• What would you do, if your wife (or hubby )cheats on your back?

    Best answer: Cheating is a moral crime, but unfortunately no law upholds this in the "free" countries. My ex cheated on me for years, and when I finally caught on he has many, many affairs under his belt. He was also emotionally and psychologically abusive. You bet I wish cheating was technically a crime!! I wanted... show more
    Best answer: Cheating is a moral crime, but unfortunately no law upholds this in the "free" countries. My ex cheated on me for years, and when I finally caught on he has many, many affairs under his belt. He was also emotionally and psychologically abusive. You bet I wish cheating was technically a crime!! I wanted him to pay. Instead, I have divorced him and have let him live with his non-winning cheating self and know that his day will come. I do believe God is watching. My life is a million times better without my ex, now. It's much healthier to focus on yourself and your healing. What good is a criminal charge against your ex when you are still lonely, hurt and miserable?
    22 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 2 days ago
  • I caught my neighbor s husband cheating: Should I tell her?

    I was sitting on my porch and saw my neighbor go off to work. We waved goodbye. I saw another woman show up two hours later at my neighbor s house. He was all dressed up and I followed them to a resteraunt and they kissed Should I tell my neighbor about this? I took a whole video of the whole thing. I couldn t... show more
    I was sitting on my porch and saw my neighbor go off to work. We waved goodbye. I saw another woman show up two hours later at my neighbor s house. He was all dressed up and I followed them to a resteraunt and they kissed Should I tell my neighbor about this? I took a whole video of the whole thing. I couldn t imagine going through this but i would want to know especially since she talks highly of her husband
    18 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 2 days ago
  • Why do I keep thinking about my dead brother?

    He died in 1998, and I haven't really thought about him much the past few years but for some reason lately I just miss him more than I have since the initial loss so many years ago. I used to torment and tease him all the time (he was ten years older than I), but we had some really great times and he knew I was... show more
    He died in 1998, and I haven't really thought about him much the past few years but for some reason lately I just miss him more than I have since the initial loss so many years ago. I used to torment and tease him all the time (he was ten years older than I), but we had some really great times and he knew I was just being a brat when I would bug him. I don't expect answers I just miss my big brother and want him back.
    17 answers · Family · 3 days ago
  • I called someone a name and they heard me?

    Best answer: You called her Dora? That is hardly the worst thing you could have called her and in any case she could never prove you were talking about her and not someone else.

    Don't worry, but maybe you should learn to keep your thoughts in your mind if you think expressing them will offend someone.
    Best answer: You called her Dora? That is hardly the worst thing you could have called her and in any case she could never prove you were talking about her and not someone else.

    Don't worry, but maybe you should learn to keep your thoughts in your mind if you think expressing them will offend someone.
    13 answers · Friends · 14 hours ago
  • Is it bad to not want a guy who flirts with everyone?

    There’s this guy who really likes me he wants to be with me and is serious about me. I even had him crying over me in the past but he’s one big player. On his Instagram he has so many girls on there and some of them comment on his picture and he flirts with them back I don’t know it makes me mad because I feel like... show more
    There’s this guy who really likes me he wants to be with me and is serious about me. I even had him crying over me in the past but he’s one big player. On his Instagram he has so many girls on there and some of them comment on his picture and he flirts with them back I don’t know it makes me mad because I feel like he’s doing something to make them be so confident enough to to be active with him.. we may not be together but his actions makes me want nothing to do with. He may be single but the way he flirts with other people he shows that anyone can have him he makes some girls feel good and that’s not what I want.. even if a guy isn’t with you he should be focused on you point blink.. it makes me wanna be just as active with other men and flirt with them also since he does the same despite how strongly I may feel. I just keep my feelings to myself..and avoid him as much as possible... I just feel like he should date the girls that he flirts with instead.. I’m only one person I can’t make someone only want me despite if they may feel that they make like me or not... I’m so sick of him putting on this show acting like he likes me, telling all of his friends when he turns around and flirts with other people than making me seem like a ***** when I ignore him.. he’s a big player and that’s why I don’t FW with.. overal am I wrong?
    8 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • I'm black and raised by whites?

    I was adopted when I was 2 years old. I've been with my foster parents for 12 years now. I've attended schools with rarely any blacks. I don't know anything about the african American history. I love my parents but they are very strict and religious. I wanted to attend a rap concert but my parents told... show more
    I was adopted when I was 2 years old. I've been with my foster parents for 12 years now. I've attended schools with rarely any blacks. I don't know anything about the african American history. I love my parents but they are very strict and religious. I wanted to attend a rap concert but my parents told me no. They allowed me to attend Justin Bieber and Lady Gaga concert with out even hesitating. How do I ask my parents to allow me to be around blacks more, learn black culture and to trust me more?
    91 answers · Family · 6 days ago
  • My husband wants a divorce, but says he still needs me to help him with his school work. Says he just wants to be my friend. What do I do?

    My husband and I have been together for a total of 17 years (married for 3). A few months ago he told me that he didn't love me anymore and wanted a separation and eventual divorce. He tells me that he may have feelings for someone else who is also married with a child but says they are just best friends and I... show more
    My husband and I have been together for a total of 17 years (married for 3). A few months ago he told me that he didn't love me anymore and wanted a separation and eventual divorce. He tells me that he may have feelings for someone else who is also married with a child but says they are just best friends and I shouldn't care. He has recently gone back to school and started a new position at work. He still asks me to help him and like an idiot I still do. I have done almost every single one of his assignments for school (about a year and a half worth of work)and much of the paperwork that is required from his new position at work. He says that he needs me to help him get back on his feet and when he's ready, we'll finalize the divorce. I still do many of the same things I did as his wife (laundry, cook, iron his clothes and do the dry cleaning). He says he doesn't want me, to stay out of his business especially his relationship with this other woman. Still, sometimes, he'll give me hope that we can work it out and I fall into that whole routine again. Then, he'll tell me that there is no hope for us, he doesn't love me and doesn't want me, but still needs my help and just wants to be friends. I want to help him so that he doesn't fail, because I care about him, but I also no longer want to do these things anymore because it's mentally not healthy for me. How can I get past this? I'm unsure of what to do, I feel conflicted.
    21 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 2 days ago
  • Why does everyone like sex?

    Best answer: Sex is merely an expression of love and those who live for only sensual pleasure miss out on the good feelings you get for tenderly caring for another and I need a guy like you in my life because was in horrible relationship where the other one only cared about sex and that does not make sex disgusting just the... show more
    Best answer: Sex is merely an expression of love and those who live for only sensual pleasure miss out on the good feelings you get for tenderly caring for another and I need a guy like you in my life because was in horrible relationship where the other one only cared about sex and that does not make sex disgusting just the ones who act this way.
    8 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • Is it trashy to send a guy a pic of your vagina?

    I met this really cute guy at school and we've been talking for about two weeks. I was really horny so I sent him an up close pic of me rubbing it. He wants to see me around 1:30am tonight. Do you think he only wants sex because I really like him? I dont want him to think I'm easy.
    I met this really cute guy at school and we've been talking for about two weeks. I was really horny so I sent him an up close pic of me rubbing it. He wants to see me around 1:30am tonight. Do you think he only wants sex because I really like him? I dont want him to think I'm easy.
    66 answers · Singles & Dating · 6 days ago
  • Am I a bad son?

    Like every teenager I just like to be left alone and I over heard my parents saying I’m never talking to them What do they expect. Mostly every teenager is anti social I am always watching a series or a movie am I doing something wrong?
    Like every teenager I just like to be left alone and I over heard my parents saying I’m never talking to them What do they expect. Mostly every teenager is anti social I am always watching a series or a movie am I doing something wrong?
    73 answers · Family · 6 days ago
  • Why Won’t He Marry Me?

    Best answer: He knows that he does not have to marry you. He knows that he can get the best from you without marriage. So -- he just does not want to get marriage. Surprise him -- STOP everything with him .. no explanation .. nothing … just stop it all .. and don't let him push your buttons to get you to come around. Never... show more
    Best answer: He knows that he does not have to marry you.
    He knows that he can get the best from you without marriage.
    So -- he just does not want to get marriage.
    Surprise him -- STOP everything with him .. no explanation .. nothing … just stop it all .. and don't let him push your buttons to get you to come around.
    Never give up on wanting what is right .. however, you don't want to make a person marry you … if he isn't marrying you - it's because he doesn't want to marry you - and he can get you to do all things for him.
    Surprise him big time … he will respect you more for it.
    35 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 4 days ago
  • Just got payed from my first job, mom says she will take $200 from my account every month. And I wrong for being bitter?

    Best answer: Why do you not just tell her to stop? Also why the 200.00 is being taken (pretend rent, forced savings/investment, help cover cost of other siblings, mom's personal fun fund, etc) and your age, are helpful to understand if/how much you should be bitter about this. Well congratulations with getting your second... show more
    Best answer: Why do you not just tell her to stop?

    Also why the 200.00 is being taken (pretend rent, forced savings/investment, help cover cost of other siblings, mom's personal fun fund, etc) and your age, are helpful to understand if/how much you should be bitter about this.

    Well congratulations with getting your second paycheck ever but managing to get a bonus where you can send 5K to your mom. I assume medical and/or IT related. Yes you can be annoyed and frustrated with your mom. With what you have shared. You should talk to your mom about this. At this point why does your mom even have access to your funds?
    11 answers · Family · 14 hours ago
  • Women please help me I need advice?

    My boyfriend likes to comment and like other womens photos ( Sexy) on facebook It makes me feel bad. I let him know this makes me feel uncomfortable and if he would please stop making comments to women that he does not know and are obviously taking sexy photos. He told me he does not want to be told what to do. Am... show more
    My boyfriend likes to comment and like other womens photos ( Sexy) on facebook It makes me feel bad. I let him know this makes me feel uncomfortable and if he would please stop making comments to women that he does not know and are obviously taking sexy photos. He told me he does not want to be told what to do. Am I over reacting?
    14 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • Why did my sister marry a white man?

    I'm so angry at her. In our community, we don't date outside our race. My parents worked so hard to send her to America for an education. Then she ran off with a white man and got married.
    I'm so angry at her. In our community, we don't date outside our race. My parents worked so hard to send her to America for an education. Then she ran off with a white man and got married.
    11 answers · Family · 17 hours ago
  • Boyfriend masterbates in bed every morning while I’m alseep?

    I recently moved in with my boyfriend and due to some outside circumstances I haven’t been feeling up for sex all that often. I know he has a high sex drive (not complaining!) and I have no problem with him masterbating, but I find the regularity of it, the fact he does it next to me when he thinks I’m alseep, and... show more
    I recently moved in with my boyfriend and due to some outside circumstances I haven’t been feeling up for sex all that often. I know he has a high sex drive (not complaining!) and I have no problem with him masterbating, but I find the regularity of it, the fact he does it next to me when he thinks I’m alseep, and the fact he’s looking at porn next to me a little upsetting and disrespectful. Am I just being too sensitive or would other people be annoyed by this too?
    10 answers · Singles & Dating · 8 hours ago
  • Can church be a good place to meet a hot girl?

    Best answer: Yes. Chances are you will have that Church Girl committing SINS with you.
    Best answer: Yes. Chances are you will have that Church Girl committing SINS with you.
    9 answers · Singles & Dating · 9 hours ago