• Am I shallow if I refuse to date someone who's not successful?

    I have a college degree and a decent paying job so I want someone who is the same. I once turned down a guy after finding out that he works as a security guard for a living. Am I shallow or just being reasonable?
    I have a college degree and a decent paying job so I want someone who is the same. I once turned down a guy after finding out that he works as a security guard for a living. Am I shallow or just being reasonable?
    20 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • How to get over the guilt of cheating on my wife? Someone one night showed a lot of interest and I miss that. And then it happened.?

    Best answer: What she doesn’t know won’t hurt her. So keep your lips zipped.
    Best answer: What she doesn’t know won’t hurt her. So keep your lips zipped.
    22 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 2 days ago
  • Grandmother died without a will,who gets the house ?

    Me and my grandmother were extremely close,she raised me on my father’s behalf when he had ms. Eventually she got very sick & her other son (she had two children him & my father.) I stayed with her as well to help care for her. My uncle & his wife would smoke,drink & take her pills without... show more
    Me and my grandmother were extremely close,she raised me on my father’s behalf when he had ms. Eventually she got very sick & her other son (she had two children him & my father.) I stayed with her as well to help care for her. My uncle & his wife would smoke,drink & take her pills without permission as well as would try abusing me as a minor. When I was 17 my uncle tried hitting my & my grandmother called the cops. They called my mother to take me away from the abusive household & my grandmother threatened to kill herself if I left..that was the last time I’d ever see her again. After that I got 1 phone call & never got a response,I tried stopping by and knocking,calling,even calling aps. It had been two years since I heard from her & I saw on Facebook she had passed..no one told me or let me know. I’m completely devastated. What’s worse is that these horrible people who did my grandmother wrong are still in the home & I want them out! She didn’t leave a will but my father is deceased so it’s just me and my uncle. Does part of that house belong to me?if so how do I go about trying to take it from them? I’m hurt they didn’t let me be there for her in her last days & she would always say she wanted the house sold and the money split.
    17 answers · Family · 1 day ago
  • My daughter has become a vegan. How do I get her to come to her senses and return to meat?

    She's 13 and wants to follow this vegan trend nonsense. She has gotten into the wrong crowd online and has watched too much peta propaganda videos. I will not allow her to give up meat. As a doctor, I know the negative health risks that will happen to a young child who refuses to eat meat. I have tried all that... show more
    She's 13 and wants to follow this vegan trend nonsense. She has gotten into the wrong crowd online and has watched too much peta propaganda videos. I will not allow her to give up meat. As a doctor, I know the negative health risks that will happen to a young child who refuses to eat meat. I have tried all that I can, but she remains stubborn and rebellious. My husband and I even tried force-feeding her but she would go into the bathroom and willfully vomit immediately afterwards. Before that we would try to sneak meat in her food but she would eventually detect it. Should I commit her to a psychiatric ward to treat her?
    27 answers · Parenting · 3 days ago
  • My boyfriend is not circumcised AT ALL?

    HELP!
    HELP!
    14 answers · Singles & Dating · 14 hours ago
  • Boring sex with boyfriend?

    So me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 years now. Sex was okay at first, never really mind blowingly good but it was good still and we couldnt get enough of each other for the first year or so. just for a long while I've been feeling bored, we hardly ever try anything new, it's always oral... show more
    So me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 years now. Sex was okay at first, never really mind blowingly good but it was good still and we couldnt get enough of each other for the first year or so. just for a long while I've been feeling bored, we hardly ever try anything new, it's always oral followed by missionary or doggy. I did say something to him and we bought some sex toys and blindfold and handcuffs but they only get used rarely. Even when we do use them he always asks if he can handcuff me and worried they're too tight so he spends ages fiddling with them which is a bit of a mood killer. I know he's never going to be the kind of guy that just throws me on the bed and takes charge, but I just wish he was a bit more confident and dominant in the bedroom. it's got to the point where I just really don't want to have sex anymore because It's just so much effort to try and get aroused when I'm not into it...I worry so much that it stops me from getting wet and then I feel bad because I don't want him to feel like he's doing a bad job or anything and then I feel bad and worry about that some more which just makes it impossible to relax and try and enjoy myself. I do enjoy sex and masturbation btw I'm not asexual or anything which would be causing me to have this problem. I just don't know what to do. I love him so much but this is just becoming a real problem for me and I don't know what to do about it... anyone have any advice please?
    27 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 days ago
  • What to do?

    I recently ended a friendship with this guy because he was getting too clingy. We've talked about it for a couple times and he still act the same, so I finally got fed up. We used to work together but he got fired for lying about something about his parents, and is currently looking for jobs. He has asked me to... show more
    I recently ended a friendship with this guy because he was getting too clingy. We've talked about it for a couple times and he still act the same, so I finally got fed up. We used to work together but he got fired for lying about something about his parents, and is currently looking for jobs. He has asked me to be his reference and I said yes unwillingly. I really don't want to do it because I feel like it would be his way of still keeping contact with me. I have blocked his number, only way is email me and call my work phone. I really don't want to have anything to do with him anymore but I also want him to be able to get a job. I feel really bad if I said no to that one request. Should I not have done that?
    6 answers · Friends · 2 days ago
  • HELP Ok so my step mom whose 42 and I 19 are having sex everyday while my Dad works. She says I’m “bigger” than my Dad and it’s our”secret”?

    What do I do about this? She gets me off like no other women can. I want to be with her. But my Dad is married to her as of 8 years. The sex is so f*cking good and she’s beautiful, but she’s threatening Me to not snitch
    What do I do about this? She gets me off like no other women can. I want to be with her. But my Dad is married to her as of 8 years. The sex is so f*cking good and she’s beautiful, but she’s threatening Me to not snitch
    14 answers · Family · 1 day ago
  • Why do schools make boys and girls swim together in gym class?

    at my daughters schools from 8th -10th grade, in PE she attends the swim unit and boys and girls have it together? Why is this allowed? Wouldn't this make girls feel uncomfortable and give immature boys an opportunity to harass and humiliate girls? And cause distractions and goofing off among everyday? Not to... show more
    at my daughters schools from 8th -10th grade, in PE she attends the swim unit and boys and girls have it together? Why is this allowed? Wouldn't this make girls feel uncomfortable and give immature boys an opportunity to harass and humiliate girls? And cause distractions and goofing off among everyday? Not to mention young boys will be shirtless around young girls and I think that is inappropriate especially in a school setting My daughter keeps saying she does not care but she is young and may not understand how wrong this is this just seems wrong especially at school. Giving a boys a chance to leer at girls like this this class also pretty much just gives students to look at all the other students in bathing suits. Girls shouldn't be forced to be in this situation with boys and fear harassment can people really say honestly that young boys and girls will concentrate on swimming while they are around each other in bathing suits and not goof off? That boys (who aren't known for sensitivity) won't use this opportunity to harass or tease girls? what reason do they have to put them together? They can easily separate boys and girls buy taking the boys of another gym class and putting them with the boys in the gym class doing the swim unit and the same with girls. Cam someone please tell me the benefits and why exactly boys and girls should swim together in school? What is the reason?
    11 answers · Family · 15 hours ago
  • Im a teenager and i don't like to go out is that weird??

    I have never been the type to go out and party or even just go out with friends, I became very mature for my age very young (I started being mature at 8 y/o) if I do go out it is very rare and very uncomfortable for me and its only been sleep overs with family members and that's it, I dont have friends. But... show more
    I have never been the type to go out and party or even just go out with friends, I became very mature for my age very young (I started being mature at 8 y/o) if I do go out it is very rare and very uncomfortable for me and its only been sleep overs with family members and that's it, I dont have friends. But when people ask me why I don't go out I just say I don't like to but then they kind of make fun of me about it and call me names, I dont think they mean to hurt my feeling but they do and it makes me not wanna go out even more! Idk some people make me feel very uncomfy and I have to really know you before I'm am comfy, I am also homeschooled so I don't get vert much interaction and I really like that, but my mom feels like she has fails as a mother because I'm not social I wish she could see that being alone makes me happy. I tell her that I find partying gross and disturbing but she doesn't understand. Anyways what can I say to people when they start making fun of me or just push me around (Ps I'm a 14 y/o girl and I know this is probably makes me weird but I promise I'm not this nerdy weird kid) also don't say I'm boring because I'm not I think I'm fun if I really know you though and can be myself around you. Any advice about coming out of my "shell"
    21 answers · Friends · 4 days ago
  • My mother physically and emotionally abuses me, can you give me advice please?

    So I’m a 26 year old female currently working part time, living with my mother since I was a kid. She’s been physically and emotionally abusive to me for so long but it has gotten worse. Now she wishes death on me, abuses me physically, threatens me all that nasty stuff. She yells at me constantly, she is... show more
    So I’m a 26 year old female currently working part time, living with my mother since I was a kid. She’s been physically and emotionally abusive to me for so long but it has gotten worse. Now she wishes death on me, abuses me physically, threatens me all that nasty stuff. She yells at me constantly, she is approaching 50 and I think it’s gotten worse. It’s gotten to the point were even my brother is joining in and saying that I’m mental and how nobody cares about the fact that I’m being abused at home. He locked me out of the house yesterday and she was laughing. I really need help, I want to escape. I have no friends no family I can move in with or talk about this with. Last night she beat me up over something so little, my back hurts and I feel like it’s affecting me emotionally. I have recorded footage of her being abusive to me just in case something goes down. What can I do? Please only serious answers. Thanks
    27 answers · Family · 4 days ago
  • Is it childish and delusional to want to find the kind of love that you see in movies or hear about in the most beautiful of love songs?

    Because I'm constantly getting told that it is and I'm getting absolutely slated for wanting to find that and for hoping that one day, I will find it. I also get told, on a regular basis, that I'm "setting myself up for a lot of bitter disappointment" by wanting that.
    Because I'm constantly getting told that it is and I'm getting absolutely slated for wanting to find that and for hoping that one day, I will find it. I also get told, on a regular basis, that I'm "setting myself up for a lot of bitter disappointment" by wanting that.
    32 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 days ago
  • My parents want me to talk to my brother about his weight. But that's very personal and we are not that close?

    My brother has always been a little chubby. He was never obese just had a little bit of extra weight on him. As for being athletic and doing things that was never his thing. In his life he has never done sports or any other physical activity. He was a bit lazy in that sense. When he was a kid he used to measure... show more
    My brother has always been a little chubby. He was never obese just had a little bit of extra weight on him. As for being athletic and doing things that was never his thing. In his life he has never done sports or any other physical activity. He was a bit lazy in that sense. When he was a kid he used to measure which road to school was the closest so he would walk as little as possible. But now he is he getting really over weight. My guess is that in about 12-18 months he has gained like 25kg (50lbs) and weighs close to 135 kg (300 lbs). Which is a lot. My parents have tried talking to him but it's hard, which I understand. He gets upset and doesn't like to talk about it. It's all in good intention but it's not the easiest to talk about. So they want me to talk to him. A couple of years ago I had back problems because I sat too much. So I started seeing a personal trainer and she helped me with my back and got my into shape. They want me to try and talk him into doing the same. But me and him are not that close to be honest. He is a difficult person to talk to and is not the most open off people. 6 months ago I did send him my food diary and my weekly workout program and we talked about him using that if he felt for it. But other than that I don't know what I can do. He is a grown man. I can't force him to go to the gym. I can barely force myself at times. What would you do in this situation?
    11 answers · Family · 16 hours ago
  • Should I tell my wife that I changed my mind about attending her family reunion?

    My wife's family on her mother's side is having its annual 4th of July family reunion in a couple of weeks. The party is a six hour drive from where we live and lasts 3-4 days. My wife does not go every year. This year my wife wants to go because her mother is not in good health. I am very uncomfortable... show more
    My wife's family on her mother's side is having its annual 4th of July family reunion in a couple of weeks. The party is a six hour drive from where we live and lasts 3-4 days. My wife does not go every year. This year my wife wants to go because her mother is not in good health. I am very uncomfortable around my wife's family-which is much larger than mine- and, I am afraid, I left that discomfort show more than once. It caused some stress in her family and made my wife angry at me. I am not proud of that. I am also uncomfortable because I feel that my life has because I have no control over my life during those visits and I don't like it. I am reconsidering my decision about not attending. My wife said I could stay home if I wanted to, although I might be dealing with that fallout later. When I asked her if her going without me would be hard on her with our four year old twins, she said " well I know that you don't want to be there and that would cause me more stress." She will have some family to help her if needed. I still really don't want to go,and she might not want me to go, but I now feel guilty about not going because I could help her and I want our family time. Plans may have been completed assuming I am not going. I am considering saying nothing and keeping my word that I am not going or telling her that I'd like to go and help her and have our family time and play baby sitter and driver while she goes. What should I do? Thank you for reading!
    10 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 16 hours ago
  • She sneezed right when we were about to kiss, should I stop seeing her?

    Best answer: You should stop seeing her for sure.
    Best answer: You should stop seeing her for sure.
    26 answers · Friends · 3 days ago
  • He won't set a date?

    I am engaged to get married. I've been engaged since January 2015. We are both divorced and have been together over 6 years with children from previous marriages. We are 46 and 49. We purposely waited to get married until my oldest son graduated college so he could still get his financial aid loans. He... show more
    I am engaged to get married. I've been engaged since January 2015. We are both divorced and have been together over 6 years with children from previous marriages. We are 46 and 49. We purposely waited to get married until my oldest son graduated college so he could still get his financial aid loans. He graduated in the beginning of May. Since then, I've asked my fiancé about three times when he would like to get married. His response is agitation, annoyance and "why don't you just pick the date, I don't care". I get angry and tell him its a joint decision, that we should discuss it together. No big wedding, just the two of us going away somewhere together. I suggested Vegas and then go to Hawaii for the rest of the week for a honeymoon -- says its too expensive. I suggested going to Florida for the weekend and getting married on the beach -- showed a little interest but never brought it up. I suggested July, he said its too hot. But won't make any suggestions or talk to me like an adult about figuring this out. The other day he got agitated and started screeching at me "why are you dumping this on me?" That really hurt my feelings and I am starting to think that he really doesn't want to. I feel like I should just cut my losses and give him the ring back. I don't think it will every happen. Not with both of us making a decision together as a couple anyway.
    23 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 3 days ago
  • Is this classed as cheating????? Help me out please?

    So i've been talking to this guy I really liked, and we weren't in a relationship but we were treating it like we were dating. Anyway, on Saturday night we were at a party and he disappeared then I found him kissing another girl. I went up to him and yelled at him and called him a c*nt and then left. He... show more
    So i've been talking to this guy I really liked, and we weren't in a relationship but we were treating it like we were dating. Anyway, on Saturday night we were at a party and he disappeared then I found him kissing another girl. I went up to him and yelled at him and called him a c*nt and then left. He started blowing up my phone saying he's so sorry and how it was a mistake and kept trying to call me. I eventually met up with him to talk about it because he kept begging. He broke down crying and said he doesnt know why he did it and he loves me and stuff, but im so confused like wtf? Is this cheating or not? we weren't OFFICIALLY together but we both told each other we werent talking to other people and acted like a couple.
    12 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • Why does everyone disapprove of my plan to go on a journey to find a loving beautiful virgin wife ?

    Have you ever wanted something so bad that you would go out of your way to do whatever it takes to attain and achieve your goal ? Im approaching my late 20s i must get married settledown and have children. I am a virgin saving myself for marriage I must find and marry a virgin woman. I must be the first and... show more
    Have you ever wanted something so bad that you would go out of your way to do whatever it takes to attain and achieve your goal ? Im approaching my late 20s i must get married settledown and have children. I am a virgin saving myself for marriage I must find and marry a virgin woman. I must be the first and foremost one and only. I cannot settle for last place or even second. I have as much right to seek and search for a virgin wife much like how some women seek taller good looking high earning men etc The women in my country do not have or offer what I want and seek There are very very few virgins in my country Canada The only way I can think of to accomplish and achieve my goal is to journey to a country in South East Asia in the rural areas of like Japan or Vietnam and live there for a while a year or so to find date and marry the virgin wife I want and target aim for young women age 17-18 high school seniors. Logically that would maximize and give me the highest odds chance of achieving my goal . For this I required a large sum of money to sustain myself while I live in another country so I sold the house my father gave me and I’ve saved up over the years from my pay checks. If your country did not have or had a shortage of jobs food or water would you not leave and go to another country to look for these things ? Likewise this country has a shortage of virgin women age 20+ It only makes sense to search elsewhere where there is an ample plentiful supppy
    15 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago