• My mother physically and emotionally abuses me, can you give me advice please?

    So I’m a 26 year old female currently working part time, living with my mother since I was a kid. She’s been physically and emotionally abusive to me for so long but it has gotten worse. Now she wishes death on me, abuses me physically, threatens me all that nasty stuff. She yells at me constantly, she is... show more
    So I’m a 26 year old female currently working part time, living with my mother since I was a kid. She’s been physically and emotionally abusive to me for so long but it has gotten worse. Now she wishes death on me, abuses me physically, threatens me all that nasty stuff. She yells at me constantly, she is approaching 50 and I think it’s gotten worse. It’s gotten to the point were even my brother is joining in and saying that I’m mental and how nobody cares about the fact that I’m being abused at home. He locked me out of the house yesterday and she was laughing. I really need help, I want to escape. I have no friends no family I can move in with or talk about this with. Last night she beat me up over something so little, my back hurts and I feel like it’s affecting me emotionally. I have recorded footage of her being abusive to me just in case something goes down. What can I do? Please only serious answers. Thanks
    10 answers · 15 hours ago
  • Is it weird to go to a nude beach with my aunt and female cousin?

    I'm a 22 year old guy and my cousin is a 21 year old girl and aunt is 45. They want me to go to a nude beach with them, would it be weird if I got naked with them and went with them? They said they've been there before. My aunt and cousin are pretty attractive so I'm a bit worried about getting an... show more
    I'm a 22 year old guy and my cousin is a 21 year old girl and aunt is 45. They want me to go to a nude beach with them, would it be weird if I got naked with them and went with them? They said they've been there before. My aunt and cousin are pretty attractive so I'm a bit worried about getting an erection there and they might see it.
    17 answers · 7 hours ago
  • I can't seem to forget what took place before our wedding, and because of that I still hold a grudge against my husband and his family?

    We had a small courthouse wedding in NJ on Feb 19, 2016. The invitations were only limited to my husband's mother, step-father, grandparents and 2 friends, as well as my mother and brother. My mother and brother flew in from Jamaica to attend. My husband (fiance at the time) and I occupied 1 bedroom of a 2... show more
    We had a small courthouse wedding in NJ on Feb 19, 2016. The invitations were only limited to my husband's mother, step-father, grandparents and 2 friends, as well as my mother and brother. My mother and brother flew in from Jamaica to attend. My husband (fiance at the time) and I occupied 1 bedroom of a 2 bedroom apartment and we had a roommate, so it was not convenient for them to stay with us. However my husbands grandparents live closeby in a small house but definitely more space than we had. His mother lives 1 hr away in a big house. I suggested to my husband that my family stay there. His answer was to let them stay in a hotel. They already spent a lot of money on their flight, why should they spend excess money on a hotel when there are family to stay with? My husband offered to pay the hotel because apparently driving 1 hr away to drop them off was a big hassle to him, so I made it a big deal until in the end, my family ended up staying at his mother's. The deal was to have them stay at the mother until the day of the wedding, then they'd stay in a motel while my husband and I went to a beach house for 2 days. When we returned from the beach house, my husband would drop them off, including me, to NY where my mother has family, and they'd spend the rest of time their until their departure. On top of that, his mother had wrote him a text saying "Are you gonna drop them off to NY? Otherwise they are going to the beach house with you."
    25 answers · 2 days ago
  • What to do if the father of your child is aggressive with your 4 year old.?

    I have a 4 year old son. Hes an absolute sweetheart and so loving, but theres one thing I believe may affect his sweetness and positivy and that’d be his father. My son is with me majority of the time, he goes with his father 2x a week, sometimes more because I want them to have a bond but I cant keep pushing the... show more
    I have a 4 year old son. Hes an absolute sweetheart and so loving, but theres one thing I believe may affect his sweetness and positivy and that’d be his father. My son is with me majority of the time, he goes with his father 2x a week, sometimes more because I want them to have a bond but I cant keep pushing the fact that his father is aggressive with him away. I was shocked when I found out he even had to be with his father considering his fathers past history wih the law- assault - multiple times. Hes also been diagnosed eith bi polar disorder and was ordered to take anger management classes which he still goes to but unfortunately i see no change. Some weeks hes good with my son, other times I fear what my son goes through or might have to face in his fathers wrath. He gets upset that my son doesnt like him but my son has explained to me and him that its because he yells at him and grabs and hurts his arms when trying to stop him from moving, again my child is 4. He gets seemingly mad for no reason and needs to control my son, any sign of disobedience and he loses it. Is there anything I can do? Its been years and his dad isnt changing, if fear for my son and Im also fearing for my familys life. He owns countless guns and pointed one at my sister who doesn’t like him. Im scared if I go to court and we get full custody his father will come kill us. Im scared his father will hurt him in the middle of an episode. Im lost
    17 answers · 13 hours ago
  • I have my own car and I pay for my own gas, yet my parents still make me ask them if I can go anywhere.?

    Like, honestly its my money so why do I have to ask? Please if there is a parent on here, explain this to me.
    Like, honestly its my money so why do I have to ask? Please if there is a parent on here, explain this to me.
    19 answers · 1 day ago
  • Hello! I'm 15 and I really need help on my life.?

    I really hate my parents. I get into a lot of fights with them and sometimes leads me being kicked out if the house. My mom yells at me everyday about not getting awards or finding out that I played videogames without her permission. Just recently, I got in a fight with them because I bought McDonalds without their... show more
    I really hate my parents. I get into a lot of fights with them and sometimes leads me being kicked out if the house. My mom yells at me everyday about not getting awards or finding out that I played videogames without her permission. Just recently, I got in a fight with them because I bought McDonalds without their permission with my money that I earned. That lead to me deciding not to go to disneyworld with them (it was our summer vacation). I was scared if I went, I wouldn't have much fun due to her constant yelling for the smallest things. However, she had already bought the tickets for flight and the parks. When I told her, it turned into a full blown argument (mainly her yelling). Afterwards, she told me that she wasn't going to pay for me and told me to pay her back for the tickets and housing. She took the money that I had earned working at my cousin's restaurant (around $405). Not only that, but she said I had to pay back all of the things she bought that wasn't required by law (including a $5000 violin). She also said that I wasn't allowed to work in my cousin's restauant and I had to find some other job to pay back all of that money. Is this legal? If so, does anyone know any jobs that a 15 year old could have or is willing to offer one. I can't seem to find any. I live in Catonsville Maryland. Thank you for reading and understanding. I hope no one would have to deal with these types of problems with their parents or kids.
    13 answers · 7 hours ago
  • Withdrawing money without my mom knowing?

    basically I want to order something off Amazon without my mom knowing about it. I plan on buying a gift card to do it since I'm only 17 and don't have my own credit card, but I need excuse to withdraw cash from bank account to buy it with. I have a job and I have the money, but my mom and I have a connected... show more
    basically I want to order something off Amazon without my mom knowing about it. I plan on buying a gift card to do it since I'm only 17 and don't have my own credit card, but I need excuse to withdraw cash from bank account to buy it with. I have a job and I have the money, but my mom and I have a connected bank account. are there any suggestions as to what I can tell her I need the money for?
    26 answers · 3 days ago
  • How to stop my mom..?

    I'm 19, in college, i do my homeworks till 3 or 4 am, i feel so tired everyday, and my mom always wakes me up at 8 to eat breakfast together, i know she loves me and maybe need companion but i can't stand this i need more sleep, but she couldn't understand me, what should i say to make her stop waking... show more
    I'm 19, in college, i do my homeworks till 3 or 4 am, i feel so tired everyday, and my mom always wakes me up at 8 to eat breakfast together, i know she loves me and maybe need companion but i can't stand this i need more sleep, but she couldn't understand me, what should i say to make her stop waking me up early? Lack of sleep makes me sensitive and today i yelled at her which makes me feel guilty as hell..
    17 answers · 2 days ago
  • My mum has her own personal hair assistant? Is she going too far?

    I am 19 years old and from a wealthy family and we have always had a privileged upbringing. I have alway tried to remain humble, yet my mother has always been on the more spoiled side. Recently, my father has employed a full time personal hair dresser for her who s job is to be at her beck and call 24/7 to touch... show more
    I am 19 years old and from a wealthy family and we have always had a privileged upbringing. I have alway tried to remain humble, yet my mother has always been on the more spoiled side. Recently, my father has employed a full time personal hair dresser for her who s job is to be at her beck and call 24/7 to touch up her hair when required. I understand its a job but she has been making the assistant come to family events and often has her touch up her hair mid-conversation or ends up sending her to the store to get more hairspary etc. Is this a little bit over the top, I feel very uncomfortable and sorry for the poor girl.
    10 answers · 16 hours ago
  • Is my mum overreacting?

    Last Tuesday (the 5th) my neighbour knocked on our door because she was going to give my mum's electric whisk back after her's broke. I heard the door knock, but I didn't answer it because I wasn't in the mood. She knocked on the door three more times after that. She gave up on the fourth knock and... show more
    Last Tuesday (the 5th) my neighbour knocked on our door because she was going to give my mum's electric whisk back after her's broke. I heard the door knock, but I didn't answer it because I wasn't in the mood. She knocked on the door three more times after that. She gave up on the fourth knock and left the electric whisk outside our front door. Approximately an hour later, my mum opened the door to find the electric whisk. She said to me that she was expecting our neighbour to give it back to her directly instead of just leaving it on our doorstep. So she rang her up. Our neighbour said that she knocked on the door several times, but no one answered - even though she saw me in the kitchen. After she hung the phone down, my mum just started wailing at me. She said things like "how would you like it if she did that to you?" and "I have never known anyone like you in my life!" I told her that I wasn't in a very good mood, but she said it's not good enough of an excuse. Since that day, she has been treating me like absolute crap. Whenever I ring the doorbell or knock on the door, she leaves me outside for up to an hour so I can have "a taste of my own medicine". Whenever I talk to her, she either ignores me or brings up what had happened that day. When she brings up what happened, it always turns into verbal fights that everyone in our neighbourhood can hear. Do I deserve to be treated like this just for that?
    18 answers · 4 days ago
  • My father has cheated on my mother and keeps on insisting I meet his mistress, what can I say to make him stop?

    A few weeks ago my father met up with an old friend of his and they ended up getting very romantic with eachother. He's in another country with my two brothers and my mother and I live in Holland because of different reasons. He says he's still in love with my mother and doesn't want to leave us.... show more
    A few weeks ago my father met up with an old friend of his and they ended up getting very romantic with eachother. He's in another country with my two brothers and my mother and I live in Holland because of different reasons. He says he's still in love with my mother and doesn't want to leave us. I've tried to stay as connected and loving as possible, same as my mother but its hard when he says that I should meet his mistress. I told him when I come back home I dont want her in the house or near me. That he is allowed to do whatever he wants as longs as she isn't in our house. He says im being very unfair. He compares it to me saying that he isn't allowed to bring any of his friends home to have a beer. I dont agree with this at all because the last time I checked you dont get romantically involved with your friends. I dont want this woman interfering with out lives, especially if my father still wants all of us to be together and doesn't want to get a divorce with my mother. He wants both the family and the mistress and expects not consequences. Am I being unfair when I say that he isn't allowed to bring her near my 2 brothers and into our house back in our home country?
    11 answers · 1 day ago
  • How can I get revenge on my sister?

    I'm not talking your average "glue her deodorant shut!" pranks. I'm talking dead *** make her leave the house. As in, shes stolen over $400 from me, stolen and broken multiple important things, is always getting me in trouble, and makes my life an actual living hell. I absolutely despise her, and... show more
    I'm not talking your average "glue her deodorant shut!" pranks. I'm talking dead *** make her leave the house. As in, shes stolen over $400 from me, stolen and broken multiple important things, is always getting me in trouble, and makes my life an actual living hell. I absolutely despise her, and want to give her a taste of her own medicine. Preferably stuff that cant really be traced back to me. I'm her sister and a minor so I won't be arrested for certain things. Dont try to ward me off from this. I'll be doing it, whether I get answers or not. I'm thinking, to start paying off her debt, to steal her makeup and start selling it ridiculously cheap as used makeup(because people buy that, I guess). Also, stealing her clothes and stashing them away, little by little, so she thinks shes just losing them. I'll also be stealing money and food from her if I find it. This is all the very weakest stuff I can think of. I want to make her hate living in this house, but I've never been the revenge type, and Google is pretty lackluster for sister revenge. Living in the same house has to give me something to work with.
    9 answers · 9 hours ago
  • How do I escape my abusive mother?

    She’s been physically and emotionally abusive to me for so long but it has gotten worse. Now she wishes death on me, abuses me physically, threatens me all that nasty stuff. She yells at me constantly, she is approaching 50 and I think it’s gotten worse. It’s gotten to the point were even my brother is joining in... show more
    She’s been physically and emotionally abusive to me for so long but it has gotten worse. Now she wishes death on me, abuses me physically, threatens me all that nasty stuff. She yells at me constantly, she is approaching 50 and I think it’s gotten worse. It’s gotten to the point were even my brother is joining in and saying that I’m mental and how nobody cares about the fact that I’m being abused at home. He locked me out of the house yesterday and she was laughing. I really need help, I want to escape. I have no friends no family I can move in with or talk about this with. Last night she beat me up over something so little, my back hurts and I feel like it’s affecting me emotionally. I have recorded footage of her being abusive to me just in case something goes down. What can I do? Please only serious answers. Thanks I work 33 hours per week, decent pay but not enough. Do I go to the citizen advice bureau or council? I need to move out by tomorrow and I’m actually broke at the moment.
    9 answers · 14 hours ago
  • I caught my brother wearing one of my thongs in my room, should i tell my parents?

    Best answer: I don't know if what you said is true. I know it's possible, for a male to wear female underwear. I think there is a problem with what you said. The crotch area of your thong probably does not support your brother's private parts down below. 3 1/2 inch to 4 inch crotch lady underwear could fit a male,... show more
    Best answer: I don't know if what you said is true. I know it's possible, for a male to wear female underwear. I think there is a problem with what you said. The crotch area of your thong probably does not support your brother's private parts down below.

    3 1/2 inch to 4 inch crotch lady underwear could fit a male, and the size would also have to be considered as well. I think 3 1/2 inch crotch ladies underwear might be easier to find at a store than 4 inches.

    If your brother was wearing your thong, then you probably saw his private part hanging out from your underwear.

    I know there are panties that are tight enough in the crotch area, so it should fit a male's private parts, and I think V Shaped panties should fit a male. I think a male would need to have a smaller figure to be able to fit in women's underwear.

    If your brother wants to wear women's underwear, then I think you should bring him to a lingerie store, and the both of you can look, for underwear, for him to wear.

    I don't know how tall he is, and his weight. His body size should determine what kind of ladies underwear he can wear.

    Maybe he can fit into a Large, or Extra Large panty. Try these two sizes, and maybe his private parts can fit nicely in the underwear.

    Maybe XXXXL panties might fit your brother. These kind of panties might fit him nicely around his waist, and it might be loose a bit, so his private parts might come out if he decides to sleep while wearing the underwear.

    Regarding you telling your parents about you seeing your brother wearing your underwear, I think you should just keep this knowledge to yourself. Wearing underwear is a private matter. Since you know your brother wears ladies underwear, then just keep it to yourself. Well now you know what you can buy him. :) BUT just don't show, or tell other people what you buy him.
    8 answers · 2 hours ago
  • I am 18 years old. Am I a grown woman?

    44 answers · 5 days ago
  • What do you do when your family take advantage of you?

    Best answer: go round to her house and throw a brick through her windows with a note attached saying "this is for the broken computer that you didn't pay for b*tch"
    Best answer: go round to her house and throw a brick through her windows with a note attached saying "this is for the broken computer that you didn't pay for b*tch"
    9 answers · 1 day ago
  • My mother is a housewife. We have enough money to hire a maid but she doesn't want to. Yet yells at me for the house being dirty?

    And I do most of the cleaning anyway. How to deal with this?
    And I do most of the cleaning anyway. How to deal with this?
    21 answers · 4 days ago
  • If a father can not make money for his family does it mean he is retarted?

    Best answer: No it means he is unfortunate
    Best answer: No it means he is unfortunate
    15 answers · 3 days ago
  • How to handle boyfriends overly controlling mom?

    He is finally moving out at 27 and going to be living 1.5 hour flight away. I really love him but his family is very controlling. If I have plans and want him to come over for 7:00pm he is always late because his mom was running late with dinner..everytime. I've asked him nicely "could you please cook your... show more
    He is finally moving out at 27 and going to be living 1.5 hour flight away. I really love him but his family is very controlling. If I have plans and want him to come over for 7:00pm he is always late because his mom was running late with dinner..everytime. I've asked him nicely "could you please cook your own dinner tonight so we can be together earlier?" He says he will but never does. It's like hes scared of his Mom and sister. Is this normal? I feel my gut tells me sometimes that I deserve better. I told his mom "if you're ever in my area please give me a text or call I'd love to meet up for a coffee or tea" and she responds "oh im never in your area". I live in one of the nicest areas in our city and it would be a 15 min drive from her house. They will also talk about events infront of me without extending an invite. My boyfriend will be away but they could have at least said "you're more than welcome to join us" instead of talking about it infront of me multiple times. I find the mom and sister will humiliate me infront of others, I drive a nice jetta but a bit older and its broken down a few times and they always make fun of that and make fun of the place I live. It's not like their house is anything special and my family has a place on the lake and a nice house, my place I live in for university is just a bit small. Im studying to want to be a dentist. is this all normal?
    12 answers · 2 days ago