• I got pregnant with my ex and he refuses to contribute yet wants rights.?

    I got pregnant with my ex. I’m 27 and About 16 weeks at the moment with my first pregnancy. My ex is 35. He’s not a good partner and not supportive of my needs during the pregnancy. He is very selfish and has a hard time feeling any empathy for me like one night I felt very sick with morning sickness and he tried... show more
    I got pregnant with my ex. I’m 27 and About 16 weeks at the moment with my first pregnancy. My ex is 35. He’s not a good partner and not supportive of my needs during the pregnancy. He is very selfish and has a hard time feeling any empathy for me like one night I felt very sick with morning sickness and he tried to have sex with me and when I said no I didn’t feel well he just turned around and started jerking off and said “there’s no reason for the both of us to be miserable”. He acts like a jerk and doesn’t wanna join any family dinners or events or meet and talk to my family. Even though he claims he wants to be together and be a family and is very thrilled for the baby. He is even threatening court and fighting for custody when we get into arguements. Yet he doesn’t wanna contribute to any part of the pregnancy. He doesn’t come to doc apts, he doesn’t help financially, and he gives no moral support. He just causes me stress constantly and argues with me. I don’t want him part of our lives but he demands rights to his baby and I don’t think it’s fair for him to skate by and help with nothing during my pregnancy and then when the baby is born I just hand my child over to him as if he deserves any part of my baby. What can I do besides move out of state?
    18 answers · 2 days ago
  • Condom broke, help!?

    This early morning 1/21 my bf and I had protected sex using the ultra thin condoms by Trojan. While we were having sex and changing positions, the condom was broken and hanging barely on the ring on my partners area. When he pulled out I saw myself that the condom was broken and we were having unprotected sex. We... show more
    This early morning 1/21 my bf and I had protected sex using the ultra thin condoms by Trojan. While we were having sex and changing positions, the condom was broken and hanging barely on the ring on my partners area. When he pulled out I saw myself that the condom was broken and we were having unprotected sex. We both panicked and we don’t know when the condom broke. He never came inside me but I’m not sure if pre cummed inside me either. We stopped immediately and checked the broken condom, it just looked like only lube was in the condom. I peed IMMEDIATELY afterwards and we were done. I don’t know what I should do, I’ve taken plan b three times last month and I don’t know if I should take it again. What are the chances of me getting pregnant? Any advice? Help please!
    12 answers · 1 day ago
  • Will I get pregnant?

    Can you still get pregnant if the guy hasn’t ejaculated yet you had intercourse?
    Can you still get pregnant if the guy hasn’t ejaculated yet you had intercourse?
    11 answers · 2 days ago
  • Should I get an abortion?

    I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We are okay and I know I want to spend my whole life with him but I made a mistake. I slept with my cousins husband once, unprotected and he ejaculated inside me. I feel awful. I’m pregnant and I don’t know who is the father. I don’t want to ruin my cousins marriage or my... show more
    I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We are okay and I know I want to spend my whole life with him but I made a mistake. I slept with my cousins husband once, unprotected and he ejaculated inside me. I feel awful. I’m pregnant and I don’t know who is the father. I don’t want to ruin my cousins marriage or my relationship, so I feel abortion is probably the best option. It’s still very early. If I have an abortion, no one has to ever find out and I won’t ever be with my cousins husband again. I’ve never cheated before in my life and I don’t plan on doing it ever again. I feel disgusted with myself. I also don’t want my boyfriends heart to be broken. I know he’s a good guy and will take care of it either way but i just want this to go away. I also feel guilty about abortion because I feel like I’m committing murder but it is just a clump of cells atm. I was against abortion. I need advice.
    8 answers · 13 hours ago
  • He wants me to get an abortion?

    I was 2 weeks late for my period so I took pregnancy test a few days ago. It didn’t take even 2 minutes for 2 lines to show up so i took another the next morning just to get the same result. At this point I decided to message my boyfriend and tell him to come over so I could tell him what is going on. Once he got... show more
    I was 2 weeks late for my period so I took pregnancy test a few days ago. It didn’t take even 2 minutes for 2 lines to show up so i took another the next morning just to get the same result. At this point I decided to message my boyfriend and tell him to come over so I could tell him what is going on. Once he got here he pretty much already knew what was going on. Once I showed him he said that I had to be less than 4 weeks pregnant (He came back into state last month) so it would be fine to take a pill and have it done and over with. I didn’t say anything at all because I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. I really did not expect that kind of respons. He said he understands that I am a female and will probably want to keep the child but we are not ready for a kid. He is right, We both are in college and are working so we can get by. I do agree having a kid now will make things tough. But Before anything is said yes we do use protection so having this happen is unexpected. I have never thought of having an abortion though in all honesty and I don’t know if I could go though it. But can I keep my baby? Do I have the heart to Give them up for adoption?? I am really lost on what to do. He said he would prefer me to get an abortion but if I want to keep the child he will be there to support me. I need some input please. I know this is a touchy subject but I really do not want to be attacked I just want to ask what you believe is the best decision if you were in my place
    7 answers · 1 day ago
  • When did you deliver your firstborn?

    I read an article that said first-time moms tend to be pregnant for about 41 weeks instead of delivering on or before their due date (not counting those who get induced for whatever reason, of course). As a first-timer myself, I'm curious about how accurate this is. I know every woman and every pregnancy is... show more
    I read an article that said first-time moms tend to be pregnant for about 41 weeks instead of delivering on or before their due date (not counting those who get induced for whatever reason, of course). As a first-timer myself, I'm curious about how accurate this is. I know every woman and every pregnancy is different, but still...I'd like to hear some input. So, mamas with more than one child...how far along were you when you delivered your first baby?
    18 answers · 5 days ago
  • Plan b or am I good?

    Had sex yesterday. Period app says ovulation day. We used a condom. Since it was high risk day should I take a plan b today? I asked him and he said I dont need to. Only my 2nd time having sex
    Had sex yesterday. Period app says ovulation day. We used a condom. Since it was high risk day should I take a plan b today? I asked him and he said I dont need to. Only my 2nd time having sex
    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is it true eating fry-ups during a pregnancy can boot my baby's intelligence?

    Best answer: Eating plenty of protein and healthy fats are good for baby's brain, but lots of fried food isn't necessarily. However, it's more likely to negative affect you than baby, especially if you're eating at a restaurant where they will likely add too much salt (contributing to pregnancy edema). But if... show more
    Best answer: Eating plenty of protein and healthy fats are good for baby's brain, but lots of fried food isn't necessarily. However, it's more likely to negative affect you than baby, especially if you're eating at a restaurant where they will likely add too much salt (contributing to pregnancy edema).

    But if you're pan-frying at home with just a dollop of healthy cooking fat, omitting the toast, going easy on the salt, and adding in a bit more veggies then it can be a reasonably healthy and definitely filling meal. Here's a healthier carb-free, sugar-free, lower sodium version of the classic English breakfast fry-up (fried egg optional): https://themerrymakersisters.com/whole30-paleo-breakfast-fry-up/
    5 answers · 10 hours ago
  • Can I get pregnant from this?

    I’m on the pill, so I’m sure I’m fine, but I made the mistake of hooking up with a careless asshole who bought way too big of condoms for himself, so the thing kept wrinkling during sex. Horrible experience over all. Because it kept slipping, I have no idea what got out and he just chucked it across the room... show more
    I’m on the pill, so I’m sure I’m fine, but I made the mistake of hooking up with a careless asshole who bought way too big of condoms for himself, so the thing kept wrinkling during sex. Horrible experience over all. Because it kept slipping, I have no idea what got out and he just chucked it across the room afterwards, and I had no way to check. It was bad all around. I probably am fine right?
    7 answers · 1 day ago
  • I’m not ready to become a father?

    Hi guys so my girlfriend is late 6 days on her period. We had sex twice this month and both times used protection. She has been late before but it still worries me. Nothing slipped out of the condom or didn’t have holes or tears. I just want to know could she be this late due to stress or it’s almost definite she’s... show more
    Hi guys so my girlfriend is late 6 days on her period. We had sex twice this month and both times used protection. She has been late before but it still worries me. Nothing slipped out of the condom or didn’t have holes or tears. I just want to know could she be this late due to stress or it’s almost definite she’s pregnant.
    10 answers · 5 days ago
  • I am 15, muslim and pregnant?

    i made a big mistake: i am muslim, around 6 weeks ago i had sex with my bf. he is 4 years older and an atheist. even though i didnt tell him but i really regret having sex with him, i dont even like him as i used to. my period is 2 weeks late and i feel sick the whole time, i feel like vomiting most of the... show more
    i made a big mistake: i am muslim, around 6 weeks ago i had sex with my bf. he is 4 years older and an atheist. even though i didnt tell him but i really regret having sex with him, i dont even like him as i used to. my period is 2 weeks late and i feel sick the whole time, i feel like vomiting most of the time. i literally have all the signs of pregnancy. he did wore condom but it broke. I did a pregnancy tests and I am sure I am pregnant. wth should i do?
    8 answers · 2 days ago