• Is it possible for a coward to become brave?

    I'm a coward, it's just the way I am, I was never good at sports growing up and it's because I'm afraid of getting hur and afraid of messing up because people won't like me, I gave up athletics because I was afraid of racing competitively. I remember in school I chickened out of my first kiss, I... show more
    I'm a coward, it's just the way I am, I was never good at sports growing up and it's because I'm afraid of getting hur and afraid of messing up because people won't like me, I gave up athletics because I was afraid of racing competitively. I remember in school I chickened out of my first kiss, I froze in my first fight (and only fight) when a scumbag kept pushing me I pushed back once and he kept hitting me and I froze. I learned later in life that I suffer with anxiety im something is this the modern name for cowardice? I'm afraid of everything I literally speed walk across the yard at night to put my dog to bed and to sleep I must completely wrap my body under the blanket except my head so I feel safe. I would love to be brave and be good at sport and confident, is it possible for me to change or is it just the way I'm sure and I should accept this?
    11 answers · 2 days ago
  • Can My girlfriend sue me for child support when the child isn't mine?

    when I was 18 years old I had myself sterilized because I never want to have children. I am 24 years old now and a few days ago my girlfriend told me she is pregnant, I then proceeded to tell Her that I had a vasectomy at age 18 and that her child is not mine. she screamed at me and called me a liar. I kicked her... show more
    when I was 18 years old I had myself sterilized because I never want to have children. I am 24 years old now and a few days ago my girlfriend told me she is pregnant, I then proceeded to tell Her that I had a vasectomy at age 18 and that her child is not mine. she screamed at me and called me a liar. I kicked her out of my apartment and she has been living in a women shelter for now. she called me saying she is going to sue for child supporrt payments. My question is can she win this court battle?
    50 answers · 4 days ago
  • How do I let go of anger and hate?

    12 answers · 2 days ago
  • How to become mentally strong?

    To be able to cope with anxiety and things that bother you
    To be able to cope with anxiety and things that bother you
    10 answers · 2 days ago
  • Does revenge make anger go away?

    107 answers · 1 week ago
  • How do people expect to stop bullying when it is a species survival instinct built in to every form of life?

    Best answer: Ah Finally someone to see things as they are
    Best answer: Ah Finally someone to see things as they are
    7 answers · 2 days ago
  • Are you happy?

    Best answer: Yes
    Best answer: Yes
    68 answers · 1 week ago
  • I See demons and they want to hurt me?

    I highly believe I am schizophrenic or have some form of sphycosis. It’s progressed over the years but it seems to be getting worse. And today at work was an awful experience. I’ve always believed I could see demons. I’ve seen them on occasion and hear them taking with each other as well. But it’s to the point... show more
    I highly believe I am schizophrenic or have some form of sphycosis. It’s progressed over the years but it seems to be getting worse. And today at work was an awful experience. I’ve always believed I could see demons. I’ve seen them on occasion and hear them taking with each other as well. But it’s to the point where I’ve started believing demons are all around me all the time. They come to work or other public places to stalk me. They watch me at home, I’m never alone. I feel like they want to hurt me or use me b/c of some special abilities I may have. It’s starting to scare me and for the first time. I’ve wanted to hurt another person b/c I was afraid they would hurt me. For no good reason. My point is. Do u think I’m actually crazy? And if so how should I tell my parents (I’m 19) I feel like people won’t believe me. What should I do?
    7 answers · 18 hours ago
  • How many people have you personally known that ended their own life?

    Don't worry, I'm not suicidal. Just curious. I had one suicide in the family and lost one close friend to suicide.
    Don't worry, I'm not suicidal. Just curious. I had one suicide in the family and lost one close friend to suicide.
    5 answers · 7 hours ago
  • What to say when introducing yourself to people?

    I am an exceptionally private person and I don't like sharing things about myself. However, as I am in school, I have to interact with people every day. Also, teachers always make students play those "getting to know you" games. Any suggestions for dealing with this crap?
    I am an exceptionally private person and I don't like sharing things about myself. However, as I am in school, I have to interact with people every day. Also, teachers always make students play those "getting to know you" games. Any suggestions for dealing with this crap?
    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • He doesn't want to have sex or see me in person but talks of marriage only to disappear on his only day off. Is he living a double life?

    Been together only 2 months. He doesn't want to have sex or see me in person because he claims it messes with his head (which makes no sense because everyone knows that everyone needs sex even if you mentally unwell). We have kissed and he does get turned on, but he stops himself from going anywhere below. ... show more
    Been together only 2 months. He doesn't want to have sex or see me in person because he claims it messes with his head (which makes no sense because everyone knows that everyone needs sex even if you mentally unwell). We have kissed and he does get turned on, but he stops himself from going anywhere below. He is NOT gay btw...so no, cut out that reason. I think I am a very nice looking woman so i doubt that is the reason. So, this is red flag number 1. Red flag number 2 is that he disappears on his day off, tuesday's. Its happened a couple of times already. So, this past monday night he said something bad happened and he will call me later. He never calls and ghosts me monday night. Tuesday i get just 1 text from him saying that he is dealing with some stuff but he will text me later that night. But he again, never calls. I try to call him because im worried about him. All calls go straight to vm. So this morning he sends me a "morning" text like nothing happened. Im like what happened and why didn't you call me like you said you would? He gave a really vague philosophical answer. I asked a second time, got another run around answer. I call him out on his actions respectfully, and he gets upset with me for calling him out. We haven't talked again today. Is he living a double life? Is he seeing another woman? I don't understand this at all!!!!! Can someone (preferably a guy) explain what on earth this guy is doing?
    15 answers · 6 days ago
  • How come misery likes company?

    12 answers · 4 days ago
  • How long do you want to live?

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  • Ways to let out anger?

    When I get really frustrated I do things like punch my walls, but that doesn’t do enough for me anymore. I need something like throwing a lamp or watermelon off a bridge. I need to completely demolish something... ideas? (I’m doing want your meditation to calm the anger, I want to mash something) thanks
    When I get really frustrated I do things like punch my walls, but that doesn’t do enough for me anymore. I need something like throwing a lamp or watermelon off a bridge. I need to completely demolish something... ideas? (I’m doing want your meditation to calm the anger, I want to mash something) thanks
    5 answers · 19 hours ago