• Scared of penetration?

    I’m a virgin. I’m absolutely terrified to have sex. The thought of something penetrating me makes me cringe. Especially my hymen braking. I’m crossing my legs while typing this. I only masturbate by clitoris, (which really isn’t doing it for me anymore). I can’t use a tampon because of this. Advice?
    I’m a virgin. I’m absolutely terrified to have sex. The thought of something penetrating me makes me cringe. Especially my hymen braking. I’m crossing my legs while typing this. I only masturbate by clitoris, (which really isn’t doing it for me anymore). I can’t use a tampon because of this. Advice?
    7 answers · 24 hours ago
  • Can someone please give me some advice. I'm 17 and have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years, I am on the pill and take it everyday.?

    we have tried to have sex but he cannot get hard in a condom and just goes back to being soft. At first we thought it was nerves but he said he dosent like the feel of the condoms and thinks that's the reason he goes soft. He can get an erection fine without a condom. I don't really want to risk having sex... show more
    we have tried to have sex but he cannot get hard in a condom and just goes back to being soft. At first we thought it was nerves but he said he dosent like the feel of the condoms and thinks that's the reason he goes soft. He can get an erection fine without a condom. I don't really want to risk having sex without a condom, is there anything else we can use as like a double protection against pregnancy? Thanks x
    10 answers · 3 days ago
  • What can I use to masturbate?

    I don't own any dildos and I have to much anxitey to buy one at spencers and I can't order one online cos of no credit card. What else can I use?
    I don't own any dildos and I have to much anxitey to buy one at spencers and I can't order one online cos of no credit card. What else can I use?
    18 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is a miscarrge panefull to the baby?

    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • Does masturbating/having an orgasm make you feel dizzy/out of breath?

    I am a young adult but I've never successfully achieved one but I haven't tried it in years, I want to know if it will make me feel weak or something if I try it again.
    I am a young adult but I've never successfully achieved one but I haven't tried it in years, I want to know if it will make me feel weak or something if I try it again.
    10 answers · 4 days ago
  • Are thick thighs of women attractive or scary that they appear big ? which one exactly ? tell me please ... lol?

    what's do you say people ? what exactly are you saying on this... come on
    what's do you say people ? what exactly are you saying on this... come on
    5 answers · 9 hours ago
  • Don't have pads what to do?

    My period just started but my pads had been packed over to my first apartment what should I do for a pad? Please help me
    My period just started but my pads had been packed over to my first apartment what should I do for a pad? Please help me
    6 answers · 2 days ago
  • Im only 17. why do I get sexual urges?

    6 answers · 2 days ago
  • I’m not short but people think I am?

    I’m 14 and 5’2”, I’m a girl. One time in English class we were talking about a character in a book we’re studying. That character is described as really short. I asked the teacher “could being a midget tell us anything?” but people called me short. I explained them that I’m not short but they STILL said I was... show more
    I’m 14 and 5’2”, I’m a girl. One time in English class we were talking about a character in a book we’re studying. That character is described as really short. I asked the teacher “could being a midget tell us anything?” but people called me short. I explained them that I’m not short but they STILL said I was short. I AM NOT SHORT! How do I explain to them that I’m not short, and why do they even think I’m short when I’m not?
    14 answers · 7 days ago
  • My husband suddenly needs to watch other woman during sex w me?

    Okay so here's the sad reality. My husband of ten years (soon to be ex) needs to watch other woman during sex w me. Well this has been going on for around six months. I was cool w him a few times and was open to watching other woman w him, thought maybe it was a phase. Lol boy was I naive. Well, there is no... show more
    Okay so here's the sad reality. My husband of ten years (soon to be ex) needs to watch other woman during sex w me. Well this has been going on for around six months. I was cool w him a few times and was open to watching other woman w him, thought maybe it was a phase. Lol boy was I naive. Well, there is no more romance, no for play. He turns youtube on and watches "twerk" videos, and naked woman DURING sex. Now, I am not ugly, other men stop dead in there tracks and gawk and I know it's not me. If he's not watching strippers and nasty woman during sex than he seems bored. Im kinda scared now. What am I dealing with? A cheater, a porn addict, both? He's simply not into me. Other men and that I have hooked up w love sex with me and ask for seconds. But why does he keep doing this to me? He knows I don't like it and don't care, says I am uptight for not going a long. Plz b honest here, just why and what does this mean?
    9 answers · 4 days ago
  • Hi, I'm a 14-year-old girl. I have not had sex before, but I have masturbated before.?

    I know what everyone is probably going to say, "Oh, you're too young." But I need help.I think I may have some sort of infection. First things I have this pain when I start getting aroused. I heard somewhere it's just the blood rushing to the vagina, but I'm not sure. Also, while masturbating,... show more
    I know what everyone is probably going to say, "Oh, you're too young." But I need help.I think I may have some sort of infection. First things I have this pain when I start getting aroused. I heard somewhere it's just the blood rushing to the vagina, but I'm not sure. Also, while masturbating, it feels SO good at first and then when I'm over, it hurts/burns kind of when I pee. Someone, please help. My parents are also divorced, and I live with my dad, so it's hard for me to ask about this sort of stuff.
    5 answers · 2 days ago
  • Was I about to come and orgasm?

    Best answer: most woman Need their clitoris stimulated to have an orgasm that Fact has been medically reported Over 50 Years ago! learn how your own body works- there are 100's of books on female sexuality available you can start with this article-- Education is the Key r. Gail: Women take on average 20 minutes of... show more
    Best answer: most woman Need their clitoris stimulated to have an orgasm

    that Fact has been medically reported Over 50 Years ago!


    learn how your own body works- there are 100's of books on female sexuality available

    you can start with this article-- Education is the Key

    r. Gail: Women take on average 20 minutes of stimulation and arousal to have an orgasm. Men take quite a bit less. Women also have more variation in what they find to be stimulating as well as having more difficulty defining exactly where and how stimulation works best.

    Only 20 percent of women are able to orgasm with intercourse alone, most women need some sort of direct clitoral stimulation.


    Dr. Drew: Yes, men and women are wired differently, moreover women are wired differently from each other. Many times women will feel as though they are flawed because they are not living up to a certain standard of climaxing. Men make it worse because they generalize what’s needed to make a woman climax.

    Often men believe women are the same, and once they figure what works for one woman they apply that same method to all the other women they are intimate with, and that’s one of the major problems.


    50-60% of women will never have an orgasm via intercourse and will require clitoral stimulation to climax.
    30% of women will have a reliable orgasm with intercourse.
    10% of women will orgasm with intercourse and could possibly have sequential orgasms.
    5% of women have true multiple orgasms only through intercourse and these women typically find oral sex uncomfortable.

    It's also important to recognize that there really isn't such a thing as "vaginal" or "clitoral" orgasms. That terminology was invented mostly by psychologists way back when, before we even had real study on women's sexuality or on human orgasm in general. orgasms happen primarily in our brains and nervous systems, we simply feel the effects in our whole bodies, including our genitals

    . Women may arrive at orgasm through clitoral stimulus, but that doesn't make that orgasm clitoral
    10 answers · 5 days ago