• What do you do when someone bluntly asks you a question you don't want to answer?

    I've always believed that just because someone asks you a blunt question, doesn't mean you are obligated to answer them. Sometimes people are just nosy and don't understand boundaries and they will never get it (unfortunately). For example - if a woman found out she was a pregnant (2 months) and would... show more
    I've always believed that just because someone asks you a blunt question, doesn't mean you are obligated to answer them. Sometimes people are just nosy and don't understand boundaries and they will never get it (unfortunately). For example - if a woman found out she was a pregnant (2 months) and would prefer to keep quiet until months later. Her mother in law point blank asks, "are you pregnant"? How do you think she should respond? If she were to say, "no" to protect the baby, the mother in law would later in the future accuse her of lying. On the other hand, it's no one's business, even if they asked. Another example - if you were in the process of a personal goal - being in a certificate program or in school again and would like to keep the attention away from you until you finish this goal. If someone asks you, "hey, are you in school now?" and don't want to answer, how would you respond?
    19 answers · 3 days ago
  • What is her issue with me?

    Best answer: She sounds to me like one of those people that needs people to back stab. It was a huge mistake sharing your snap chat site with her, and really, do not go and try and be friends with her any more, as that type of friend is better left to the wolves, as they make better enemies.
    Best answer: She sounds to me like one of those people that needs people to back stab. It was a huge mistake sharing your snap chat site with her, and really, do not go and try and be friends with her any more, as that type of friend is better left to the wolves, as they make better enemies.
    11 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is it okay to slap someone in the face with a toy fish?

    Or not??
    Or not??
    17 answers · 2 days ago
  • How to deal with a bully boss in a restaurant?

    So I'm a server at a nice restaurant and our manager bullies me. For example I had just checked on all my tables, everyone had food, everyone was good on drinks, nobody needed anything. I walked past the server line and stopped and filled a drink for myself and took a drink. My manager then says,... show more
    So I'm a server at a nice restaurant and our manager bullies me. For example I had just checked on all my tables, everyone had food, everyone was good on drinks, nobody needed anything. I walked past the server line and stopped and filled a drink for myself and took a drink. My manager then says, "Isn't there anything you could be doing, go water your tables." I went and walked around the restaurant with a full pitcher and returned with it full due to the fact I had just checked and even customers looked at me a little weird for walking by so soon. I literally feel like I can't even stop to take a drink without her thinking I have nothing going on and her either barking out a command or just making a rude "workin hard or hardly workin?" kind of comment. But if I give my customers anymore attention I would be hovering over their table. I also am by far the server that cleans the most and find things to do just fine. So how do I get this lady off my back so I can take a sip without her freaking out?
    23 answers · 4 days ago
  • Would you pay for a date that is obviously not going anywhere?

    The other night I went on a date. I met this girl on match.com and we have been talking for a couple of weeks. I wasn't really expecting much on this date. Our conversations had never really been more than me trying to talk to her and she giving a few nonsensical answers that never led to anything. But hey, I... show more
    The other night I went on a date. I met this girl on match.com and we have been talking for a couple of weeks. I wasn't really expecting much on this date. Our conversations had never really been more than me trying to talk to her and she giving a few nonsensical answers that never led to anything. But hey, I figured maybe she is bad with talking online. I asked her out, we went to play pool and had dinner. I had made reservations to a place for dinner but she was very insistent on a restaurant that she liked. A restaurant that was far more expensive than my place. Had the date gone well I wouldn't mind paying. It's the least I can do. But it didn't go well. She was the same stuck up person in real life as over the internet. She had zero personality, nothing interesting to say and she couldn't really offer anything else besides her fairly good looks. There was a mirror behind her and I saw she was sitting with snapchat and instagram. At this point I had enough. I went to our waiter and I paid for what I had. She had a full three course meal and I was not paying for that. I had already paid for pool and drinks at the bar. I went up to her and said: "Hey, this date is not going anywhere. You clearly have no social skills what so ever and you have been more with your phone than me. I have paid for my portion of the meal. You can pay the rest yourself". She started calling me names and didn't want to pay. I walked out and left her. Do you think that was wrong to do so?
    22 answers · 4 days ago
  • I cannot have kids, due to medical issues, client at work asked if I have kids and why not..?

    And gave me a “whats wrong with you look?” What can I say to not be rude next time but be assertive? Im over 35 so I get a “really? No kids?” Look orcomment It
    And gave me a “whats wrong with you look?” What can I say to not be rude next time but be assertive? Im over 35 so I get a “really? No kids?” Look orcomment It
    9 answers · 21 hours ago
  • Waitress leaves doors open in restaurant because she's hot, yellow jackets swarm around my table, should I complain to the owner?

    This happened today and I'm annoyed with myself for leaving her a tip and not complaining to the owner about what she did. How could she leave two doors open in a restaurant serving Italian food, sweet soda and wine and not expect the bees outside not to fly in? Should I call the owner and complain? BTW, there... show more
    This happened today and I'm annoyed with myself for leaving her a tip and not complaining to the owner about what she did. How could she leave two doors open in a restaurant serving Italian food, sweet soda and wine and not expect the bees outside not to fly in? Should I call the owner and complain? BTW, there are many ceiling fans in the place she could have turned on since she was hot. She only offered an apology for ruining my meal and forcing me to take it home to eat.
    11 answers · 2 days ago
  • Roommate's boyfriend snores LOUDLY, and he's over all the time?

    I love my roommate and her boyfriend, but he is over at our house ALL THE TIME. This alone is a little irritating (I moved in with two other women for a reason, I hate having to yell "Is Bob [let's call him Bob] here??" before I run to the dryer in my underwear to grab a pair of pants." But, he... show more
    I love my roommate and her boyfriend, but he is over at our house ALL THE TIME. This alone is a little irritating (I moved in with two other women for a reason, I hate having to yell "Is Bob [let's call him Bob] here??" before I run to the dryer in my underwear to grab a pair of pants." But, he also snores. Loudly. Her room is right next to mine and the walls are thin. It's usually not horrible, but with it getting colder outside, it's been really bad. Like, waking me up several times throughout the night bad. I mentioned something about it to her (being as nice as possible) and all she said was "he needs a sleep study, that's about all that's going to help." No apology, nothing. I'm getting really tired of being tired because I'm getting woken up 2-3 times a night by someone's snoring who doesn't even live at our house. What the hell do I do?
    19 answers · 3 days ago
  • Should I get a small tattoo to remind me of a difficult time I’ve just been through?

    Best answer: you should if you don t think it could trigger negative feelings or memories from that time. I would, just nothing that would resemble the negative time itself, something that resembles strength and/or positivity:)
    Best answer: you should if you don t think it could trigger negative feelings or memories from that time. I would, just nothing that would resemble the negative time itself, something that resembles strength and/or positivity:)
    11 answers · 2 days ago
  • Does anyone else want to yank that stupid bedazzled cowboy off her nappy head?

    Best answer: Lol
    Best answer: Lol
    8 answers · 15 hours ago
  • Who enter (man or woman) through the door first in a bar/coffee shop/restaurant?

    I read a few articles that these socializing places are the one where a gentleman should enter first and hold the door for the lady but does it apply to every one of them or is there a difference between bars, restaurants, clubs, coffee shops? Thank you!
    I read a few articles that these socializing places are the one where a gentleman should enter first and hold the door for the lady but does it apply to every one of them or is there a difference between bars, restaurants, clubs, coffee shops? Thank you!
    7 answers · 5 hours ago
  • What do i do about my neighbor needing me to give him a ride to work every day?

    i would be able to and he would be fine with giving me gas money, but the thing is i don't want to do it every single day. i work 3rd shift, i come home about an hour before he wants to leave, and then he needs me to pick him up 8 hours later which is an hour before i lay down. it might sound mean that the... show more
    i would be able to and he would be fine with giving me gas money, but the thing is i don't want to do it every single day. i work 3rd shift, i come home about an hour before he wants to leave, and then he needs me to pick him up 8 hours later which is an hour before i lay down. it might sound mean that the only reason is that i don't want to, but that's just the way it is. every day twice a day is just going to get old for me. the thing is, there's nobody that he can carpool with, there are no taxi services in my area. but i also don't want him to lose a job because i won't give him a ride. what do i do?
    15 answers · 3 days ago
  • Do you think I should receive this product for free? Store screwed up my order?

    So I order groceries online because i'm sick with the flu. I went to pick them up (they bring the groceries out to your vehicle). When I got back home I found out they forgot a chicken I had ordered. I called them and told them and they said I could come pick it up later when ever I want. Anyways i'm... show more
    So I order groceries online because i'm sick with the flu. I went to pick them up (they bring the groceries out to your vehicle). When I got back home I found out they forgot a chicken I had ordered. I called them and told them and they said I could come pick it up later when ever I want. Anyways i'm wondering if they should return my money and give me the chicken for free? Since this is their mistake and also I paid a fee for this service. (only $3) I think they should since now I have to go out AGAIN and use my gas..and also this mistake was completely their fault. Also I pay a fee, so I expect the order to be correct.
    7 answers · 23 hours ago
  • When someone at work says this it’s all fake and for show right? Noone means it..?

    Being polite and meaning none of it “Good to see you” “ good to have you back, I missed you” All so unsincere, or is it? How do you know?
    Being polite and meaning none of it “Good to see you” “ good to have you back, I missed you” All so unsincere, or is it? How do you know?
    7 answers · 23 hours ago
  • Have been off work sick with a migraine yesterday, worked today but felt bad, when asked “how are you”? I said “bit better thanks”?

    Best answer: "How are you?" has always seemed to me to be an alternative to the basic "Hello" in my opinion. If I am out and about, I always respond with, I am Fine, thanks, How are you? Unless you are very close to the person, I see no point in standing there and offering up a litany of all of the current,... show more
    Best answer: "How are you?" has always seemed to me to be an alternative to the basic "Hello" in my opinion.
    If I am out and about, I always respond with, I am Fine, thanks, How are you?
    Unless you are very close to the person, I see no point in standing there and offering up a litany of
    all of the current, often age related ailments that you are dealing with, as no one really wants to know.

    The only greeting that can irk me is, You look really well, which I am sometimes greeted with, and
    usually when I am feeling at my worst. LOL!
    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • Are pizza delivery drivers responsible to give the customer change?

    I ordered a pizza today but the delivery driver had no change so he had to go back to get change which was a pain to wait for him because he spent nearly 20 minutes. I told him next time he needs to come prepared because not every customer is going to have exact change. I mean, what pizza delivery driver never has... show more
    I ordered a pizza today but the delivery driver had no change so he had to go back to get change which was a pain to wait for him because he spent nearly 20 minutes. I told him next time he needs to come prepared because not every customer is going to have exact change. I mean, what pizza delivery driver never has $1.00 bills on them or change? You would think they always bring change. Is it the pizza driver’s responsibility to have change on them? Was I being a little rude by telling him that he should come prepared because he literally held my day up and kept me waiting where I had to be somewhere and it took him that long to come back?
    18 answers · 4 days ago
  • Heard this recently “as long as a person has one good friend in life they are oK” How important is it & is it true?

    Why? And if a person doesn’t? Good friends are rare!
    Why? And if a person doesn’t? Good friends are rare!
    6 answers · 13 hours ago