• Should I leave my boyfriend because months ago he undressed me when I was asleep and sick?

    Months ago I posted a question in which I described the whole situation and most of the answers justified his behaviour claiming that he did the right thing. I had high fever (39°), and he was sleeping at my house for the first time because my parents were abroad. I was alone at home and had fever. The first day... show more
    Months ago I posted a question in which I described the whole situation and most of the answers justified his behaviour claiming that he did the right thing. I had high fever (39°), and he was sleeping at my house for the first time because my parents were abroad. I was alone at home and had fever. The first day that I was sick he stood by me, gave me medicines and cooked for me. The second day the temperature raised and I really really sick, and I woke up in the middle of the night shivering, naked (without the upper part of the pj, the undershirt and bra) and when I asked him why, almost crying, he said: because you were sick and your clothes were wet and I had to. He gave me dry clothes and something to lower the temperature. He turned off the light and I felt so ashamed and angry at him and at myself because he had seen me naked. He had never seen me naked before, it was humiliating. I'm also hurting because I think that I'm mean for thinking bad about him, because he did it for good, but I don't know, it's like he isn't the perfect guy I had always thought of, I was really in love with him, but I dare you to find yourself suddenly naked and not to be angry or resent him. I always thought he was perfect but after all these months I still have nightmares about that night.
    17 answers · 17 hours ago
  • I'm 33 and a man and have still never had sex and I feel like I've totally missed out and am quickly losing my chance?

    Even though I've never had it I'm sure it is lifes greatest pleasure than one can experience. I'm not a virgin because I'm ugly either. In fact I'm somewhat the opposite. I've just lived as such a recluse for so long due to debilitating social anxiety. I also have little confidence. I... show more
    Even though I've never had it I'm sure it is lifes greatest pleasure than one can experience. I'm not a virgin because I'm ugly either. In fact I'm somewhat the opposite. I've just lived as such a recluse for so long due to debilitating social anxiety. I also have little confidence. I was also waiting for marriage for several years which I now know many regret. Plus I was religious for a long time and I'm not now. I can NEVER get my younger years back now and I feel I've missed out completely on the ultimate pleasure.
    30 answers · 2 days ago
  • How would you describe your sex appeal?

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  • Should I breakup with my boyfriend?

    I have a boyfriend for 6-7 months. It's like one of the longest relationships I had. I've never got this serious before. At first it was going okay, but there was always this feeling he didn't care as much as I did. One time I talked about how he made me feel like. He claimed that he loved me. But he... show more
    I have a boyfriend for 6-7 months. It's like one of the longest relationships I had. I've never got this serious before. At first it was going okay, but there was always this feeling he didn't care as much as I did. One time I talked about how he made me feel like. He claimed that he loved me. But he keeps bringing up his ex relationships. There was a girl who cheated on him. He talked about how much he loved her. I'm not the jeaolus type normally. but after some point I started to feel like I was a substitute for her, he had a life dreamed with her, now he's trying to relive his past with me. I'm quite understanding and it's easy to be with me, there's nothing else going on in his life.He's having problems about his career. It's comfortable to be around me for him, so he doesn't want to lose that.He does not accept it but I think it's the case. He and his ex broke up a year before we started dating and for a while he had a pretty fast love life, one night stands, short relationships etc.then we met and started dating, it was okay for a while. And now he removed our photo on instagram for no reason. I asked him if something's wrong without mentioning the photo, he said nothing's wrong.he treats me well and he shows respect.Still I don't like the way I feel in this relationship but I have a pretty shitty life these days. Everything is just falling apart.I don't know if I can cope with a break up considering it will be my first real break up.I don't know what to do.
    5 answers · 1 day ago
  • WHAT ARE THE CHANCES MY GF WILL CHEAT ON ME WHILE I'M IN IRAQ? (first deployment here,need advice!!!)?

    This fall I will be deployed to Iraq, I'm 19 years old and proud to serve the country. It's my first tour of duty. My girlfriend of 2 years didn't leave me when I told her I was joining the Marines. I know she's a good girl but I also know that when I'll no longer be around it will be tough for... show more
    This fall I will be deployed to Iraq, I'm 19 years old and proud to serve the country. It's my first tour of duty. My girlfriend of 2 years didn't leave me when I told her I was joining the Marines. I know she's a good girl but I also know that when I'll no longer be around it will be tough for me to think that she's home partying (and she likes to party,nothing wrong with that) whereas I'm in Iraq. Hey,it's my duty,I'm a Marine,I signed up for it. But the thing is that I know that she has some awful girl friends that might make her drink, and if she's at a party with them and she sees a good looking guy they might encourage her to go to sleep with him. I hate this idea,I hate the idea of my gf cheating on me. And please don't say 'if you truly loved her you'd trust her'... I get it ok? But she's not the kind of girl who thinks I'm the love of her life,she's got plenty of guy friends and you know how it goes,she's at a party,one of em asks her to drive her home,maybe she's partially drunk or just misses having sex. What should I do? I was thinking about leaving her.
    12 answers · 16 hours ago
  • A guy 7 years younger wants to date me- should I give it a go?

    We're both in our twenties. He is a local guy who says he has had a crush on me for years. He says he is crazy in love with me- he picked a flower for me in a field and gave it to me in front of everyone, he keeps hugging me, whenever we see each other out he stares into my eyes and smiles, he literally has... show more
    We're both in our twenties. He is a local guy who says he has had a crush on me for years. He says he is crazy in love with me- he picked a flower for me in a field and gave it to me in front of everyone, he keeps hugging me, whenever we see each other out he stares into my eyes and smiles, he literally has even cried over me twice before. I know he really is into me and honestly he is totally my type & is crazy handsome. He is traditional & old-fashioned just like me- we have the exact same sense of humour, same love of animals, both want a big family and I know he would be the best father as he is such a caring and kind guy & minds his younger siblings as if they were his kids. I do have strong feelings for him. I just do not want to be made fun of or judged by everyone and I'm worried if dating a younger guy is a mistake as I have only dated guys a lot older. Opinions?
    14 answers · 2 days ago
  • Men: if you don t want kids and she does what should be done?

    3 and a half years and I want kids, he doesn t. I want to get married, he doesn t. We love each other but we want different things fundamentally. Is there a compromise?
    3 and a half years and I want kids, he doesn t. I want to get married, he doesn t. We love each other but we want different things fundamentally. Is there a compromise?
    13 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is it bad to have 2 boyfriends?

    I can’t believe this is happening when before I was crying about being single but now it looks like I’m about to have not 1 but 2 dudes in my life. This guy that used to work at my job really likes me he lives next to me and wants to ask me out and try’s his hardest to get with me. The other day he came knocking on... show more
    I can’t believe this is happening when before I was crying about being single but now it looks like I’m about to have not 1 but 2 dudes in my life. This guy that used to work at my job really likes me he lives next to me and wants to ask me out and try’s his hardest to get with me. The other day he came knocking on my door but ran.. there’s this new guy at my job and he’s already flirting with me he’s always smiling at me there just no telling when he’s gonna go in for the kill..and i gotta say he’s really cute.. to be honest I’m not gonna say no to neither one..I think it’s fun 2 have 2 boyfriends I just can’t believe this is happening I’m so happy overal is this bad?
    10 answers · 17 hours ago
  • Is my girlfriend pegnart?

    9 answers · 18 hours ago
  • Girls: I make great money, based on this would you date me or no?

    I have two main sources of income and make very good money. Based on this can I get a hot girlfriend? I’ve never dated before.
    I have two main sources of income and make very good money. Based on this can I get a hot girlfriend? I’ve never dated before.
    12 answers · 2 days ago
  • My ex boyfriend is telling me he is going to kill himself?

    So I'll give you a short history of our relationship... We got together in 2014, he was very controlling and slightly violent, we had numerous police calls to his flat and I broke up with him, then he promised me he would change and he did... He didn't lay a finger on me, he was nice to me and treated me... show more
    So I'll give you a short history of our relationship... We got together in 2014, he was very controlling and slightly violent, we had numerous police calls to his flat and I broke up with him, then he promised me he would change and he did... He didn't lay a finger on me, he was nice to me and treated me like a princess, however there was still the problem of him being paranoid, I lost all my friends as they were fed up of me cancelling on nights out etc. About 2 years ago my feelings were fading and we broke up, for about 5 months he told me that he hated his life he wanted to end it all so I continued to speak to him and see him purely so he wouldn't kill himself, in the end I got really nasty and ended up doing something to hurt him so he wouldn't speak to me anymore and it worked. Then a few months into it I really missed him and I felt terrible for the things I did so I messaged him to apologise, this turned into us meeting up, having sex, and getting back together. So we've been back together for about a year and a few months now, and the paranoia problem was still there, I never go out or do what I want but I had kind of sccepe
    8 answers · 3 hours ago
  • Is it possible to have sex on the first date?

    Like how do you act throughout the date to make sex appropriate so fast if that makes sense?
    Like how do you act throughout the date to make sex appropriate so fast if that makes sense?
    10 answers · 1 day ago