husbands and boyfriends the moment a higher status male comes along, which in turn creates a viscous cycle.
You can't turn a ho into a housewife. The only way men can have a worthwhile relationship with a woman, is for the woman to be cautious and selective sexually. Women who only sleep with men that they are in committed relationships with, who don't cheat, and feel strongly against cheating. Also, the less sexual partners a woman has had... the better!!! Which usually means the good women tend to be younger. Optimally, it would be best to marry a virgin, but... in our modern world, that would be next to impossible!
You don't like promiscuous women, because you are instinctively inclined to not like them! Why should you like them?! There is nothing good about a promiscuous woman, that should make a man want to be committed to her! It goes against your evolutionary psychology, and that is what the majority of women in this modern culture just don't get! I think I would be really miserable had I not basically won the lottery in life with my current relationship. I am just insanely lucky!!! because... I just so happened to meet a girl who grew up in a religious home, with strict parents. As a result, I was her first real relationship, and we first met when she was 18. I am 13 years older than her, and I started out just helping her with college math... one thing led to another, and we started dating. When we started out dating, she told me straight up that she was a virgin, and she wan't going to be having sex with me until we were married. I liked her a LOT, and recognized the value in a woman like her. A year later we got engaged, and for all intents and purposes we are essentially married, we are just saving up the money for the marriage she wants to throw, and yes... after we got engaged she began living with me, and yes we are having sex. However, we both consider ourselves married to each other, we will also be legally married in about a year, and fully expect to spend our lives with each other. So... good luck to you!!!
You are not being sexist, you are being smart!!! Don't let anybody tell you different!!!