• Should I throw away my friend's jacket since we don't speak any more?

    I have a friend from another country - who really isn't my friend any more. We haven't spoken in nearly 2 years because I can't deal with her drama (she visited me in the states and went to meet up with various men when she visited here a few times). We are totally different people and she's very... show more
    I have a friend from another country - who really isn't my friend any more. We haven't spoken in nearly 2 years because I can't deal with her drama (she visited me in the states and went to meet up with various men when she visited here a few times). We are totally different people and she's very toxic/needy, so I've told her I need some space from our friendship. However, she left a jacket in my closet and it's taking up space so I'm thinking of just donating it. If I send it back to her by mail, it'll possibly give her a reason to write or text me and I don't want to hear from her ever again. It does belong to her and I respect other people's belongings, so should I not worry about her asking me for it in the future and just give it away already?
    18 answers · 1 day ago
  • Some atheists insist that adaptation within species is evolution.Are they monkeys who yearn to be people?

    Best answer: Apparently atheists think my grandparents are a different species than I
    Best answer: Apparently atheists think my grandparents are a different species than I
    14 answers · 21 hours ago
  • Is it ok to ask a stranger if you could kiss them?

    Best answer: When I was 17 or 18 and out in a bar and saw a pretty girl I used to ask all the time and none ever said no. Some of them went on to be a relationship.

    If you want to kiss someone then if you don't ask you are never going to get.
    Best answer: When I was 17 or 18 and out in a bar and saw a pretty girl I used to ask all the time and none ever said no. Some of them went on to be a relationship.

    If you want to kiss someone then if you don't ask you are never going to get.
    13 answers · 17 hours ago
  • Am I desperate for his attention?

    I mailed an anonymous letter to his mom, threatening that they if he didn't unblock me on Facebook and sent me an apology letter, if he didn't post on Facebook saying he's sorry for what he did to me, and to send me a screenshot of that, I would report him to the police.
    I mailed an anonymous letter to his mom, threatening that they if he didn't unblock me on Facebook and sent me an apology letter, if he didn't post on Facebook saying he's sorry for what he did to me, and to send me a screenshot of that, I would report him to the police.
    14 answers · 1 day ago
  • If the hottest girl in the club danced with me for 45 minutes did she like me or was she just being nice?

    Not sure if she was just being nice
    Not sure if she was just being nice
    9 answers · 6 hours ago
  • Would you help out random strangers? People who you don't owe anything to but wouldn't mind helping if they appreciate it.?

    I was sitting in my car at the park when this random lady knocked on my window to ask if she could use my phone. I lied that I don't have one, but then she pointed to my purse and said, "Your phone's right in there." I didn't know what to say, so I said, "Sorry but I can't let you use... show more
    I was sitting in my car at the park when this random lady knocked on my window to ask if she could use my phone. I lied that I don't have one, but then she pointed to my purse and said, "Your phone's right in there." I didn't know what to say, so I said, "Sorry but I can't let you use it. Go across the street to the bar to use theirs." Then she got mad and called me a f*cken *****. I didn't appreciate that, but oh well. I took off. I wasn't trying to be mean, but how do I know she's not gonna run off with my phone? I've heard stories about how people would pretend to need help when they really didn't. Not everyone has good intentions. In a way I felt bad because what if she really just wanted to use my phone to call her boyfriend to pick her up. That's what she said. I have no way of knowing that. I believe the reason why I reacted that way is because of fear. I don't like entitled people. I also once had this lady ask for spare change. I said I didn't have any. Then she got mad and said, "Not even $1?" I said no, then she went grrrrrrrrr and took off. I understand we all need help sometimes, but I wish these people understood that other people don't owe them anything. I have given spare change to random strangers before, but not all the time. I don't feel as bad if they have bad attitude. I don't mind helping out those who truly appreciate it.
    12 answers · 2 days ago
  • Who thinks it's rude for a security guard or doorman to say "Nooooo! we're about to close" when you come in not knowing they're closing soon?

    This happened to me last weekend when I was bar hopping in the downtown part of where I live. If a person shows up at a bar or nightclub with their ID in their hand ready to be checked while not knowing the place is closing soon and the doorman/security guard responds by saying "Nooooo! we're getting... show more
    This happened to me last weekend when I was bar hopping in the downtown part of where I live. If a person shows up at a bar or nightclub with their ID in their hand ready to be checked while not knowing the place is closing soon and the doorman/security guard responds by saying "Nooooo! we're getting ready to close" not in an angry tone but in a semi dramatic tone, it seems like they're being accusatory and making their guest feel like they're doing something wrong or problematic. I feel they should just simply inform people that they're closing soon for example like "sorry, we close at (whatever time)" instead of being a little overly dramatic making people feel like they're committing a delinquent act when they just weren't aware of the fact that they're closing. Thoughts?
    14 answers · 2 days ago
  • When is either of these options considered creepy?

    When you are on a train for example, and you take photos of women, such as their feet (like in a sandal). Which would be worse, to just take the photos, or to ask first? (I think asking may sound weird and draw attention to the photo taker).
    When you are on a train for example, and you take photos of women, such as their feet (like in a sandal). Which would be worse, to just take the photos, or to ask first? (I think asking may sound weird and draw attention to the photo taker).
    8 answers · 18 hours ago
  • Is it rude to use the store's electric riding carts if you have blisters on your feet and have a hard time walking?

    Best answer: Yes, it's rude. What if a truly disabled person needed that cart? If you have blisters, maybe you shouldn't be in the store to begin with.
    Best answer: Yes, it's rude. What if a truly disabled person needed that cart? If you have blisters, maybe you shouldn't be in the store to begin with.
    8 answers · 1 day ago
  • Teachers - always being asked for money for staff engaments or pregnancys etc?

    I am a new primary teacher and bought my own home this year. I am really stretched for money as I am at the bottom of the pay scale and am now paying my own mortgage and bills etc for the first time. At work I pay £3 a month into a social fund. I don't really know for sure what this money is spent on other... show more
    I am a new primary teacher and bought my own home this year. I am really stretched for money as I am at the bottom of the pay scale and am now paying my own mortgage and bills etc for the first time. At work I pay £3 a month into a social fund. I don't really know for sure what this money is spent on other than flowers for staff off sick but this is a lot of money from a lot of people to just cover some flowers.... I am also regularly being asked for money for staff who have gotten engaged or who are pregnant etc. Kids come round with envelopes and a staff list to collect money and we have to tick our names off when we have paid. I cannot afford this as I would be expected to be paying around £30 this month for 3 members of staff. Although we cannot be forced to contribute I am made to feel awkward if I don't as my name will be one of the only ones not ticked and the kids collecting will see how much or how little I put in. Additionally, kids coming round can be disruptive to my day as it can happen so often. I don't know who to bring it up with as my finances are personal to me and don't really want to discuss that with other staff members. I don't what to do.
    9 answers · 1 day ago
  • Did the guy at my local laundromat over-react ?

    I had Tide Febreze they had Tide Sport Scent. I made the mistake of using a cap full of their Tide by mistake. I apologized once they asked me what the hell was I doing. I even offered to let them use some of my Tide. I get it it's two different scents, but it still Tide it was an honest mistake at least I... show more
    I had Tide Febreze they had Tide Sport Scent. I made the mistake of using a cap full of their Tide by mistake. I apologized once they asked me what the hell was I doing. I even offered to let them use some of my Tide. I get it it's two different scents, but it still Tide it was an honest mistake at least I offered. He mouthed some intercurrent words. He starting speaking in another language which I do not speak, pointing over at me. I just ignored him finished my laundry and went home. I am just curious what would other people do in this particular situation. Myself I would have taken the person up on their.offer accepted their Tide, accept their apology and not made a big deal out of it.
    15 answers · 3 days ago
  • The restraining order was not granted?

    The judge only had to listen to him, and I did not say anything, not at all. The case was dismissed. What do you have to say for yourselves?
    The judge only had to listen to him, and I did not say anything, not at all. The case was dismissed. What do you have to say for yourselves?
    6 answers · 3 hours ago
  • Is Begging Guys On The Internet For Money Pathetic?

    I got fired from my job due to a health condition. I have little common sense and I’m dumb. I’m 22 years old. So lately I’ve been making clothes videos asking men for money and sometimes they actually send. Is this wrong
    I got fired from my job due to a health condition. I have little common sense and I’m dumb. I’m 22 years old. So lately I’ve been making clothes videos asking men for money and sometimes they actually send. Is this wrong
    10 answers · 2 days ago
  • Does this mean he does coke?!?

    So I was at work earlier today and I went over to a separate building where a guy where I work, works alone. As I was in his office talking to him I look beside him and see a straw but it was cut. About only 1/3 of the straw was cut. But the tip was angled. For an example the tip of it was cut like this “/“... show more
    So I was at work earlier today and I went over to a separate building where a guy where I work, works alone. As I was in his office talking to him I look beside him and see a straw but it was cut. About only 1/3 of the straw was cut. But the tip was angled. For an example the tip of it was cut like this “/“ slanted!... So I asked him curiously and said “Why did you cut that straw up like that???” And all he says is “I had to do something with it” and didn’t elaborate as he normally would with any other thing we talk about. But I can’t think of any reason why he’d use or even have cut a straw like that other than snorting something. I didn’t see any residue or anything around. He obviously kept it clean being that he’s at work. But left the remainder of the straw on his desk as if he’s gonna cut it in thirds again for later use. He didn’t seem to had been acting wild or different or anything. But then again I don’t see him very often to know. I do not want to assume But what else could the straw could have been for or there isn’t anything else it could have been for???
    7 answers · 19 hours ago