• Husband won't let me take one day off from work?

    I never ever take off from work. That's the problem. I am exhausted and I just need a break. No matter how much I cry and plead, my husband shows no mercy. He keeps saying we'll go to bed early and we need every dime to pay bills. We both have good jobs. I make 12 an hour and he's an Electrician and... show more
    I never ever take off from work. That's the problem. I am exhausted and I just need a break. No matter how much I cry and plead, my husband shows no mercy. He keeps saying we'll go to bed early and we need every dime to pay bills. We both have good jobs. I make 12 an hour and he's an Electrician and makes good money. I only have ever taken off for doctors appointments only. I'm only asking for one day. Is he being mean and selfish or am I being selfish? I feel like sometimes with this his cares more about the money than my health. I feel like he's become obsessed with us working. What to do?
    33 answers · 2 days ago
  • Should I leave my wife?

    Best answer: That’s sad I’m very sorry
    Best answer: That’s sad I’m very sorry
    53 answers · 4 days ago
  • Running Back To Baby Momma, "Again?

    What would you do if your husband keeps running back to his babymomma everytime something goes wrong in his marriage?
    What would you do if your husband keeps running back to his babymomma everytime something goes wrong in his marriage?
    22 answers · 2 days ago
  • Would you get back together with your spouse after a divorce?

    After a long marriage my wife divorced me for reasons I'm still not sure of except that she said she was not happy. We were separated for over a year before the divorce was finalized. Then she asked me to come back home shortly after and it hasn't been working out too well for the past month. Did I make a... show more
    After a long marriage my wife divorced me for reasons I'm still not sure of except that she said she was not happy. We were separated for over a year before the divorce was finalized. Then she asked me to come back home shortly after and it hasn't been working out too well for the past month. Did I make a mistake for going back and why would she even want to try again? We have kids and that's been my concern if we end it a second time around but this time it would have to be for good. Thanks, Joe
    16 answers · 23 hours ago
  • Husband introvert. Me extrovert.?

    My husband loves to have his alone time. He enjoys spending time with me and our son (1year old). But really cherishes his alone time. I’m a stay at home mom and he works M-F 9-6. During the weekends I want to spend it as a family, whereas he will spend time as a family but also always wants time alone or with his... show more
    My husband loves to have his alone time. He enjoys spending time with me and our son (1year old). But really cherishes his alone time. I’m a stay at home mom and he works M-F 9-6. During the weekends I want to spend it as a family, whereas he will spend time as a family but also always wants time alone or with his friends. I have a hard time being ok with him doing this because we rarely see him. On weekdays when he gets home from work. Once our son is in bed at 8pm, he also wants his alone time then too for at least an hour. He’s starting to feel trapped and unhappy because he doesn’t have his space. But I just know that If I let him have all the time he wants, we won’t see him much. I’m worried and idk what to do. Please only give respectful help.
    12 answers · 22 hours ago
  • I just found out my husband sends his friends "intimate" photos of me to brag?

    This really infuriates me. I had one of his friends wives call me and threaten me for sending pictures of myself to his friend. When I tried to explain she didn't believe me. So I confronted my husband and he's been very inconsiderate about it. He says I should be happy that he's married to an... show more
    This really infuriates me. I had one of his friends wives call me and threaten me for sending pictures of myself to his friend. When I tried to explain she didn't believe me. So I confronted my husband and he's been very inconsiderate about it. He says I should be happy that he's married to an attractive woman. He also brags about our sex life to his friends and sends my pics as well. I'm really upset with him about this. but he doesn't see anything wrong with it so he's continuing. What do I do about this?
    14 answers · 1 day ago
  • My husband always puts me down?

    12 answers · 19 hours ago
  • Unconditional love, does it exist?

    My husband and I seem to differ on a number of things. One main issue is that I believe in unconditional love where as he thinks that’s only reserved for a parent/child or brother/sister relationship. He feels that if unconditional love existed in relationships then there would be no divorce at all. Couples... show more
    My husband and I seem to differ on a number of things. One main issue is that I believe in unconditional love where as he thinks that’s only reserved for a parent/child or brother/sister relationship. He feels that if unconditional love existed in relationships then there would be no divorce at all. Couples would always overlook everything for the sake of keeping the marriage or relationship together. I’m not sure I can continue on with this relationship any longer with his views. Should unconditional love be a staple in a relationship?
    20 answers · 3 days ago
  • Was I wrong to bring up to my husband that I know he masturbated this morning?

    My husband and I are in our late 40s and have been married about 8 years, together about 15 years. Sex life is ok but there are times when weeks go by and we don't do anything. I leave for work before him in the mornings and he usually leaves about an hour later. He works 10 hour days so it's late when... show more
    My husband and I are in our late 40s and have been married about 8 years, together about 15 years. Sex life is ok but there are times when weeks go by and we don't do anything. I leave for work before him in the mornings and he usually leaves about an hour later. He works 10 hour days so it's late when he gets home. J just got home from work and noticed a crusty towel on our bedroom floor. Apparently he masturbated after I left and forgot to pick up his towel. When I discovered it I sent him this text, "Really?? You jacked off to WHOM or WHAT once I left out of here and before you went to work??" We got into a bit of an argument because he said I didn't need to approach him like that. Actually, he said I shouldn't have said anything. I personally don't masturbate because I have a husband for that but I'm more angry that he chose to do that instead of trying to get some from me ar night. And no, I'm not a morning sex person. Now I feel he's not going to want to talk to me when he gets home. Was I wrong?
    20 answers · 3 days ago
  • My husband crushes on our single mom neighbor next door?

    once I caught him masturbating to her sun bathing , he was in our bedroom peering down at her in her yard. Last night the single mom neighbor died . I still haven't found out how, but for some reason I don't feel sad about it. I kind of feel relieved that my husband can now concentrate on me. Should I let... show more
    once I caught him masturbating to her sun bathing , he was in our bedroom peering down at her in her yard. Last night the single mom neighbor died . I still haven't found out how, but for some reason I don't feel sad about it. I kind of feel relieved that my husband can now concentrate on me. Should I let my husband go to the viewing thurdays night? Im not going, so I don't think he should either.
    15 answers · 2 days ago
  • I am pregnant and he left me and wants a DNA test proving to be the father and should I be angry that he hasn't been there while pregnant?

    Has anyone ever went thru this, will he come around once he knows the baby is his? He says he will but he has been so cold to me and hasn't been there during my pregnancy at all and I am 6 months now. Also I think he is back seeing his first kids mom now. I really think him talking to her is the reason he is... show more
    Has anyone ever went thru this, will he come around once he knows the baby is his? He says he will but he has been so cold to me and hasn't been there during my pregnancy at all and I am 6 months now. Also I think he is back seeing his first kids mom now. I really think him talking to her is the reason he is being so cold toward me. I don't understand why he wants a DNA test he knows good and darn well him and I got down like wild animals, not be gross and there hasn't been anyone but him. I am just hoping after he the baby is born and found to be his that he will step up and do what's right! Has anyone been thru this and he came around after finding for sure that the baby was his?
    8 answers · 3 hours ago
  • How do I get ex husband to forgive me so we can be friends?

    I left him and our children over 30 years ago. I was addicted to drugs alchohol and cheating.Our daughters forgave me. I am not that person anymore. He did well for himself and has a wonderful wife. He runs away like I am a ghost whenever he sees me and still trashes me.
    I left him and our children over 30 years ago. I was addicted to drugs alchohol and cheating.Our daughters forgave me. I am not that person anymore. He did well for himself and has a wonderful wife. He runs away like I am a ghost whenever he sees me and still trashes me.
    7 answers · 44 mins ago
  • How to show my wife how much I love her?

    14 answers · 2 days ago
  • Pregnant by my soon to be ex husband what do I do?

    My husband and are seperated and I am just waiting for a divorce. I don't love him and I want to move on with my life so I have been counting down the days. A couple of months ago something happened when he came to drop off our daughter, I had a bit much to drink and now I'm pregnant. He thinks maybe we... show more
    My husband and are seperated and I am just waiting for a divorce. I don't love him and I want to move on with my life so I have been counting down the days. A couple of months ago something happened when he came to drop off our daughter, I had a bit much to drink and now I'm pregnant. He thinks maybe we should work it out, he didn't want a divorce but I honestly believe I can get a much better man than him! We already have a 3 year old and now another one is on the way. What do I do?
    19 answers · 4 days ago
  • With or against civil marriage?

    9 answers · 16 hours ago