• Why am I so alone if apparently I’m attractive?

    I’m an 18 year old girl, a senior in high school, and apparently very attractive according to many people, and yet I have only one friend. She’s been my friend since 2nd grade. I’m a really shy person, it’s just hard for me to approach people and make the first move, and that’s really affected my social life.... show more
    I’m an 18 year old girl, a senior in high school, and apparently very attractive according to many people, and yet I have only one friend. She’s been my friend since 2nd grade. I’m a really shy person, it’s just hard for me to approach people and make the first move, and that’s really affected my social life. NOBODY my age tries to approach me ever. Even when I’m sitting alone at lunch, nobody tries to come up with me and strike conversation. I’m alone and depressed. It’s been like this since high school began and I feel so isolated. I want to make more friends but it is so hard for me to approach people first. I feel like people hate me because nobody ever tries to talk to me. Please help me, I am miserable and at a breaking point
    14 answers · 1 day ago
  • How can I find my best friend from high school?

    I have been looking for him online for several years now, but I haven't been able to find him! I don't have a Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram etc. account. I have not seen him in nearly 16 years! I miss him and I often think of him! I heard he has moved to Canada, from mutual friends. But I am not in touch... show more
    I have been looking for him online for several years now, but I haven't been able to find him! I don't have a Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram etc. account. I have not seen him in nearly 16 years! I miss him and I often think of him! I heard he has moved to Canada, from mutual friends. But I am not in touch with any of them, either! I can't afford to hire a private detective! Anyways, can some please tell me how can I find him? I would really appreciate! Thank you.
    5 answers · 1 day ago
  • Is it unfair for someone to always push their religious views upon you?

    I’m only 17 and a friend of mine is crazy about god, Jesus and the bible as a whole. Every time I ask her advice about something she unloads all this “god will show you the path” and start reciting bible verses to me, and it’s all the time. I don’t disrespect others’ beliefs, but I’m just trying to get through my... show more
    I’m only 17 and a friend of mine is crazy about god, Jesus and the bible as a whole. Every time I ask her advice about something she unloads all this “god will show you the path” and start reciting bible verses to me, and it’s all the time. I don’t disrespect others’ beliefs, but I’m just trying to get through my life, learn my lessons, have fun, and get my studies done. I have not been brought up in a religious home, nor an atheist home, we just get on with our lives and help eachother through tough times. But I feel like she always unloads all of her religious beliefs on me, always tells me how she tries to get her friends “saved” and converted to christianity, and I feel kind of under pressure by her. Surely it’s not fair for her to try to “convert” me. Besides, it always ends up with her telling me for about an hour her journey with Jesus and it doesn’t involve me at all. And at the end of the day, I don’t want to be hearing that 24/7. Should I talk to her about it? Or will she think I’m being disrespectful and cut me off?
    15 answers · 1 day ago
  • How often do you communicate with a girl in between second and third date?

    Best answer: Here's the thing: any time two people are seemingly interested in each other, there needs to be effort coming from both sides. This means that both of you should be putting forth the effort to communicate. It's great if you want to text her first from time-to-time, but also wait to see if she texts you... show more
    Best answer: Here's the thing: any time two people are seemingly interested in each other, there needs to be effort coming from both sides. This means that both of you should be putting forth the effort to communicate. It's great if you want to text her first from time-to-time, but also wait to see if she texts you first. If she's truly interested, she'll be initiating some of the communication. If she's not initiating the communication, then you're likely the only one interested here. What was her reasoning as to why she'd be so busy over the next couple of weeks? I wouldn't bring up "getting together" for a little while. She's the busy one, so let HER decide when she's ready to get together. Now again, if two weeks goes by and she doesn't bring up wanting to see you or spend time with you, then she's not on the same page as you and it might be best to let her go.
    7 answers · 2 days ago
  • Why do I cry so easily?

    16 answers · 2 days ago
  • My friend thinks my bed smells...?

    We were watching a movie when she said that my bed smelled weird and asked if I had washed the sheets. I had just changed the sheets the other day so it wasn t that. She then precedes to tell me that it is my natural face oil odor and says that she will not sleep on the bed or with any pillows or blankets. I feel... show more
    We were watching a movie when she said that my bed smelled weird and asked if I had washed the sheets. I had just changed the sheets the other day so it wasn t that. She then precedes to tell me that it is my natural face oil odor and says that she will not sleep on the bed or with any pillows or blankets. I feel embarrassed and like the worst friend ever because my friend is sleeping on ground while I am sleeping in my large bed. Also I am really embarrassed and hurt that she can t stand the "smell" which i cant smell. She then says that the smell isn t bad but weird and keeps telling me that it doesn t smell bad... which seems weird since she says that she can t stand it. What should I do? Should I feel bad about this? Do i need to change? Should I ignore what she said? help.
    8 answers · 3 days ago
  • Why cant mom let me make my own decisions?

    So i’m a senior at Elmhurst college 22 and i live in chicago and this is my last year and i’m upset my mom is making me live on campus and I want to commute to campus. I currently live with my boyfriend.I only have classes tuesdays and thursdays. My mom claims i wont get financial aid if I dont stay on campus. And... show more
    So i’m a senior at Elmhurst college 22 and i live in chicago and this is my last year and i’m upset my mom is making me live on campus and I want to commute to campus. I currently live with my boyfriend.I only have classes tuesdays and thursdays. My mom claims i wont get financial aid if I dont stay on campus. And i’m taking three classes because i struggle in school and my advisor said it would be best to just take 3 and she said if i dont take 4 so also wont pay for me to go back to school. She thinks 3 is part time but 3 or 4 classes is fulltime. 2 or less is parttime. She says i can’t commute either because she doesnt want me taking the metra late back to his house. And she said she would worry. But if i stay on campus 4 times out the week i’ll be over his house anyway so what’s the point. I just got diagnosed with hashimotos. I’m severly depressed and living on campus will make me mkre depressed. I have no one there and have a hard time making friends because i have anxiety. I want to stay with my boyfriend(he is my best friend) and be close to friends in chicago and family. I’m 22 and she is trying to control my life and make me miserable. I dont know if she is scared ill get pregnant or what but i cant get pregnant because hashimotos causes infertility. I told her i rather take out a loan and pay for scho myself instead of her holding the choices i want to make over my head and controling my life! I’m so depressed
    8 answers · 12 hours ago
  • Would you stop dealing with people who hate you?

    Best answer: I don't know anyone who "hates" me. Maybe someone does? It's their problem not mine.
    Best answer: I don't know anyone who "hates" me. Maybe someone does? It's their problem not mine.
    12 answers · 4 days ago
  • My friend slaps me quite often for no reason.?

    She slaps me on the arms and thighs. She hits me very hard and it really hurts. They always leave bright red marks and bruise when she slaps the same place twice. She does it when I tell a bad joke, don't do something she tells me to, make a stupid comment or nothing at all. She slaps me for no reason. I... show more
    She slaps me on the arms and thighs. She hits me very hard and it really hurts. They always leave bright red marks and bruise when she slaps the same place twice. She does it when I tell a bad joke, don't do something she tells me to, make a stupid comment or nothing at all. She slaps me for no reason. I don't know why she does it, because it doesn't seem friendly and she never does it to other people. Only me. Other than this, she's a good friend. In fact, she's my best friend, and we've been friends for 5 years. I don't want to say anything because I don't want my friends to think I'm weak. I don't know what to do.
    7 answers · 20 hours ago
  • Is it okay to cut him off?

    Best answer: just air his messages he'll get the message eventually. And if he doesn't just be honest with him and tell him you don't want to be close friends and you're happy just being acquaintances
    Best answer: just air his messages he'll get the message eventually. And if he doesn't just be honest with him and tell him you don't want to be close friends and you're happy just being acquaintances
    6 answers · 7 hours ago
  • How to secretly be mean to someone u hate?

    There is this girl at my school that i hate because she pushes me around and stole my friend from me. She constantly does horrible things just so she can put the blame on me and she will try every chance she gets to hurt me and humiliate me. And she acts like the victim when I try to tell the friend that she stole... show more
    There is this girl at my school that i hate because she pushes me around and stole my friend from me. She constantly does horrible things just so she can put the blame on me and she will try every chance she gets to hurt me and humiliate me. And she acts like the victim when I try to tell the friend that she stole from me what she's doing to me. I just kinda want to turn the tables on her. So how can I secretly bully her and push her around without our friend knowing? And how would I act like the victim if the girl tells my friend? And if u don't wanna answer this and say immature and stuff. Go away. I just need honest answers pls pls pls. No jokes and IDC what u say, its my life. I can ruin it if i wanna. I just want to give this girl karma. And yes, it has to be secret so the other friend doesn't find out
    6 answers · 10 hours ago
  • Why did she ignore me, was it her problem or mine?

    I had an old friend and me and a family member of mine usually go to a cafe where she works. Me and her used to be the best of friends, and we drifted apart years ago, but I’ve seen her working there twice now, and I went there today. The first time she served me, I said hello and she was really nice and happy when... show more
    I had an old friend and me and a family member of mine usually go to a cafe where she works. Me and her used to be the best of friends, and we drifted apart years ago, but I’ve seen her working there twice now, and I went there today. The first time she served me, I said hello and she was really nice and happy when she said hello back, and it was a nice encounter. We go there today, and she served my family member (who she knows and met many times when we were friends) and when they return, they say to me “your little friend is over there”, meaning the girl (she’s quite short), the girl was behind her, and she hadn’t really acknowledged that I was there. When she served the food, really nicely, I said “hi!”, And she didn’t respond, she just had a blank expression and quietly said “enjoy”, as if she didn’t know me. I felt so snubbed, and I just brushed it off but it kind of bothered me. My family member then said to me “she’s changed a lot, she’s become so quiet”. I couldn’t help but wonder why she was so dismissive, it couldn’t have been something I said because I haven’t spoken to her in a couple years... not that anyone would know the answer, but does it seem like I offended her in some way, or was it just her attitude?
    7 answers · 12 hours ago
  • Is it bad that I want to be a teen mother?

    Since I was 6 I have been surrounded by babies. I have two nephews and a nice that i love like my own kids. I m about to be 15 and strangely I feel ready for a baby. I know my family will still be there for me and my best friend was over the moon to be a godmother. I d do anything and everything to give my baby... show more
    Since I was 6 I have been surrounded by babies. I have two nephews and a nice that i love like my own kids. I m about to be 15 and strangely I feel ready for a baby. I know my family will still be there for me and my best friend was over the moon to be a godmother. I d do anything and everything to give my baby what they need. I plan to stay in school and go to collage. It does not bother me one bit if people judge me or say that i m throwing my life away. I want a baby because i know i can love it and do everything to provide for it.
    7 answers · 1 day ago
  • Who is your best friend ?

    Best answer: My mom
    Best answer: My mom
    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • Why are quiet people so weak?

    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • I'm always a target for bullies. How do I make myself less of a target?

    I'm 15 years old. I'm a boy. I've been bullied my whole life. It's like I'm always a target for bullies. I get picked on by guys and girls. People make fun of me, they exclude me, they've physically harmed me, etc. I told teachers about the bullying, and they've done nothing. I honestly... show more
    I'm 15 years old. I'm a boy. I've been bullied my whole life. It's like I'm always a target for bullies. I get picked on by guys and girls. People make fun of me, they exclude me, they've physically harmed me, etc. I told teachers about the bullying, and they've done nothing. I honestly think teachers don't care. I told the school, and still nothing was done. I told my parents. We tried changing schools, but the bullying never stops. A lot of the people who bully me started out as acquaintances, then they begin to show their true colors. Other people who bully me are people who are just mean. I'm bullied by people who I don't even know. It's like they hate me for no reason. It's like why do you hate me? I don't even know you. I'm a very nice person that doesn't like drama or conflict. I treat everyone with respect. I'm not a confrontational person. I have a hard time standing up for myself. I'm also very shy and socially awkward. I'm starting my sophomore year of high school soon, and I don't want to deal with the bullying anymore. I could really use some advice on how I can be less of a target for bullies and how to stand up for myself.
    47 answers · 1 week ago
  • How to secretly be mean to someone you hate?

    There is this girl at my school that i hate because she pushes me around and stole my friend from me. She constantly does horrible things just so she can put the blame on me and she will try every chance she gets to hurt me and humiliate me. And she acts like the victim when I try to tell the friend that she stole... show more
    There is this girl at my school that i hate because she pushes me around and stole my friend from me. She constantly does horrible things just so she can put the blame on me and she will try every chance she gets to hurt me and humiliate me. And she acts like the victim when I try to tell the friend that she stole from me what she's doing to me. I just kinda want to turn the tables on her. So how can I secretly bully her and push her around without our friend knowing? And how would I act like the victim if the girl tells my friend? And if u don't wanna answer this and say immature and stuff. Go away. I just need honest answers pls pls pls. No jokes and IDC what u say, its my life. I can ruin it if i wanna. I just want to give this girl karma.
    6 answers · 24 hours ago
  • What should I do?

    We’re going to be freshmen (year 10) next year which means everyone in my year will be out drinking and going to house parties. Some might even have sex, I don’t know. But loads of people are going to get drunk and everyone is going to age 10x faster than we should. I don’t want to do any of that. I just wanna be... show more
    We’re going to be freshmen (year 10) next year which means everyone in my year will be out drinking and going to house parties. Some might even have sex, I don’t know. But loads of people are going to get drunk and everyone is going to age 10x faster than we should. I don’t want to do any of that. I just wanna be a kid but I don’t want them to look at me differently. Like I’m wierd or not brave enough. I want to get drunk when I’m like 18, not 14. How can I not give in to peer pressure without people looking at me differently?
    8 answers · 2 days ago