• Did I do something wrong?

    Best answer: What you did was pretty sneaky. You knew your friend was going to apply. He trusted you and he shared information and you undercut him. That is hardly a happy way to live. If I were your friend, I would feel the same way he does. It was like stealing and he will never trust you again. You are not trustworthy, you... show more
    Best answer: What you did was pretty sneaky. You knew your friend was going to apply. He trusted you and he shared information and you undercut him. That is hardly a happy way to live. If I were your friend, I would feel the same way he does. It was like stealing and he will never trust you again. You are not trustworthy, you are not a good friend, and you did a snake in the grass thing.
    22 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is this considered rape in NC??

    In a situation where boy decided to experiment with the same sex: if we initiated sex and he consented in the beginning but as things progressed and I was already penetrating, 10mins in, he decided to change his mind, would I be wrong? Because we were almost done I just finished up (only a few minutes after he... show more
    In a situation where boy decided to experiment with the same sex: if we initiated sex and he consented in the beginning but as things progressed and I was already penetrating, 10mins in, he decided to change his mind, would I be wrong? Because we were almost done I just finished up (only a few minutes after he started b**ching). I know NC has a law about consent where it only counts in the beginning and that, as far as I've read, only applied to guy on girl. So seeing as he agreed to experiment, and things progressed but once I suggested penetration he started to get if-y and said he didnt want to go there. After I was already in the moment so I continued for a bit. A friend of mine claims I misunderstood, what I consider, a pretty clear law. The boy has been avoiding me since we spoke about it the following morning, and I told him that the law in North Carolina is different when it comes to consent and what not. My friend swears I rapped the kid but I disagree...according to the law in NC I didnt do anything wrong.
    10 answers · 21 hours ago
  • Should I fire my band mates?

    Best answer: "You cant "fire" everyone from a band, unless its your band. You simply need to do whatever other band member does since... well forever. Go find a side project. If the side project looks more promising, leave the old one and get rolling with the new group. If your bands going to make it anywhere you... show more
    Best answer: "You cant "fire" everyone from a band, unless its your band. You simply need to do whatever other band member does since... well forever. Go find a side project. If the side project looks more promising, leave the old one and get rolling with the new group. If your bands going to make it anywhere you need to all be on the same page. But don't quit until you have something working with another band.
    12 answers · 3 days ago
  • I missed a fight at school and I can’t get them 2 to fight again. What do I do?

    The one day im sick and had to miss school my friend got in a fight, I tried everything to get them to fight again, i made a fake Facebook account pretending to be the guy he fought and started sending him messages talking ****, I tried bringing up the fight every day at school, tried spreading rumors about the... show more
    The one day im sick and had to miss school my friend got in a fight, I tried everything to get them to fight again, i made a fake Facebook account pretending to be the guy he fought and started sending him messages talking ****, I tried bringing up the fight every day at school, tried spreading rumors about the other person talking **** still and no matter what I do they won’t fight again It’s bullshit that I didn’t get to see it in person, I only got to see the video. What do i have to do to make them fight again? I have to see that same exact fight at the same exact location with the same exact people breaking it up
    17 answers · 4 days ago
  • Should I ever tell him the truth?

    I know I'll get judged, but hear me out. I've known my friend for almost 3 years. We've been friends for 2 years, I've also been in love with him for 2 years. He's happily married, with a family. I'm happily engaged and trying to conceive. My fiance has had a feeling for a while that I have... show more
    I know I'll get judged, but hear me out. I've known my friend for almost 3 years. We've been friends for 2 years, I've also been in love with him for 2 years. He's happily married, with a family. I'm happily engaged and trying to conceive. My fiance has had a feeling for a while that I have feelings for this man, although I've never fully confirmed it. I admitted to my fiance that I used to have a crush on my friend, but that was it. Anyways, I've been struggling with the idea of confessing how I feel, to my friend. I know I risk losing him and his friendship forever, especially if he tells his wife (who I wouldn't consider a friend, but she's been very sweet to me always). I just am unsure of how much longer I can keep it to myself. I think deep down, he's maybe had an idea that I have a thing for him, but he would likely never ask. Should I ever tell him the truth? He's 39, I'm 28.
    7 answers · 18 hours ago
  • My boyfriend slept with his best friend?

    ’ve been dating this guy for a month and I’ve met all of his friends, one female friend in particular he’s really close to which I understand completely as one of my best friends is a male. I love his friends and they’re super fun to hang out with. Last night however he shared the detail that he and this friend had... show more
    ’ve been dating this guy for a month and I’ve met all of his friends, one female friend in particular he’s really close to which I understand completely as one of my best friends is a male. I love his friends and they’re super fun to hang out with. Last night however he shared the detail that he and this friend had hooked up a few months ago. When he told me it took me a second to wrap my head around that his best female friend had had sex with him. I told him that I’m a bit weirded out about it rn but I love his friends and really like him and that the past is in the past and it’s not that big of a deal, I just need a few days to adjust to it. He said he immediately regretted telling me. This was less than 24 hours and he just invited her over to hang out with us. I told him I’m not comfortable being with the two of them yet and just need a day as he only just told me about it and it’s still kind of weird for me. He however kept saying it’s not a big deal and that I was being dramatic and he wish he never told me. I told him he was right and I’ll definitely get over it but just needed a day. He however did not respect this at all even getting mad at me for being bothered by it. Am I being over dramatic? I definitely won’t be bothered by this for long I just need a day before I hang out with the two of them because I feel a little uncomfortable knowing she’s seen him naked
    7 answers · 21 hours ago
  • My friend wants to dispose of her newboen?

    My soon to be ex drug addict friend from high school got so whacked stopped going to the doctor for her depo shots and some acid pot head ****** her and came inside her and she told me she's pregnant. But thanks to this idiot who knew she may be fertile did not pull out and convinced her to abortion but she... show more
    My soon to be ex drug addict friend from high school got so whacked stopped going to the doctor for her depo shots and some acid pot head ****** her and came inside her and she told me she's pregnant. But thanks to this idiot who knew she may be fertile did not pull out and convinced her to abortion but she wants to have her baby then toss it into the river to prove woman's rights. I don't know what to do?
    7 answers · 22 hours ago
  • Don't you hate socially awkward people?

    I can't stand them!
    I can't stand them!
    28 answers · 5 days ago
  • Is my friend upset with me?

    Best answer: that's the problem with email and texting etc.. you can't always get a sense of someone's feelings. If you really want to know how she is feeling, you will have to talk to her, or go see her - then you will know how she feels.
    Best answer: that's the problem with email and texting etc.. you can't always get a sense of someone's feelings. If you really want to know how she is feeling, you will have to talk to her, or go see her - then you will know how she feels.
    7 answers · 1 day ago
  • How do I nicely tell someone I don’t want to give them a ride?

    A girl that I am not too close to told me how she doesn’t have enough money for a bus pass and she also doesn’t have her drivers license, so I offered to give her a ride if she ever needed one because i felt bad for her walking everyday. I was thinking of it as more of a once in a while thing, whenever she really... show more
    A girl that I am not too close to told me how she doesn’t have enough money for a bus pass and she also doesn’t have her drivers license, so I offered to give her a ride if she ever needed one because i felt bad for her walking everyday. I was thinking of it as more of a once in a while thing, whenever she really didn’t want to walk to school or whatever, but now it’s every single morning she texts me. We are going to the same place so it’s not out of my way, but I personally just really enjoy my own personal time in the morning. I’m not sure if that makes me a bad person when it’s not out of my way to take her, i’m just so used to having my own time in the mornings and I don’t know how to tell her no. Keep in mind I’m not friends with this girl... We only took the same bus for a couple weeks where I talked to her maybe three times and I have a feeling she’s just using me in order to get a ride. When I told her I couldn’t drive her for a couple days due to me visiting family for my great grandmas funeral she merely asked when i would be back instead of offering condolences which is a little strange to me. So, how do I get out of this?
    6 answers · 15 hours ago
  • Why wasn't I invited to lunch?

    Yeah you know I always eat lunch at work with my boy Barry. His dad Barry Sr. came to visit, and they didn't invite me to come to McDonalds with them. Barry always loans me $20 for lunch, but he wasn't there. They should have invited me to eat with them.
    Yeah you know I always eat lunch at work with my boy Barry. His dad Barry Sr. came to visit, and they didn't invite me to come to McDonalds with them. Barry always loans me $20 for lunch, but he wasn't there. They should have invited me to eat with them.
    11 answers · 3 days ago
  • Friend needs help?

    Best answer: That is a bad situation and you’re a good friend for caring so much about her. I don’t really know what you can do. Is it possible for her to stay with your family? If not, then maybe she will just have to move out to her own place, idk what type of income she has but she needs to get away from her abusive aunt.
    Best answer: That is a bad situation and you’re a good friend for caring so much about her. I don’t really know what you can do. Is it possible for her to stay with your family? If not, then maybe she will just have to move out to her own place, idk what type of income she has but she needs to get away from her abusive aunt.
    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • Why does she do this? Someone that is wealthy wouldn’t do that.?

    There is this girl that always tries to impress people by talking about how she’s rich, she has a g wagon and how much her mom makes. She is always posting about the new designer things she gets, and she always tries to buy and come to school with new bags that aren’t very popular in hope of impressing people. She... show more
    There is this girl that always tries to impress people by talking about how she’s rich, she has a g wagon and how much her mom makes. She is always posting about the new designer things she gets, and she always tries to buy and come to school with new bags that aren’t very popular in hope of impressing people. She always talks ab her money and stuff, but doesn’t this mean the opposite as if she was actually that wealthy she wouldn’t put it in peoples faces like that. I’m asking this because I find it very rude to talk about your own money in such a way and I know many wealthy people but they never talk ab it: furthermore a few years ago her friends told me that she would buy fake designer and act like it’s real, but I don’t understand what is up with her...
    16 answers · 4 days ago
  • Why is my friend so weird going to a hotel in her city for 2 nights before having 5 nights in Chicago then 10 nights in London?

    Best answer: It's called a "staycation" people do it all the time.
    Why would it be weird or involve any arrogance?
    Best answer: It's called a "staycation" people do it all the time.
    Why would it be weird or involve any arrogance?
    15 answers · 4 days ago
  • How can I make a girl friend my girlfriend?

    Best answer: Ask her to go places with you -- and do all kinds of things … let the relationship build while doing these things … if she wants to be your girlfriend it will naturally happen between both of you.
    Best answer: Ask her to go places with you -- and do all kinds of things … let the relationship build while doing these things … if she wants to be your girlfriend it will naturally happen between both of you.
    27 answers · 7 days ago
  • Why do some people have annoying fake cough habits?

    It annoys me personally everywhere I go there is someone out there that does this to me why why why!?
    It annoys me personally everywhere I go there is someone out there that does this to me why why why!?
    7 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is it okay to hang out with a friend of the opposite sex while in a relationship?

    Best answer: Ironically, the younger immature me would say "yes...if both parties are mature and understand the boundaries, it's fine." The older more mature me however, would see that the younger me still needed to learn a few things and needed to quit being so idealistic. Honestly...yes, it "could"... show more
    Best answer: Ironically, the younger immature me would say "yes...if both parties are mature and understand the boundaries, it's fine." The older more mature me however, would see that the younger me still needed to learn a few things and needed to quit being so idealistic. Honestly...yes, it "could" be fine, but in my opinion, it's tempting fate, asking for problems and in short, just a tad disrespectful to the one you're with.

    I know this won't be a popular answer, but there you have it.

    And yes, I know there are some people that manage this just fine, and good for them. But if you (or your partner) were them, I imagine you wouldn't be posting this on YA. ;)
    5 answers · 16 hours ago
  • Any ideas for what a group of guys in their late teens early 20s can do?

    There's around 5 of us and we're all getting tired of just sitting around smoking pot in a garage. I've scoured the web for things to do but all that's turned up is typically one of three things: 1) Get hammered. 2) Boring stuff like art galleries, stargazing, and museums 3) Crazy **** that's... show more
    There's around 5 of us and we're all getting tired of just sitting around smoking pot in a garage. I've scoured the web for things to do but all that's turned up is typically one of three things: 1) Get hammered. 2) Boring stuff like art galleries, stargazing, and museums 3) Crazy **** that's WAY to expensive for any of our broke asses I know I sound bitter but it's from a lack of time with the boys and I'm frustrated that I can't find anything to do. We're in East County San Diego if helps. And to weed out some results, we've (over)done the following plenty of times: - Beach trips - Hookah - Casino trips - Eating out - Mini Golf / Bowling - Some other **** I can't think of off the top of my head. Any help is appreciated, I'm desperate as all hell here. Thanks for your time.
    6 answers · 2 days ago
  • I am very confused and embarrassed as to what to do about this situation.?

    Best answer: Everyone knows what? That she likes you enough to kiss you? What's wrong with that? It was your birthday and you enjoyed the kiss. How many guys in the audience were jealous that she kissed you and not them?
    Best answer: Everyone knows what? That she likes you enough to kiss you? What's wrong with that? It was your birthday and you enjoyed the kiss. How many guys in the audience were jealous that she kissed you and not them?
    9 answers · 3 days ago